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If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing will change, all we can keep doing is reporting and move on. No sense getting into a thrombo over it.
As long as there are anonymous interweb services, there'll be anonymous folk using them for skullduggery (love that word  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i guess they do it for the reading/wanking issue, i couldnt do it myself as sex talk does nothing for me or lilly for that fact, we can both take porn or leave it, meeting is for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never understood why people do it but that's the same with many things I guess.
Had it myself a couple of days ago, spotted within two messages. Some are so transparent it's laughable. |
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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago
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Guess it's fantasists who believe that their 'oh sorry she can't do the meet tonight but I still can' line will result in a meet and they will bowl you over with rakish charm and wit. Thankfully most of them seem to be really dim and easy to see through so not worth the emotional energy of getting upset about |
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"Nothing will change, all we can keep doing is reporting and move on. No sense getting into a thrombo over it.
As long as there are anonymous interweb services, there'll be anonymous folk using them for skullduggery (love that word )"
yes we agree skullduggery is a fantastic word. And much under use in our opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't stand the couple profiles that are blatantly single men. Always the same message, wife isn't playing (insert reason) but has given me full consent to play still. Yeh ok then!
Create a single guys profile then and we may take you more serious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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PMSL@ idea that some still try it on lol ---- some will recall I used to have a "couples" profile on here and my partner in crime at the time used to meet lots of people and we had the odd "odd ball" trying it on - Fake Couples mainly was our problem ie; single men pretending t be a swinging couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you correspond with them if you know they are fake? Are you just leading them on? Why not leave them to their fantasies and wanking. There's room on here for everyone.  |
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On my single female profile, I get lots of messages from couples - I only meet women one to one alone - and it states it blatantly and directly on there, otherwise I meet with my partner, from this profile. I think many people presume they have what you are looking for, best to leave them be, block and move on, and why send them pictures?? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me  |
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"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin... "
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"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me "
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me "
What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This gets my goat, I turn up for a meet and they end up turning down myself and my girlfriend...cos we aint a real couple?..its not my fault she was made in china and inflates! |
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"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me
What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not? "
Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me
What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?
Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing. "
Are you telling me that couples don't communicate with each other on here?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me
What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?
Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing.
Are you telling me that couples don't communicate with each other on here? "
The men run the profiles. The women do as they are told. It's in the Swingers Rulebook. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.
I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me
What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?
Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing.
Are you telling me that couples don't communicate with each other on here?
The men run the profiles. The women do as they are told. It's in the Swingers Rulebook. "
Damn as a single female I must teach the cat to type! I might get more luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't stand the couple profiles that are blatantly single men. Always the same message, wife isn't playing (insert reason) but has given me full consent to play still. Yeh ok then!
Create a single guys profile then and we may take you more serious."
We are a couple and I (female) am happy for Toby to play alone as do I. I am real - been verified and go on cam 2-3 times a week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can notice them profiles a Mile off and they will always ask if u got kik?lol"
And I love kik! Toby doesn't even use it but I love flirting with the guys. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How funny why would men do this call me innocent but is nt it risky getting some men all worked up expecting to meet a woman and then a man rocking up.
How do you prove you are a woman though some tvs are stunning and so feminine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw come on. The amount of 'men pretending to be women' myth is almost as fucked up as the 3 million single guys to every woman. I'm guessing that the biggest proportion of people pretending are couples. Guys in couples using their other half to entice women to play. Yeah ok. Shoot me now. Prove me wrong. Disclaimer: I don't mean all couples by any means. |
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"How funny why would men do this call me innocent but is nt it risky getting some men all worked up expecting to meet a woman and then a man rocking up.
How do you prove you are a woman though some tvs are stunning and so feminine."
Yea you're right. You look amazing but how do I know you don't have a cock? (I don't think you do by the way, I'm just confirming your point) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This gets my goat, I turn up for a meet and they end up turning down myself and my girlfriend...cos we aint a real couple?..its not my fault she was made in china and inflates!"
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Hold up a second... Some people think they know it all don't they... We have dealt with people before who have like 30 photos of a female and have sent them over a period of time even managed to send a pic we requested of her (him) putting a finger on her nose... Then arranged a meet even phoned us and put on a voice All be it suspect.. But along with the amount of pics and verification pic we asked for how would we know it wasn't a girl? Then when we ask for a meet she finally confessed that she's actually a guy but would still really like to meet... We're not pissed off ever it's just a waste of time... And slightly annoying... Maybe by highlighting it, it will hopefully bring more attention to it and the guys will stop... But here's to hoping... Each to their own and let people have their thrills but not at the cost of deceiving other people... That's pretty sick and sad |
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There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple. |
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple. "
Why send private material to people you haven't met? |
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?"
Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..? |
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"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin... "
Blatantly a single male preneding to be a couple pic hunting... |
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"I can't stand the couple profiles that are blatantly single men. Always the same message, wife isn't playing (insert reason) but has given me full consent to play still. Yeh ok then!
Create a single guys profile then and we may take you more serious."
We play as a couple or alone as we choose, or as opportunities present themselves. Just because I (the male) am able to play alone it doesn't mean I'm faking it. In fact, quite the opposite because most single women don't want attached men, so pretending to be a part of a couple will have a detrimental effect.
More common is attached men pretending to be single.
Even more common is people pretending to be something they're not in one form or another, whether that's hiding their age, putting (very) old photos up (we've known 12 year old photos before), or just hiding their relationship status.
End of the day, you meet people and decide if they're for you or not. You'll get yourself all in a tizzy if you try play Sherlock Holmes about it. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?"
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
A"
I'm curious how the other person must prove it |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
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I'm curious how the other person must prove it"
Prove what.
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
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I'm curious how the other person must prove it
Prove what.
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What they said in their op
"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages.."
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..? "
How the hell am I being judgemental? |
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
A"
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..?
How the hell am I being judgemental?"
Using your common sense is wildly insulting to those without it.
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By *bi HaiveMan
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
A
I'm curious how the other person must prove it
Prove what.
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What they said in their op
"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages.."
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Ah yep.
DNA test?
I guess even a phone call or webcam can be faked.
Suppose a good old social meet or just arranging to meet at a club is the only foolproof way.
Hard to fake those.
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..?
How the hell am I being judgemental?"
I was going to ask the same question!!
OP, I have no idea what kind of pics you are sending people on here as your public photos provide a random pic collector with ample wank fodder but you have to remember it's the Internet & people lie.
Instead of sending pics why not arrange a social meet to prove the person is the gender they say they are?
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"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.
Why send private material to people you haven't met?
I'd have to ask the same question.
If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.
Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?
If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).
It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.
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I'm curious how the other person must prove it
Prove what.
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What they said in their op
"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages.."
Ah yep.
DNA test?
I guess even a phone call or webcam can be faked.
Suppose a good old social meet or just arranging to meet at a club is the only foolproof way.
Hard to fake those.
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They got duped by a phone call so that's out :p
Club visit is promising but easily faked by sending an expensive escorts in your place.... but this may backfire  |
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"My Profile was a couple now a single fem, But I cant get rid of the joint user name.
But I looked and I am a girl. Pics on page to prove too. "
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