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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

I am just curious as to how many people and couples use their sexual energy consciously with intent, attention,will, presence,Kundalini or tantric practice during their meets? has this happened to you unexpectedly, what are your experiences of this...

i have been actively doing this since i was younger, now its just the norm for me, some are open and really respond to it...some can feel the effects, although, they don't attribute it to energy movement. On that rare occasion, i have pulled more than one, into tantric state and its resulted in a shared altered space, which has been amazing to be a part of, and witness... x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was here before and had fem FB partner in crime so to speak - I think when we met people said we where both very "tactile" - "passionate talkers" and touched/stroked (non sexually) lots, whilst not same as you said, along similar lines

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources? "

I've a keen interest also willing to learn more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am just curious as to how many people and couples use their sexual energy consciously with intent, attention,will, presence,Kundalini or tantric practice during their meets? has this happened to you unexpectedly, what are your experiences of this...

i have been actively doing this since i was younger, now its just the norm for me, some are open and really respond to it...some can feel the effects, although, they don't attribute it to energy movement. On that rare occasion, i have pulled more than one, into tantric state and its resulted in a shared altered space, which has been amazing to be a part of, and witness... x"

I have used this - to varying effect - and strongly believe in sex magick and many of the things that Crowley and co espoused (not quite sure of the full OTO bit) - tantric lovemaking is incredible and raising kundalini involves both mental and physical work - but wow, once done it is mind blowing for both (or all three/four/five etc etc!)

X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources? "

My best suggestion is to find a genuine tantric teacher - not a masseur promising a tantric experience but someone who clearly is tantric first and foremost - I have used Katie Sarra and she has links on her web site to other resources - good luck and hold on, it is a fun ride!

X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i am a lover of sexual energy , I can raise it , direct it and use it .Most of my meets dont know I practice tantra and sex magik but just comment that I have an uncanny knack to raise a horn with just the lightest touch on an arm . I have helped several men achieve male multiple orgasms which puzzled them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i am a lover of sexual energy , I can raise it , direct it and use it .Most of my meets dont know I practice tantra and sex magik but just comment that I have an uncanny knack to raise a horn with just the lightest touch on an arm . I have helped several men achieve male multiple orgasms which puzzled them "

When it works it works doesn't it?! And when you have the art sensuality just oozes from you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

...sounds like a lot of twoddle..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i am a lover of sexual energy , I can raise it , direct it and use it .Most of my meets dont know I practice tantra and sex magik but just comment that I have an uncanny knack to raise a horn with just the lightest touch on an arm . I have helped several men achieve male multiple orgasms which puzzled them "

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i am a lover of sexual energy , I can raise it , direct it and use it .Most of my meets dont know I practice tantra and sex magik but just comment that I have an uncanny knack to raise a horn with just the lightest touch on an arm . I have helped several men achieve male multiple orgasms which puzzled them

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way.... "

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources?

My best suggestion is to find a genuine tantric teacher - not a masseur promising a tantric experience but someone who clearly is tantric first and foremost - I have used Katie Sarra and she has links on her web site to other resources - good luck and hold on, it is a fun ride!

X"

Katie Sarra doesn't seem to teach Tantric anything, only gives Tantric and Taoist massage from what I can see.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

will it help you pull on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count? "

Possibly... wish I could!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i am a lover of sexual energy , I can raise it , direct it and use it .Most of my meets dont know I practice tantra and sex magik but just comment that I have an uncanny knack to raise a horn with just the lightest touch on an arm . I have helped several men achieve male multiple orgasms which puzzled them

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count? "

It can count yes concentration in the chakras (energy centres) can lead to really blissful experiences too

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources?

My best suggestion is to find a genuine tantric teacher - not a masseur promising a tantric experience but someone who clearly is tantric first and foremost - I have used Katie Sarra and she has links on her web site to other resources - good luck and hold on, it is a fun ride!

