Just drove 30 mins on the assumption we were going for a coffee then of we liked each other go to his place... guy turned up looked like he was stoned saying we going for a fuck then... said to him we will leave it. |
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over a year ago
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"This place seems to full of all the ones that fell off the ugly branch!
Losing its appeal more and more each day"
It doesn't look so great from the other side of the fence either. |
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"This place seems to full of all the ones that fell off the ugly branch!
Losing its appeal more and more each day
He wasnt ugly just high or stones with the charm of a brick
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That's still ugly in my book |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!"
This is was arranged for a week to go for a drink
Then this.morning he's like come to.my house I said no..
Coffee or sumat then we said costa
Then he says half way I'm down il meet you I sainsburys car park
Wtf! |
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"This place seems to full of all the ones that fell off the ugly branch!
Losing its appeal more and more each day"
they've always been around, if anything there's less of them in my area now luckily (or they aren't messaging me any more).
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"This place seems to full of all the ones that fell off the ugly branch!
Losing its appeal more and more each day
It doesn't look so great from the other side of the fence either."
I can imagine |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!
This is was arranged for a week to go for a drink
Then this.morning he's like come to.my house I said no..
Coffee or sumat then we said costa
Then he says half way I'm down il meet you I sainsburys car park
Wtf! "
Sounds like the tight arse didn't want to pay for coffee! |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!
This is was arranged for a week to go for a drink
Then this.morning he's like come to.my house I said no..
Coffee or sumat then we said costa
Then he says half way I'm down il meet you I sainsburys car park
Wtf!
Sounds like the tight arse didn't want to pay for coffee!"
He bloody got into my car asked me if I wanted a sip of his
It's not just me is it? |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!
This is was arranged for a week to go for a drink
Then this.morning he's like come to.my house I said no..
Coffee or sumat then we said costa
Then he says half way I'm down il meet you I sainsburys car park
Wtf! "
Sainsburys!?? This guy has no class!!
Lucky escape - and lucky he was only stoned, not d*unk or high by the sounds of it |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!
This is was arranged for a week to go for a drink
Then this.morning he's like come to.my house I said no..
Coffee or sumat then we said costa
Then he says half way I'm down il meet you I sainsburys car park
Wtf!
Sounds like the tight arse didn't want to pay for coffee!
He bloody got into my car asked me if I wanted a sip of his
It's not just me is it? "
Fucking tight arsehole!
He got himself a coffee and asked you if you wanted a sip!  |
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"Sat in my car now in manchester
Guess it's shopping for me then haha
maybe get a status up asking for a social, have a brew while waiting for replies?"
I'd do this if it was me
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"Just as well it's only 30mins out of your way no harm no foul Eh !!
30 mins for that is a long way! "
Sure is. 1 hour round trip, the petrol, the time taken to get ready etc. |
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"I'm really glad I don't do socials!
Same!  "
I suppose its no different to turning up at a guys place or him coming to yours in and he's in that state. Waste of time either way but I guess its best to do whatever suits you. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"Just drove 30 mins on the assumption we were going for a coffee then of we liked each other go to his place... guy turned up looked like he was stoned saying we going for a fuck then... said to him we will leave it."
what a total uter wanker he was , gives the good guys that really want a meet a bad name, . |
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"I'm really glad I don't do socials!
Same!
I suppose its no different to turning up at a guys place or him coming to yours in and he's in that state. Waste of time either way but I guess its best to do whatever suits you. "
Not likely to happen and hasn't in 3/4 years, given the amount of effort I put into getting to know the person before meeting is what I meant. I have to be really really sure about meeting someone...i wouldn't be so diligent if I were only meeting for coffee. |
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"I'm really glad I don't do socials!
Same!
I suppose its no different to turning up at a guys place or him coming to yours in and he's in that state. Waste of time either way but I guess its best to do whatever suits you. "
I always meet blindfolded, so I wouldn't see what state he was in  if he acted a twat and didn't follow certain rules, he would be out the door. |
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"I'm really glad I don't do socials!
Same!
I suppose its no different to turning up at a guys place or him coming to yours in and he's in that state. Waste of time either way but I guess its best to do whatever suits you.
Not likely to happen and hasn't in 3/4 years, given the amount of effort I put into getting to know the person before meeting is what I meant. I have to be really really sure about meeting someone...i wouldn't be so diligent if I were only meeting for coffee."
Same |
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Wow, reading these sorts of threads makes us realise how lucky we have been so far with actual meets!
I honestly get the feeling a lot of men join this site assuming it's a free for all shag fest, from the total lack of effort a lot make to the rude replies you get if you ignore them, it's any wonder any actually get anywhere.
I think the site is a victim of its own success as many have heard of the site from mates etc and just assume if they sign up they're guaranteed a fuck. |
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I always knew from an early age that some people were just impossible. As I've gotten older it seems that there are more nob heads than ever before. Keep your chin up OP. |
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"I always knew from an early age that some people were just impossible. As I've gotten older it seems that there are more nob heads than ever before. Keep your chin up OP."
I'm thinking the same as I get older. Maybe I'm just much less tolerant to bullshit these days! |
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"Wow, reading these sorts of threads makes us realise how lucky we have been so far with actual meets!
I honestly get the feeling a lot of men join this site assuming it's a free for all shag fest, from the total lack of effort a lot make to the rude replies you get if you ignore them, it's any wonder any actually get anywhere.
I think the site is a victim of its own success as many have heard of the site from mates etc and just assume if they sign up they're guaranteed a fuck."
