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Rejecting Bisexual men !!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

To expand; a genuine Bisexual man is simply greedy and truly enjoy men's bodies/bit lol as well - not necessarily favours one over the other, because if he did that would have a different meaning to his sexuality

A Bisexual women is perceived as an "erotic turn on" for the man ie; two women licking each other etc - whereas two men sucking each other is / can be generally deemed as disgusting and immoral - dual standards or what ?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maibe cos its hotter to see bi women playing lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bi but doesn't mean I'm going to jump every guy the same as it means I'm not going to jump every woman.

I've had a few couples and ladies on occasions say to me they like the look of me but don't want bi guys.

I don't know if they're worried or if its some misconception or maybe they just don't like me?

Not much you can do I guess but spend more time on the ones that don't mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love bi guys

Just checking a croydon to Norwich commute on Google maps......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I not deny as a hot blooded man it is a awesome site, but as an ex swinging Bi MF couple, most of our meets where with Bi men, my female partner at that time, loved it seeing me play - nothing heavy - so we made it a rule never to meet "straight" only

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We love bi guys

Yes L n D . but your a rare couple you'd have to admit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Its called 'preference' to some. To others its fear of catching the ghey..

And to others..its fear of catching a std..

I like bi males myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love bi guys

Just checking a croydon to Norwich commute on Google maps......"

Lol. Mr General doesn't fancy guys but enjoys female and male bodies - it just adds a whole new dimension to play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am just me I like all sex with guys and girls I meet as a cd and I meet as a guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, I personally enjoy watching bi porn (a couple with another bi man or woman involved). However, Marc is straight. So, even if it is something I enjoy watching, we wouldn't meet a bi guy because Marc isn't into it and I would rather have an extra guy who is completely interested in me. Attention seeking? Yes, but it's what I like. So while we don't have a rule against meeting bi guys, we wouldn't necessarily seek them out for a threesome because it's not what we are looking for.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I'd say it's down to people's own insecurities rather than your shortcomings. You have none. You are you. People aren't anti you, just how they'll feel when they're with you.

Does that even make sense? It does in my head!

I'd feel odd not even knowing if I was the person's preferred gender, only because I'm not very experienced with bi guys and have only had one experience, which ended badly.

I feel ambiguous about being with a bisexual man, because I'd worry about feeling second best, by not having the right equipment.

I know it sounds silly, but that's how I feel about it, personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Its called 'preference' to some. To others its fear of catching the ghey..

And to others..its fear of catching a std..

I like bi males myself.

I think that pretty much sums it up perfectly. Covers all of the dynamics possible

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

"We love bi guys

Just checking a croydon to Norwich commute on Google maps......

Lol. Mr General doesn't fancy guys but enjoys female and male bodies - it just adds a whole new dimension to play."

More mature i get more i agree with this...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own

We tend to not be interested in straight guys.

V xx

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

From previous threads, of which there are...Lots...ig seems that to some, men having sex with men, imasculates them.

Not sure why. Had a friend who loved to fuck guys with a strap on...but only straight ones.

Not off here either.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

as a bisexual man....... I couldn't care less if people exclude me from their consideration based solely on my sexuality.

Couldn't care less

I am happy to exclude people based on almost anything that takes my fancy, so I would be a hypocrite to care the other way....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I laugh at st8 guys messaging me saying they are straight but up for suck fun and being fucked lolol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had bi bfs and bi guys for nsa. Doesnt bother me

I find it kinda sexy which i wouldnt of realised before i came here...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Because we live in a crappy society that punishes anyone that isn't a heterosexual, middle class, white dude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love bi guys

Just checking a croydon to Norwich commute on Google maps......

Lol. Mr General doesn't fancy guys but enjoys female and male bodies - it just adds a whole new dimension to play."

Lol. So that's not a no.... Ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally, I'd say it's down to people's own insecurities rather than your shortcomings. You have none. You are you. People aren't anti you, just how they'll feel when they're with you.

Does that even make sense? It does in my head!

I'd feel odd not even knowing if I was the person's preferred gender, only because I'm not very experienced with bi guys and have only had one experience, which ended badly.

I feel ambiguous about being with a bisexual man, because I'd worry about feeling second best, by not having the right equipment.

I know it sounds silly, but that's how I feel about it, personally."

From looking at you I can 100% say you have the right tools

Pretty sure all bi guys would agree too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love a bi girlfriend even at time if she only wanted ff fun but tbh it's hard to find suitable matches that are not one off never to be seen again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have any insecurities whatsoever it more to do with others being honest in what they really want

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating."

What a negative and pathetic statement your implying gays are not allowed to donate blood so if a bird has sex with a guy he donates but doesn't know she had sex with a bi guy??? What an insulting statement

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Sorry to chop up your post but I feel like I already know what bisexual means.

I'm curious as to where you got your info? Do you know virtually all the bi men on fab? And you're speaking for them all? Do they know that?

I like the bi boys too... and girls for that matter. I'm curious as to whether I've just met the ones you aren't virtually talking about.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating."

I avoid donating blood for exactly this reason. They need to update their discriminatory rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love bi guys

Just checking a croydon to Norwich commute on Google maps......

Lol. Mr General doesn't fancy guys but enjoys female and male bodies - it just adds a whole new dimension to play.