X

Katie Sarra doesn't seem to teach Tantric anything, only gives Tantric and Taoist massage from what I can see. "

No she teaches and guides -

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count?

Possibly... wish I could! "

I make sure I don't cum for a good week or so beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count?

Possibly... wish I could!

I make sure I don't cum for a good week or so beforehand "

That's a long time to wait...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count?

Possibly... wish I could!

I make sure I don't cum for a good week or so beforehand

That's a long time to wait... "

I prefer to wait and build it up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources?

My best suggestion is to find a genuine tantric teacher - not a masseur promising a tantric experience but someone who clearly is tantric first and foremost - I have used Katie Sarra and she has links on her web site to other resources - good luck and hold on, it is a fun ride!

X

Katie Sarra doesn't seem to teach Tantric anything, only gives Tantric and Taoist massage from what I can see.

No she teaches and guides - "

You're right, she makes it clear that she teaches that on another site.

I would love to study more about the chakras and tantra.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

some writing i did on the basics a while ago...and 'A' definition of tantra, for those, who may not have heard that much about it.x

a definition...

Tantra is a 'spiritual', sexual science that is not static in its definition.

When we embrace Tantra, we can learn to use Tantric energy for sexual pleasure and awareness.

Tantra is about sexual freedom

Tantra treats sexual energy as an ally, rather than something to be suppressed

The essence of Tantra is the full expression of existence; a merging with, rather than a withdrawing from, sexual energy.

This energy is used as an ignition for firing the body's biological energy system, merging it (and you) with universal energy.

In Tantra, sex is used as the cosmic union of opposites, in oneself, with a partner or with more than one person, to create the polarity charge that connects with the primordial energy from which everything arises in the universe.

In addition, the orgasms experienced in this state of consciousness are incredible, explosive and potentially unending.

The basic difference between unenlightened sexuality and Tantra is that sex is approached it from your breath and body, rather than solely from your mind.

Basics of Tantra and sexual energy cultivation...

Tantra is the use of the 'microcosmic orbit' the connection and use of the two main meridians, one male (The govenor- male) and one female ( the central) in the body....everyone has them.

utilising them happens in all sorts of modalities...tai chi and all martial arts, acupuncture, channelling energy therapies...such as Reiki etc.

the governor (male) meridian runs from the 'perineum'..in women between vagina and anus...in men, just behind their testicles..up the spine...over the head and down to just under the nose (above, the middle of the top lip)

the central (female) meridian runs from (on the external) below the pubic bone (internal) cervix and 'g' spot (women)

(external) base of phallus (internal) between phallus and testicals.

it runs up the middle front of the body to below bottom lip (in middle) it normally runs upwards.

to activate it in beginners, the tongue is placed behind top two front teeth and, the pelvic floor is contracted and released in a 'pumping' type intention.

the central meridian is then 'switched' to running downwards...creating a circular orbit around the body....up the spine and down the front of the body..back in and round.....creating heightened flow of energy in the body.

in tantra practice with another, either during love making or just sitting facing opposite each other..

each person breathes 'up' themselves (up spine) and down their partner (down spine)....creating two cycles in opposite directions

this if practised by two people of equal awareness and energy flow...can create not only increased sexual energy flow, multiple orgasms and the like but can create an intimate bliss...where the participants do not have to move, in order for the energy to take each to surrender and climax, through a merging of the male and female energies on all levels.

this can be used for intent and creation too.not all uses are sexual.

in self tantra....you breathe up your spine out of your head and breathe down through the energy in front of body ( using enviromental or undeployed energies) bringing them back into the body.

no pumping or contracting for pelvis required...in fact in women, it is more powerful, the more receptive, passive and open you are.

i'm not sure in men...i've not discussed it that much with those who can describe its usage to me...as i'm female...(you men , will haveto try both to know, which gets best results)

as for caution, i believe that all energies are there and available to everyone, and as one is ones own best teacher, you should be gentle and trust in timing. if you feel ready.then try for yourself first.......and be gentle with yourself.....no forcing anything.

