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How many partners...???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am surprised no-one has yet posted this question, I suppose it could be looked upon either boastfully or shamefully, depending on your perspective. One of my mates reckons he has had over 300 different partners, and an ex girlfriend of mine who happened to be bisexual, had well over 100 of both sexes. Compared to my 10, I feel inexperienced....!
Jason
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I dont think it has anything to do with boasting or being ashamed at all.... I Just don't think anyone ever asks that question because a lot of people value "discretion" .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am surprised no-one has yet posted this question, I suppose it could be looked upon either boastfully or shamefully, depending on your perspective. One of my mates reckons he has had over 300 different partners, and an ex girlfriend of mine who happened to be bisexual, had well over 100 of both sexes. Compared to my 10, I feel inexperienced....!
Jason
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Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.
When I run out of fingers I might stop counting...."
he he "more than ten, less than a hundred?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think it has anything to do with boasting or being ashamed at all.... I Just don't think anyone ever asks that question because a lot of people value "discretion" ...."
I am sure I am not alone when I say'Fabio you are the great wise one of Fab'
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Does anybody think though, or is aware of the Number they have been with that is just 'NSA', referring to the single people that is.. as sure the original poster said his mate has been with 300 women... but if that mate of his was to meet a girl whom he liked more, that person may be very put off with his 300... i feel obliged to make a THIS IS SPARTA joke here, hes been with the SPARTAN 300 if they were woman... but get what I mean? Any single people AWARE of the number they have been with and how it may affect future potential relationships? And sure if it bothers a potential life partner then their loss etc but.. yano? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.
When I run out of fingers I might stop counting...."
are you from norfolk then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.
When I run out of fingers I might stop counting....
are you from norfolk then "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never asked anyone how many sexual partners they've had: why would you?!!
Also find it strange if someone is on a site where meeting strangers for sex is the order of the day would feel affronted if a potential girlfriend wasn't a vestal virgin!
Blimey: the things I read on this site!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anybody think though, or is aware of the Number they have been with that is just 'NSA', referring to the single people that is.. as sure the original poster said his mate has been with 300 women... but if that mate of his was to meet a girl whom he liked more, that person may be very put off with his 300... i feel obliged to make a THIS IS SPARTA joke here, hes been with the SPARTAN 300 if they were woman... but get what I mean? Any single people AWARE of the number they have been with and how it may affect future potential relationships? And sure if it bothers a potential life partner then their loss etc but.. yano? lol"
Well he will be 36 in April next year and he started very young. The 300 is his own estimate, and includes all experimenting at a young age, through adolescence, teenage years, the drink filled parties in Ibiza and Corfu etc, up till his current spouse with whom he is due to marry and who his children are by.
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"How am I meant to keep count when I am not even sure how many are in the room sometimes  "
Exactly! Once we used to exchange names but when the playroom I crowded and the action is hot that no longer happens.
We have both genuinely lost count. He was up to 50 before he stopped, and that was years ago before we started swinging. |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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Are we counting people we had intercourse with if so, i know my number and its well not very big lol
if we counting peope you played with then its not very big ever boy do i need to get out more.
sue |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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Are we counting people we had intercourse with if so, i know my number and its well not very big lol
if we counting peope you played with then its not very big ever boy do i need to get out more.
sue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we counting people we had intercourse with if so, i know my number and its well not very big lol
if we counting peope you played with then its not very big ever boy do i need to get out more.
sue"
Like I said earlier, quality over quantity but I also appreciate the flipside, for those of us who enjoy the club scene, its going be difficult to keep count once the fun begins, you have much more on your mind..
I think as long as your enjoying what you do it doesn't really matter how few or how many, what matters is how good the experiences are.
100 crap shags is the same as 1 crap shag in my book, 1 fantastic session with however many people present, beats the other any day of the week. |
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It is an irrelevant question really. Aside from the whole discretion issue, what exactly does it tell you?
It's just a meaningless number that tells you absolutely nothing about the person. So apart from some prurient interest, it really doesn't serve any purpose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is an irrelevant question really. Aside from the whole discretion issue, what exactly does it tell you?
It's just a meaningless number that tells you absolutely nothing about the person. So apart from some prurient interest, it really doesn't serve any purpose. "
Couldn't agree more.Too much - how many,how big,how often...et al.There is an obsession with numbers here! |
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