Lol. So that's not a no.... Ha "

Not at all lol - just looked at your profile can't see you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ave only met guys and one f/m couple so far but hey a keep trying

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Its called 'preference' to some. To others its fear of catching the ghey..

And to others..its fear of catching a std..

I like bi males myself.

Hi Belle - thank you for replonding and I so pleased many have.

The STD things is far more prevalent in heterosexual relationships - but would agree its a perception that Bi men all go round fuck bums and being filthy dirty, that's feed that preconception - we to have testing and we to have moral responsibilities - and to really really throw spanner in the works, us Bisexual men who are other married or attached have a bigger vested interest in staying safe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

Tell the NHS. They make the fucking rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Am just me I like all sex with guys and girls I meet as a cd and I meet as a guy

well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"us Bisexual men who are other married or attached have a bigger vested interest in staying safe"

I always wondered if bisexual men who are playing away inform their wife that they cannot donate blood anymore - and what excuse they give for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Because we live in a crappy society that punishes anyone that isn't a heterosexual, middle class, white dude."

I guess we that are Bisexual - male or female - stand out at crowded swingers party or club lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

He was speaking the truth me thinks. Neither pathetic or insulting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

He was speaking the truth me thinks. Neither pathetic or insulting. "

And of course - it's true that gay men who are actively having sexual contact with men are not allowed to give blood.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Afternoon all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Sorry to chop up your post but I feel like I already know what bisexual means.

I'm curious as to where you got your info? Do you know virtually all the bi men on fab? And you're speaking for them all? Do they know that?

I like the bi boys too... and girls for that matter. I'm curious as to whether I've just met the ones you aren't virtually talking about.

sorry you was offended with my general over_iew of the world of swinging/sex dating and bi men - I have been bisexual for best part of 30 years and on and off this site and one other welcome adult site as a moderator and whilst id agree that I am no expert, its in my opinion that Bi men are not high on the list of single women or MF couples - but I am happy to accept that if statics state otherwise to accept thet point of _iew as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maibe cos its hotter to see bi women playing lol

No it isn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

I avoid donating blood for exactly this reason. They need to update their discriminatory rules.

I refer to one of the answers earlier, STD tests are for BOTH sexes, us men can catch things of you women to - but again I totally accept your point of _iew and its another valid one in this day of doggy men and dark ally's lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

He was speaking the truth me thinks. Neither pathetic or insulting.

And of course - it's true that gay men who are actively having sexual contact with men are not allowed to give blood."

A don't give blood but I find it odd that wen these topics pop up others look at the negative side with their own judgements on life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, I personally enjoy watching bi porn (a couple with another bi man or woman involved). However, Marc is straight. So, even if it is something I enjoy watching, we wouldn't meet a bi guy because Marc isn't into it and I would rather have an extra guy who is completely interested in me. Attention seeking? Yes, but it's what I like. So while we don't have a rule against meeting bi guys, we wouldn't necessarily seek them out for a threesome because it's not what we are looking for.

-Courtney"

Very honest post.

I think this is where a lot of women struggle with bi guys, the fact all the attention isn't on them re: threesomes. Some women also seem to think that they've to compete against men as well as women regards a bi guy's attention - it just doesn't work like that.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reject most bi men on the basis I don't fancy them... simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

He was speaking the truth me thinks. Neither pathetic or insulting.

And of course - it's true that gay men who are actively having sexual contact with men are not allowed to give blood."

well put - as an active and 100% clear blood doner, I totally agree its our moral duty to not put me and others at risk - but lets be clear here (sorry for crudeness that flows) a man fucking another man BB etc is possibly at same risk as a man fucking a women BB - but a man orally sexual with another man outs him at no more level a risk than women giving her hubby/partner a BJ - does it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am so pleased that this topic as been discussed lots and hope it continues - thanks - I knew it is controversial and accept that there are many opposing _iews, but its good to see it being discussed - thanks again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I was saying why focus on just the gay side in an earlier note as to not being bi there's no end of reasons bi guys don't get meets and being a blood donor is very low on a reason why not

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Sorry to chop up your post but I feel like I already know what bisexual means.

I'm curious as to where you got your info? Do you know virtually all the bi men on fab? And you're speaking for them all? Do they know that?

I like the bi boys too... and girls for that matter. I'm curious as to whether I've just met the ones you aren't virtually talking about.

Oh I'm not at all offended, it takes a whole lot to do that. It just made me chuckle, no need to be defensive.

I've no idea what the statistics say either and I'm not sure years of experience come into it, I'm just curious as to why you think that. The responses so far seem to indicate that lots of people like the bisexual boys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get an average of around 15 messages a day even with filters and it's all to do with preferences and choices

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x"

I completely get where you're coming from. And just to be clear, we don't rule out bi guys...they just haven't ever been what we have sought out. To be honest, we were once close to having a threesome with a bi guy, but he started talking about how he is into playing with men, and would play with Marc if we were up for it, etc. And it put us off because, as I mentioned, Marc is straight and it felt a bit like he was only really meeting us in order to play with a straight guy. It has made us more cautious I think.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

Sadly that actually is a thing, if you're a man who engages in anal sex with another man you cannot give blood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Because we live in a crappy society that punishes anyone that isn't a heterosexual, middle class, white dude.

