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Is a blowjob a blowjob regardless?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following a private chat on here, where I was saying I'm straight so am not interested in anything involved male on male action.
I was asked would I like a blowjob from a guy. Replying no, as I've stated I don't want and not interested in any male on male action.
I was asked well isn't a blowjob a blowjob, and if you had your eyes closed would you know if it was from a guy or a girl?
So I ask the question
1) To those bi guys, is there a difference? If so what?
2) To the ladies, would it put you off a guy if he was sucked off by another guy? If so why?
BTW, thought it was an interesting question, still not interested in being sucked off by a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would there be a different? A guy would give the best blwojob anyway as he knows how and what to do!"
You're saying women don't know how to give a bj?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm probably in a good position to answer this since I first got into the bi scene through having suck and go meets with guys.
I found that some guys give very good head. One thing I also found was that I was able to relax more with a guy. I'm not sure why this is but I felt much more at ease and where it was agreed I could be rough, I felt more comfortable being rough (gagging/deepthroating etc). Perhaps I'm more concerned about hurting a woman? who knows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would there be a different? A guy would give the best blwojob anyway as he knows how and what to do!
You're saying women don't know how to give a bj? "
No haven't said that but as a woman knows a woman's pleasure points a guy knows a guy's. However I love getting blowjobs from women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me at least, it's absolutely not the same thing... It's not just about what's happening down there...
And closing one's eyes and pretending a guy is a girl doesn't cut either... sorry!
If the girl(s) enjoy watching, great, and if they get turned on, even better... but that's the only pleasure I'd get from it. As a distraction, haha... |
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Are you asking about a physical difference or the psychological aspects ?
If you are not sexually attracted to males then you would not relish being sucked off by one.
Now..... if you cannot see your brain still knows.
There is a world of difference in what goes on in your head and your responses...
People who think its just a physical sensation might as well blindfold themselves and get tossed into a pit of lizards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would there be a different? A guy would give the best blwojob anyway as he knows how and what to do!
You're saying women don't know how to give a bj?
No haven't said that but as a woman knows a woman's pleasure points a guy knows a guy's. However I love getting blowjobs from women "
All men like the same thing when receiving a bj? I have to say,in my experience,that they don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course its not the same thing. lol This question reappears in one form or another every other day.
Many guys simply don't want to admit(even to themselves)they may be gay or even bi so they obviously will claim it makes no difference.
From the numbers of profiles on this site from bi/gay guys drooling at the idea of getting their lips around a straight cock it is obvious they will say the same. Even when they suspect the "straight" guy might not actually be truthful.
But lets just be realistic here. It is not the same and only in the bizarre world of fab is this nonsense suggested.
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"Are you asking about a physical difference or the psychological aspects ?
If you are not sexually attracted to males then you would not relish being sucked off by one.
Now..... if you cannot see your brain still knows.
There is a world of difference in what goes on in your head and your responses...
People who think its just a physical sensation might as well blindfold themselves and get tossed into a pit of lizards. "
Well said the brain is the biggest sex organ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love receiving bj's from men and women, as for who does it better, it depends on the individual persons techniques, I like to start slowly and work on the complete length, but I enjoy getting the tip of mine played with especially.
Sizes and cut/uncut makes soo mhch difference too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I ask the question
1) To those bi guys, is there a difference? If so what?
2) To the ladies, would it put you off a guy if he was sucked off by another guy? If so why?"
Seeing as I am neither a guy or ladies, I am in no position to answer your very interesting question.
I hope that helps?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would there be a different? A guy would give the best blwojob anyway as he knows how and what to do!
You're saying women don't know how to give a bj?
No haven't said that but as a woman knows a woman's pleasure points a guy knows a guy's. However I love getting blowjobs from women
All men like the same thing when receiving a bj? I have to say,in my experience,that they don't. "
It wouldn't bother me to answer your original question point 2 |
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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago
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I am a woman and there might be an argument that I should be better at fingering and licking pussies cos I know what I like...However I am definitely not better. .pussies scare me and I have NO IDEA what I am doing. ..However I am very happy and confident and comfortable with a cock! |
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I was recently advised that neither and both give the best bj and if eyes were blindfolded, he'd only tell the difference if the guy hasn't shaved recently... It's all about being in the here and now, living in the moment and enjoying what feels fabulous surely?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following a private chat on here, where I was saying I'm straight so am not interested in anything involved male on male action.
I was asked would I like a blowjob from a guy. Replying no, as I've stated I don't want and not interested in any male on male action.
I was asked well isn't a blowjob a blowjob, and if you had your eyes closed would you know if it was from a guy or a girl?
So I ask the question
1) To those bi guys, is there a difference? If so what?
2) To the ladies, would it put you off a guy if he was sucked off by another guy? If so why?
BTW, thought it was an interesting question, still not interested in being sucked off by a guy. "
My experience is limited, but the answer is yes so far, there are different guys with different techniques, so it depends on the giver, but I couldn't get it out of my head that I was being sucked off by a guy. If you're genuinely straight, it'll make a huge difference, but if you have bi tendencies, you can kinda overlook it |
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All men like the same thing when receiving a bj? I have to say,in my experience,that they don't. "
Exactly. In the same way that different women like different things as well. This is why the whole a man knows a man best and a woman knows a woman best thing is a crock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had some good and some bad blow jobs from both men and women. Don't think the sex thing makes a difference, more an individual's style.
I find once you have a good sucker, doesn't matter what sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you overlook it your bi/gay. Not that there is any problem with that, each to their own
For me personally, it's never been anything other than a woman as their is so much involved in this, I love watching and looking into her eyes as I cum, therefore that very intimate moment can only be with a woman in my books |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fantasy is to be sucked by both sexes at the same time...then sharing a cock with a woman before a little cum play!!"
Had that recently, watching both sucking was such a turn on, and then me sucking whilst female watxhed was great too |
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The bottom line is if you're straight you most definitely don't want to be getting a blowjob from a bloke. The whole joy of being straight and getting a blowjob is the fact that a woman is giving you the blowjob, because you like women. That's what turns you on. The woman. So no a blowjob isn't just a blowjob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even with your eyes shut you can usually tell the difference. You may feel a ladies hair on your thighs, smell her perfume..... Oh wait; there are exceptions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my experience women suck cock as a means to an end. They suck you to get hard so you fuck them. ?en spend hours down there because they enjoy it more. "
I suck cock as a means to an end. Like many women I enjoy it. It turns me on and then I want him inside me. |
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Those that are behind me, NO im NOT into fucking! haha