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"I always knew from an early age that some people were just impossible. As I've gotten older it seems that there are more nob heads than ever before. Keep your chin up OP.
I'm thinking the same as I get older. Maybe I'm just much less tolerant to bullshit these days!"
Same!! |
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"Just drove 30 mins on the assumption we were going for a coffee then of we liked each other go to his place... guy turned up looked like he was stoned saying we going for a fuck then... said to him we will leave it."
What was awkward? Say sorry no thanks and go shopping.  |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!"
I always insist on a social too, with no expectations. Beggars belief they say it's time wasting when it's made clear to them!  obviously, they live in hope... |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!
I always insist on a social too, with no expectations. Beggars belief they say it's time wasting when it's made clear to them! obviously, they live in hope..."
If guys don't want a social meet then I accept that and wish them well but its often these that moan on their status updates that no one meets etc. I'm not wasting anyone's time, I WILL be there when arranged. If a guy doesn't want to get to know me a little first then he's not the type of guy I wish to meet anyway so it acts as another filter. |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!"
we always do a social first , best way after all as everyone knows not everyone tells the truth, |
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"Just drove 30 mins on the assumption we were going for a coffee then of we liked each other go to his place... guy turned up looked like he was stoned saying we going for a fuck then... said to him we will leave it."
I'd have yes! Nip in the toilets get naked and Il follow you in 
then went home |
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I'm surprised you still met him after all the changing arrangements beforehand. The words 'get to fuck' spring to mind!
Males on the site = 1,000's. Decent males = 1% of that! |
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"OP go on the who's near thingy and see if anyone fancies a social. Lucky escape from the other one if you ask me. Tight bastard!!!"
Someone messaged me who was nearby went for a drink with him.n I'm glad I did really nice funny guy....
Off out now for my birthday meal (my birthday was yday) so she didn't have longer but will be meeting my white knight again ... worked out for the better |
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"OP go on the who's near thingy and see if anyone fancies a social. Lucky escape from the other one if you ask me. Tight bastard!!!
Someone messaged me who was nearby went for a drink with him.n I'm glad I did really nice funny guy....
Off out now for my birthday meal (my birthday was yday) so she didn't have longer but will be meeting my white knight again ... worked out for the better"
Ahhhh that's great happy belated birthday have a great time tonight |
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"How do you even arrange a meet in the first place with someone like that
That's the thing he wasn't like that at all in messages n the phone ... guess u dnt know till you meet"
So sorry to hear that someone treat you with such disrespect and especially as it was your birthday too. |
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over a year ago
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"OP go on the who's near thingy and see if anyone fancies a social. Lucky escape from the other one if you ask me. Tight bastard!!!
Someone messaged me who was nearby went for a drink with him.n I'm glad I did really nice funny guy....
Off out now for my birthday meal (my birthday was yday) so she didn't have longer but will be meeting my white knight again ... worked out for the better"
That's great And happy belated birthday to |
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Maybe pointing out the obvious, you arrange a social meet to see if you get on face to face. Therefore you must realise there is a chance you might not get on with them. Therefore you should expect some social meets it to work out... |
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"Maybe pointing out the obvious, you arrange a social meet to see if you get on face to face. Therefore you must realise there is a chance you might not get on with them. Therefore you should expect some social meets it to work out..."
I don't think there was even a social meet as in a drink, chat etc, he just asked about going back to his for sex as soon as she got there if I read it correctly. |
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"People like that puts off couples and females and make it harder for genuinely nice people. Waste of space. "
It doesn't put me off.....not sure how you come to that conclusion. |
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"Just drove 30 mins on the assumption we were going for a coffee then of we liked each other go to his place... guy turned up looked like he was stoned saying we going for a fuck then... said to him we will leave it."
Prime example of why I always do a social meet first. Yet to meet a "druggie" but dodged many a bullet! |
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"Some call me a time waster for insisting on a social meet first. This is a prime example of exactly why I do!
This is was arranged for a week to go for a drink
Then this.morning he's like come to.my house I said no..
Coffee or sumat then we said costa
Then he says half way I'm down il meet you I sainsburys car park
Wtf!
Sounds like the tight arse didn't want to pay for coffee!
He bloody got into my car asked me if I wanted a sip of his
It's not just me is it? "
Sorry, but  ...reminds me of the charmer who got himself a drink. When I asked if he was going to get me one he replied "this ain't a date love!"...I didn't linger!  |
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"I'm really glad I don't do socials!
Same!
I suppose its no different to turning up at a guys place or him coming to yours in and he's in that state. Waste of time either way but I guess its best to do whatever suits you.
Not likely to happen and hasn't in 3/4 years, given the amount of effort I put into getting to know the person before meeting is what I meant. I have to be really really sure about meeting someone...i wouldn't be so diligent if I were only meeting for coffee."
The way I play we spend a long time getting to know each other. However, I'm meeting in my home and my playmates also insist on social meets.
They're going to be blindfolded, hung up, beaten...they need to feel comfortable with me and check, as much as you can, I'm no psycho bitch |
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"Just drove 30 mins on the assumption we were going for a coffee then of we liked each other go to his place... guy turned up looked like he was stoned saying we going for a fuck then... said to him we will leave it.
Prime example of why I always do a social meet first. Yet to meet a "druggie" but dodged many a bullet! "
Oooo we have but it wasn't obvious until after the social and we were at their house . Different site HUGE lessons learned. |
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I always chat and get to know people before I meet. Then coffee. Takes time, but the people I've met have been lovely.
Doesn't work if you want the excitement of a quick last minute random meet, obviously! |
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