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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I often think that too.

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C"

No.

It can work for and against you. Each to their own but it warps how some view black men which I'm not keen on. I don't refer to myself as one and don't play up to it. I'm just me.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Same could be said for sluts, bbws etc. Some people play to the gallery. If it works for them...

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By *r jblMan over a year ago

from parts unknown

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C"

I can see were you are coming from. And yes I do agree with you.

For I am who I am. TDH.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind it and I believe people get to caught up on labels.

Swinging is supposed to be a break from all the stress of every day life. Not a social experiment on race.

You can call me BBC , black man , sexual chocolate.

As long as we enjoy our time together. I'm cool

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The thing about a BBC is you do tend to need the rest of the guy there to make it fun. However there are countless profiles written by black men who refer to themselves as BBC.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can be put off when a man asks if I want his bbc. I'm not on here just for a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can be put off when a man asks if I want his bbc. I'm not on here just for a cock. "

That also applies to other colours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horses for courses I guess, but I do find it a bit derogatory, still, whatever floats your boat eh

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

I (Mrs, Pepper) go backwards and forwards on this one, if I am honest ... and always interested in people's views on this ... personally the label may attract initially, but there has got to be more to it than that .... I think its a label similar to others, as a previous poster stated, but people are afraid to acknowledge or ignore it for fear of the pc brigade ... I am a card carrying member, but feeling mellow this evening

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

As a white woman who finds some black men attractive I'd like to say I avoid all this BBC shit like the plague

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By *redrobCouple (MM) over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Some guys on here seem to like the term and wallow in it. Personally, I don't like it either.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Some guys on here seem to like the term and wallow in it. Personally, I don't like it either. "

I don't think its only the guys .... t its part of the game everyone is playing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a very very very pale BBC....

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have a very very very pale BBC....

Palest I've ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a very very very pale BBC....

Palest I've ever seen.

Whenever i try get some colour to it on st annes pier..i seem to be manhandled and screamed at????

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By *huramMan over a year ago

London

I just want to enjoy some decent sex.

So I don't dwell on wondering why a woman has opted to sleep with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just want to enjoy some decent sex.

So I don't dwell on wondering why a woman has opted to sleep with me."

They never 'sleep' when they're with me kid....

Ba-dum tsk

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By *huramMan over a year ago

London

"I just want to enjoy some decent sex.

So I don't dwell on wondering why a woman has opted to sleep with me.

They never 'sleep' when they're with me kid....

Ba-dum tsk"

If she hasn't passed out exhausted.

Then you're a slacker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just want to enjoy some decent sex.

So I don't dwell on wondering why a woman has opted to sleep with me.

They never 'sleep' when they're with me kid....

Ba-dum tsk

If she hasn't passed out exhausted.

Then you're a slacker

Ooh...i'm getting too old for the passing out lark...im happy making them slightly breathless..unless they're asthmatic of course....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good post OP.

I personally hate it when ppl just message me asking to fuck because "the Mrs loves bbc" I don't know her she doesn't know me. So in terms like this I hate it.

However it has it's uses here on the site to make finding someone a lot easier example tv, bbw, milf, cougar, single male, cpl. So it has a place but to each of these I always do keep in mmind there's a person with feelings Involved.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have a very very very pale BBC....

Palest I've ever seen.

Whenever i try get some colour to it on st annes pier..i seem to be manhandled and screamed at????"

Feh, easily discouraged. Just helicopter it at them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its funny when I read a profile that says the only thing they like is BBC. As if your ordering a menu item. I know its a sex site, but in my experience here any old BBC will do for some of the ladies here. I prefer to be looked at as the handsome guy with the BBC

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think its funny when I read a profile that says the only thing they like is BBC. As if your ordering a menu item. I know its a sex site, but in my experience here any old BBC will do for some of the ladies here. I prefer to be looked at as the handsome guy with the BBC

Yayyyyyyyy finally ........ Another individual..... Not many around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just did a profile name search entering BBC and all but two on the first page were black guys. I didn't go any farther than page one so many black guys obviously don't have any issue with it and use it as their advert as it were.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I have a very very very pale BBC....

Palest I've ever seen.

Whenever i try get some colour to it on st annes pier..i seem to be manhandled and screamed at????"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a bit of a weird one...

I think some people enjoy being called and referred to as BBC.

As it gets them sex from the people who crave BBC.

I personally don't like the term and would never use it!!

And there's a lot of acronyms on this site... Another thing I dislike.. It's like being at work .. Acronyms acronyms ever where aarrggghhh

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I just did a profile name search entering BBC and all but two on the first page were black guys. I didn't go any farther than page one so many black guys obviously don't have any issue with it and use it as their advert as it were."

Prob the same for BBWs but I cant be arsed looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab swingers would prob crash if you did

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Prob the same for BBWs but I cant be arsed looking

Well there's no need to search for BOB , as its upstairs on the bedroom , and never leaves

Oh go on.....Battery Operated Boyfriend

Better still MOB ....Mains Operated Boyfriend ... Always ready and never runs out of steam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like a sledge hammer

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

I think, having met black guys and only black guys for four years on and off on this site, that everyone of them considers themselves as an individual, but some for whatever reason ... fun, playing to the gallery, etc, getting some attention, label themselves as a BBC .... surely, its an individual thing as to whether there is a connection needed for the meet. For myself, sometimes there needed to be, sometimes not, depending on my mood. Different game now .... and may again be tomorrow or next week. If you are on here for NSA, you don't necessarily want everyone to know you as an individual, that goes for everyone ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I respect that...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said sorry... My sentence structure is lacking at mo due to the rum I am currently enjoying

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

My black stallion is working away overnight on location, so I am missing him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here's some rum covered hugs law and order

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I think my views on the topic are well know.... I get called a hater in private a lot by those who disagree... personally, I can't stand it!

it is one of those things that some of those who use it think help their chances and play it up for the sake of a meet... but are the first people to complain if it goes against them....

but it goes both ways.... those who play it up... and those who use the term to seek black people....

the thing is... I don't think people often realise that is turns off and turns away as many of the people they actually seek... and it does attracts

me... I am the best person I can be... period! not the best BBC person, but the person!!!..."

Yeah, but have you got a big cock?