I guess we that are Bisexual - male or female - stand out at crowded swingers party or club lol

Maybe I should stop bringing my flashing bi arrow with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Because the majority of straight men are up their own arse so far that they meet the single women from this site in their

But on a lighter bi men are less likely to flip out in a Mr mr Mrs situation , where as straight men are ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

Sadly that actually is a thing, if you're a man who engages in anal sex with another man you cannot give blood"

So a man who as anal sex with his wife is ok then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Starcock posted a topic today called "Asians" all about why is that Asian men seem to be side stepped etc

On a similar wavelength, why is it that virtually all genuine Bi men rarely have meets with single women/MF couples on Fab?

JP stands back to see how this unfolds

Because the majority of straight men are up their own arse so far that they meet the single women from this site in their

But on a lighter bi men are less likely to flip out in a Mr mr Mrs situation , where as straight men are , "

pmsl ' reply thanks

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If they are blood donors they will avoid men who have sex with other men, as it would preclude them from donating.

I avoid donating blood for exactly this reason. They need to update their discriminatory rules.

I think you misunderstand my point. If blood was properly tested, it wouldn't make any odds who's sleeping with whom. I'm not saying women don't pass on STIs, just that the system for blood donation needs closer inspection and perhaps an update.

I have gay friends who are in a long term, completely monogamous relationship. They aren't permitted to give blood.

I've had safe sex with bisexual men. I'm not allowed to give blood.

I'm pretty sure there are a load of 'straight' men here who are married yet have had sex with men. I'm willing to bet they haven't told their wives about it. The wives are off donating blood, blissfully unaware when they're ticking the 'never had sex with a man who's had sex with another man' box.

Still... that's probably a topic for a different thread. Sorry to hijack.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I rejected them if they have no style sense, god made them bi and they are dressing in such a way that is abhorrent to me and that is a travesty that I will not forgive...

straight guys not dressing well, I get and I feel their pain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We prefer bi guys when meeting single guys, we both love it, however it's hard to find a genuine bi guy,for us to meet one there status clearly must say they are bi,too many straight guys claiming to be bi just to get a meet, claiming they don't state it on there profile as it puts females or couples off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally, I'd say it's down to people's own insecurities rather than your shortcomings. You have none. You are you. People aren't anti you, just how they'll feel when they're with you.

Does that even make sense? It does in my head!

I'd feel odd not even knowing if I was the person's preferred gender, only because I'm not very experienced with bi guys and have only had one experience, which ended badly.

I feel ambiguous about being with a bisexual man, because I'd worry about feeling second best, by not having the right equipment.

I know it sounds silly, but that's how I feel about it, personally."

Ditto. I agree with this. I've seen profiles saying Caucasian only which is no different. I'm not offended by it because everyone has their preferences.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Sod em toots. Everyone has their own preferences, don't take it personally.

I prefer bi men. No interest in straight men at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's very few bi couples in the area I live that want a bi guy that I find we match but then again am not spending 30 minutes to 2 hours getting dressed for a couple to turn up and he's a 20 stone heffer with a 4inch willy

Like it is if a get branded timewaster, shallow a don't care Ave my standards and choices.. I am not everyone's cup of tea and they are not all mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly, which is why I am wary. Also, STI's are statistically higher with male/male groups.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

*Too busy counting fucks to care*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sod em toots. Everyone has their own preferences, don't take it personally.

I prefer bi men. No interest in straight men at all

Completely understand. I'm on my way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*Too busy counting fucks to care*"

Funny thing most blokes lie and if they lie about sexuality are they lying about hiv or sti

Just because someone belongs to s safe group of low risk of catching the clap doesn't mean you won't get anything

And let's be realistic why bother asking unless your going bareback , which case you know the risks.

Actually why doesn't someone start a thread about the Chinese ,

Had the kiddy groomers

Mother in law

Blacks

Asians

Jews

Bareback

Pregnant

Might make a changed

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia."

So all gay/bi guys are non masculine?

I'll tell Gareth Thomas that.

Preferences are to be respected at all times.

Stereotypes most certainly aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia.

So all gay/bi guys are non masculine?

I'll tell Gareth Thomas that.

Preferences are to be respected at all times.

Stereotypes most certainly aren't.

That is not what I said but feel free to misread my post any way you wish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia.

So all gay/bi guys are non masculine?

I'll tell Gareth Thomas that.

Preferences are to be respected at all times.

Stereotypes most certainly aren't.

That is not what I said but feel free to misread my post any way you wish."

Okie doke honky tonks lol

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia.

So all gay/bi guys are non masculine?

I'll tell Gareth Thomas that.

Preferences are to be respected at all times.

Stereotypes most certainly aren't.

That is not what I said but feel free to misread my post any way you wish."

I didn't misread.

I read it.

And I posted based on the perception the words gave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What amuses me somewhat is the number of profile of bisexual women that actively reject bi guys. Their openminded enough to fancy playing with their own sex but not enough to judge guys on their individual merits...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the end of the day it's all down to personal preferences simple as that

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"At the end of the day it's all down to personal preferences simple as that "

Yep!!

I'd be amazed by anyone who could tell someone's sexuality purely by sight though. (Assuming they're not camped up to the eyeballs!)

I'd lay good money on the assumption that some people averse to bi guys will have potentially played with them in club situations.

I've yet to see single guys wearing labels in any swinging venues yet.

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By *oungladMan over a year ago

Burnham

I was fortunate enough to find a bi friendly crowd, though there are still quite a few people who don't want to touch bi guys because of the ewwww.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a really good mate he's very camp but straight as a dye he don't mind bi gay or whatever but he loves his pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit late to the thread, but I personally love bi guys and girls. I find the the fluidity of sexuality fascinating and hugely erotic.

