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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Having a poor profile would put people off.
Pop up some more photos, for example body shots for a start. Sell yourself. That is the whole point of having a profile, to sell yourself, show and tell people why they should pick you over the hundreds of men then can choose from.
At the moment you just look like yet another guy who couldn't be bothered to put much effort into their profile but still expects to get a look in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, here are some tips:
Look at other threads on this same topic.
Put up a profile pic/avatar
Have more pics of you, especially body shots
Write more. Your text is lazy. It tells me nothing about you, what you're looking for, or why a woman should choose you over the other thousand men she has messages from.
Go to some socials, clubs, or parties locally to meet some people.
Write a message that is friendly, clear, and thoughtful without being too long or generic.
Good luck!
-Courtney
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Isn't there and FAQs for this topic yet?"
Would there be much point having one? Considering the number of posts on this topic and how guys wanting advice seem to be unable to read them, I doubt they would read a FAQ on the subject of selling themselves and trying to attract people. |
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"Isn't there and FAQs for this topic yet?
Would there be much point having one? Considering the number of posts on this topic and how guys wanting advice seem to be unable to read them, I doubt they would read a FAQ on the subject of selling themselves and trying to attract people."
*shrugs* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't there and FAQs for this topic yet?
Would there be much point having one? Considering the number of posts on this topic and how guys wanting advice seem to be unable to read them, I doubt they would read a FAQ on the subject of selling themselves and trying to attract people."
Agree.
Should we really give people advice though?
We tell them what to do and they write a new improved super duper profile.
Something thinks "ooh wow" and meets them.
Then they realise that the person isn't super duper at all... they are just a 'line of text and a cock pic' type of person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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gettin a meet on here if your str8 is nigh near impossible. not counting that a good 90% dont want single guys anyway , not counting the other predjuces like age , own hair & teeth,body size, cock size , how tall you are. colour of your skin. yes it,s very exhillerating for a str8 single guys of a certain age on here. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Isn't there and FAQs for this topic yet?
Would there be much point having one? Considering the number of posts on this topic and how guys wanting advice seem to be unable to read them, I doubt they would read a FAQ on the subject of selling themselves and trying to attract people.
Agree.
Should we really give people advice though?
We tell them what to do and they write a new improved super duper profile.
Something thinks "ooh wow" and meets them.
Then they realise that the person isn't super duper at all... they are just a 'line of text and a cock pic' type of person.
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I'm still disappointed nobody has acted on my advice to post a pic of them dressed as big bird standing on a pile of Argos catalogues. 
You try and help people FFS! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't there and FAQs for this topic yet?
Would there be much point having one? Considering the number of posts on this topic and how guys wanting advice seem to be unable to read them, I doubt they would read a FAQ on the subject of selling themselves and trying to attract people.
Agree.
Should we really give people advice though?
We tell them what to do and they write a new improved super duper profile.
Something thinks "ooh wow" and meets them.
Then they realise that the person isn't super duper at all... they are just a 'line of text and a cock pic' type of person.
I'm still disappointed nobody has acted on my advice to post a pic of them dressed as big bird standing on a pile of Argos catalogues.
You try and help people FFS!
A"
I'd do it! Where does one get a big bird costume anyway?!? I already have the stack of Argos catalogs 
-Courtney |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Isn't there and FAQs for this topic yet?
Would there be much point having one? Considering the number of posts on this topic and how guys wanting advice seem to be unable to read them, I doubt they would read a FAQ on the subject of selling themselves and trying to attract people.
Agree.
Should we really give people advice though?
We tell them what to do and they write a new improved super duper profile.
Something thinks "ooh wow" and meets them.
Then they realise that the person isn't super duper at all... they are just a 'line of text and a cock pic' type of person.
I'm still disappointed nobody has acted on my advice to post a pic of them dressed as big bird standing on a pile of Argos catalogues.
You try and help people FFS!
A
I'd do it! Where does one get a big bird costume anyway?!? I already have the stack of Argos catalogs
-Courtney"
Amazon!
58% off too! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still disappointed nobody has acted on my advice to post a pic of them dressed as big bird standing on a pile of Argos catalogues.
You try and help people FFS!
A
I'd do it! Where does one get a big bird costume anyway?!? I already have the stack of Argos catalogs
-Courtney
Amazon!
58% off too!
A"
Ooh! I just looked it up! I could get the girly one with the headband and use it for fancy dress parties too. Watch this space.
-Courtney |
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"Sorry Sean, I'm coming across as a right bitch today, I really don't mean to!"
You're a dude now, we don't get bitches and we don't understand hints.
Get with the programme, what are you some kind of girl  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Sorry Sean, I'm coming across as a right bitch today, I really don't mean to!
You're a dude now, we don't get bitches and we don't understand hints.
Get with the programme, what are you some kind of girl "
Another of today's posts that's made me  .
Happy Friday everyone! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of the above ^^^
Effort is key!!!!
Oh and don't post whiny threads up later on like "why don't women reply no thanks to your message" etc
Take the advice given though..all very good... revamp profile... get yourself to socials .....  |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"Sorry Sean, I'm coming across as a right bitch today, I really don't mean to!
You're a dude now, we don't get bitches and we don't understand hints.
Get with the programme, what are you some kind of girl "
I'm a gay dude, I can be a right bitch when I want to be |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I don't understand hints though, never have. You want something? Open your mouth and fecking say so, I'm not a mind reader and I'm not going to guess at what you are hinting at just in case you are hinting badly and misunderstand.
P.S. that there is a hint for guys struggling to get meets who have poor profiles, so let me translate it for you -
Nobody is going to look at your profile and guess who you are, what you like doing, what you like having done, what you have to offer, what you look like.
YOU have to say/show all that.
If you don't then all you are telling people is that you have nothing to offer!
Ah fuck it, the guys I'm aiming that at aren't going to read it anyway ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry Sean, I'm coming across as a right bitch today, I really don't mean to!
You're a dude now, we don't get bitches and we don't understand hints.
Get with the programme, what are you some kind of girl
I'm a gay dude, I can be a right bitch when I want to be "
But do you have a Big Bird costume? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Is there something in general one would be doing wrong not getting any replys from messages"
Why do you think you should get replies and meets? Make sure your profile represents what you think you have going for you. At the moment there's nothing to show women why they should want to meet you.
Your profile says you want a lady; that's all. You don't even have any photos. Do you think that a woman will want to meet you, knowing nothing about you, just because you want to meet a woman?
You're male and you're looking for a woman for fun. Do you think that's all you need to get a meet? Really?
Bear in mind that a lot of women will look at your profile before reading your message, and not bother reading the message if the profile is crap. |
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