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"[Removed by poster at 18/08/15 22:11:28]"

Cheers for that. Looks like Im talking to myself now

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think my views on the topic are well known.... I get called a hater in private a lot by those who disagree... personally, I can't stand it!

it is one of those things that some of those who use it think help their chances and play it up for the sake of a meet... but are the first people to complain if it goes against them....

but it goes both ways.... those who play it up... and those who use the term to seek black people....

the thing is... I don't think people often realise that it turns off and turns away as many of the people they actually seek... as it does attracts

I think if they thought about it and knew that... I don't think would be used half as much, but whilst it is played up to.. it isn't going away

me... I am the best person I can be... period! not the best BBC person, but the person!!!...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My black stallion is working away overnight on location, so I am missing him"

Never mind there's some beautifully blessed chatters to keep you company here

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"My black stallion is working away overnight on location, so I am missing him

Never mind there's some beautifully blessed chatters to keep you company here

I know eh, and I am feeling unusually mellow this evening as he is texting smoochy messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My black stallion is working away overnight on location, so I am missing him

Never mind there's some beautifully blessed chatters to keep you company here

I know eh, and I am feeling unusually mellow this evening as he is texting smoochy messages"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think it's a bit naff; I'd rather concentrate on the individual instead of the label.

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C"

Op, you have totally misunderstood the concept of the term bbc and the context in which it is being used.

The term bbc is self explanatory, it refers to a black mans sex organ and not the man himself and that term in itself is not derogatory by all means. The fact that its specified on peoples profile that they want bbc just means they are stating their preference of which is allowed on fab. Plain and simple

Your question asks if you like being referred to as BBC.

Il answer your question with a question, have you ever seen anyone refer to a person or a blackman as bbc ? Or is it a case of people referring to his sex organ as bbc and you assume they are referring to him as bbc?

Profiles asking for bbc are implying that they want black cock and are not referring to the black man himself as a bbc neither did they have the intention of seeing him as a comodity ( tho i fail to see the connextion between the term bbc and a commodity.

The answer to your question is non existent cos the meaning and applications of the term has been misunderstood by you, this i find highly misleading.

secondly, you stated that you see the term used on forum threads and profiles and it comes across to you like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person.

Im struggling here to understand how you came to the conclusion that a profile stating they want bbc is equating a big black cock to a commodity . It doesnt add up. The profile pages stating they want bbc are pointing out the object of their desire ( a big black cock ) which is a personal preference same with profiles stating they want bwc ( big white cock )

Pls revisit the profiles and forum threads you saw the term bbc and check the context with which it was used

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C"

Great post!

I tend to reference bbc with commodity but often after chatting to people you find they are looking for a person to accompany their bbc. Downside is, it can make some black guys behave literally like big black cocks!

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By *eKoopleCouple over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

I prefer not to be labeled as a phallic symbol but I'll not judge those who prefer to be identified by that alone. It always brings thoughts a being viewed as a human "f*cking machine" (please excuse my French) -Mr.

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By *redrobCouple (MM) over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"Some guys on here seem to like the term and wallow in it. Personally, I don't like it either.

I don't think its only the guys .... t its part of the game everyone is playing."

Sorry, I meant to say some black guys like the term being thrown at them.

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By *redrobCouple (MM) over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"I think my views on the topic are well known.... I get called a hater in private a lot by those who disagree... personally, I can't stand it!

it is one of those things that some of those who use it think help their chances and play it up for the sake of a meet... but are the first people to complain if it goes against them....

but it goes both ways.... those who play it up... and those who use the term to seek black people....

the thing is... I don't think people often realise that it turns off and turns away as many of the people they actually seek... as it does attracts

I think if they thought about it and knew that... I don't think would be used half as much, but whilst it is played up to.. it isn't going away

me... I am the best person I can be... period! not the best BBC person, but the person!!!..."

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

"I think my views on the topic are well known.... I get called a hater in private a lot by those who disagree... personally, I can't stand it!

it is one of those things that some of those who use it think help their chances and play it up for the sake of a meet... but are the first people to complain if it goes against them....

but it goes both ways.... those who play it up... and those who use the term to seek black people....

the thing is... I don't think people often realise that it turns off and turns away as many of the people they actually seek... as it does attracts

I think if they thought about it and knew that... I don't think would be used half as much, but whilst it is played up to.. it isn't going away

me... I am the best person I can be... period! not the best BBC person, but the person!!!..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It dont bother me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it the man that is referred to as bbc ?

I would have thought it was a reference to his penis.

After all,not all black men have big cocks just as not all white men have small ones.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Is it the man that is referred to as bbc ?

I would have thought it was a reference to his penis.

After all,not all black men have big cocks just as not all white men have small ones."

and that is the problem/point/issue.... it has become an all encompassing term used on both sides.... just like for example large ladies and people who seek them use BBW

if the "well it just means the cock" arguement was true.... wouldn't you see more BWC (Big white cock) BAC (big asian cock) BIC (Big indian cock) and so on... and so on....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it the man that is referred to as bbc ?

I would have thought it was a reference to his penis.

After all,not all black men have big cocks just as not all white men have small ones.

and that is the problem/point/issue.... it has become an all encompassing term used on both sides.... just like for example large ladies and people who seek them use BBW

if the "well it just means the cock" arguement was true.... wouldn't you see more BWC (Big white cock) BAC (big asian cock) BIC (Big indian cock) and so on... and so on....

As its mostly caucasian women or couples putting up posts seeking the bbc,to post looking big white cock would have the racist card holders jumping up n down.

And I have never heard a reference to bic or bac but I see what you are getting at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the responses. It's interesting to read the range of views.

I do understand the 'marketing' element in play when the term BBC is used, and of course labels are inevitable on any kind of matching website.

The thing about BBC is that it's the only commonly used term I can think of that describes a body part rather than a whole person. BBW describes a woman (not very well, perhaps, but still) and even slut, dom and master refer to a whole person. BBC, though, describes a cock, yet it's common to see profiles that say something like 'I am a BBC' or 'I'm looking for a BBC'. The cock has become the person, it seems.

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Thanks for the responses. It's interesting to read the range of views.

I do understand the 'marketing' element in play when the term BBC is used, and of course labels are inevitable on any kind of matching website.

can you give us an example of any profile that says i am BBC ? Or is this the case of you being figured out and then trying to twist your words ? You have contradicted your initial comment on the topic. If a profile says i am looking for bbc it just simply means they are looking for big black cock. Still its not a reference to the man but his dick. And its not a degrading term. Whats your point again ?

