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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When do you think is the right time to explain your boundaries?
If you're meeting someone at a club or swing resort and you start flirting of chatting and the chemistry seems right I think you should be quick to inform if you're just into soft swap or if it's girl-girl only etc.
It is so disappointing to start getting busy and find out half way through play that their rules aren't the same as yours.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect it may also be done intentionally.
IE soft swap couples will not say it upfront out of fear of rejection. "
I think it's still each persons responsibility,If you don't like soft swap then you need to say you prefer full,I wouldn't expect someone else to know what I wanted unless I told them  |
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"I suspect it may also be done intentionally.
IE soft swap couples will not say it upfront out of fear of rejection.
I think it's still each persons responsibility,If you don't like soft swap then you need to say you prefer full,I wouldn't expect someone else to know what I wanted unless I told them "
Agreed, it's just that sometimes everything happens rather quickly and there isn't a right time to say " unless you're DTF we're not interested" ?? |
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