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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry."
Considering the large number of couples in your friends list I don't think you have any problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have arranged group fun/small gangbangs etc. and have included Asian guys (you will see that from my verifications). I am not, as proved by these, in any way racist....so do not take this the wrong way but.....
There is a perception...probably based on media and other publicity...that Asian men tend to look down on white women as being not worthy? Asian men cannot "play" with women from their own culture. They see white women as being of loose morals etc?
This may be true of some Asian men, but in my experience certainly not all. This may be unfair...but I believe it is the perception of some.
For others it may indeed just be a preference....as some look for just black cock and will not consider white guys.
Just focus on those that are fine with you as you are and don't stress about it.
I'm excluded by some because of my age....or the fact I am straight. If I see this on their profiles then I just pass on....! |
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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago
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Personally I like tall, big, steriody looking guys to make me feel smaller and feminine.
Asian guys just tend to not be tall and big enough for me so just don't really fancy them.
#sweepingstatementiknow |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
Considering the large number of couples in your friends list I don't think you have any problem."
No I don't have problem but a lot of people I've met said they aren't into asians and this is after I've told them I am asian. They didn't think I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I like tall, big, steriody looking guys to make me feel smaller and feminine.
Asian guys just tend to not be tall and big enough for me so just don't really fancy them.
#sweepingstatementiknow"
My Asian optician is tall and big,very good looking too and smells lovely. Shame he's not on here though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I like tall, big, steriody looking guys to make me feel smaller and feminine.
Asian guys just tend to not be tall and big enough for me so just don't really fancy them.
#sweepingstatementiknow"
Do I qualify:
32-30-43 6ft tall 
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
Considering the large number of couples in your friends list I don't think you have any problem.
No I don't have problem but a lot of people I've met said they aren't into asians and this is after I've told them I am asian. They didn't think I was."
Perhaps dont raise the subject then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have arranged group fun/small gangbangs etc. and have included Asian guys (you will see that from my verifications). I am not, as proved by these, in any way racist....so do not take this the wrong way but.....
There is a perception...probably based on media and other publicity...that Asian men tend to look down on white women as being not worthy? Asian men cannot "play" with women from their own culture. They see white women as being of loose morals etc?
This may be true of some Asian men, but in my experience certainly not all. This may be unfair...but I believe it is the perception of some.
For others it may indeed just be a preference....as some look for just black cock and will not consider white guys.
Just focus on those that are fine with you as you are and don't stress about it.
I'm excluded by some because of my age....or the fact I am straight. If I see this on their profiles then I just pass on....!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aint that like asking why do some people not like meat or vegetables?
its ones personnel and preference, ones right of choice, dont pull the racist card because someone has said they don't desire asians.
Its like me saying i dont like fish, the taste or the smell. I'm sure that if a fish had a voice and an opinion it wouldnt hold it against me because i didnt fancy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Funny you should mention about mentioning you're Asian. I've met two Asian men from here who didn't tell me what their ethnicity was. I guessed one was Sikh because he was wearing a little woven bracelet thing and the other I thought was mixed race and asked him. I'm very nosy and like knowing people's origins. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Funny you should mention about mentioning you're Asian. I've met two Asian men from here who didn't tell me what their ethnicity was. I guessed one was Sikh because he was wearing a little woven bracelet thing and the other I thought was mixed race and asked him. I'm very nosy and like knowing people's origins. "
Well after our meet ups in discussion it came up, and they said normally they don't meet asians however they didn't think of me as an Asian. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny you should mention about mentioning you're Asian. I've met two Asian men from here who didn't tell me what their ethnicity was. I guessed one was Sikh because he was wearing a little woven bracelet thing and the other I thought was mixed race and asked him. I'm very nosy and like knowing people's origins. "
Glad you are aware, there is cultural differences (sub groups) within the indian community. I am not sure others are aware of this. I myself am a Sikh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Funny you should mention about mentioning you're Asian. I've met two Asian men from here who didn't tell me what their ethnicity was. I guessed one was Sikh because he was wearing a little woven bracelet thing and the other I thought was mixed race and asked him. I'm very nosy and like knowing people's origins.