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By *inkybiblackMan over a year ago

Leyton

There's nothing wrong with sex maniacs having a taboo fetish.

BBC has gone mainstream as a swing concept but I am fine with that as I prefer the company of 'size queen' women. I find their focus on my cock rude, outrageous, kinky and ego boosting.

Other female fetishes out there are; Tall guys, ripped athletic guys, older women into young men only, Tattooed guys, shaven cock and ball guys , especially handsome guys, Wealthy middle aged men etc.

All of these are similarly one-dimensional features that appeal to couples/women but none of these guys will be solely appreciated for these attributes. They need personality and the ability to sexually perform.

I like the superficial basis of the initial online engagement, we can get to know each other afterwards. If I wanted another approach I'd be on a date site.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" And its not a degrading term. Whats your point again ?"

its not a degrading term "for you"..... but you obviously haven't then read some of the other posts in this thread,

so to dismiss it because you have no problem is it is as bad as the point "some" other people were actually making.....

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Is it the man that is referred to as bbc ?

I would have thought it was a reference to his penis.

After all,not all black men have big cocks just as not all white men have small ones.

and that is the problem/point/issue.... it has become an all encompassing term used on both sides.... just like for example large ladies and people who seek them use BBW

if the "well it just means the cock" arguement was true.... wouldn't you see more BWC (Big white cock) BAC (big asian cock) BIC (Big indian cock) and so on... and so on....

theres a big difference between a term describing a body part and a term describing a human being, bbc describes a body part and bbw describes a human being. Theres no doubt about the argument ' well it just means the cock' being true cos it just simply means what it is refering to ' a cock ' same as bbw referring to a woman or bwc referring to a cock.

lets not redefine the meaning to terms just for the sake of joining the crowd, we call a spade a spade. The term is absolutely an innocent acronym and theres nothing wrong in people specifying they want bbc on their profiles, after all they got the right to exercise their preference and desire for bbc

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

" And its not a degrading term. Whats your point again ?

its not a degrading term "for you"..... but you obviously haven't then read some of the other posts in this thread,

so to dismiss it because you have no problem is it is as bad as the point "some" other people were actually making.....

i go by actual facts, can you give me the exact post or thread in which bbc was mentioned, i want to see the context in which it was used

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys"

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because of the term BBC,do black guys with average or smaller endowment feel discriminated against??

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Because of the term BBC,do black guys with average or smaller endowment feel discriminated against??"

absolutely not, hence why we can formulate tge acronym abc for average black cock or sbc for small black cock. Dont think anyone would go on a downer or feel descriminated against cos of thier size.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"There's nothing wrong with sex maniacs having a taboo fetish.

BBC has gone mainstream as a swing concept but I am fine with that as I prefer the company of 'size queen' women. I find their focus on my cock rude, outrageous, kinky and ego boosting.

I like the superficial basis of the initial online engagement, we can get to know each other afterwards. If I wanted another approach I'd be on a date site."

I, Mrs, agree that for some it is a fetish or taboo thing. But sometimes it gets out of hand, and people don't want to see 'the black man' whoever this archetypal man is, as a person ... nut then again, I doubt everyone on here wants to know everyone they play with as a person ... that is the whole point of the site ... some do and some don't. Different people use the term to mean different things, and how they use it and what they do with it, tells you more about them than the actual use of it. I have two bbcs, ne is a strap on, eighteen inches and the other is an eighteen inch double ender, neither of which Mr will let me use on him because he likes the real thing only, and then only white cock. Objectification is part of the site and how people play on it ..... looking at specific profiles is not the answer because I have edited the BBC reference out of ours e.g...phew!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't stand it, it doesn't even describe all black men for a start. How can can you refer to just any BC as BBC when it's not the case. I feel it does remove me as a person though and actually throws my dick into the same category as ones that aren't actually "big" (but big is a point of view I guess). I'm a black guy with a big cock, not a big cock unfortunately attached to some black guy!!

I dont know Maybe I'm just hating because I'm often apparently not black enough (and no I'm not mixed race) to be "BBC". but the definition of black is an entirely different kettle of fish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because of the term BBC,do black guys with average or smaller endowment feel discriminated against??

absolutely not, hence why we can formulate tge acronym abc for average black cock or sbc for small black cock. Dont think anyone would go on a downer or feel descriminated against cos of thier size."

That wouldn't work for a woman or couple with the fantasy of a huge black cock tho.I can't ever remember anyone using ABC or SBC.I bet not one woman or couple would ask for an average or a small one...

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?"

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woman and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"There's nothing wrong with sex maniacs having a taboo fetish.

BBC has gone mainstream as a swing concept but I am fine with that as I prefer the company of 'size queen' women. I find their focus on my cock rude, outrageous, kinky and ego boosting.

I like the superficial basis of the initial online engagement, we can get to know each other afterwards. If I wanted another approach I'd be on a date site.

then again the way you objectify and relate the term to the person might not be the way others view it. And id like to know, have you had anyone displaying the term bbc on their profiles come up to you and admit they are objectifying in such manner or are these just your assumptions. Facts goes a long way than assumptions, are you trying to say cos its a sex site so therefore the people displaying they want bbc are objectifying the term to the actual blackman ? Each individual processes things different thats what makes us unique.

I bet there are millions who see it as just a reference to the male organ and not the person himself, and may i ask,, do you objectify the acronym to the man himself ?

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"There's nothing wrong with sex maniacs having a taboo fetish.

BBC has gone mainstream as a swing concept but I am fine with that as I prefer the company of 'size queen' women. I find their focus on my cock rude, outrageous, kinky and ego boosting.

I like the superficial basis of the initial online engagement, we can get to know each other afterwards. If I wanted another approach I'd be on a date site.

I bet there are millions who see it as just a reference to the male organ and not the person himself, and may i ask,, do you objectify the acronym to the man himself ?"