the microcosmic orbit can be used, as i said for other things, so maybe practise the breathing and, pumping, and, tongue position, and see if you can direct the energies out of your hands instead.sometimes your fingers tingle when practicing tantra and your hands, feet ,head, and heart centre,(where all the energy channels begin and end..can get hot and prickly...)

it doesnt have to be sexual...energy is just energy...its how you choose to 'receive' it and 'channel' it, that dictates its 'effect'.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nice one xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mmm....doesnt sound very 'wild and passionate' does it...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I read about this when I was a lot younger and have wanted to try it ever since.

It would be amazing to learn more about it. Can you recommend any good resources?

My best suggestion is to find a genuine tantric teacher - not a masseur promising a tantric experience but someone who clearly is tantric first and foremost - I have used Katie Sarra and she has links on her web site to other resources - good luck and hold on, it is a fun ride!

X

Katie Sarra doesn't seem to teach Tantric anything, only gives Tantric and Taoist massage from what I can see.

No she teaches and guides -

You're right, she makes it clear that she teaches that on another site.

I would love to study more about the chakras and tantra. "

There are some good books and you can meditate using your chakras - I will message you some titles and also a chakra meditation

X

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By *xoticloverMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

Mmmmmm... I know I can cum with the softest touch to my pussy lips. Does that count?

Possibly... wish I could!

I make sure I don't cum for a good week or so beforehand

That's a long time to wait...

I prefer to wait and build it up "

I can't do that as it just makes me restless... Well done to you

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Mmm....doesnt sound very 'wild and passionate' does it..."

cant say ive had any complaints yet

as i said this is the basics...what you want to 'heighten' with it usage, is up to you..could be sensitivity, could be passion...thats upto the individuals..that's why they've got a 'will' in it...see?

however, dont knock it, until you've had it...the results are mind blowing...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mmm....doesnt sound very 'wild and passionate' does it..."

No it doesn't , and it's certainly not our thing for meets . In fact it's the antipathy of what we want from a meet .

We meet to enjoy wild and passionate uninhibited sexual fun . Could be ten minutes , could be half an hour , but longer than that and it gets boring .

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Mmm....doesnt sound very 'wild and passionate' does it...

No it doesn't , and it's certainly not our thing for meets . In fact it's the antipathy of what we want from a meet .

We meet to enjoy wild and passionate uninhibited sexual fun . Could be ten minutes , could be half an hour , but longer than that and it gets boring .

"

half an hour and its all over? do you use an egg timer? why dont you make a different thread about it "the joys of the 10 minute fuck"..

im sure you get some interest there too ..this just isn't the type of thing you are interested in ..that's cool...

just leave it for other people to peruse..xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

tantra is not usually practiced as a 10 min fuck the effects of tantra can still be felt days and sometimes even weeks after the sexual encounter so its not really comparable , tantra is best practiced with a primary partner , to get the full effects .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sounds very interesting Suzy

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan  over a year ago

Sussex

Hello everyone.

A lot of what I'm reading here is very Interesting as it seems to show up how people use sex as a release of pent up energy or as a method of increasing it.

As a "bloke", I'm interested in methods that partners can use to delay ejaculation and/ or reduce the interval before being ready again.

Some advice like keeping good levels of fitness and muscle tone are intuitive and I'm very interested in reading other fabbers techniques for becoming a good stayer and repeater.

Please, keep this thread going!

Cheers Paul

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Hello everyone.

A lot of what I'm reading here is very Interesting as it seems to show up how people use sex as a release of pent up energy or as a method of increasing it.

As a "bloke", I'm interested in methods that partners can use to delay ejaculation and/ or reduce the interval before being ready again.