Glad you are aware, there is cultural differences (sub groups) within the indian community. I am not sure others are aware of this. I myself am a Sikh. "
I don't think couples have any issues and specially not yourselves having a classic beauty, but singles do. |
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Asian guys aren't really Frisky's thing, unfortunately she has had 3 or 4 incedents where Asian guys have just pounced on her without even a hello.
This has obviously jaded her view.
I realise that we have only meet a very small percentage of Asian guys but unfortunately 100% of those guys has overstepped the mark... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny you should mention about mentioning you're Asian. I've met two Asian men from here who didn't tell me what their ethnicity was. I guessed one was Sikh because he was wearing a little woven bracelet thing and the other I thought was mixed race and asked him. I'm very nosy and like knowing people's origins.
Glad you are aware, there is cultural differences (sub groups) within the indian community. I am not sure others are aware of this. I myself am a Sikh. "
I met a man a few times who was a Christian Indian. I'm attracted to the man not his race or religion. I've met Asian men of different religions and parts of Asia. Their characters have been vastly different the same as everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They aren't as fetishised as black men. Also there are plenty of asian swingers."
Since when did liking black guys become a fetish? ?? Wow there's been some depressing threads on here tonight.......The heart wants what the heart wants....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In response to Nobby's comment,every Asian man I have met has been extremely respectful and treated me better than a lot of the white British men I have spoken to on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They aren't as fetishised as black men. Also there are plenty of asian swingers.
Since when did liking black guys become a fetish? ?? Wow there's been some depressing threads on here tonight.......The heart wants what the heart wants......."
Someone mentioned earlier that he had been to black men events and felt objectified. It seems to me that some see black men as objects and not people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They aren't as fetishised as black men. Also there are plenty of asian swingers.
Since when did liking black guys become a fetish? ?? Wow there's been some depressing threads on here tonight.......The heart wants what the heart wants......."
...its a colour...nothing else...fuck me I would hate to be black the way this site goes on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny you should mention about mentioning you're Asian. I've met two Asian men from here who didn't tell me what their ethnicity was. I guessed one was Sikh because he was wearing a little woven bracelet thing and the other I thought was mixed race and asked him. I'm very nosy and like knowing people's origins.
Glad you are aware, there is cultural differences (sub groups) within the indian community. I am not sure others are aware of this. I myself am a Sikh.
I don't think couples have any issues and specially not yourselves having a classic beauty, but singles do."
My issue comes down to the fact I like fair hair and light eyes, so my preference is for white guys only but it is limited even within that area x I will also admit over 3/4 of my bad experiences in clubs have been Asian or black guys... So that has further influenced my choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They aren't as fetishised as black men. Also there are plenty of asian swingers.
Since when did liking black guys become a fetish? ?? Wow there's been some depressing threads on here tonight.......The heart wants what the heart wants.......
Someone mentioned earlier that he had been to black men events and felt objectified. It seems to me that some see black men as objects and not people. "
That's a shame, where ever we have been, or events we have organised, it's just been about the fun and connection with like minded people. Lots of people enjoy interracial sex, that saddens me so much, if any black guy felt that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
We have met Asian couple . Probably your whinging would put us off not your colour "
Not talking about myself, talking in general and what I've heard from couples. I've not had any issues with my colour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
We have met Asian couple . Probably your whinging would put us off not your colour
Not talking about myself, talking in general and what I've heard from couples. I've not had any issues with my colour."
Some people are jerks block and move on . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
We have met Asian couple . Probably your whinging would put us off not your colour "
Asian women are thin on the ground...we find the men rude and disrespectful but just what we have came across on fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
We have met Asian couple . Probably your whinging would put us off not your colour Asian women are thin on the ground...we find the men rude and disrespectful but just what we have came across on fab"
Possibly you're right, have noticed that in the club and it's not good especially for everyone else as first impression/experience goes a long way. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"They aren't as fetishised as black men. Also there are plenty of asian swingers.