I meant people are different and do things for their own reasons. People in general don't always, maybe hardly ever, portray their true personality (whatever that is) by a few words on the screen ... we make assumptions when we read it and the person writing it also makes their own. I don't think we will ever get to the bottom of what everyone means or implies, plus these things can change. Especially with some debate or discussion, or then again, some people may get more entrenched. I am not referring to this thread, but others, I like the ones that make me think a bit and steer clear of those where people have their own opinions and will never change or at least consider others. I can make a throw away comment on BBC, whilst still having a partner and ex's who are black guys with big cocks, and mixed race sons (don't know their size, sorry). But, if I do that, I think I have some responsibility as to who takes it how ... not necessarily to the men in my life, but to the boys .... I grapple with that. Browsing, I did see one profile where the guy describes himself as ABC, average black cock, I loved that and it made him stand out and think, he can't be average after all, especially as he is bi .... can't even remember the profile or where he is, but I thought it was funny at the time.

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it "

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

you chosing to redefine it cos of whatever reason is none of my business but lets all face the fact of the matter, those displaying on their profile they want bbc are not intending to insult the black man, they are just stating they want big black dick

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By *ethepeopleMan over a year ago

Near you

Good reading this can't take my eyes of it

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

and thanks for once again missing the point.... oh, and thanks for the spelling correction as well....

where BBW may have started as something very specific..... it has now become an all encompassing and generically umbrella term.... and whether you care to agree or not, people before me have said it... and people after me have said it, (and yet i am the target) they feel that BBC has become the same thing... where is may have started off meaning something specific it has now become an all encompassing umbrella term...

but hey... rather than listening to those viewpoints, you are saying your view is right and everyone else is wrong and that's the way it is!!!

thats also rather blinkered of other peoples views and other peoples experiences.......

I think it was an interesting question to be asked.... I think a lot of the answers from peoples views and experiences have been interesting....

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

I think sometimes they are insulting though, because they are implying that is all he is and all he every will be ... btw anyone wanting threads and messages about BBC, you can search for it on a forum search, there are plenty out there. To be honest I think meeting a black guy one to one as a woman is different from meeting as a white couple who have no experience and like the whole taboo ness of it all .... I think a few more of the people reading this should express their opinion. Mine is not nor is ever fixed, as I like to hear what people think, from all sides, even though I know I am right ....

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By *ethepeopleMan over a year ago

Near you

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

Hmmm I've felt that sometimes but not always...... I find in real life sex just feels different to a meet and single fems closer to real life !!!! I'm rambling now and might come out wrong sorry

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

Hmmm I've felt that sometimes but not always...... I find in real life sex just feels different to a meet and single fems closer to real life !!!! I'm rambling now and might come out wrong sorry "

Well I get you on this one as many of the guys I met as a single fem became a regular thing and I usually went into the meet as the person I am, giving it all as it were. Maybe that is why I ended up in a relationship with someone I met on here. Before that I had a ling term fb thing with two of the guys I met on here, initially didn't really know each other, but got very close by chatting as much as anything. Interesting as I deliberately came on here to get away from relationships, but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always use BBC because it amuses me in case someone thinks im looking for iplayer. ha. l do love black cock. its not a racial preference its just a fantasy based on my own prejudice that i am indulging in. White guys cocks can be big and black guys can be small, it makes no real sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

This is hilarious. The fact that you correct someone's spelling mistake and then go and make at least three spelling mistakes in your own post exemplifies your approach to this debate.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

This is hilarious. The fact that you correct someone's spelling mistake and then go and make at least three spelling mistakes in your own post exemplifies your approach to this debate."

Now you have me re-reading the post to find the spelling mistakes ..... thanks for that ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

This is hilarious. The fact that you correct someone's spelling mistake and then go and make at least three spelling mistakes in your own post exemplifies your approach to this debate."

lol, whats your view on the topic tho

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By *heBlackZorroMan over a year ago

Birmingham

if we're getting onto grammar and spelling mistakes i feel the debate has run its course. My own view? As Patrice Rushen sang "to each his own"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung? "

I think it's a case of, if you are right you are wrong and if you are wrong you are an Adonis.

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung? "

In my experience, it is not a stereotype. However, I may not have enough experience of 'the black community' or various factions of it, as a poster on a previous thread was so at pains to point out ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBC is a stereotype so think it wrong to use as an umbrella term for all black guys

oh boy, how can a word describing a male organ be classed as a stereotypical reference, define stereotype ?

that's also being nieve... unless you believe all large woma

n and the people who seek them insist that one of the b's in BBW is "beautiful"....

so what "may" have started of as something specific has now gotten to the stage where it is a catch word umbrella term for all...

but if you want to argue that it isn't... have at it

first off its spelt naive,

secondly the issue of the b in bbw neaning something else is a totally seperate case from this because bbw is a reference to a beatiful WOMAN not her sex organ.

thirdly yea it started off as a catch phrase and is still a catch phrase cos it is point specific and self explanatory( it ephasizes on the male organ not the human ).

This is hilarious. The fact that you correct someone's spelling mistake and then go and make at least three spelling mistakes in your own post exemplifies your approach to this debate.

lol, whats your view on the topic tho"

Scroll up!

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung? "

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

you mean the "mean streets of kingston upon thames" is not a fair reflection of black suburbia........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this "

You're right that not all black guys have big dicks,but it's definitely a stereotype.

It's definitely the fantasy too.You never read a woman or couples profile that asks for an average black cock,do you??

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C

Great post!

so you saying every woman on here who says they want bbc are only after the black guys accompanying them ? Accompaby them where ? And how did you come to attribute bbc to a comodity. Expantiate plss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about the ones who don't specify?

I'm an SWF, but I don't see many only looking for that.

I never look at the name when I'm browsing profiles, I pay more attention to Tag lines and statuses though, and wouldn't go near some of the people who are overtly crude, but then that's just me.

They get the woman they're looking for , and it saves me the trouble of finding out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and I'm not attracted to cock pics...... There has to be more to a man than that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this "

BBC is more widely used than bwc and there are no pre-existing stereotypes (that I am aware of) about white dicks. From my experience, bbc has become a short form for a black guy as not many ask about the size of my penis, they either assume it is big or don't care and just use the term as a short form.

Sorry, don't mean to keep picking on you, I think you come across as being able to laugh at yourself which encourages me to keep doing it, so one last dig (for now), can you see the irony of you defending that bbc does not objectify when your avatar is just a bbc picture?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this "

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

you mean the "mean streets of kingston upon thames" is not a fair reflection of black suburbia........

Haha lol, talk about being stalked huh, never mind that the area I lived in had the same racial mix as tower hamlets ... but for the last few months I been in Croydon and mitcham innit? Got to say though that black footballer who played for Sunderland or Newcastle, can't remember which, sorry, with the Geordie accent freaked me out .... my mum is from Sunderland, so I may be allowed to speak about the North East, may I?