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By *azLilyCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

As a couple we are almost always over looked because we are both bi. Generally because of the MM interaction. People don't like it.

I have to say that having seen many threads on fab about 90% of women on here loving MM interaction why aren't there more bi men on here ?!

You don't see men (straight or bi) say they don't like watching two women. And let's face it there lots of bi / curious women on here.

Just have fun give it a go. It's naughty for some, kinky for others and yes like me others are just greedy.

Happy fapping..... Sorry I meant fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit late to the thread, but I personally love bi guys and girls. I find the the fluidity of sexuality fascinating and hugely erotic."

That's one nice statement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maibe cos its hotter to see bi women playing lol

Not true!

I'd LOVE an mmmf with three hot as fuck bi guys - with them playing together and playing with me too! I'd happily invest in a strap-on for that little scenario!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We prefer bi guys when meeting single guys, we both love it, however it's hard to find a genuine bi guy,for us to meet one there status clearly must say they are bi,too many straight guys claiming to be bi just to get a meet, claiming they don't state it on there profile as it puts females or couples off

Tell them the guys will play first while the female watches. That makes the real straight guys run away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What amuses me somewhat is the number of profile of bisexual women that actively reject bi guys. Their openminded enough to fancy playing with their own sex but not enough to judge guys on their individual merits..."

Bisexual women and bisexual men are not the same thing. It's nothing to do with being bisexual themselves.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan over a year ago

newbury

Interesting discussion...I've recently changed my profile to bi-curious and it's definately had an impact. I love bi-play, although only with certain couples - I guess that's the part of the hetero/gay spectrum that I'm on. I don't fancy other guys in the slightest, although interaction as part of a sexy group works for me. As someone with a background in medicine I know that STD rates can be quite high in the more promiscuous section of the gay community (ditto heterosexuals of course!), and playing with sensible swinging couples strikes me as much more sensible - and it is anyway something I feel more comfortable with (I wouldn't feel comfortable with just a guy on his own). However since 'declaring an interest on Fabs (versus 'coming out' I guess) there is a lot less interest. I'm almost tempeted to revert to a 'straight' profile, although that would exclude couples who like a guy to state that he's bi before they meet. What a conundrum....!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting discussion...I've recently changed my profile to bi-curious and it's definately had an impact. I love bi-play, although only with certain couples - I guess that's the part of the hetero/gay spectrum that I'm on. I don't fancy other guys in the slightest, although interaction as part of a sexy group works for me. As someone with a background in medicine I know that STD rates can be quite high in the more promiscuous section of the gay community (ditto heterosexuals of course!), and playing with sensible swinging couples strikes me as much more sensible - and it is anyway something I feel more comfortable with (I wouldn't feel comfortable with just a guy on his own). However since 'declaring an interest on Fabs (versus 'coming out' I guess) there is a lot less interest. I'm almost tempeted to revert to a 'straight' profile, although that would exclude couples who like a guy to state that he's bi before they meet. What a conundrum....!!

!!"

Yes it is - and an unfair one in my eyes!!

My profile says I'm straight as I'm 'bi-fussy' - ie a woman has to be pretty gorgeous for me to want to play with her - but I've been lucky enough to meet quite a few!

No one has yet berated me for being misleading on my profile though!

Single guys simply get a shit deal on fab/in swinging clubs/ at parties etc all round I'm afraid - and the bi/bi-curious/straight thing is just another part of it!!

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"Sod em toots. Everyone has their own preferences, don't take it personally.

I prefer bi men. No interest in straight men at all

Completely understand. I'm on my way

ha "

I'll pop the kettle on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A think i am too fussy at times if they don't tick my boxes a don't meet, a get lots of offers one thing I've noticed females hold the cards on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a couple we are almost always over looked because we are both bi. Generally because of the MM interaction. People don't like it.

I have to say that having seen many threads on fab about 90% of women on here loving MM interaction why aren't there more bi men on here ?!

You don't see men (straight or bi) say they don't like watching two women. And let's face it there lots of bi / curious women on here.

Just have fun give it a go. It's naughty for some, kinky for others and yes like me others are just greedy.

Happy fapping..... Sorry I meant fabbing

I actively look for couples like you that are both bi. I would think that should be the case too for most bi guys that want a MMF threesome. It seems many "straight" guys however are actually bi but it's their loss if they miss out on a couples search fir bi guys!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Tattoos are popular, right? Let's just give everyone a tatt with their label.

I've lost count of the number of men who would like me to be bi for a meet but balk at the thought of reciprocating when I suggest it for them to please me.

SOME people won't meet bi men, SOME people will. Concentrate on the ones who will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tattoos are popular, right? Let's just give everyone a tatt with their label.

I've lost count of the number of men who would like me to be bi for a meet but balk at the thought of reciprocating when I suggest it for them to please me.

SOME people won't meet bi men, SOME people will. Concentrate on the ones who will.

I agree! And let's face it - if it feels good go with it in my _iew - why get so hung up on labels and phobias? Chill people - we are here to have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only meet those that like a good piss up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tattoos are popular, right? Let's just give everyone a tatt with their label.

I've lost count of the number of men who would like me to be bi for a meet but balk at the thought of reciprocating when I suggest it for them to please me.