Since when did liking black guys become a fetish? ?? Wow there's been some depressing threads on here tonight.......The heart wants what the heart wants......."
Aren't all fetishes the heart wanting what the heart wants? If someone was looking for a meet, didnt care about ethnicity and happened to hook up with a black guy, I wouldnt call that a fetish. If someone is specifically looking for BBC then I would say that was a fetish.
Im not saying its a bad thing or that people shouldn't do it. As long as its legal and consensual then go right ahead and enjoy yourselves. This is just my thoughts on it and until now had not thought of them as potentially controversial. I would now be interested as to how others view BBC. I'm sorry if my post depressed you, it wasnt my intention to upset anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We as a couple from where we live, no offence to all the genuine males, female's and couples out there no matter what race you are  but a lot of the msg we get are from the above and have no respect for us as a couple dont read our profile at all! And just msg me (lou) in some ways it is a white women thing in which im very sad to say living in such a well deserve city as Bradford is upsetting but race has nothing to do with who we meet, our best meet and friend on here in is an Asian guy and is a total gentleman in fact he could teach all you single guys how to behave lolxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know if this has been raised as couldn't be bothered trawling through the whole thread, but Asia is a massive continent, the biggest in fact. So I do/not like Asian men/women is a fairly facile approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does it matter, either color or origin, we all bleed red, cum the same, taste the same.. I have to admit i am a lover of asian ladys pink bits. hands, feet an well need i go on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are jerks block and move on . "
This...
It's perhaps more 'productive' to concentrate on the people who have an interest in you as opposed to guessing/dissecting the thoughts/reasons of those who are not.
Ultimately it comes down to the fact that we all have preferences and we are all free to choose whom we'd like to share intimate moments with.
Live and let live - hopefully orgasmically ever after! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my partner is from Turkey. When we send pics all couples like .... Wow then out of the blue what nationality is your partner !! I return, then nothing or sorry not for us !!!
Also had... can we play with female only after I have said Turkish,
Wtf he has a cock I have a pussy he is amazing this is not a bloody dating site
Getting angry with it as when we go to socials everybody loves him and his cock ! People just jump n judge
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I find Indian women to be beautiful but each to their own"
Living and working in central London I see loads of stunning Indian girl.
Dress so sexually now. Gone have the days of them being shy locked in doors type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same reason why some are only into to black people or white people or Eskimos, you don't choose what you're a attracted to.
It's like asking a gay man the reason why he's attracted to men, you're born that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my partner is from Turkey. When we send pics all couples like .... Wow then out of the blue what nationality is your partner !! I return, then nothing or sorry not for us !!!
Also had... can we play with female only after I have said Turkish,
Wtf he has a cock I have a pussy he is amazing this is not a bloody dating site
Getting angry with it as when we go to socials everybody loves him and his cock ! People just jump n judge
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Have to agree with this. You'd have people interested in you from all your pictures, including face pictures and from all the messaging. Then comes the dreaded question 'oh, so what is your background?'. Then, you get a message saying 'i dont meet your kind'.
Erm, all this time you've text me and messaged me about meeting up and fucking me. Seen all my pics and loved what you saw. And as soon as I said i'm Asian. It's all out the window.
That is something I can't get my head around. Doesn't bother me as such. Her choice. But, is just strange.
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As a women of Pakistani origin i find single men tend to objectify me, "oh iv never had a Pakistani / indian women". very off putting , its like thats the only thing that interests them like that defines me as a person . Many asian guys assume that because im an asian woman that i'll automatically be attracted to them ( in reality im far more attached to white guys , thats why i married my white husband) when i turn them down im often treated as if im a traitor to my race  which is odd as the only race im part of is the human race |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have seen loads of profiles where people are not into white men and women yet this is never construed as racism - personal preference is a wonderful thing and what makes us all different.
Personally I find white men more attractive than I find any other race but that's down to my preference, I know there are plenty of people who disagree with that. Equally there are plenty of white men who I'm not attracted to either...I wouldn't go with someone who didn't do it for me regardless of race.