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

You're right that not all black guys have big dicks,but it's definitely a stereotype.

It's definitely the fantasy too.You never read a woman or couples profile that asks for an average black cock,do you??"

so you telling me cos most women say they want bbc and not average black cock that the term is stereotypical. Would you say the same about big mac at mcdonalds, just cos people say they want big mac and not a cheese burger that means big mac is stereotypical and up for debate init.

its up to the individual to choose what they want, hence the term freedom of choice and preference.

dony try to kill the object of peoples desire or choices rather question your thoughts on the issue

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

I think its too light to qualify myself .... her hum .... what about the one in mine? Oh yeah, he is a grower, not a shower (ybm, how do I spell show er, as its coming out as shower like in the rain)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry WTF has,location got to do with anything , the profiles on here are from all over the UK, and just because you've lived in an area that has a collective on one or another racial mix , does not make you an eficianado.

This is getting ridiculous now.

I don't care about anyone's sexual preferences, but I fail to see why all these black guy threads are hijacked to talk about black bi male experiences

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

I would like to hear from some women and couples who say they would like to experience some BBC at this point. My single profile is hidden because I meet women only but still get lots of messages from men ... don't filter them ... just delete. But, when I did say on my profile, I wanted to meet black guys, most of the messages from white guys stated they were big, so why not meet them. My experience of black guys fits the stereotype, but there it is ... just saying.

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong"

lol i can read but the question is are you up to the tast of arranging your thoughts to come out in a logical sequence with a substance of wisdom ?

Expantiate on how you came to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't look for a big black cock, I look for a man initially on,looks and as its a type I prefer, I'll then start a conversation , but just cos they're black doesn't make them meet material

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong

lol i can read but the question is are you up to the tast of arranging your thoughts to come out in a logical sequence with a substance of wisdom ?

Expantiate on how you came to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype. "

My head hurts! (and no I don't mean the head at the end of my bbc

) Can we stop the race related threads for awhile?!

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Sorry WTF has,location got to do with anything , the profiles on here are from all over the UK, and just because you've lived in an area that has a collective on one or another racial mix , does not make you an eficianado.

This is getting ridiculous now.

I don't care about anyone's sexual preferences, but I fail to see why all these black guy threads are hijacked to talk about black bi male experiences"

Reverse snobbery about where people live and if they have lived in the black community enough to allow them to comment on the question came up in another thread ... I think that was what Fabio was referring to ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong

lol i can read but the question is are you up to the tast of arranging your thoughts to come out in a logical sequence with a substance of wisdom ?

Expantiate on how you came to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype.

My head hurts! (and no I don't mean the head at the end of my bbc

) Can we stop the race related threads for awhile?!"

Have you run out of steam... Mine is boiling !

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

This thread is exactly why I steer clear of the term.

It's hard enough being a black male as it is, with constant preconceptions about attitude, physicality, and behaviour. Sorry to sound preachy but I feel it needs to be said.

If it's working out for you, whether you use it for yourself or you use it on other, that's cool. But understand, like it or not, there's a negative side to it. There's more to an individual than just their body parts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong

lol i can read but the question is are you up to the tast of arranging your thoughts to come out in a logical sequence with a substance of wisdom ?

Expantiate on how you came to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype.

My head hurts! (and no I don't mean the head at the end of my bbc

) Can we stop the race related threads for awhile?!

Have you run out of steam... Mine is boiling ! "

I tend to not run out of steam......partly because I don't waste going round in circles.

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"This thread is exactly why I steer clear of the term.

It's hard enough being a black male as it is, with constant preconceptions about attitude, physicality, and behaviour. Sorry to sound preachy but I feel it needs to be said.

Thanks for that reality check. It is hard enough ... I hear that from the three black men I am closest to on a daily basis. No more white knight behaviour from me ... not here anyway ...

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"This thread is exactly why I steer clear of the term.

It's hard enough being a black male as it is, with constant preconceptions about attitude, physicality, and behaviour. Sorry to sound preachy but I feel it needs to be said.

they always drag you back in dude... you know that as much as I do....

as long as it is always played up and people speak out.... you'll get as much hate mail as i do!!!!

just face it.... we are cranky old dudes, who apparently know nothing....

embrace it!!!!!

I give it 48 hrs because another "black guy" thread comes up......

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

Okay then.... what's everyone got planned for the afternoon? I am decorating ... been on going for three weeks and on our last but one room ... two transformed ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong

lol i can read but the question is are you up to the tast of arranging your thoughts to come out in a logical sequence with a substance of wisdom ?

Expantiate on how you came to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype. "

I'm just say that you spelt task wrong

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Can you not read, are you illiterate ? I just said the exact same thing as you wrote and you insisted to re-word it and make me seem like I'm wrong

lol i can read but the question is are you up to the tast of arranging your thoughts to come out in a logical sequence with a substance of wisdom ?

Expantiate on how you came to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype.

I'm just say that you spelt task wrong

Four letter words only now, or should I say three?

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

lol, are you for laughing at peoples avatar now just cos they got a cock pix. I bet pepper and big shaft wld be next on your laughable profile pix init cos they got cock pix up.

son its understandable that you might be struggling to logically and rationally see things from another mans point of view or it could be the fact that you got hate for big cocks for whatever reason ( pressumably cos god only gave you 2 inches) but the fact still remains you talking a bit out of context.

just cos the term bbc is more widely used than bwc doesnt make bbc any less of an acronym than bwc.

The fact that you said bbc is a short form of black guy also makes me question how you process things upstairs.

Besides you dont need to apologise for picking on me with your remarks lol ( tho i wonder if you got anything up there ), we all talk stupid at one time or the other so fire on (the good thing is there are people who can make us see sense ).

Just to clarify, having a dick picture or a no-face pucture up as avatar could be for various reasons, It could be the person is tryin to hide his identity just incase theres someone he knows from everyday life on heres etc im sure if u practice deep thinking you will answer most of your questions before they come out of the backside.

hows your day been so far ?