Some advice like keeping good levels of fitness and muscle tone are intuitive and I'm very interested in reading other fabbers techniques for becoming a good stayer and repeater.

Please, keep this thread going!

Cheers Paul"

tantric energy is about cultivating a flow..once you are in tune with that flow you can direct it..away from your genital area, prolonging ejaculation, or having full blown multiple orgasms as a full body experience, which may not even include ejaculation..

the breath work, can draw energy to or from arousal, you just have to get used to it and redeploy it where you want it...to another part of yourself, to your partner or just keep it moving...or stop it completely before starting it up again...

as a side note, those who are 'bored' and want the person to come quicker..lol... the energy can be drawn down to create pressure in the pelvic regions so they have quick but powerful orgasms..so,everyones a winner

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Sounds very interesting Suzy "

i'm glad you are finding it interesting, Mr PB

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By *xoticloverMan  over a year ago

newcastle

Nice discussion... For me all good in theory but practically have'nt made any difference on me when i have tried tantra few times

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mmm....doesnt sound very 'wild and passionate' does it...

No it doesn't , and it's certainly not our thing for meets . In fact it's the antipathy of what we want from a meet .

We meet to enjoy wild and passionate uninhibited sexual fun . Could be ten minutes , could be half an hour , but longer than that and it gets boring .

half an hour and its all over? do you use an egg timer? why dont you make a different thread about it "the joys of the 10 minute fuck"..

im sure you get some interest there too ..this just isn't the type of thing you are interested in ..that's cool...

just leave it for other people to peruse..xx"

Your op asked if anyone practised or used it for meets . I answered , and said why .

To suggest we use an egg timer is a childish suggestion , as is your other idea , that we start a ten minute fuck thread .

If you ask a question and the answer isn't one you particularly like , there's no need to be sarcastic is there ? There are clearly those who are very interested in your thoughts and tantric practices , which is great . And others who wouldn't entertain tantric other than with their partner , not on a meet , or not at all . It's very rare for everyone to agree with everything .

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan  over a year ago

Sussex


"Hello everyone.

A lot of what I'm reading here is very Interesting as it seems to show up how people use sex as a release of pent up energy or as a method of increasing it.

As a "bloke", I'm interested in methods that partners can use to delay ejaculation and/ or reduce the interval before being ready again.

Some advice like keeping good levels of fitness and muscle tone are intuitive and I'm very interested in reading other fabbers techniques for becoming a good stayer and repeater.

Please, keep this thread going!

Cheers Paul

tantric energy is about cultivating a flow..once you are in tune with that flow you can direct it..away from your genital area, prolonging ejaculation, or having full blown multiple orgasms as a full body experience, which may not even include ejaculation..

the breath work, can draw energy to or from arousal, you just have to get used to it and redeploy it where you want it...to another part of yourself, to your partner or just keep it moving...or stop it completely before starting it up again...

as a side note, those who are 'bored' and want the person to come quicker..lol... the energy can be drawn down to create pressure in the pelvic regions so they have quick but powerful orgasms..so,everyones a winner "

It would be wonderful to have these techniques. Do remind us please of where and how you learned all of this. Might it take months or years to reach your level of skill.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Nice discussion... For me all good in theory but practically have'nt made any difference on me when i have tried tantra few times"

if someones blocked energetically/mentally/ emotionally it does make it difficult to get the flow going Exotic, in an ideal world youd stumble upon someone who knew what they were doing so you can experience it and then, go and 'engage' others in it afterwards..btw i have found its all about the receiving of energy, not necessarily the 'giving' or pushing of energy into or onto others, that creates the effect..

suggestion, create that pull down of energy in them, by being more conscious of pulling up the energy through yourself, whether through the intention to draw up faster, or, on a conscious in breath, with the intent to 'receive' more....xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Hello everyone.

A lot of what I'm reading here is very Interesting as it seems to show up how people use sex as a release of pent up energy or as a method of increasing it.

