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New women, experienced women. I feel sorry for you all

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Now the amount of messages you women get in general feel very sorry for you. Whether you have just joint or been on years you must get bombarded with messages. My question is how do you manage to have a consistent conversation with someone you actually like without losing the convo due to the others you receive lol ?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Because messages with the title "Steve wants to shag you" always get replied to.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I rarely get more than 10 messages a day, so you're sorrow is wasted on me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess they give out their kik, would be easier lol.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Now the amount of messages you women get in general feel very sorry for you. Whether you have just joint or been on years you must get bombarded with messages. My question is how do you manage to have a consistent conversation with someone you actually like without losing the convo due to the others you receive lol ?"

On my single profile I block everyone I don't like ... s them out after a few months, plus I make myself sound mean, and I am really nice ... of course, or I offer to send Mr law to service their needs, they soon go away and dont cone back. No sympathy needed here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why feel sorry for us? No one has to be bombarded with messages. If I'm getting more than I can handle I do something about it. It's really not that difficult to manage an account on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I rarely get more than 10 messages a day, so you're sorrow is wasted on me."

*your

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm chatting to someone I'm interested in I close myself off to everyone else. If I'm thinking we might meet I give him my number and we chat via phone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol "

You only sent it 19 minutes ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

You only sent it 19 minutes ago"

Lol it was a joke

Still no response tho

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

You only sent it 19 minutes ago"

Blimey, I sometimes don't open my messages for two days!

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

You only sent it 19 minutes ago

Lol it was a joke

Still no response tho

So this thread has a hidden agenda...............who'd have believed it?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

You only sent it 19 minutes ago

Lol it was a joke

Still no response tho

So this thread has a hidden agenda...............who'd have believed it?

First time ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's really not hard to control the amount of messages a girl gets - effective filters work wonders! Even tho I am looking for single guys, I've blocked messages from those outside my age preference, and have blocked other groups I'm not interested in (ff, mm and ts), and being clear on my profile about what I want helps too. Yes, I get plenty of people chancing it but it takes about 2 seconds to delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

You only sent it 19 minutes ago

Blimey, I sometimes don't open my messages for two days! "

Me neither

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

*coughs "needy"*

that is all......

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By *annooWoman over a year ago

Hastings

I make sure I focus on the message title and username

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's easier to keep track of conversations if you've got an avatar that's different or makes you recognisable.

I'm not too bad at keeping up with my inbox and manage to delete as i'm going along and can easily talk to several guys at once (in fact the more guys i talk to the easier it is for me to chat somehow).

But yeah even i lose track of conversations or don't notice a message sometimes, if my inbox gets too busy and i feel overwhelmed (which isn't often) then i just tell people i'm chatting to that i've got to go and i come back online later when it's not so busy.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

That's the beauty of platinum membership any message you send automatically deletes all others in the inbox..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I take messages with people I like onto Kik or Whatsapp.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I thought I was chatting to a couple of members recently, only for them to log off just before I pressed "send".

A couple of days later when they next check their messages, the likelihood is that my message is down on the inaccessible page 2.

It's unfortunate, but after some brief expressions of frustration (in both cases they initiated the contact), I delete the sent messages and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't check my message box, I usually just watch out for News Alerts on Sky news,

News Alert - scrumdiddlyumptious received a new message on fab

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Generally if I can read the whole message in the preview, its pretty easy to delete and keep on top if it.

I keep my friends list for ongoing conversations and people I want to meet, so they show up easily on a scan through.

I'm also pretty harsh at delete and block those that don't appeal to save getting repeat messages. Its a tool on the site to be used to keep the site fun and good to use, nothing personal, just saves time deleting messages from people I wouldn't wish to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah all that attention must be terrible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bombarded? how funny. Nope I dont

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have all my message filters on so when I see I have a message I know I've done something wrong and it's a forum time out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get quite a few some days and hardly any another day. At the moment I seem to be getting quite a few more than normal....but as I won't talk sex or just talk to anyone they get a no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why feel sorry for us? No one has to be bombarded with messages. If I'm getting more than I can handle I do something about it. It's really not that difficult to manage an account on here. "

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Why feel sorry for us? No one has to be bombarded with messages. If I'm getting more than I can handle I do something about it. It's really not that difficult to manage an account on here. "

Indeed!

Of course the op doesn't have a hidden agenda with this thread!

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Filters are your friend!!

Before I discovered their wonder, it was like scrambling through garbage to find specks of gold. Now it's all far more manageable (though that block button gets a lot of action too)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a lovely time no complaints

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"I very rarely chat to new people and if I do its one at a time or I can't keep up with it all

I realised that when you ignored my message lol

You only sent it 19 minutes ago

Blimey, I sometimes don't open my messages for two days!

Me neither

Well, I should be honoured with your prompt replies to my hormonal gruntings then