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over a year ago
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I mean in a sexual way... I sometimes read posts on here and go to write a reply and realise that to people that don't know me my response may sound ridiculous...
I have over the last few years found that some things I was scared of , or scared to try have actually not only not been all bad but I know can't work out how I managed without.. yet there are other parts of my sexual likes that for all my experimenting I know they are not for me and that I still can't always grasp the logic behind things.
Yes this is very vague as I am not asking people for specific things but just in general... Do you ever have moments where you question your own reasons or reactions?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mean in a sexual way... I sometimes read posts on here and go to write a reply and realise that to people that don't know me my response may sound ridiculous...
I have over the last few years found that some things I was scared of , or scared to try have actually not only not been all bad but I know can't work out how I managed without.. yet there are other parts of my sexual likes that for all my experimenting I know they are not for me and that I still can't always grasp the logic behind things.
Yes this is very vague as I am not asking people for specific things but just in general... Do you ever have moments where you question your own reasons or reactions?
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Yes I do. More often than i'd like
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I don't, when it comes to replying, not really bothered what people think of me. I think that's a bad sign, like i'm a sociopath or have bad interpersonal skills, but i'm not bothered so it doesnt affect me. 
I do actually have a good understanding of psyche, so can understand why certain people like certain things and don't judge them for it. Peoples likes are often not as simple as choosing to like them, i'm not even sure if free will exists or not.
What i do not understand is how people have a favourite anything, how can they only choose to like one thing more than anything else? |
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"I don't, when it comes to replying, not really bothered what people think of me. I think that's a bad sign, like i'm a sociopath or have bad interpersonal skills, but i'm not bothered so it doesnt affect me.
I do actually have a good understanding of psyche, so can understand why certain people like certain things and don't judge them for it. Peoples likes are often not as simple as choosing to like them, i'm not even sure if free will exists or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't, when it comes to replying, not really bothered what people think of me. I think that's a bad sign, like i'm a sociopath or have bad interpersonal skills, but i'm not bothered so it doesnt affect me.
I do actually have a good understanding of psyche, so can understand why certain people like certain things and don't judge them for it. Peoples likes are often not as simple as choosing to like them, i'm not even sure if free will exists or not.
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"I mean in a sexual way... I sometimes read posts on here and go to write a reply and realise that to people that don't know me my response may sound ridiculous...
I have over the last few years found that some things I was scared of , or scared to try have actually not only not been all bad but I know can't work out how I managed without.. yet there are other parts of my sexual likes that for all my experimenting I know they are not for me and that I still can't always grasp the logic behind things.
Yes this is very vague as I am not asking people for specific things but just in general... Do you ever have moments where you question your own reasons or reactions?
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I've questioned myself many times and I think discovering your likes/dislikes, turn on/offs isn't an ongoing thing for most people.
But, that's why I like it here you can openly discuss sex and sexuality with a generally open/accepting attitude.
As long as you're not hurting/taking advantage of anyone font be afraid to explore yourself.
I'd hate to wake up one day knowing I'll never have the opportunity to keep trying new things again. |
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