Plus I love the smell of a good curry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a women of Pakistani origin i find single men tend to objectify me, "oh iv never had a Pakistani / indian women". very off putting , its like thats the only thing that interests them like that defines me as a person . Many asian guys assume that because im an asian woman that i'll automatically be attracted to them ( in reality im far more attached to white guys , thats why i married my white husband) when i turn them down im often treated as if im a traitor to my race which is odd as the only race im part of is the human race "
Am I right in thinking that those " Asian guys" you refer to were also Pakistani muslims? If so then I would call them racists. Agreed? |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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A great deal of this is based on stereotyping, I feel, in the same way that black men are stereotypically believed to be well endowed.
On that basis, I think it's a bit unfair to make generalisations and refuse to see all Asian men. Some Asian men are very attractive, and do not have the abrasive mentality attributed to their race. Exceptions can and should be made!
However, that's hard when the more experienced swinger have repeat negative experiences with men of Asian ethnicity. So it's understandable why Asian men may find things harder on here.
Asia is also a very big continent - technically, I'm of Asian descent  |
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"As a women of Pakistani origin i find single men tend to objectify me, "oh iv never had a Pakistani / indian women". very off putting , its like thats the only thing that interests them like that defines me as a person . Many asian guys assume that because im an asian woman that i'll automatically be attracted to them ( in reality im far more attached to white guys , thats why i married my white husband) when i turn them down im often treated as if im a traitor to my race which is odd as the only race im part of is the human race
Am I right in thinking that those " Asian guys" you refer to were also Pakistani muslims? If so then I would call them racists. Agreed?"
For the most part yes but not all as i dont state my exact ethnic background . But that kind of mentality is one of the reasons im not really interested in asian guys , not to say i find all asian men unattractive because i dont, just that on the whole we've not had a good eexperience in the past . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question - In the past I have attended many a moresome session and there have been Asians, guys and gals there, never seen or heard of any tension - his/their cocks where just as tasty as her/their pussy's lol - sorry to bring back to sex, but we are adults on a swinging site. Sadly however I do agree that we have choices we make in life and one happens to be who we want sex with or not , after all its our bodies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to not play with asian men
my reasons being in the past when I have met asian guys found them very selfish lovers, never played with an asian guy who gave oral a couple of them have even just lay there with their hands behind their heads
now as I always say I can only speak from my own experiences from guys I have met but I have played with a fair few in the past enough to make me decide not to meet anymore
if that offends anyone, which being the fab forums it will i apologise bit I've just answered honestly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a women of Pakistani origin i find single men tend to objectify me, "oh iv never had a Pakistani / indian women". very off putting , its like thats the only thing that interests them like that defines me as a person . Many asian guys assume that because im an asian woman that i'll automatically be attracted to them ( in reality im far more attached to white guys , thats why i married my white husband) when i turn them down im often treated as if im a traitor to my race which is odd as the only race im part of is the human race "
I can relate to this, I get some funny looks from other Indians when we're out and about. I like all women, regardless of their skin colour.
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Is time we respect people's right to choose whom they play with..just because they refused to play with you being an Asian origin shouldn't be view as racist. Choice and preference is a basic human freedom. Yes some do it out of hatred. But a lot do it because chemistry and attractiveness is not there . I give you an example some of my females work colleague don't fancy black guys for a shag. But we do go to club together then crashed in my house for the night. I do understand their feeling. This has nothing to do with racism. Grow up.
Some females in fab don't fancy black guys. Does that mean they are racist? To me capital NO. This is not just Asian issue. This is applicable to everyone. Some people don't like to meet BBW. Beer belly. People with tattoo. etc. Get over it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like being part of the few and many who can debunk those myths. It's always nice when you're a pleasant surprise.
I like to think i've proved many wrong on what they think of Asian guys in general, especially those from my background.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is time we respect people's right to choose whom they play with..just because they refused to play with you being an Asian origin shouldn't be view as racist. Choice and preference is a basic human freedom. Yes some do it out of hatred. But a lot do it because chemistry and attractiveness is not there . I give you an example some of my females work colleague don't fancy black guys for a shag. But we do go to club together then crashed in my house for the night. I do understand their feeling. This has nothing to do with racism. Grow up.
