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Are some people a little bit to sensitive for this hobby
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Late this afternoon / early evening I had a very enjoyable time with someone from here, verification to follow.
About a hour afterwards I noticed on my phone app that a couple had asked if I was free tonight. I was having a pint in my local so wasn't really in a position to give a proper answer.
When I got home I read it properly and replied quite politely explaining that I had already just had a meet. I mentioned that sadly my days of multiple performances have shrunk over the years.
I sent the message, then remembered that there was something else I wanted to mention. I found out that I've been blocked, my reply had been perfectly polite.
When I originally looked at their profile I noticed that they had named another member as a timewaster,(I thought that was against the rules). I presume I'm now also listed as such.
I'm not normally someone who reports other people to the moderators but in this case I think I'll make an exception. |
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"They probably just blocked you so they didn't contact you again. I don't think they're being too sensitive......you seem a little affected by this though."
If someone says sorry but no thanks, not my type, I'll often do that. However I think they're being a bit strange as I explained why I wouldn't be available. As I say they've named another member on their profile as a time waster, I though that was against the rules? How do does one contact the mod's about a profile when you've been blocked by them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are they timewaster? They obviously just changed their mind about you so blocked to save further contact.. Nothing wrong with that. Standard procedure on here.
I'm sensing that it's bothered you more than them? Forget n move on I say! |
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"They probably just blocked you so they didn't contact you again. I don't think they're being too sensitive......you seem a little affected by this though.
If someone says sorry but no thanks, not my type, I'll often do that. However I think they're being a bit strange as I explained why I wouldn't be available. As I say they've named another member on their profile as a time waster, I though that was against the rules? How do does one contact the mod's about a profile when you've been blocked by them?"
Look in your block list, click on the profile name and then menu you'll see the option to block. |
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"Am i the only one who thinks the OP's intention and the thread title brings to mind the word 'ironic'?
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One I don't think they should have named the other member, two I have good verifications and wouldn't like people thinking I'm a timewaster. |
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"Late this afternoon / early evening I had a very enjoyable time with someone from here, verification to follow.
About a hour afterwards I noticed on my phone app that a couple had asked if I was free tonight. I was having a pint in my local so wasn't really in a position to give a proper answer.
When I got home I read it properly and replied quite politely explaining that I had already just had a meet. I mentioned that sadly my days of multiple performances have shrunk over the years.
I sent the message, then remembered that there was something else I wanted to mention. I found out that I've been blocked, my reply had been perfectly polite.
When I originally looked at their profile I noticed that they had named another member as a timewaster,(I thought that was against the rules). I presume I'm now also listed as such.
I'm not normally someone who reports other people to the moderators but in this case I think I'll make an exception. "
Forgive me if I've misunderstood this, but are you saying that you're thinking of reporting this couple to admin because you think they might be calling you a timewaster?...
I don't think they'd be pleased with that at all
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"Am i the only one who thinks the OP's intention and the thread title brings to mind the word 'ironic'?
Nope!  "
yes
hes gutted they blocked him or why mention on this thread, they are gutted as they may not of found a guy.. both parties should of expressed interest that they where both looking elsewhere too.
blocked move on its not the first block and wont be the last
new thread please |
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"Why are they timewaster? They obviously just changed their mind about you so blocked to save further contact.. Nothing wrong with that. Standard procedure on here.
I'm sensing that it's bothered you more than them? Forget n move on I say!"
No, he said they've named someone else as a timewaster which is against the rules. |
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"Am i the only one who thinks the OP's intention and the thread title brings to mind the word 'ironic'?
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Pot vs kettle, round 300.... Dead or Alive style |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are they timewaster? They obviously just changed their mind about you so blocked to save further contact.. Nothing wrong with that. Standard procedure on here.
I'm sensing that it's bothered you more than them? Forget n move on I say!..
No, he said they've named someone else as a timewaster which is against the rules."
youve wasted my time, you sexy minx, ave been looking for you in the threads and you keep a hiding a will report you now to the cock squad
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By (user no longer on site)
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I got blocked got blocked by a female on here for having a meet with someone else three days after seeing her....
Got told I was "just like every other single male on here" erm...yes indeed I am  |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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"Late this afternoon / early evening I had a very enjoyable time with someone from here, verification to follow.
About a hour afterwards I noticed on my phone app that a couple had asked if I was free tonight. I was having a pint in my local so wasn't really in a position to give a proper answer.