SOME people won't meet bi men, SOME people will. Concentrate on the ones who will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be amazed by anyone who could tell someone's sexuality purely by sight though. (Assuming they're not camped up to the eyeballs!)"

I have some incredibly masculine gay and bisexual friends.

And some incredibly camp straight friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't fancy other guys in the slightest, although interaction as part of a sexy group works for me. ... (I wouldn't feel comfortable with just a guy on his own). However since 'declaring an interest on Fabs (versus 'coming out' I guess) there is a lot less interest. I'm almost tempeted to revert to a 'straight' profile, although that would exclude couples who like a guy to state that he's bi before they meet. What a conundrum....!!

!!"

One of my male partners is bisexual and we have threesomes with other men. We won't meet men that won't meet men one to one. In our experience guys like that have little interest in playing with him, so he gets sidelined while the guy wants to give all his attention to me. That doesn't work for us at all.

We also won't meet men who pretend they're straight just to get laid more with women. It's dishonest and it puts people in a difficult situation when it comes to making choices based on personal preferences, as well as donating blood and being honest at the sexual health clinic.

In addition, we feel that if you will pretend to be straight just to sleep with people who are a bit homophobic and won't have sex with bisexual men, then you're doing a massive disservice to both yourself and the wider LGBT community. Having sex with people who would not want to have sex with you if you knew that you were actually into men isn't a very nice thing to do to yourself, and we simply don't want to have sex with people who enjoy that kind of thing.

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By *oungladMan over a year ago

Burnham

It's a shame you're not closer to London. You both sound like a fantastic couple whom is like to get a drink with. It's very rare to meet a couple with a bi make wish there were more of you

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x"

Reading through the messages, so expect to hear more, as Mrs here, partner or bi male. How interesting your comment on some women struggling with bi guys because the focus is not only on them --- see and experience this all the time, on here and out and about. Love bi men and love seeing Mr playing with them, because I am not into the attention always being on me, why should it be? We are a couple, and swing to get his needs met as much as mine .... love to share a bi male, of course, but we don't have too many tastes in common ...

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By *uyfromchiMan over a year ago

CHICHESTER

Personel pref with people i suppose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is lots of couples who like bi men and others that don't it's there choice op just like it is on age and colour , personally we like bi men

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia.

So all gay/bi guys are non masculine?

I'll tell Gareth Thomas that.

Preferences are to be respected at all times.

Stereotypes most certainly aren't.

I better tell Mr, working on the building site with all his muscles that he cannot in fact be bi because he is hairy (bearded at the moment, and certainly when he is not waxed) and has lots of muscles - oh no, wait, someone is going to tell me only bi guys get waxed now??

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I am still trying to muster up a teensy weensy bit of angst over it,, ...........

nope..... still not happening

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fantasy guy for many women is an old fashioned mans man. Big, hairy with lots of muscles.

It certainly is for me!

That fantasy is just not compatible in my fantasies with a gay or bi guy. Sorry but it is nothing to do with fear of std's, intolerance or any such thing.

It is simply preference.

It is strange that having no interests in involving bi or gay guys in our sex life so often involves us in suggestions of some form of homophobia.

So all gay/bi guys are non masculine?

I'll tell Gareth Thomas that.

Preferences are to be respected at all times.

Stereotypes most certainly aren't.

Yeah, I need to tell my great big gypsy fella that he can't snog blokes occasionally anymore because he's got to fulfil stereotypes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The number of meets we get went down when I put Bi-curious on our profile, but I'd rather be honest about it as to not be is just kidding myself and other people. However meets are of better quality and neither Mrs N or I would have it any other way.

It could be because we're older of course as to why we don't get so many meet requests but that's another thing isn't it ? Playing with old farts like us isn't everyones preference so we take that in the same heart.

Each to their own preference we'd say and trying to convince people otherwise is a pretty pointless exercise.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan over a year ago

newbury

Yes it is - and an unfair one in my eyes!!

My profile says I'm straight as I'm 'bi-fussy' - ie a woman has to be pretty gorgeous for me to want to play with her - but I've been lucky enough to meet quite a few!

No one has yet berated me for being misleading on my profile though!

Single guys simply get a shit deal on fab/in swinging clubs/ at parties etc all round I'm afraid - and the bi/bi-curious/straight thing is just another part of it!!

Aw...thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I liked this answer:"..., I would rather have an extra guy who is completely interested in me."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sitting here on my couch stuffing popcorn watching the endless debate...

Most men will claim they are from the Moon or Jupiter, if they that gets them into an f's undies.

I (f) am fully bi for myself and not lipstick bi - but many f's are pressured into having f/f fun by their partners and bingo there goes the next row overboard.

My hubby is laidback bi..laughs..means he's really not bothered. As he spent years abroad his attitude to sex is more liberal minded then most. Think we all should live some years abroad and pick up that attitude of open minded to all ... might help.

Sits back watches from the red couch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am still trying to muster up a teensy weensy bit of angst over it,, ...........

nope..... still not happening"

Squeeze harder.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Sitting here on my couch stuffing popcorn watching the endless debate...

Most men will claim they are from the Moon or Jupiter, if they that gets them into an f's undies.

I (f) am fully bi for myself and not lipstick bi - but many f's are pressured into having f/f fun by their partners and bingo there goes the next row overboard.