Some females in fab don't fancy black guys. Does that mean they are racist? To me capital NO. This is not just Asian issue. This is applicable to everyone. Some people don't like to meet BBW. Beer belly. People with tattoo. etc. Get over it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the female half, my negative club experiences have been down to men of Asian descent yet others have been some of the nicest people we've engaged with socially at another club. For me, and I think fair to say us, it depends on the individual/couple rather than race. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the female half, my negative club experiences have been down to men of Asian descent yet others have been some of the nicest people we've engaged with socially at another club. For me, and I think fair to say us, it depends on the individual/couple rather than race."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't want people to argue of them being racist. It clearly isn't and neither do I think of them racist. I was curious of what experiences couples have had with Asian guys that put them off. Be merry all of you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ahhh the race card again every time without fail .....why do we feel the need to explain why and what we are looking for we all have different taste's and different needs rather than debate what your looking for or not just get on with it....the race card is played all to often by people on these forums....guess we are lucky as we see all as the same (colorblind) but if you have facial hair or a extra long foreskin then we aint interested lol....its simple everyone is different...and I suspect the reason Asian guys aren't getting much luck is down to the fact they are guys and most single guys have a hard time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
Define Asian."
Well anybody from Asia is Asian obviously but on here when people say Asian they seen to tend to mean indian/Pakistani |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think accents affect things too. If you have strong ethnic accent it maybe off putting. But I do thing that people on here generalise about what they want abit too much, ive spoken met women who have black only profiles, and you have to understand their needs and wants, they didn't want a black guy for size jsut a preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly- that is literally billions of people from many many countries!
Maybe instead of judging people this way we should all try a little harder to judge people on their merits.
As individuals.
And not worry about the people who don't find you sexy and concentrate on the ones that do xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
Define Asian.
Well anybody from Asia is Asian obviously but on here when people say Asian they seen to tend to mean indian/Pakistani "
Not really as people on profile have said Asians. They don't single out a country. |
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Personally, in my 26 years on this Earth, I have just never met an Asian man I found attractive (yet I am attracted to MANY Asian women) - I think it's because a lot of Asian men have quite soft facial features which just doesn't excite me when it comes to men.
I like them with very masculine, rough and rugged features.
Yes, I may be excluding an entire group of possibly amazing men but with such limited time to meet I don't see the point in wasting my time meeting men I have never yet been attracted to "just incase".
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are asians not popular with couples? I don't smell curry.
Define Asian.
Well anybody from Asia is Asian obviously but on here when people say Asian they seen to tend to mean indian/Pakistani
Not really as people on profile have said Asians. They don't single out a country. "
I know it don't but from talking to people who say they don't like Asian men they mostly do mean south Asia, I suppose putting on your profile no Asians is easier than stating all the countries within Asia your not interested in |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm predominately attracted to Caucasian/White men, because that's what I find I'm normally drawn to. Asian men don't normally appeal to me as I have had some negative experiences with them where they expected too much from me due to us both being Asian. But attraction is attraction and chemistry is a major factor, having said that I'm currently having a very positive experience with a certain guy of Asian decent. |
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over a year ago
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"my partner is from Turkey. When we send pics all couples like .... Wow then out of the blue what nationality is your partner !! I return, then nothing or sorry not for us !!!
Also had... can we play with female only after I have said Turkish,
Wtf he has a cock I have a pussy he is amazing this is not a bloody dating site
Getting angry with it as when we go to socials everybody loves him and his cock ! People just jump n judge
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Totally agree and it's very frustrating, can they not see he ain't got a white cock, why message and show disrespect ....
Have to agree with this. You'd have people interested in you from all your pictures, including face pictures and from all the messaging. Then comes the dreaded question 'oh, so what is your background?'. Then, you get a message saying 'i dont meet your kind'.
Erm, all this time you've text me and messaged me about meeting up and fucking me. Seen all my pics and loved what you saw. And as soon as I said i'm Asian. It's all out the window.
