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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?
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We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..
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"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?
We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..
Jason"
So it's not "quality not quantity " it's "if we like you we'll meet you"
As quantity is not seemingly an issue for you.
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"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?
We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..
Jason"
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We enjoy a quantity of quality .
Despite having over 260 meets in 8 months we are as discerning as anyone else on here . We know what floats our boat at any given time and always get that . A rough estimate of playing with10% of offers is our meet criteria .
For example we may feel.like meeting couples one week , single bi females another , guys and tv's another .Or any mix come to that .
What gets us pissed off is the assumption that we will play with anyone and everyone .... far from it .
We will happily stick to enjoying a quantity of quality  |
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"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?
We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..
Jason"
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sorry that wasnt very helpful...
Ryan did though. 