Hi Guys,
Just wanted some general advice, im fascinated by swinging but my girl fiend isn't. I completely respect that decision but its still a big fantasy of mine and was hoping to meet a few people especially couples on here without her knowing.
I would consider myself good looking and would have no problem meeting single girls on a night out if i simply wanted to cheat on my GF but its more about experiences and excitement.
How would that be received?
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"Hi Guys,
Just wanted some general advice, im fascinated by swinging but my girl fiend isn't. I completely respect that decision but its still a big fantasy of mine and was hoping to meet a few people especially couples on here without her knowing.
I would consider myself good looking and would have no problem meeting single girls on a night out if i simply wanted to cheat on my GF but its more about experiences and excitement.
How would that be received?
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Badly, if you go about it like that |
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"Hi Guys,
Just wanted some general advice, im fascinated by swinging but my girl fiend isn't. I completely respect that decision but its still a big fantasy of mine and was hoping to meet a few people especially couples on here without her knowing.
I would consider myself good looking and would have no problem meeting single girls on a night out if i simply wanted to cheat on my GF but its more about experiences and excitement.
How would that be received?
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It depends really, some people won't care, some will. |
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"Meeting people from here for sex is still cheating if your gf doesn't know about it, not just meeting for sex on a night out."
yes that is true, a wonder how many females do
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"Meeting people from here for sex is still cheating if your gf doesn't know about it, not just meeting for sex on a night out. yes that is true, a wonder how many females do"
Lots probably but most don't start a thread about it, they just discreetly get on with it. |
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"Meeting people from here for sex is still cheating if your gf doesn't know about it, not just meeting for sex on a night out. yes that is true, a wonder how many females do
Lots probably but most don't start a thread about it, they just discreetly get on with it."
yes that is true its like advertising if its a thread |
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"Meeting people from here for sex is still cheating if your gf doesn't know about it, not just meeting for sex on a night out. yes that is true, a wonder how many females do
Lots probably but most don't start a thread about it, they just discreetly get on with it."
I suspect that's partly because they have no problem getting meets while the single men have a difficult time of it. I wonder if women were in the majority here it would be different but lots of things would be  |
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My profile states I won't meet guys who are attached unless they are in open and honest relationships as I have no interest in anyone getting hurt (or appearing on a divorce petition), but at the end of the day, I can only rely on what they tell me. I am pretty good at sniffing a rat and have no issue at all in raising my suspicions and a couple of guys have then held their hands up and admitted that they tried to blindside me.
If your girlfriend isn't up for it and it's still really important to you, maybe you need to ask yourself what is more important; your relationship or your desire to experience the lifestyle. And if the two aren't compatible then maybe you need to make a decision.
I'd never try to be anyone's moral compass and I live and let live, but personally I wouldn't knowingly meet someone who was doing it behind a partner's back.
I hope you find what you need x |
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