As a "bloke", I'm interested in methods that partners can use to delay ejaculation and/ or reduce the interval before being ready again.

Some advice like keeping good levels of fitness and muscle tone are intuitive and I'm very interested in reading other fabbers techniques for becoming a good stayer and repeater.

Please, keep this thread going!

Cheers Paul

tantric energy is about cultivating a flow..once you are in tune with that flow you can direct it..away from your genital area, prolonging ejaculation, or having full blown multiple orgasms as a full body experience, which may not even include ejaculation..

the breath work, can draw energy to or from arousal, you just have to get used to it and redeploy it where you want it...to another part of yourself, to your partner or just keep it moving...or stop it completely before starting it up again...

as a side note, those who are 'bored' and want the person to come quicker..lol... the energy can be drawn down to create pressure in the pelvic regions so they have quick but powerful orgasms..so,everyones a winner

It would be wonderful to have these techniques. Do remind us please of where and how you learned all of this. Might it take months or years to reach your level of skill.

"

i was lucky i've always known about how to use and direct energy mainly for other purposes though.if you like the label as an 'intuitive' or an 'energy sensitive'..whatever floats your boat.....and my first lover and other long term partners have either known about it,practiced it, had experiences of it, or, i have managed to introduce them to it x

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By *xoticloverMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"Nice discussion... For me all good in theory but practically have'nt made any difference on me when i have tried tantra few times

if someones blocked energetically/mentally/ emotionally it does make it difficult to get the flow going Exotic, in an ideal world youd stumble upon someone who knew what they were doing so you can experience it and then, go and 'engage' others in it afterwards..btw i have found its all about the receiving of energy, not necessarily the 'giving' or pushing of energy into or onto others, that creates the effect..

suggestion, create that pull down of energy in them, by being more conscious of pulling up the energy through yourself, whether through the intention to draw up faster, or, on a conscious in breath, with the intent to 'receive' more....xx"

So whats the first thing i need to do in order to experience that state? None of the therapist has helped me... May be i am not ready but don't what should be the first step and how should i go about it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

There are some good books and you can meditate using your chakras - I will message you some titles and also a chakra meditation

X"

Thanks; I'd better message you so you can! :P

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By *rbusyhandsMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

Not something I think I'd want to do regularly but think I could be a good thing to try...

Only issue is there's not that many tutors up here in Scotland (that I can find).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i am a lover of sexual energy , I can raise it , direct it and use it .Most of my meets dont know I practice tantra and sex magik but just comment that I have an uncanny knack to raise a horn with just the lightest touch on an arm . I have helped several men achieve male multiple orgasms which puzzled them

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way.... "

or on women who dont think they can orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

or on women who dont think they can orgasm? "

I can orgasm but it often takes a long time. I think I could squirt, but I never seem to manage that... I'm along the same thought path as you though :P

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Nice discussion... For me all good in theory but practically have'nt made any difference on me when i have tried tantra few times

if someones blocked energetically/mentally/ emotionally it does make it difficult to get the flow going Exotic, in an ideal world youd stumble upon someone who knew what they were doing so you can experience it and then, go and 'engage' others in it afterwards..btw i have found its all about the receiving of energy, not necessarily the 'giving' or pushing of energy into or onto others, that creates the effect..

suggestion, create that pull down of energy in them, by being more conscious of pulling up the energy through yourself, whether through the intention to draw up faster, or, on a conscious in breath, with the intent to 'receive' more....xx

So whats the first thing i need to do in order to experience that state? None of the therapist has helped me... May be i am not ready but don't what should be the first step and how should i go about it?"

cultivate the microcosmic orbit in yourself first....google microcosmic orbit so you can visualize it, and know where it is in your body..

intending to open yourself up too can help...other people suggest chakra opening meditations etc..i prefer to visualise a pillar or tube, that runs the length of the spine and intend to breathe up through it on a deep slow in breath...if you get shivers up or down you back..its a good sign you are starting to move the energy about xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's good to know that when I meditate and get the tingles after visualising that I'm doing something right!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wonder if it would work on women in that same way....

or on women who dont think they can orgasm?

