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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there such a thing as been shallow? I got called this when I stated (in the politest way I could) that someone wasn't my type, but why on earth would we choose to meet someone who we didn't find attractive? It's not been shallow, U even get guys who just like fat woman (nothing wrong with that I like my curvy girls) but as they just go for that type under them rules this could be considered shallow but would never be stated that way, but i don't believe there is such a thing, just types that we like and others we don't, be nice to hear other people's insight on this subject |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm shallow. Why wouldn't I be when I'm in search of no strings sex?  "
Haha yea that's pretty much the point why would we meet people we don't find attractive when it's predominantly fun related lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol."
shag some people really do need to fancy who they are shagging even if it's a one off, I'll give you five minutes to get your head round that concept  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
shag some people really do need to fancy who they are shagging even if it's a one off, I'll give you five minutes to get your head round that concept "
Yea I didn't inderstand that either haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
shag some people really do need to fancy who they are shagging even if it's a one off, I'll give you five minutes to get your head round that concept "
I know they do lol. I meant as a general thing tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as been shallow? I got called this when I stated (in the politest way I could) that someone wasn't my type, but why on earth would we choose to meet someone who we didn't find attractive? It's not been shallow, U even get guys who just like fat woman (nothing wrong with that I like my curvy girls) but as they just go for that type under them rules this could be considered shallow but would never be stated that way, but i don't believe there is such a thing, just types that we like and others we don't, be nice to hear other people's insight on this subject "
I think because some men on here are so desperate, that couples and females tend to think we're all the same.
You can't say no to me. You're a single male. We get 300 messages per day from single men. Your lose.
Don't stress it , just move on |
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As long as you're not too specific... I once had a fella tell me he preferred petite women. To each his own; just don't even kind of suggest that I'm a chunk! Or old. Fat and old... Don't go there!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its just bitterness and lack of self confidence on their part, ignore them. I'm sure they wouldn't entertain the idea of playing with someone they weren't attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to fancy someone a bit to have sex with them or I end up feeling a bit shitty about myself.
People do resort to insults when being rejected but thankfully it's not the majority. "
turn the lights out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I'd consider it shallow to fuck someone you didn't fancy just to get your rocks off rather than the other way around.
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I think thatsca very good point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oooh I've been told many a time that I'm shallow because I'll only consider having sex with someone that is very handsome, dark hair, over 5'10, good body and big cock and balls. I'll get oh but I'm 5'9 can't you consider me? No cos when I stick my high heels on i still want you to be taller than me. I'll get oh I'm not that handsome or in a good shape and I've got a small penis will you consider me? Ummm no! It's like me going to a shop to buy a tent to go camping but they try and sell me a chicken instead. I know what I need and what I want and nothing will sway that. |
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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago
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A guy messaged me yesterday saying would I meet. I replied that I wasn't looking to meet at moment. He said why am I here then?
I explained that I like the forums and when I am ready I will meet.
He put oh that's just typical, all on your terms then?
Err...of course it's on my terms..wtf?? |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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I would echo what most have said. You're attracted to what you're attracted to and in this environment it's predominately based on (in my opinion) looks, personality and physical chemistry in that order. I've turned down a guy who claimed had modelled, don't get me wrong he had a fit body, but his attitude was abysmal. When you're on the fence about someone a social always helps solidify your judgement towards them. So in a sense some are shallow at first, but like to dive deeper. Or am I the only one who approaches it like this?   |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Oooh I've been told many a time that I'm shallow because I'll only consider having sex with someone that is very handsome, dark hair, over 5'10, good body and big cock and balls. I'll get oh but I'm 5'9 can't you consider me? No cos when I stick my high heels on i still want you to be taller than me. I'll get oh I'm not that handsome or in a good shape and I've got a small penis will you consider me? Ummm no! It's like me going to a shop to buy a tent to go camping but they try and sell me a chicken instead. I know what I need and what I want and nothing will sway that. "
Haha! Chicken tent... love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy messaged me yesterday saying would I meet. I replied that I wasn't looking to meet at moment. He said why am I here then?
I explained that I like the forums and when I am ready I will meet.
He put oh that's just typical, all on your terms then?
Err...of course it's on my terms..wtf?? "
that just personal terms, lots use the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol."
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?"
for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol."
Really though? It sounds like you'd be happy shagging one of those rubber fanny fleshlight things. You seriously would shag anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy messaged me yesterday saying would I meet. I replied that I wasn't looking to meet at moment. He said why am I here then?
I explained that I like the forums and when I am ready I will meet.
He put oh that's just typical, all on your terms then?
Err...of course it's on my terms..wtf?? "
If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list (men) it takes you off the searches and reduces mail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol.
Really though? It sounds like you'd be happy shagging one of those rubber fanny fleshlight things. You seriously would shag anyone?"
I don't need them and y am I not surprised you mentioned them lol and yes I would do anyone really x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol."
Quite right too - anything is better than a wank |
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Don't think I've ever initiated a pm conversation... The talks I have had have been great because there is no expectation to 'impress' or to compete against 300 other messages.. I already know they like my humor (from seeing me in the forums) or like what they see.
Being a single male isn't that bad to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol.
Quite right too - anything is better than a wank "
Yes and you are right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol.
Really though? It sounds like you'd be happy shagging one of those rubber fanny fleshlight things. You seriously would shag anyone?"
I shagged one of them fleshlights ... it gave me a rash and a crap veri so I won't be doing that again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol.
Quite right too - anything is better than a wank Yes and you are right there "
Guess we killed this thread huh Shag ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol.