That is something I can't get my head around. Doesn't bother me as such. Her choice. But, is just strange.
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over a year ago
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"I tend to not play with asian men
my reasons being in the past when I have met asian guys found them very selfish lovers, never played with an asian guy who gave oral a couple of them have even just lay there with their hands behind their heads
now as I always say I can only speak from my own experiences from guys I have met but I have played with a fair few in the past enough to make me decide not to meet anymore
if that offends anyone, which being the fab forums it will i apologise bit I've just answered honestly "
That's a great answer , and not showing disrespect to anybody's nationality x |
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Maybe I can bring age into this? Is there a difference between older Asian men and younger Asian men? I think I'm a lover and I enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving but everyone else seems to say that Asians are selfish lovers. In my mind I get the feeling that they might be a decade or two older than I. |
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over a year ago
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"I like being part of the few and many who can debunk those myths. It's always nice when you're a pleasant surprise.
I like to think i've proved many wrong on what they think of Asian guys in general, especially those from my background.
Totally agree I'm a white girl with a Turkish partner , why message why ask for private pixs ... Then oops what nationality . !
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over a year ago
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"As the female half, my negative club experiences have been down to men of Asian descent yet others have been some of the nicest people we've engaged with socially at another club. For me, and I think fair to say us, it depends on the individual/couple rather than race."
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over a year ago
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Oh this crap again 
Look there are 6 billion people in the world. You're not going to have sex with everyone.
REMEMBER THE NUMBER 6 BILLION. You couldn't have sex with everyone on earth in your lifetime, if you tried.
Sorry if I offended anyone but the WHY I'M ( black , Asian, bi men , Bbw) AND NOT GETTING MEETS threads are getting boring .
Now let's get back to the " How can I get my wife to swing threads " I haven't seen the cheating police lately |
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".....There is a perception...probably based on media and other publicity...that Asian men tend to look down on white women as being not worthy? Asian men cannot "play" with women from their own culture. They see white women as being of loose morals etc?....!"
It's dead easy at this stage to be all politically correct and goody two shoes about this subject, but that doesn't really answer the point. Better a bit of hard truth than a load of pussy footing around. So here goes...
From what I gather from speaking to people is that the perception of Asian men is not helped by stories coming out of India of gang rapes and murders of women who the men over there see as being "worthless". Check out on YouTube the video of the documentary done about gang rapists on death row in India.
Likewise the recent convictions of gangs of predominantly Pakistani men in Oxford, Telford, Rochdale and Rotherham (with Birmingham to follow soon) for grooming and sexual abuse of vulnerable young white girls does not help the Asians cause at all. Another case of a minority screwing things up for the majority.
Now we will all know an Asian guy or two who is a top bloke and who anyone would be proud to introduce to their mothers, but we have to look at big picture here, not at the one or two who we all know who who the general description does not apply to.
Why? Because what people are doing in sidestepping Asian guys is called "risk avoidance". Erring on the side of caution when assessing someone that they've never met. It's part of people's self defence instinct. It's not necessarily a racist thing, just a self protection thing.
It's happened before. I remember the days when all football fans were labeled as hooligans thanks to the behaviour of a minority. I remember motorway service stations avoiding risks by banning football coaches. What we have here are two different flavours of the same thing.
The second perception that people have that I've spoken to about Asians is that unlike the black or the white community, Asian "swingers" tend to be overwhelmingly single male. There is a feeling of Asian men have gained a reputation for selfishness by wanting to take take take "out of the pot", without putting anything back into it. As has been said before, Asian women tend to be kept at home while the men can go out to play. Yes there are a very few Asian couples, and if there are, they tend to be Indian, of Sikh or Hindu persuasion. In all my years, I've hardly ever seen a Muslim couple or a single Muslim female on the scene (for very understandable reasons I may add). But look at the numbers, and you'll see what I mean. Go to a swingers club and count the number of Asian singles and couples, and compare it to their proportion in society in general. Take Chameleons or Xtasia for example. They are in the heart of the West Midlands where the Asian population is about 30%. You will never get 3 out of 10 couples in those club being Asian.