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

Oh blooming hell, I am not the guy in the picture though, and it does not look big in the picture, and I don't even meet guys any more, so why the hell am I using that picture anyway .... I just put it up as I change them around a lot .... I am going to change it again now ... to my gushing one ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

lol, are you for laughing at peoples avatar now just cos they got a cock pix. I bet pepper and big shaft wld be next on your laughable profile pix init cos they got cock pix up.

just cos the term bbc is more widely used than bwc doesnt make bbc any less of an acronym than bwc.

The fact that you said bbc is a short form of black guy also makes me question how you process things upstairs.

hows your day been so far ?

2. "

You obviously misunderstood the word irony. Let me give you another example, questioning someone's intelligence in a post littered with poorly constructed sentences. I can understand why you are so protective of the term bbc, it sounds like it is one of the few things you have going on for you.

Nice try regarding cock size. I have many insecurities, the size of my cock is not one of them so you need to try a little harder.

I have had a good day, thanks for asking. You also need to work on your passive aggressive patronising remarks. To pull them off you will need to be more subtle.

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By *ieutenantMan over a year ago

london

Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah i don't mind, never bothers me at all, rather feeling proud ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some blackmen like the term and some don't

I get alot of messages from couples/woman and whitemen asking why I like only bbc

my answer is always polite I like blackmen because...

I never refer to blackmen as bbc myself

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By *oneyCherryTV/TS over a year ago

Clapham, London

"Is it the man that is referred to as bbc ?

I would have thought it was a reference to his penis.

After all,not all black men have big cocks just as not all white men have small ones.

and that is the problem/point/issue.... it has become an all encompassing term used on both sides.... just like for example large ladies and people who seek them use BBW

if the "well it just means the cock" arguement was true.... wouldn't you see more BWC (Big white cock) BAC (big asian cock) BIC (Big indian cock) and so on... and so on....

Not necessarily as they would hate to be done under the trades description act for false advertising

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Was I wrong in saying its a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

lol, are you for laughing at peoples avatar now just cos they got a cock pix. I bet pepper and big shaft wld be next on your laughable profile pix init cos they got cock pix up.

just cos the term bbc is more widely used than bwc doesnt make bbc any less of an acronym than bwc.

The fact that you said bbc is a short form of black guy also makes me question how you process things upstairs.

hows your day been so far ?

Nice try regarding cock size. I have many insecurities, the size of my cock is not one of them so you need to try a little harder.

I have had a good day, thanks for asking. You also need to work on your passive aggressive patronising remarks. To pull them off you will need to be more subtle."

see, i knew you would get there eventually if you took your time to think before talking.

and by the way, the fact that i corrected your views on the applications, concept and context of the acronym bbc doesnt mean im being bigheaded, just wanted to spark your brains so you think.

and im really sorry about the insecurities you have about your dick size, listen a lot of peopl e have tbc ( tiny black cock ) and are still getting pussy. Its not the size that matters but what you do with it.

Im glad you having a good day btw.

And as for you labelling me as passive aggresive, son you got it wrong. I was only trying to correct and bring you up to scratch with logical thinkin. Sorry if it made u feel bad

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

Longman, can I just say ... you are not doing yourself any favours here ... okay, my boys aren't in and I am having a 'mummy' withdrawal moment, but someone had to say it.

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on. "

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation."

Maybe to some

To others it's the be all and end all of how they conduct themselves on here

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Longman, can I just say ... you are not doing yourself any favours here ... okay, my boys aren't in and I am having a 'mummy' withdrawal moment, but someone had to say it. "

Lol i take it this is your view and not mine, nothing wrong in seeing a deflective argument and stating the facts of the matter. . I take my time to process things and speak my mind. I dont follow the crowd but form my own views based on facts. He who pleases all pleases none so bless up to you and your views. I like u really hun

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Longman, can I just say ... you are not doing yourself any favours here ... okay, my boys aren't in and I am having a 'mummy' withdrawal moment, but someone had to say it.

Its not your debate with me I am referring to .... I don't care who likes me or not on here, I don't like it when it gets personal whoever is involved, just not the done thing .... some people should just stop digging now

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

Maybe to some

To others it's the be all and end all of how they conduct themselves on here"

Totally agree with that ... all sides play the stereotype. Oh no, should not have used that word .... duh

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Longman, can I just say ... you are not doing yourself any favours here ... okay, my boys aren't in and I am having a 'mummy' withdrawal moment, but someone had to say it.

bless up hun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation."

Used by black men to gain favour with women on here. I want a man to message me,not an acronym that makes me think he has nothing more than a cock he wants to stick in me. I've honestly never seen a BWC profile ever.

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

I see a lot of couples with it on their profiles though, and a lot in the fantasy threads ... the fantasy because they dont come across black guys in the street, in the shop, etc ... guess living in certain areas means you have a different experience?

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By *ukkakewhoreWoman over a year ago

Dublin

Of course they probably dont like being labelled as BBC's just as any guy probably dosen't like being labelled as a COCK of any kind. But I'm sure they can overlook it a little if it gets them lots of white pussy

So fair play I guess!!

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By *huramMan over a year ago

London

It's hard being a black man in 2015.

Women only approach me in nightclubs because they assume I'm a good dancer.

But I don't want to dance, I'd rather enjoy a few glasses of brandy, exchange some flirty chat and get going to the nearest hotel.

I get followed in the supermarket when I haven't shaved for a couple of weeks.

But when I'm clean shaven, looking less rough, they leave me be.

Since when did supermarket staff become FBI profilers?

And women only sleep with me because they assume I'm cool, like rnb music and have a big dick.

I mean yes I am relatively cool, rnb is one of the many music genres I enjoy and my phallus is a size that I'm satisfied with.

I just wish I could buy my apples and salad from Tesco, without being tracked like one of Americas most wanted.

I'm trying to eat healthily, not rob your blasted store.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

Maybe to some

To others it's the be all and end all of how they conduct themselves on here"

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"It's hard being a black man in 2015.

Women only approach me in nightclubs because they assume I'm a good dancer.

But I don't want to dance, I'd rather enjoy a few glasses of brandy, exchange some flirty chat and get going to the nearest hotel.

I get followed in the supermarket when I haven't shaved for a couple of weeks.

But when I'm clean shaven, looking less rough, they leave me be.

Since when did supermarket staff become FBI profilers?

And women only sleep with me because they assume I'm cool, like rnb music and have a big dick.

I mean yes I am relatively cool, rnb is one of the many music genres I enjoy and my phallus is a size that I'm satisfied with.

