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Mass Delete ( messaging etiquette)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Almost every woman that i have discussed mass deleting meesages with has admitted that sometimes when they log on and find 50+ messages they simply mass delete. Fair enough.

However if i message someone im interested in, and the message is deleted. I try not to message them again.

When i point this out i have had a mixed response of quite right, and why not?

So fellow fabbers what do you think?

Is it rude to message again, or acceptable.

Of course i dont mean repeatedly.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Almost every woman that i have discussed mass deleting meesages with has admitted that sometimes when they log on and find 50+ messages they simply mass delete. Fair enough.

However if i message someone im interested in, and the message is deleted. I try not to message them again.

When i point this out i have had a mixed response of quite right, and why not?

So fellow fabbers what do you think?

Is it rude to message again, or acceptable.

Of course i dont mean repeatedly.

Acceptable - I don't mass delete but I miss messages I mean to respond to sometimes, they drop off the page if I have a conversation with someone. It's a very poor system.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

It's a shame that messages from friends don't appear in a different list.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guilty

I tend to let my inbox get really full, then when it gets to 40+ I'll go through messages. If someone really interests me I'll reply and apologize.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That would be a good thing

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have a mass delete every so often but I generally try to respond to the ones who have taken the time to write something that passes the heading and five word preview.

I had the same copy and paste message from one guy three days running. I responded politely the first time. The second time I pointed out his error and the third time I told him the answer was still the same as the previous two messages and suggested he block me to save wasting any more of his time which he's duly done.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I read every message I get, but if they don't interest me I'll delete them. A follow up message will result in a block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a shame that messages from friends don't appear in a different list. "

That would be good a messaged them that at fab got no reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If people have filters It reduces message numbers.

I never check to see if my outgoing message has been read.

Doesn't bother me..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Almost every woman that i have discussed mass deleting meesages with has admitted that sometimes when they log on and find 50+ messages they simply mass delete. Fair enough.

However if i message someone im interested in, and the message is deleted. I try not to message them again.

When i point this out i have had a mixed response of quite right, and why not?

So fellow fabbers what do you think?

Is it rude to message again, or acceptable.

Of course i dont mean repeatedly.

I was at a sauna last night sat with my sexy gf telling guys how to do this and be successful

I doubt they listened and I doubt you will

But if you read some of my previous advice you would do very well

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"Almost every woman that i have discussed mass deleting meesages with has admitted that sometimes when they log on and find 50+ messages they simply mass delete. Fair enough.

However if i message someone im interested in, and the message is deleted. I try not to message them again.

When i point this out i have had a mixed response of quite right, and why not?

So fellow fabbers what do you think?

Is it rude to message again, or acceptable.

Of course i dont mean repeatedly.

I don't send many messages but the ones that get deleted I block so I don't message again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Almost every woman that i have discussed mass deleting meesages with has admitted that sometimes when they log on and find 50+ messages they simply mass delete. Fair enough.

However if i message someone im interested in, and the message is deleted. I try not to message them again.

When i point this out i have had a mixed response of quite right, and why not?

So fellow fabbers what do you think?

Is it rude to message again, or acceptable.

Of course i dont mean repeatedly.

When I mass delete I will a status up apologising and saying feel free to message again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If people have filters It reduces message numbers.

I never check to see if my outgoing message has been read.

Doesn't bother me.. "

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By *icked weaselCouple over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

"It's a shame that messages from friends don't appear in a different list. "

ADMIN READ THIS...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Almost every woman that i have discussed mass deleting meesages with has admitted that sometimes when they log on and find 50+ messages they simply mass delete. Fair enough.

However if i message someone im interested in, and the message is deleted. I try not to message them again.

When i point this out i have had a mixed response of quite right, and why not?

So fellow fabbers what do you think?

Is it rude to message again, or acceptable.

Of course i dont mean repeatedly.

I was at a sauna last night sat with my sexy gf telling guys how to do this and be successful

I doubt they listened and I doubt you will

But if you read some of my previous advice you would do very well "

You doubt I, would listen?

Thats strange because you dont know.me, how can you have formed an opinion?

Also do what successfully?

I was asking a general question Not asking for advice.

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