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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me.  |
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"People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me. "
Sorry about that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me.
Sorry about that!"
God bless ball gags |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me. "
A proper snort producing post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me.
Sorry about that!
God bless ball gags "
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it."
Won't suggest meeting you then lol I love kissing after oral either way round |
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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago
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At a club a stranger squeezing my bottom. A complete turn off because there is no communication. Why do guys think they can do that, assume I am going to like it and think it is sexy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being obsessed with trying to make me squirt ,more than actually making sure i enjoy it too."
This definitely puts me off. I don't do it and don't want to. They just want to be able to say they made me do it first. Its for them and not me. Hate it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me. "
Hahaha yea I've met a guy like that!! Very off putting and I think I may have laughed out loud!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it."
Smelling of alcohol or fags |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People going near my arse, it's overly sensitive because of a physical condition I'm struggling to resolve, so while mentally I can overlook it, physically it affects how turned on I am.
Spitting. Too many negative connotations.
Not sure how I feel about having my hair pulled, sometimes it's a turn on, but other times it makes me angry, and I don't want to be angry when having sex.
I think I'm a bit hypocritical when it comes to hair pulling and butt play, because I'm OK doing it, but not OK with having it done to me, but that's because that was the excuse I was given so that someone could do it to me, regardless of the fact that everyone is different and I like to accommodate other peoples preferences, but I can't change what my body responds to |
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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago
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"Being obsessed with trying to make me squirt ,more than actually making sure i enjoy it too.
This definitely puts me off. I don't do it and don't want to. They just want to be able to say they made me do it first. Its for them and not me. Hate it. "
Yes yes yes ..ditto the above |
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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it."
This!! Leaves me feeling cheap and used and dirty and makes me mad! |
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it."
Guys who won't go anywhere near their own cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it.
This!! Leaves me feeling cheap and used and dirty and makes me mad! "
I love kissing, and kissing after oral feels good to me |
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it.
Guys who won't go anywhere near their own cum."
My cum is mine, when alone in the past and feeling very, very horny, I used to bend my legs back and shoot into my mouth. Not so athletic these days, but a drop in a nice glass of chilled white wine... Ok, I'm kinky! |
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By *arehamMan
over a year ago
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I used to have a mate that liked me to fuck his wife but he would not shut up while I was fucking her it was like having a director of a film telling you what to do,but she was well worth fucking so I put up with it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that pinch/bite my nipples too hard.
-Courtney
I love my nipple bitten really hard. .. men usually get scared haha"
Ha! Women don't! Its usually been women that have been too rough on my poor nipples 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being obsessed with trying to make me squirt ,more than actually making sure i enjoy it too.
Yep that's a turn off too
And people who can kiss... like they eating a cream cake or something ergg"
Argh, a little tongue is fine, but too much feels like I've got a slug on speed, caffeine and LSD in my mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it."
Putting their hands in my head while I am performing oral and trying to face fuck me. If we have discussed limits previously this has been ignored! |
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"A tongue in the ear. Yuck.
Same! Miss C. Xx "
Need clarification on this, ....... Ear just a no go anyway, or gentle caressing with tongue and breathing on lobe and exterior of ear aceptable...??
Should think howling into ear and eagerly tongueing it would be a turn off, closest thing i can think of is a hound greeting its master... |
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"People who give a running commentary on everything they are doing/going to do.
I'm going to kiss you now, I'm kissing you mmmm kissing you, kissing your lips. I'm feeling your breast oh it feels good , firm in my hand. Oh your skin those breasts in my hand I'm squeezing them. I'm sliding my hands over you. You like that ? Do you do you.
Arrrrgghhh just shut the fuck up and fuck me. "
Ewwww... that made me sick a little in my mouth.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People licking my face  or spitting on any part of my body
Agreed, licking is weird anyway
They can lick my pussy all they like. But so few do!"
That is the only acceptable form of licking.
I guess a lot of (vanilla predominantly) guys don't like licking pussy because they "get nothing out of it" I might be wrong, but the guys that I reckon don't, are the ones that have that sort of mindset |
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Having my nipples bitten and pulled like they're trying to pull them off. I like teasing..
Having my face licked all over. Just bizarre!
Poor hygiene
One sided foreplay. I have needs too.. 
Using teeth, down there...
Slobbering wet kisses.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, dont lick my ear out, finger fuck me too fast or too hard, slow and gentle to start with works. And biting of nipples hard is just too painful. Nibble yes, bite no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, dont lick my ear out, finger fuck me too fast or too hard, slow and gentle to start with works. And biting of nipples hard is just too painful. Nibble yes, bite no "
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this |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Smacking, biting, pinching, choking...anything painful or dominating really. Also a complete turn off if they call me names"
especially being called Bitch , my ex did it all the time ... he and the words huge turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on many other posts, I guess I'm strange, cuz I enjoy a tongue in my ear (and just about anywhere else, too - except maybe face & eyes).
As for turnoffs:- I'd agree with the smell of fags/booze (add 'vomit', 'pet turds' & 'BO' to list).
Any signs that the other person has somewhere else they'd rather be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate having my face/lips licked it makes me cringe
even more so when it's not somebody your playing with I've had it a few times when playing in a open room in a club and some random guy has just bent over and licked my face  |
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"Being obsessed with trying to make me squirt ,more than actually making sure i enjoy it too.
Yep that's a turn off too
And people who can kiss... like they eating a cream cake or something ergg
Argh, a little tongue is fine, but too much feels like I've got a slug on speed, caffeine and LSD in my mouth"
i've had that, it was like being attacked by Gene Simmonds from Kiss. Not good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman in a 3sum once licked my face and sucked my nose. .wtf? I mean like a slobbery dog lick all over and sucked my nose like it was a cock. .err...didn't like that "
ewww weird!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mean socks and sandals, I mean what things do people do during sex that make you go "ugh" and lose your mojo a bit.
For me it's guys that won't kiss you after a blow job. Hate it."
I'm so guilty of that!  |
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