Sits back watches from the red couch "

post of the thread

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"I am still trying to muster up a teensy weensy bit of angst over it,, ...........

nope..... still not happening

Squeeze harder.

I am still pushing through........ but still nowt.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A bi guy is just a guy if he's meeting me alone.

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

"Sitting here on my couch stuffing popcorn watching the endless debate...

Most men will claim they are from the Moon or Jupiter, if they that gets them into an f's undies.

I (f) am fully bi for myself and not lipstick bi - but many f's are pressured into having f/f fun by their partners and bingo there goes the next row overboard.

Sits back watches from the red couch "

Which coutry would you recommend?

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan over a year ago

newbury

"A bi guy is just a guy if he's meeting me alone."

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan over a year ago

newbury

"Sitting here on my couch stuffing popcorn watching the endless debate...

Most men will claim they are from the Moon or Jupiter, if they that gets them into an f's undies.

I (f) am fully bi for myself and not lipstick bi - but many f's are pressured into having f/f fun by their partners and bingo there goes the next row overboard.

Sits back watches from the red couch "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't enjoy kissing a man but sucking a cock or sharing one is a turn on.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Would the bi men who find me even mildly attractive sort out whether they find each other attractive and let me know when you have three or four for me to choose from? Thanks, in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's down to everyone to have their preferences and choices and think they should be respected.

We wouldn't rule another couple or single out if they are Bi though, we'd just expect our preferences/limits to be respected, some will be ok with that, others not.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I think it's down to everyone to have their preferences and choices and think they should be respected.

We wouldn't rule another couple or single out if they are Bi though, we'd just expect our preferences/limits to be respected, some will be ok with that, others not.

Good point. We are both bi but that does not mean we have to play with there person of the same sex, or the person of the other sex - nor does it mean we won't respect preferences. Sometimes we do get a little fed up with people who think we either try to turn everyone or we will play with everyone - we are actually quite discerning ....

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

maybe the thought oh a guys dick going in another guys dirt-box puts them off.in reality lots of straight men are orally bi and arent into anal anyway ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's all do pegging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is - and an unfair one in my eyes!!

My profile says I'm straight as I'm 'bi-fussy' - ie a woman has to be pretty gorgeous for me to want to play with her - but I've been lucky enough to meet quite a few!

No one has yet berated me for being misleading on my profile though!

Single guys simply get a shit deal on fab/in swinging clubs/ at parties etc all round I'm afraid - and the bi/bi-curious/straight thing is just another part of it!!

Aw...thanks!

No worries! White knights can be female too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally, I'd say it's down to people's own insecurities rather than your shortcomings. You have none. You are you. People aren't anti you, just how they'll feel when they're with you.

Does that even make sense? It does in my head!

I'd feel odd not even knowing if I was the person's preferred gender, only because I'm not very experienced with bi guys and have only had one experience, which ended badly.

I feel ambiguous about being with a bisexual man, because I'd worry about feeling second best, by not having the right equipment.

I know it sounds silly, but that's how I feel about it, personally."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A bisexual man would not bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maibe cos its hotter to see bi women playing lol

I disagree

I love bi men i love 3sums with two bi guys it's my favourate sexual pass time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only difference between bi and straight is 4 cans of special brew

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Maibe cos its hotter to see bi women playing lol

I disagree

I love bi men i love 3sums with two bi guys it's my favourate sexual pass time

It's also my porn of choice!

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By *razedcatMan over a year ago

London / Herts

I have to admit, whilst some people are put off bi guys, there are a hell of a lot of others who love it. I don't think this is in the same category as the Asian discussion from earlier.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A bi guy is just a guy if he's meeting me alone."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only difference between bi and straight is 4 cans of special brew

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"maybe the thought oh a guys dick going in another guys dirt-box puts them off.in reality lots of straight men are orally bi and arent into anal anyway .."

And yet some of those men will enjoy anal with a woman and then think nothing of expecting the woman to suck that cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Back when I was 21 on another site I met a few 'straight' couples but as time progressed each of the guys in the couples had told me they were bi.. But couldn't tell the missus! I was quite cute though, maybe I just turned them lol.

X Leo

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have to admit, whilst some people are put off bi guys, there are a hell of a lot of others who love it. I don't think this is in the same category as the Asian discussion from earlier. "

Plus it's much easier to pretend to be fully heterosexual (or married or whatever the disclosure omission happens to be). Hiding your colour and ethnicity is way harder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not into anal at all with either sex.. Rimming and teasing yes though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Back when I was 21 on another site I met a few 'straight' couples but as time progressed each of the guys in the couples had told me they were bi.. But couldn't tell the missus! I was quite cute though, maybe I just turned them lol.

X Leo "

You still are cute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I set my search parameters to include only bi couples.

If a profile captures my eye then I will open it and the first think i will check is their preferences, if they exclude me then I close it and move on.

I cannot change other peoples assumptions about me......and don't want to play with those that don't want to play with me...

...unless they have jaffa cakes...do they have jaffa cakes???

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By *laire888Woman over a year ago

Gloucester

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x"

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me. "

Can I just clarify - I'm not struggling with anything. Part of the reason why I am here is because I enjoy the attention of two (or more) men. And Marc is straight, so he isn't interested in another man anyway. If I were on here as a single woman, I would happily meet two bi men. But I'm not, so my interests are different. There is no struggle.

-Courtney

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me.

-Courtney"

Bi guys can meet couples with straight men and concentrate purely on the woman.

