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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well for singles meeting one on one it is hardly swinging in the truest sense anyway.
Unsure why you let it annoy you. Just block them and delete the message.
Maybe they get the wrong impression from your profile saying 'wine me.....dine me......' Just look at it as another way to filter the messages and find a great meet. |
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over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure there are a few deluded women and couples too.
I've learnt you have to take everything on here with a pinch of salt.
Laugh at the idiots. Block or ignore. |
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But, but, but a lot of the girls here ARE prostitutes, in some form or another.
In the past month I have had:
-2 offers of paid cam sex
-1 offer of straight up sex for cash
-1 offer of sex for, I kid you not, 2 curries and 2 boxes of fags, which I had to pick up and deliver.
-longer than a month ago but the blackmail attempt was extremely well thought out and pretty well executed - there prolly a couple of racey pictures of me floating around the inter webs.
What can we take away from this? People are fuckwits. Deal with it, ignore and move on. |
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"Maybe your profile attracts guys like that !
Why would it?? "
You ask to be wined and dined which is fine if that's what you want but you should be prepared for people,on a site where we hook up for ultimately no strings sex, to assume that it is part of a transaction. The assumption could be wrong of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your profile attracts guys like that !
Why would it?? "
Cus you want to be wined and dined 
Plus the general way you come over maybe attracts certain types of men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe your profile attracts guys like that !
Why would it??
You ask to be wined and dined which is fine if that's what you want but you should be prepared for people,on a site where we hook up for ultimately no strings sex, to assume that it is part of a transaction. The assumption could be wrong of course."
After the comments on here I can see were they are coming from...wine me..dine me has now been removed from my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
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I agree OP and I've never had 'wine and dine me' on my profile!
I get a lot of messages saying 'meet now', 'fuck now' and sometimes when I reply 'NO', they ask why not, like they are friggin' deluded! |
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"Maybe your profile attracts guys like that !
Why would it??
You ask to be wined and dined which is fine if that's what you want but you should be prepared for people,on a site where we hook up for ultimately no strings sex, to assume that it is part of a transaction. The assumption could be wrong of course.
After the comments on here I can see were they are coming from...wine me..dine me has now been removed from my profile "
I wish you luck. |
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
I agree OP and I've never had 'wine and dine me' on my profile!
I get a lot of messages saying 'meet now', 'fuck now' and sometimes when I reply 'NO', they ask why not, like they are friggin' deluded! "
So do we. We delete and block those messages and have a line in our profile saying that no reply is a polite no thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
I agree OP and I've never had 'wine and dine me' on my profile!
I get a lot of messages saying 'meet now', 'fuck now' and sometimes when I reply 'NO', they ask why not, like they are friggin' deluded! "
I've removed that now...could see that as being hypocritical...as pointed out by others |
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Lots of deluded people on here be it the type that think they are gods gift, that meets don't need effort and happen at a moments notice, people wanting some kind of payment or even thinking people will travel across to country just to say hello
Irrespective of what swinging actually is I think there should be more thought and effort put in by people to get done level of connection and build up to a meet/meets |
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"Lots of deluded people on here be it the type that think they are gods gift, that meets don't need effort and happen at a moments notice, people wanting some kind of payment or even thinking people will travel across to country just to say hello
Irrespective of what swinging actually is I think there should be more thought and effort put in by people to get done level of connection and build up to a meet/meets"
There is. The men we are in communication with do that, we simply don't communicate with those that don't want to. We aren't saying they're wrong but we can't give them what they want and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Look on porn sites. They are awash with adverts saying "women desperate to fuck you now".
Some people don't understand there is a difference between paid/ unpaid sex sites and swinging. They see profiles of women with naked photos advertising for meets... Blood rushes to cock away from brain....
I am in no way saying it is women's fault for having profiles with explicit pics. Not at all. I am merely saying it is an explanation for what happens. There is NO excuse for people being disrespectful.
But... are they being disrespectful? Some women DO just want sex and no other strings whatsoever.
Just use it as a filter, people you don't want to meet. Don't let it get you down. Have your profile the way you want it. Anyone that doesn't like it is simply incompatible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
I agree OP and I've never had 'wine and dine me' on my profile!
I get a lot of messages saying 'meet now', 'fuck now' and sometimes when I reply 'NO', they ask why not, like they are friggin' deluded! "
I get the same thing from "straight" men. Probably the same ones minutes after you have given them short shrift. I treat them the same way you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
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Sooooo... what is swinging? |
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
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Ha!
See your status and raise *my* status :P |
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
Ha!
See your status and raise *my* status :P"
I've done 2 this week... only another 17,579 to go... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I messaged a woman earlier this week and tried to engage in a chat. To find out a bit about her to see if she was for me and vice versa
She basically said to me this is fabswingers not facebook, do you want to fuck me or not.
Would she be a deluded woman OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
Sooooo... what is swinging?"
You're not a swinger unless you have been to a keys in the bowl party or are a pampas grass enthusiast |
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"As my status says....
Really puts me off time and again when men think all the women are free prostitutes!
Don't know how anybody else feels but the site should have strict information given to single men on sign up as to what swinging actually is!
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You probably would be well advised to just take gender identifiers out of these discussions. It happens on all sides and you are right to say it is infuriating.
However it is happening on all sides. Not just by one gender. No matter what your perspective.
Part of the issue is the attributing of one trait exhibited by a small group to the wider gender. It is unfair and sexist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look on porn sites. They are awash with adverts saying "women desperate to fuck you now".
Some people don't understand there is a difference between paid/ unpaid sex sites and swinging. They see profiles of women with naked photos advertising for meets... Blood rushes to cock away from brain....
I am in no way saying it is women's fault for having profiles with explicit pics. Not at all. I am merely saying it is an explanation for what happens. There is NO excuse for people being disrespectful.
But... are they being disrespectful? Some women DO just want sex and no other strings whatsoever.
Just use it as a filter, people you don't want to meet. Don't let it get you down. Have your profile the way you want it. Anyone that doesn't like it is simply incompatible.
Report abuse."
most of them probably won't meet anyway because they blew their load and went back to work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well most men are on here for free sex let's face it why pay 40 to 70 pound for a shag when a bit of sweet talk will get you a free one I no plenty of people that swing and all so pay for sex . I my self have been offered money to have sex on here . And I no atleast 6 girls in my earia that are on here and a well nown escorting site the even uses the same pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm pretty sure there are a few deluded women and couples too.
I've learnt you have to take everything on here with a pinch of salt.
Laugh at the idiots. Block or ignore. "
 Don't sweat the small stuff and waste your time on these people just move along. |
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"Well most men are on here for free sex let's face it why pay 40 to 70 pound for a shag when a bit of sweet talk will get you a free one I no plenty of people that swing and all so pay for sex . I my self have been offered money to have sex on here . And I no atleast 6 girls in my earia that are on here and a well nown escorting site the even uses the same pics "
We need more generalisations like this. Crass assumptions about whole swathes of the population is what helps reduce prejudice and increase harmony and understanding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well most men are on here for free sex let's face it why pay 40 to 70 pound for a shag when a bit of sweet talk will get you a free one I no plenty of people that swing and all so pay for sex . I my self have been offered money to have sex on here . And I no atleast 6 girls in my earia that are on here and a well nown escorting site the even uses the same pics "
Granted, men are on here for free sex. So are the women. So are the couples. Just because you know plenty of people that use prostitutes, you seem to assume that it's quite widespread. It really isn't as much as you think. The idea just turns me off so much. Sex with someone who doesn't really want it? Not for me thanks. |
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