I just wish I could buy my apples and salad from Tesco, without being tracked like one of Americas most wanted.

I'm trying to eat healthily, not rob your blasted store.

You need to take me with you because I challenge the security guards when they do that to my boys or my partner .... for some strange reason they won't go shopping with me anymore ... but then I ask myself, why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's hard being a black man in 2015.

Women only approach me in nightclubs because they assume I'm a good dancer.

But I don't want to dance, I'd rather enjoy a few glasses of brandy, exchange some flirty chat and get going to the nearest hotel.

I get followed in the supermarket when I haven't shaved for a couple of weeks.

But when I'm clean shaven, looking less rough, they leave me be.

Since when did supermarket staff become FBI profilers?

And women only sleep with me because they assume I'm cool, like rnb music and have a big dick.

I mean yes I am relatively cool, rnb is one of the many music genres I enjoy and my phallus is a size that I'm satisfied with.

I just wish I could buy my apples and salad from Tesco, without being tracked like one of Americas most wanted.

I'm trying to eat healthily, not rob your blasted store.

Lol, do you live in Portsmouth too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our black supermarket security guard follows me around the shop. Should I be worried??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Longman, can I just say ... you are not doing yourself any favours here ... okay, my boys aren't in and I am having a 'mummy' withdrawal moment, but someone had to say it.

Point taken, I am avoiding the temptation to get personal now.

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By *huramMan over a year ago

London

"Our black supermarket security guard follows me around the shop. Should I be worried??"

Haha. He wants to get his leg over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Our black supermarket security guard follows me around the shop. Should I be worried??"

Depends on your views on BBCs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

You hit the nail on the head with the fantasy angle I think. I'm surrounded by black men,I have them coming out of my ears. They aren't a fantasy or something different for me. I've never seen a really little black cock though. Where are they hiding?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"Our black supermarket security guard follows me around the shop. Should I be worried??"

Only if you're stealing something

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By *huramMan over a year ago

London

"It's hard being a black man in 2015.

Women only approach me in nightclubs because they assume I'm a good dancer.

But I don't want to dance, I'd rather enjoy a few glasses of brandy, exchange some flirty chat and get going to the nearest hotel.

I get followed in the supermarket when I haven't shaved for a couple of weeks.

But when I'm clean shaven, looking less rough, they leave me be.

Since when did supermarket staff become FBI profilers?

And women only sleep with me because they assume I'm cool, like rnb music and have a big dick.

I mean yes I am relatively cool, rnb is one of the many music genres I enjoy and my phallus is a size that I'm satisfied with.

I just wish I could buy my apples and salad from Tesco, without being tracked like one of Americas most wanted.

I'm trying to eat healthily, not rob your blasted store.

There's a look I give them, Pepper.

I've perfected it over the years.

They know to turn around and move from me.

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

They are really small, so small you can't see them ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

Here apparently, do you want to come and see?

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

Here apparently, do you want to come and see?

Stop it now, I am eating .... and I spat the food out ...

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

Jut thinking .... what do the supermarket staff do in the 'black community'? Follow everyone .... or follow the white women?

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By *rishmocha2Couple over a year ago

Beds

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C"

I'm a man who happens to be black. If black is all you see, then you best keep walking

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By *lack_GeminiMan over a year ago

Pattaya

"Do you like being referred to as BBC?

I ask because when I see the term used on forum threads and profiles, it often comes across, to me anyway, like the writer is describing some kind of commodity rather than a person. C

I'm a man who happens to be black. If black is all you see, then you best keep walking "

I personally don't like the label but I don't see it as derogatory, just a new trendy way to call vwe black guys and it's caught on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

I personally don't like the label but I don't see it as derogatory, just a new trendy way to call vwe black guys and it's caught on."

Its not only vwe black guys who use this label,it's guys with any sized cock who have grabbed on to it for dear life too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

Here apparently, do you want to come and see?

I have a strong suspicion you're not telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Our black supermarket security guard follows me around the shop. Should I be worried??

Only if you're stealing something "

I should stop doing that then

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so if i were to suggest that a lot of people now see it as an umbrella type term... would I be screamed down again by certain people....

or are they going to argue it is all just in people's heads.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Political correctness gone mad. BBC is just an abbreviation I don't see it as patronizing. Nothing wrong with choice or preference. Same as BWC. Get over it and move on.

bless up man, you hit the nail on the head. Its just an acronym or abbreviation.

Here apparently, do you want to come and see?

I have a strong suspicion you're not telling the truth

You will need Hubble to see it close up

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"so if i were to suggest that a lot of people now see it as an umbrella type term... would I be screamed down again by certain people....

or are they going to argue it is all just in people's heads.....

I agree ... and perception is reality, if its in someone's head, then isn't it their reality .... I may be screened down myself by the 'oh bless hun' campe or the 'shush up you pedant' camp or even the 'don't disagree with a black man if you want to get laid' camp .... they all exist here, but I am in my own camp, if I give it a label, I will offend someone, probably myself

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"so if i were to suggest that a lot of people now see it as an umbrella type term... would I be screamed down again by certain people....

or are they going to argue it is all just in people's heads.....

you've already said so earlier abt 2 to 3 times, no point going on and on about it. Chill out, its calmed down in here

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By *ister.mrMan over a year ago

newcastle

yes its deffinitly used as a commodity keeps on poppin up in live chat as if to say drop everythin and look at me no introduction or relevance to the chat in the room ....thats my opinion and no ones goin to change it.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

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By *uxomBloomsWoman over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

"Was I wrong in saying it's a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this "

Of course it's a stereotype, precisely because not all black men have big dicks, if they did, it would be a fact and not stereo type.

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Was I wrong in saying it's a stereotype? Is it not a stereotype that black guys are hung?

its not a stereotype cos not all blackmen have big dicks, besides what made you come to the conclusion that bbc is a stereotype ? Its just an acronym, same as big whiye dick ( bwc ).

Fabio id like you to respond to this

Of course it's a stereotype, precisely because not all black men have big dicks, if they did, it would be a fact and not stereo type.

hmmm true say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any enlightened human would see the possibilities of there being something fundamentally questionable about the BBC label. Not just because some people looking for black men seem to use the term freely, but also because the very object of this term (i.e. Black men), appear to see no dilemma with also using the term liberally throughout their profile texts as if it was some kind of passport to riches! I do have a very personal view about the use of the term, which is informed in the main by the many ironies that face people of colour. However, my main fear would be that the term BBC, entered into the vernacular. Unfortunately, it probably already has! It's a shame!