Quite right too - anything is better than a wank Yes and you are right there
Guess we killed this thread huh Shag ? "
YEs I think so to we did there lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
Please tell me you're not serious?!
I would say yes and no to that one.
I think this may need a whole new thread!
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Yes I think so to your right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is like a lovely buffet table, laid with every type of food you might fancy. I wouldn't chose food to enjoy that I didn't savour. You might like pasta, I really don't. That's fine though because there's plenty of other dishes for me to chose, and you! Am I shallow if I only like a certain dish? No! I'll only choose what I want. (Now I'm off to get a ginger biccy) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab is like a lovely buffet table, laid with every type of food you might fancy. I wouldn't chose food to enjoy that I didn't savour. You might like pasta, I really don't. That's fine though because there's plenty of other dishes for me to chose, and you! Am I shallow if I only like a certain dish? No! I'll only choose what I want. (Now I'm off to get a ginger biccy) "
Nice metaphor!! I do love a ginger bicci though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lmao. People shocked that a bloke will shag someone he doesn't fancy? Really??? We'd all prefer someone we fancy obviously but if I get on with the person that's enough for me. The fact that the lass I've met a few times off here is a hotty is just lucky for me. |
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"Lmao. People shocked that a bloke will shag someone he doesn't fancy? Really??? We'd all prefer someone we fancy obviously but if I get on with the person that's enough for me. The fact that the lass I've met a few times off here is a hotty is just lucky for me."
Phew! Well saved there |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there such a thing as been shallow? I got called this when I stated (in the politest way I could) that someone wasn't my type, but why on earth would we choose to meet someone who we didn't find attractive? It's not been shallow, U even get guys who just like fat woman (nothing wrong with that I like my curvy girls) but as they just go for that type under them rules this could be considered shallow but would never be stated that way, but i don't believe there is such a thing, just types that we like and others we don't, be nice to hear other people's insight on this subject "
sympathy f**ks; charity begins at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With NSA you don't necessarily need to fancy them as its a one off lol.
There has to be a connection with the person you are meeting, even if it is either a physical attraction or you like their personality. If you don't have that, why meet?for me its just to get another bed notch pal lol.
Really though? It sounds like you'd be happy shagging one of those rubber fanny fleshlight things. You seriously would shag anyone?I don't need them and y am I not surprised you mentioned them lol and yes I would do anyone really x."
Shocking! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lmao. People shocked that a bloke will shag someone he doesn't fancy? Really??? We'd all prefer someone we fancy obviously but if I get on with the person that's enough for me. The fact that the lass I've met a few times off here is a hotty is just lucky for me."
Well said there, couldn't have put it better myself there.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there such a thing as been shallow? I got called this when I stated (in the politest way I could) that someone wasn't my type, but why on earth would we choose to meet someone who we didn't find attractive? It's not been shallow, U even get guys who just like fat woman (nothing wrong with that I like my curvy girls) but as they just go for that type under them rules this could be considered shallow but would never be stated that way, but i don't believe there is such a thing, just types that we like and others we don't, be nice to hear other people's insight on this subject
I think because some men on here are so desperate, that couples and females tend to think we're all the same.
You can't say no to me. You're a single male. We get 300 messages per day from single men. Your lose.
Don't stress it , just move on"
There is a (false) truth, almost universally accepted, that a man will shag anything, be it animal, vegetable or mineral. Some people, when shown that is certainly not the case, will take it personally. As if this makes them a hideous product of a diseased mind. They need to remember that EVERYONE has some standards and tastes, no matter how high, low or bizarre. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think people are a lot more shallow online because we can afford to be there's a whole lot more people online wanting sex
In a club you hit on people to find out what they are like. But online you have all that information so you can be more picky |
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"Lmao. People shocked that a bloke will shag someone he doesn't fancy? Really??? We'd all prefer someone we fancy obviously but if I get on with the person that's enough for me. The fact that the lass I've met a few times off here is a hotty is just lucky for me."
I'm not shocked by it... just surprised. I'd have trouble getting wet for someone I wasn't attracted to. I'd never fuck a bloke unless I fancied him but I suspect it's because women and men are built differently. I would assume it's trickier to get a hardon if someone doesn't turn you on but clearly I know nothing.
Personally I'd rather have a wank. |
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Need to be attracted to the person, male or female. I don't think it's shallow, just being honest. We are picky, but sex, even if no strings is still a very intimate thing, and if I'm going to suck a cock then I need to feel attracted to the guy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there such a thing as been shallow? I got called this when I stated (in the politest way I could) that someone wasn't my type, but why on earth would we choose to meet someone who we didn't find attractive? It's not been shallow, U even get guys who just like fat woman (nothing wrong with that I like my curvy girls) but as they just go for that type under them rules this could be considered shallow but would never be stated that way, but i don't believe there is such a thing, just types that we like and others we don't, be nice to hear other people's insight on this subject "
I'm just wondering that why, as you're purporting to be a single guy you constantly refer to 'we'?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there such a thing as been shallow? I got called this when I stated (in the politest way I could) that someone wasn't my type, but why on earth would we choose to meet someone who we didn't find attractive? It's not been shallow, U even get guys who just like fat woman (nothing wrong with that I like my curvy girls) but as they just go for that type under them rules this could be considered shallow but would never be stated that way, but i don't believe there is such a thing, just types that we like and others we don't, be nice to hear other people's insight on this subject
I'm just wondering that why, as you're purporting to be a single guy you constantly refer to 'we'? "
I believe the op has a couples profile on here also. |
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