I can orgasm but it often takes a long time. I think I could squirt, but I never seem to manage that... I'm along the same thought path as you though :P "

Im a squirter but not recently lol. If im honest, id love a mind blowing orgasm, these wobbly legs women talk about

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By *xoticloverMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"Nice discussion... For me all good in theory but practically have'nt made any difference on me when i have tried tantra few times

if someones blocked energetically/mentally/ emotionally it does make it difficult to get the flow going Exotic, in an ideal world youd stumble upon someone who knew what they were doing so you can experience it and then, go and 'engage' others in it afterwards..btw i have found its all about the receiving of energy, not necessarily the 'giving' or pushing of energy into or onto others, that creates the effect..

suggestion, create that pull down of energy in them, by being more conscious of pulling up the energy through yourself, whether through the intention to draw up faster, or, on a conscious in breath, with the intent to 'receive' more....xx

So whats the first thing i need to do in order to experience that state? None of the therapist has helped me... May be i am not ready but don't what should be the first step and how should i go about it?

cultivate the microcosmic orbit in yourself first....google microcosmic orbit so you can visualize it, and know where it is in your body..

intending to open yourself up too can help...other people suggest chakra opening meditations etc..i prefer to visualise a pillar or tube, that runs the length of the spine and intend to breathe up through it on a deep slow in breath...if you get shivers up or down you back..its a good sign you are starting to move the energy about xx"

I think i need to do more research on it rather than just visiting a therapist. Thanks for the information.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Many people can and do channel without ever knowing they are.

It isn't something I'd bother with on a meet. X

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan  over a year ago

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There are some good books and you can meditate using your chakras - I will message you some titles and also a chakra meditation

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Thanks; I'd better message you so you can! :P "

Please let us all know your sources. ..

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone.

A lot of what I'm reading here is very Interesting as it seems to show up how people use sex as a release of pent up energy or as a method of increasing it.

As a "bloke", I'm interested in methods that partners can use to delay ejaculation and/ or reduce the interval before being ready again.

Some advice like keeping good levels of fitness and muscle tone are intuitive and I'm very interested in reading other fabbers techniques for becoming a good stayer and repeater.

Please, keep this thread going!

Cheers Paul

tantric energy is about cultivating a flow..once you are in tune with that flow you can direct it..away from your genital area, prolonging ejaculation, or having full blown multiple orgasms as a full body experience, which may not even include ejaculation..

the breath work, can draw energy to or from arousal, you just have to get used to it and redeploy it where you want it...to another part of yourself, to your partner or just keep it moving...or stop it completely before starting it up again...

as a side note, those who are 'bored' and want the person to come quicker..lol... the energy can be drawn down to create pressure in the pelvic regions so they have quick but powerful orgasms..so,everyones a winner

It would be wonderful to have these techniques. Do remind us please of where and how you learned all of this. Might it take months or years to reach your level of skill.

i was lucky i've always known about how to use and direct energy mainly for other purposes though.if you like the label as an 'intuitive' or an 'energy sensitive'..whatever floats your boat.....and my first lover and other long term partners have either known about it,practiced it, had experiences of it, or, i have managed to introduce them to it x"

Tantric as a means for deeper and more meaningful sexual expression is something I would love to have more experience of ...in my experience it has been very hard to find a partner with the patience and interest in exploring the sensual possibilities ....I do feel the concept of using tantric approaches for the focus of shared sexual desire leading to shared pleasure experiences and as an outlet for expressing sexual freedom rather than a repressive approach is very interesting and positive and is something I would like to explore more .....just difficult to find an interested partner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many people can and do channel without ever knowing they are.

It isn't something I'd bother with on a meet. X"

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