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By *rishmocha2Couple over a year ago

Beds

"Any enlightened human would see the possibilities of there being something fundamentally questionable about the BBC label. Not just because some people looking for black men seem to use the term freely, but also because the very object of this term (i.e. Black men), appear to see no dilemma with also using the term liberally throughout their profile texts as if it was some kind of passport to riches! I do have a very personal view about the use of the term, which is informed in the main by the many ironies that face people of colour. However, my main fear would be that the term BBC, entered into the vernacular. Unfortunately, it probably already has! It's a shame!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I too totally agree and admire this very eloquent post , well done

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

if you read in between the line you will spot the sarcasm in the OPs thread itself.

it reads do you like being reffered to as a big black cock ( bbc ), you and i know bbc refers to a sex organ and not the man himself so why would he ask if we like beng referred to a sex organ ( a cock for that matter in other words a dickhead ).

i wont feed into it if i were you.

The term in itself could be classed as derogatory if it had an element if insult in it eg big black disgusting cock ( bbdg) or big black wanker cock ( bbwc).

The profiles stating they want bbc are only requesting for a black mans dick, nothing wrong in that, they didnt specify that the black man himself is a big black cock ( bbc ).

perhaps ask the OP where he came to the conclusion that people refer to the black man as a cock , he misled the whole point of the acronym right from the start.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

Les and Jen, nice to see you here as well as in the flesh ... its been too long. I think there is something wrong with using the term, but my esteemed partner does not see it as such a problem ... interesting point for me, for those willing to debate. Pepper (btw, you were going to message us something ...)P

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sarcasm or not, it is clear that many guys (seemingly many black guys), do not see any problem with it. Obviously that is their choice to make. But I would say one thing. I would be extremely irritated if one of my sons came home one day and said to me that a girl / woman had referred to them as a BBC. Very irritated indeed! In fact I can almost guarantee that it will happen. Give it a couple of years and you will see job adverts that say "BBC Welcome!". Now that is sarcasm! In poor taste, but sarcasm none the less...

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Sarcasm or not, it is clear that many guys (seemingly many black guys), do not see any problem with it. Obviously that is their choice to make. But I would say one thing. I would be extremely irritated if one of my sons came home one day and said to me that a girl / woman had referred to them as a BBC. Very irritated indeed! In fact I can almost guarantee that it will happen. Give it a couple of years and you will see job adverts that say "BBC Welcome!". Now that is sarcasm! In poor taste, but sarcasm none the less..."

have you ever had anyone refer to you as a person as bbc, or is it the fact they referring to the sex organ as bbc ?

If you have had some call you as a person bbc then you can take offence but whats the point taking offence to an acronym that describes and signifies an organ ?

I still cant see what the hype is here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the context of this type of site, unsavoury terms which serve a purpose of, albeit, uncreative and unimaginative description, transcend conventional moral decency. They are accepted as a vehicle of crude communication. Dignity, decorum and ultimately, response are optional in this environment of wanton debauchery.

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By *ieutenantMan over a year ago

london

If you think BBC abbreviation is offensive.Why is it the following acronym is acceptable on fab?. BBW.MILF AC/DC. BWC. Dp. O level. A level. W/S.

In fact similar thread posted of well endow black male. Same objection.

if you think BBC abbreviation debase black folks. Please suggest a better way.

I see it as choice or preference. I don't see it as profanity

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By *lackgrapeMan over a year ago

Purley

"I don't look for a big black cock, I look for a man initially on,looks and as its a type I prefer, I'll then start a conversation , but just cos they're black doesn't make them meet material "
Give the girl a cigar xxx

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By *lackgrapeMan over a year ago

Purley

I skip all profiles that say looking for a "BBC" no matter how hot the woman may be, I do understand the nature of the site we're on but I personally get put

off not on by people who love the term"BBC"but women who wink at you and

immediately follow up by asking.....how big is your cock?I understand women may be spoilt for choice on this site considering the ratio of guys to girls but I guess some of us have principles and others will sieze any opportunity .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rum soaked will do fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you think BBC abbreviation is offensive.Why is it the following acronym is acceptable on fab?. BBW.MILF AC/DC. BWC. Dp. O level. A level. W/S.

In fact similar thread posted of well endow black male. Same objection.

if you think BBC abbreviation debase black folks. Please suggest a better way.

I see it as choice or preference. I don't see it as profanity "

I hate labels, and if someone calls me a Gilf or Milf, I delete the message

First and foremost I'm a female , mature one yes, with high standards...oh and feelings.

Being on a sex site does not entitle people to debase others in pursuit of Holy Grail

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By *ethepeopleMan over a year ago

Near you

"If you think BBC abbreviation is offensive.Why is it the following acronym is acceptable on fab?. BBW.MILF AC/DC. BWC. Dp. O level. A level. W/S.

In fact similar thread posted of well endow black male. Same objection.

if you think BBC abbreviation debase black folks. Please suggest a better way.

I see it as choice or preference. I don't see it as profanity

I hate labels, and if someone calls me a Gilf or Milf, I delete the message

First and foremost I'm a female , mature one yes, with high standards...oh and feelings.

Being on a sex site does not entitle people to debase others in pursuit of Holy Grail"
Shhhh don't say sex site haven't you seen the people get jumped on for saying that this is a swingers site !!!

And stay in line with that to be safe

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By *ethepeopleMan over a year ago

Near you

"I skip all profiles that say looking for a "BBC" no matter how hot the woman may be, I do understand the nature of the site we're on but I personally get put

off not on by people who love the term"BBC"but women who wink at you and

got to be the male saying that ? Of all the chats I've had with singles not once has one of them asked that ....... Of course I haven't spoken to everyone

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"If you think BBC abbreviation is offensive.Why is it the following acronym is acceptable on fab?. BBW.MILF AC/DC. BWC. Dp. O level. A level. W/S.

In fact similar thread posted of well endow black male. Same objection.

if you think BBC abbreviation debase black folks. Please suggest a better way.

I see it as choice or preference. I don't see it as profanity "

Thank goodness its O level but you are showing your age there ... but I can't say I have seen it on here to be honest

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

Totally agree with that one. I would set my daughter on them ...

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