Maybe someone from the Greater Manchester or Leicester area can comment about what it's like in the clubs in those areas.
But going back to what the OP was complaining about, it's going to be tough going if you are Asian in the swingers community. There are plenty of people who will have indicated their willingness to entertain Asians in the replies above. Maybe you can contact them? Failing that, your best bet is to prove yourself better than the perceived image by making yourself known in person, at clubs, or at socials. For as long as no-one can tell you apart from Adam (or Abdul) then a site like Fab may not get you the best return for your efforts.
No-one's going to spoon feed you sex, you are going to have to prove to people that they have nothing to worry about and that you are a better bet than the other people vying for their attention. It'll be tough and the best of luck to you. |
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I don't care where someone comes from ethnically or otherwise but that's my choice, just as others have preferences.
It's a free country. Mostly.
Oh and I have an Indian lady I see occasionally and it's the best sex I've ever had. So far. |
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".....There is a perception...probably based on media and other publicity...that Asian men tend to look down on white women as being not worthy? Asian men cannot "play" with women from their own culture. They see white women as being of loose morals etc?....!
It's dead easy at this stage to be all politically correct and goody two shoes about this subject, but that doesn't really answer the point. Better a bit of hard truth than a load of pussy footing around. So here goes...
From what I gather from speaking to people is that the perception of Asian men is not helped by stories coming out of India of gang rapes and murders of women who the men over there see as being "worthless". Check out on YouTube the video of the documentary done about gang rapists on death row in India.
Likewise the recent convictions of gangs of predominantly Pakistani men in Oxford, Telford, Rochdale and Rotherham (with Birmingham to follow soon) for grooming and sexual abuse of vulnerable young white girls does not help the Asians cause at all. Another case of a minority screwing things up for the majority.
Now we will all know an Asian guy or two who is a top bloke and who anyone would be proud to introduce to their mothers, but we have to look at big picture here, not at the one or two who we all know who who the general description does not apply to.
Why? Because what people are doing in sidestepping Asian guys is called "risk avoidance". Erring on the side of caution when assessing someone that they've never met. It's part of people's self defence instinct. It's not necessarily a racist thing, just a self protection thing.
It's happened before. I remember the days when all football fans were labeled as hooligans thanks to the behaviour of a minority. I remember motorway service stations avoiding risks by banning football coaches. What we have here are two different flavours of the same thing.
The second perception that people have that I've spoken to about Asians is that unlike the black or the white community, Asian "swingers" tend to be overwhelmingly single male. There is a feeling of Asian men have gained a reputation for selfishness by wanting to take take take "out of the pot", without putting anything back into it. As has been said before, Asian women tend to be kept at home while the men can go out to play. Yes there are a very few Asian couples, and if there are, they tend to be Indian, of Sikh or Hindu persuasion. In all my years, I've hardly ever seen a Muslim couple or a single Muslim female on the scene (for very understandable reasons I may add). But look at the numbers, and you'll see what I mean. Go to a swingers club and count the number of Asian singles and couples, and compare it to their proportion in society in general. Take Chameleons or Xtasia for example. They are in the heart of the West Midlands where the Asian population is about 30%. You will never get 3 out of 10 couples in those club being Asian.
Maybe someone from the Greater Manchester or Leicester area can comment about what it's like in the clubs in those areas.
But going back to what the OP was complaining about, it's going to be tough going if you are Asian in the swingers community. There are plenty of people who will have indicated their willingness to entertain Asians in the replies above. Maybe you can contact them? Failing that, your best bet is to prove yourself better than the perceived image by making yourself known in person, at clubs, or at socials. For as long as no-one can tell you apart from Adam (or Abdul) then a site like Fab may not get you the best return for your efforts.
No-one's going to spoon feed you sex, you are going to have to prove to people that they have nothing to worry about and that you are a better bet than the other people vying for their attention. It'll be tough and the best of luck to you."
I'm not going to attack you for your beliefs.
But all I can say is wow. 
You just took this tread to a new level |
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