When I got home I read it properly and replied quite politely explaining that I had already just had a meet. I mentioned that sadly my days of multiple performances have shrunk over the years.
I sent the message, then remembered that there was something else I wanted to mention. I found out that I've been blocked, my reply had been perfectly polite.
When I originally looked at their profile I noticed that they had named another member as a timewaster,(I thought that was against the rules). I presume I'm now also listed as such.
I'm not normally someone who reports other people to the moderators but in this case I think I'll make an exception. "
with the amount of verifications you have on here I certainly dont think that you should have anything to worry about if a small minority of people think of you as a timewaster |
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"Late this afternoon / early evening I had a very enjoyable time with someone from here, verification to follow.
About a hour afterwards I noticed on my phone app that a couple had asked if I was free tonight. I was having a pint in my local so wasn't really in a position to give a proper answer.
When I got home I read it properly and replied quite politely explaining that I had already just had a meet. I mentioned that sadly my days of multiple performances have shrunk over the years.
I sent the message, then remembered that there was something else I wanted to mention. I found out that I've been blocked, my reply had been perfectly polite.
When I originally looked at their profile I noticed that they had named another member as a timewaster,(I thought that was against the rules). I presume I'm now also listed as such.
I'm not normally someone who reports other people to the moderators but in this case I think I'll make an exception. "
. Why should this bother you?. Why would they have any interest in whether or not you are to use your terminology a time waster . ?. |
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"op was the shag you had bad and realise the ones that blocked you might of been a better option but youve lost out"
No to be honest, they didn't even have photos or verifications which the person I saw did have, (deservedly good ones). |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Am i the only one who thinks the OP's intention and the thread title brings to mind the word 'ironic'?
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first thought that went thru my head....
and here's me thinking "i'm sorry..... just which party is the sensitive one???"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are they timewaster? They obviously just changed their mind about you so blocked to save further contact.. Nothing wrong with that. Standard procedure on here.
I'm sensing that it's bothered you more than them? Forget n move on I say!"
Read the post. He has not said they are timewasters. |
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"Late this afternoon / early evening I had a very enjoyable time with someone from here, verification to follow.
About a hour afterwards I noticed on my phone app that a couple had asked if I was free tonight. I was having a pint in my local so wasn't really in a position to give a proper answer.
When I got home I read it properly and replied quite politely explaining that I had already just had a meet. I mentioned that sadly my days of multiple performances have shrunk over the years.
I sent the message, then remembered that there was something else I wanted to mention. I found out that I've been blocked, my reply had been perfectly polite.
When I originally looked at their profile I noticed that they had named another member as a timewaster,(I thought that was against the rules). I presume I'm now also listed as such.
I'm not normally someone who reports other people to the moderators but in this case I think I'll make an exception. . Why should this bother you?. Why would they have any interest in whether or not you are to use your terminology a time waster . ?. "
I think we'd all like to not be labelled a timewaster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got blocked got blocked by a female on here for having a meet with someone else three days after seeing her....
Got told I was "just like every other single male on here" erm...yes indeed I am "
Shocking behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got blocked got blocked by a female on here for having a meet with someone else three days after seeing her....
Got told I was "just like every other single male on here" erm...yes indeed I am
Shocking behaviour "
fuck em chuck i love yas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You should report anyone for bad mouthing others on their statuses. The site doesn't allow it. As for them blocking you I would shrug it off. People are strange and plenty of strange ones on here. It's perfectly normal to feel peeved about being blocked for no apparent reason. We are human after all. |
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"You should report anyone for bad mouthing others on their statuses. The site doesn't allow it. As for them blocking you I would shrug it off. People are strange and plenty of strange ones on here. It's perfectly normal to feel peeved about being blocked for no apparent reason. We are human after all. "
I personally don't give much of a shit about them blocking me, as I say they had no photos or verifications. As said by someone earlier them calling me a time waster won't cause me a great loss of sleep as I do have plenty of good verifications. However they are doing that regarding another member, against the rules, but I can't see how to report that to the mod's? I think the only time I've mentioned something to them before was someone was looking for payment. |
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By *huramMan
over a year ago
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"I got blocked got blocked by a female on here for having a meet with someone else three days after seeing her....
Got told I was "just like every other single male on here" erm...yes indeed I am "
You were supposed to marry her and never look at another woman ever again. |
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"It would appear that you're reporting them now you are blocked, rather than when you first noticed their 'naming' status .... "
I was mailing them the second time to warn them that they could get in trouble for naming other members on their profile. |
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