It confuses me as to why anyone thinks otherwise.

Would a straight couple not meet another couple to swap partners because the woman in the other couple is bi?

Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

They'd enjoy that too much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me.

-Courtney

Bi guys can meet couples with straight men and concentrate purely on the woman.

It confuses me as to why anyone thinks otherwise.

Would a straight couple not meet another couple to swap partners because the woman in the other couple is bi?

Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

You have completely overstated what I have said. I never said anything about "pouncing." I have expressed over and again that I personally enjoy male on male play. I have also said that we do not rule out meeting bi men.

What I have also said, is just that we don't seek out bi men. If we happen to talk to a bi man and if we like him, we may meet. It hasn't happened yet, but it is a possibility. The OP asked why MF couples and women seem to play less with bi guys, and I was trying to give what I perceive as an explanation from the point of _iew of a straight MF couple.

Please don't overstate it and make it sound like my post was homophobic and as if I am afraid of anyone "pouncing" anyone else.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you changed the word 'straight' for 'gay' in this thread most of the commentors w,ould be called homophobic about trying to convert homosexuals to heterosexuality. I am not in any way trying to compare the horrendous treatment of gay people down the millenia and currently to this thread. What I am hoping to set is if you are bi go do your thing. But just because some bi men claim to be straight does not mean others who claim to be straight are secretly bi. I am opposed to unfair discrimination against anyone. But the only rule in fab is that people have their preferences and no matter how absurd they should be respected. To quote someone look for the people who want to meet you and don't worry about those who dont. As there seems to be a lot of bi threads and a lot of love being shown for bi people and bi sex. Yes there are haters but they always are.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me.

-Courtney

Bi guys can meet couples with straight men and concentrate purely on the woman.

It confuses me as to why anyone thinks otherwise.

Would a straight couple not meet another couple to swap partners because the woman in the other couple is bi?

Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

Please don't overstate it and make it sound like my post was homophobic and as if I am afraid of anyone "pouncing" anyone else.

-Courtney"

I wasn't making a personal response to you even though I quoted your post.

My response was simply in line with the theme - not specifically aimed at you. So far it's been insinuated that bi guys are less masculine (in a traditional, rugged sense) and that should they meet a couple would be less interested in the woman purely because another guy was there, even if he was straight.

Neither is true.

Apologies if you took anything personally - wasn't intended.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you changed the word 'straight' for 'gay' in this thread most of the commentors w,ould be called homophobic about trying to convert homosexuals to heterosexuality. I am not in any way trying to compare the horrendous treatment of gay people down the millenia and currently to this thread. What I am hoping to set is if you are bi go do your thing. But just because some bi men claim to be straight does not mean others who claim to be straight are secretly bi. I am opposed to unfair discrimination against anyone. But the only rule in fab is that people have their preferences and no matter how absurd they should be respected. To quote someone look for the people who want to meet you and don't worry about those who dont. As there seems to be a lot of bi threads and a lot of love being shown for bi people and bi sex. Yes there are haters but they always are."

Well put

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By *laire888Woman over a year ago

Gloucester

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me.

-Courtney"

Apologies if it read that way. I was just picking up on what Sarah had said, about struggling, rather than you'd personally struggled, your reasons are your own, and perfectly valid, just as everyone else's are

I can see why you read it that way though.

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By *teveberry123Man over a year ago

Bordesley

Yes but few are like you and even on your profile you actually say looking for Bi women and couples with the other half then stating bi-curious???.

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By *teveberry123Man over a year ago

Bordesley

My wife had to have a full blood transfusion in 87 when our youngest son was born. This was at the time when the HIV/Aids discussions were on the news daily. My wife asked if the blood had been tested and was told yes. Later having previously been a blood donater she went back to give blood. One of the questions asked was have you ever had a blood transfusion she replied truefully yes and was told she could not give blood because she had. 30 years on they still wont her give blood, confused dot com or what.

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By *teveberry123Man over a year ago

Bordesley

In that case if I'm ever up north again I will buy you a pint lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...

Bi guys can meet couples with straight men and concentrate purely on the woman.

It confuses me as to why anyone thinks otherwise.

Would a straight couple not meet another couple to swap partners because the woman in the other couple is bi?

Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

Some straight couples won't meet bi women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bi and I definitely favour women over men.

It's very rare these days I speak to a man in find remotely attractive in a sexually way

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By *teveberry123Man over a year ago

Bordesley

Old farts ha ha, younger thinner by god you have it all but your right people are pre judgmental does a 59 year hold have less sexual stamina than a man ten years younger does a plumper woman have less sexual feelings, does being bi make you any different.

Me I'd like nothing more than to get the chance to shag a 25 year old woman who enjoys the slow comforts of a man whose been there but check the profiles aint going to happen.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

-Courtney

Very honest post.

A faithful, loyal person is a faithful loyal person regardless of sexuality.

S x

Not all of us struggle with this. I would love to have a threesome with 2 guys who'd play with each other as much as with me. I'm not greedy for attention, as long as I get my share

the sight of 2 attractive men together is highly erotic for me.

-Courtney

Bi guys can meet couples with straight men and concentrate purely on the woman.

It confuses me as to why anyone thinks otherwise.

Would a straight couple not meet another couple to swap partners because the woman in the other couple is bi?

Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

Please don't overstate it and make it sound like my post was homophobic and as if I am afraid of anyone "pouncing" anyone else.

