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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
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The author of that article is an idiot. However qualified they are.
Straight men don't sleep with other straight men. As the Americans would say "period".
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
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I've seen this article. Some very interesting and understandable points |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"straight men don't..... the confused do
You'd think.  Someone will be along in a minute with twaddle (in my opinion) about sliding scales of sexuality. "
Can I be the first with the twaddle (in my opinion) "but its only a label"? lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
I've seen this article. Some very interesting and understandable points"
Yes, interesting points based on actual research. Too many on here seem to resist anything outside their own understanding as 'twaddle' which is a shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
I've seen this article. Some very interesting and understandable points
Yes, interesting points based on actual research. Too many on here seem to resist anything outside their own understanding as 'twaddle' which is a shame. "
You believe whatever twaddle you choose and I will stick with mine, |
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"straight men don't..... the confused do
You'd think. Someone will be along in a minute with twaddle (in my opinion) about sliding scales of sexuality. "
Well, there very obviously are sliding scales, unless you think everyone is either 100% attracted to one gender or 50/50 equally between both. |
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Years ago in the days of the park cottage the glory hole guys wanking and sucking each other most were happily married men not gay just wanted that bit extra not a lot going on at home just popped in for a quick bit of fun no harm done |
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Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago in the days of the park cottage the glory hole guys wanking and sucking each other most were happily married men not gay just wanted that bit extra not a lot going on at home just popped in for a quick bit of fun no harm done"
Unless their partners found out of course, or is cheating fine if you don't get caught? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway "
I don't understand cock-phobia in guys, I'm perfectly happy walking around naked in the changing rooms after a workout, and even chatting to other guys whilst in the buff.
Sometimes I'll even gyrate my hips, causing my cock to whirl around like a clock hand just to show how relaxed I am whilst conversing, the conversations tend to end quite quickly though. |
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"Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway
I don't understand cock-phobia in guys, I'm perfectly happy walking around naked in the changing rooms after a workout, and even chatting to other guys whilst in the buff.
Sometimes I'll even gyrate my hips, causing my cock to whirl around like a clock hand just to show how relaxed I am whilst conversing, the conversations tend to end quite quickly though."
I meant in a sexual context. I played rugby and basketball competitively. I have always been happy to be naked around men.
But sexually I have no interest.
Dont think I could do a mfm because of it.
I am a sensitive soul |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
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Can I raise the BULLSHIT card now please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes I'll even gyrate my hips, causing my cock to whirl around like a clock hand just to show how relaxed I am whilst conversing, the conversations tend to end quite quickly though."
SB, I know sometimes we agree and sometimes we don't.
On this occasion I'd definitely challenge you to a whirl-off. I think my modestly average semi-flacid member would out twirl your more lengthy fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes I'll even gyrate my hips, causing my cock to whirl around like a clock hand just to show how relaxed I am whilst conversing, the conversations tend to end quite quickly though.
SB, I know sometimes we agree and sometimes we don't.
On this occasion I'd definitely challenge you to a whirl-off. I think my modestly average semi-flacid member would out twirl your more lengthy fella. "
But remember, force = mass x acceleration, I may be more energetic in my penis swirling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes I'll even gyrate my hips, causing my cock to whirl around like a clock hand just to show how relaxed I am whilst conversing, the conversations tend to end quite quickly though.
SB, I know sometimes we agree and sometimes we don't.
On this occasion I'd definitely challenge you to a whirl-off. I think my modestly average semi-flacid member would out twirl your more lengthy fella.
But remember, force = mass x acceleration, I may be more energetic in my penis swirling."
I'm happy to be an impartial judge!  |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway
I don't understand cock-phobia in guys, I'm perfectly happy walking around naked in the changing rooms after a workout, and even chatting to other guys whilst in the buff.
Sometimes I'll even gyrate my hips, causing my cock to whirl around like a clock hand just to show how relaxed I am whilst conversing, the conversations tend to end quite quickly though."
I have this mental impression and laughing with tears in my eyes at the scenario.
Do men still play submarines in the bath?? |
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"Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway "
Liar! You know you're on a sliding scale and just in denial, just like me.  |
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"Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway
Liar! You know you're on a sliding scale and just in denial, just like me. "
I only wish I were. It really would make life motor diverse and therefore more interesting.
I am not sure what you class yourself as, as you are hidden, but if you are bi, then I am envious of your freedom. |
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
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As Abraham Lincoln once said "Don't believe everything you read on the internet" |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"straight men don't..... the confused do
You'd think. Someone will be along in a minute with twaddle (in my opinion) about sliding scales of sexuality. "
Why is it twaddle?
All it means is that some are very firmly (immovably) at one end of the scale (straight), other are firmly at the other (gay) and some fall somewhere along the scale where things may be more fluid.
I don't for one moment think that the men (or women, but the OP is about men) at the very straight end of the scale would dabble in a bit of situational bi play any more than the very homosexual would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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a dont class myself as st8 , bi, lesbian, gay or whatever.. i see myself as me, sometimes a dress and get in the mood for lesbian sex, st8 sex bi sex, gay sex and group sex, not sure what you call when dressed as a slut and fuck a st8 guy, so a just see myself as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago in the days of the park cottage the glory hole guys wanking and sucking each other most were happily married men not gay just wanted that bit extra not a lot going on at home just popped in for a quick bit of fun no harm done"
I had a friend who did some work in local cottaging sites,with an organisation taking around condoms and testing advice for men who had sex with men. Almost to a man, everyone he spoke to at those sites identified as straight...Some asserted it very forcefully... |
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"People who repeatedly engage is same sex activity are not straight....
Its as simple as that..... 
 Yep. It really is that simple.
...but if you do it occasionally then you maybe str8!!! "
Bollocks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a really interesting US article entitled 'Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other' (easily googleable).
It's a long read but essentially argues that "homosexual desire is just part of the human condition" and that a straight guy having gay sex is not an indicator of them being 'secretly bi' - it's just a thing they do from time to time. Some men place more significance of their gay experiences (and therefore might identify themselves as bi) whereas other men see them as more circumstantial. Just something they do that doesn't stop them being straight.
I've seen this article. Some very interesting and understandable points
Yes, interesting points based on actual research. Too many on here seem to resist anything outside their own understanding as 'twaddle' which is a shame. "
Except there is no research really its mostly an opinion piece by a woman's studies professor (so arguably wholly unqualified for anything let alone such a complex interspecialty subject). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't stomach the thought of it. I have often wanted to, the idea being a full smorgasbord of sex delights
The reality is, I cannot imagine kissing a guy, don't want another cock anywhere near me and have a very fulfilled sex life with women anyway
Liar! You know you're on a sliding scale and just in denial, just like me. "
You are aware a sliding scale doesn't mean you have to be at all points at once?
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