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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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have you ever stopped swinging and it has changed your sexual relationship with your spouse/partner either for good or bad? and have you ever gone back to swinging just to keep one of you happy? |
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"suppose both parties have to agree to do this, and enjoy it otherwise there could be trouble ahead"
Yes, its very bad for someone's self esteem to be having sex with people they don't really want to in order to please somebody else. |
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I did not swing when I was in a vanilla relationship and now I am part of a couple, I swing in a different way than when I was a single - meeting women alone, but not meeting anyone else, apart from with my partner. To be honest, unless the situation arises, I don't find the need or desire to swing with men in any way, now he is around. As I said, if it crops up, it happens, but if it never happened again, it would not bother me in the slightest .... love the social aspect though, and the parties/clubs we go to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We take a lot of 'breaks' from it! We tend to have a few meets in a couple of months then nothing for a few months....it keeps this as an extra bonus in our relationship not a big part of it!
Our sex life was great before but is amazing now!! So We know 1 day we will just stop all this and have great sexy memories to think back on! |
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