-Courtney

I wasn't making a personal response to you even though I quoted your post.

Neither is true.

Apologies if you took anything personally - wasn't intended.

A "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bi, but have a preference for women over men. I don't find two men playing attractive or erotic. I choose not to meet bi men. There's no hate there or any stereo typing - it's just a personal preference.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"...

Bi guys can meet couples with straight men and concentrate purely on the woman.

It confuses me as to why anyone thinks otherwise.

Would a straight couple not meet another couple to swap partners because the woman in the other couple is bi?

Would they assume she's likely to pounce on the female?

Some straight couples won't meet bi women. "

Some bisexual women find it a waste of bl**dy time to meet with a straight couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love bi guys

Yes L n D . but your a rare couple you'd have to admit

Not true? In many couples the guy is also bi...so a bi man is an ideal choice...in preference to a straight guy.

If the OP is finding it difficult then maybe needs to look elsewhere other than his sexuality?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a tricky one.. I wouldn't say I fancy guys I just enjoy sexuality not being an issue during play.. If a straight guy was blindfolded and received a blowjob from a guy he would still enjoy the physical sensations. Physical pleasure is just that., it doesn't mean you are camp or any less a man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bi guys are the best

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I fucked a 'straight' virgin today

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I fucked a 'straight' virgin today

Everyone says they are Virgins, we all got fucked the minute we payed tax

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a tricky one.. I wouldn't say I fancy guys I just enjoy sexuality not being an issue during play.. If a straight guy was blindfolded and received a blowjob from a guy he would still enjoy the physical sensations. Physical pleasure is just that., it doesn't mean you are camp or any less a man."

Very true with that, a lot use glory holes for same sensation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wasn't it Oscar Wilde who said something along the lines of why exclude half the world from your choice of partner/lover?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bi. But I sometimes don't show it on my profile because a lot of single women are put off by it. As though because I'm bi I'm going to want to jump in bed with a guy more than a woman. Or I'm going to give men more attention. I don't even find men attractive. I don't go out searching for men It just doesn't bother me if I have a cock in my mouth on occasion. I will always choose pussy over cock though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love a bi guy...more versatile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love a bi guy...more versatile

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love a bi guy...more versatile

Snap!"

Snap as well think the whole bi guys can't get meets as women and couples say no bi guys is a myth. Too many people try and look for reasons why they can't get a meet instead of realising that 3 word profile with 20 cock pics isn't going to attract anyone but perhaps another guy with the same kind of profile

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By *emini1637Woman over a year ago

Warwickshire

I'm very late to this post, but my porn of choice is watching two blokes, it's a real turn on for me but I've never been in a real life scenario

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm very late to this post, but my porn of choice is watching two blokes, it's a real turn on for me but I've never been in a real life scenario

"
. You should try and fix that. It's hot. V xxx

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By *ilberryMan over a year ago

Scarborough

Its the pigeon-hole debate? Bi guys are seen to be promiscuous and a high sexual risk, and that they want to turn every straight guy? Many like myself state straight! With the added bonus of not being believed to be bi or bicurious

Buggered if you do, buggered if you don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its the pigeon-hole debate? Bi guys are seen to be promiscuous and a high sexual risk, and that they want to turn every straight guy? Many like myself state straight! With the added bonus of not being believed to be bi or bicurious

Buggered if you do, buggered if you don't

Oh I don't do buggered.....just oral

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

24 hours on..... still can't feel angst

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm bi. But I sometimes don't show it on my profile because a lot of single women are put off by it. As though because I'm bi I'm going to want to jump in bed with a guy more than a woman. Or I'm going to give men more attention. I don't even find men attractive. I don't go out searching for men It just doesn't bother me if I have a cock in my mouth on occasion. I will always choose pussy over cock though"

Wouldn't put me off - you look pretty cute to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Buggered if you do, buggered if you don't

Not really, just be honest. If you're bisexual, then you're bisexual. Then we won't think you'll say anything to get laid.

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By *ilberryMan over a year ago

Scarborough

Buggered if you do, buggered if you don't

Not really, just be honest. If you're bisexual, then you're bisexual. Then we won't think you'll say anything to get laid."

Pigeon holed! I am not desperate to get laid, and will be and do as I please, and be quite happy with my Het

exible life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love bi guys too. My ex was bi curious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I laugh at st8 guys messaging me saying they are straight but up for suck fun and being fucked lolol"

I totally agree. Does make me wonder how some men see themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow! what happened to preferences?We and particularly i as the female prefer not to meet bi guys(and we meet single guys)its just not a turn on for me(in fact its a massive turn off...shoot me now its my knickers your trying to get into), and when it comes down to it, we do this for what turns us on..oh and you if you meet us!had far too many experiences with so called straight guys who turned bi a few weeks later as they couldnt get a meet..thats not fluid sexuality...its desperation

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

We've met several bi guys and never once has my OH felt threatened or worried about catching the ghey!

Personally, I don't find the idea of two men playing a turn on and the OH doesn't either but we don't exclude bi men because of it. If he's good looking with a nice personality then he has a chance to meet us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thats cool if they are honest with you...not too keen on the changing profiles from bi to straight by the day tho(and i have a very good memory)...just give us the choice to meet straight or bi guys tho..make it compulsory to stick with what sexuality you put for a month at a time at least ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love this Jp. Very good call.

I'll read the responses now.

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