"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!  "
He was probably having a wank over your pics made a mess on himself and thought yuk. There are some pricks on here don't let them upset you |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has! "
Simply to get a reaction so don't give them what they want just ignore. |
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By *ancBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
Simply to get a reaction so don't give them what they want just ignore. "
Yeah I just blocked and deleted - best way I think, just never come across it in here before |
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over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has! "
FFS 140+ miles away and out of age range! |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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The other day we had a couple contact us who had previously turned us down. I very politely reminded them of this (and i was polite because I had made the same mistake a week before and felt like a right asshole) then they made a horrible comment about Mrs' genitals and then they blocked us. Some people say really hurtful things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Inbox me their username, I'll gladly get banned to put the narrow minded bigots straight on your behalf!
Wtf is wrong with people?
Ignore them, you're better than they could ever wish to be!! |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
FFS 140+ miles away and out of age range! "
I'm 200 miles away and out of age range. |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"The other day we had a couple contact us who had previously turned us down. I very politely reminded them of this (and i was polite because I had made the same mistake a week before and felt like a right asshole) then they made a horrible comment about Mrs' genitals and then they blocked us. Some people say really hurtful things. "
Well with what I've seen, instant Bonner. |
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By *ancBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Inbox me their username, I'll gladly get banned to put the narrow minded bigots straight on your behalf!
Wtf is wrong with people?
Ignore them, you're better than they could ever wish to be!! "
Thanks so much - that's all they are narrow minded bigots!! |
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By *ancBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Yu = another version of "you" in text speak
K = "Ok" in text speak
So are you sure it was an insult and not just a lazy attempt at saying "are you ok" ? "
I'd not thought of that but I don't think so as had an exclamation mark at the end of it x |
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Why do we focus on the negatives? I'm guilty of that myself. Sometimes it's easier said than done, but if someone sends a nasty messages they're not getting any play offers or they wouldn't have the time.
Someone sent me a message saying I was a nightmare. I replied that my partner told me that almost every day so he could at least try telling me something I didn't know!!!
He wrote back saying "fair dos!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pay no attention!!..probably jealous that your getting laid and theyre not!!..keep doing what your doing!..big girls are beautiful!  xx"
We love big girls, shame about your age range ;-O x |
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How many nice, complimentary messages have you had? Loads I bet, why let one bad one spoil it?
In fact I have seen lots of threads about rude messages can't remember one saying "I had a lovely message, it really made me feel good".
Don't believe half of what people say on here....the good or the bad. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"How many nice, complimentary messages have you had? Loads I bet, why let one bad one spoil it?
In fact I have seen lots of threads about rude messages can't remember one saying "I had a lovely message, it really made me feel good".
Don't believe half of what people say on here....the good or the bad. "
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has! "
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A"
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.  |
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By *anklerMan
over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has! "
Forget about the prat.
Never let the bastards grind you down
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Youve had meets so your obviously someones cup of tea.
Although in the main most of the people we have encountered on this site are genuinley nice people, as in all walks of life there are idiots whos main enjoyment is upsetting others.
I assume the individual who upset you probably has not had any meets and sexually frustrated people are sometimes not nice . Carry on don't let the ass holes on the site ruin things for you take it the the issue lays with them and not you good luck and have fun |
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"Youve had meets so your obviously someones cup of tea.
Although in the main most of the people we have encountered on this site are genuinley nice people, as in all walks of life there are idiots whos main enjoyment is upsetting others.
I assume the individual who upset you probably has not had any meets and sexually frustrated people are sometimes not nice . Carry on don't let the ass holes on the site ruin things for you take it the the issue lays with them and not you good luck and have fun"
This. |
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over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet. "
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?! |
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over a year ago
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?! "
I wasn't being mean. If someone gets upset over a complete stranger talking utter bollocks then this isn't for them.
If you think it wasn't nice that's your problem. Not mine. |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?! "
It is actually very good advice. The internet is a place where people can be extremely unkind, even more so than in real life and if you are affected by that kind of behaviour it really is best to stay away.
I don't usually advocate giving in to the minority but in this case you can't do anything about "them". |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?!
I wasn't being mean. If someone gets upset over a complete stranger talking utter bollocks then this isn't for them.
If you think it wasn't nice that's your problem. Not mine. "
Honestly I think if people can't go on the Internet without being aggressively hostile to others with absolutely no provocation, it might be them who should leave the internet, it's not exclusively for cunts.
And people like that aren't just on the Internet. People are that rude in person. Is the solution not to leave the house?
Op, people can be just horrible, I've met plenty. Remember, they are the ones with issues, they are pathetic failures x |
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over a year ago
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why did it ruin your night?
They are the ones with a problem.
some people are really sad, why try and upset anyone, its the same mentality that thinks shooting lions is a good idea, |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?!
I wasn't being mean. If someone gets upset over a complete stranger talking utter bollocks then this isn't for them.
If you think it wasn't nice that's your problem. Not mine.
Honestly I think if people can't go on the Internet without being aggressively hostile to others with absolutely no provocation, it might be them who should leave the internet, it's not exclusively for cunts.
And people like that aren't just on the Internet. People are that rude in person. Is the solution not to leave the house?
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I agree. So how are you going to get rid of the rude hostile people?..... It won't happen.
So as I said, ignore them. They won't go away. Don't let them get you down and carry on as you are. |
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By *ancBBW OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thanks to all the lovely messages and private messages too. Just to clarify, when I said it ruined my night, I wasn't crying into my Ben & Jerrys all night (joke for anyone that goes off on one). It was merely a way of expressing myself that there are complete tossers on here too and it can hurt your feelings. I'm far from too soft for the Internet, my job would tell you that but it was merely a why make any comment at all kind of post. |
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"Thanks to all the lovely messages and private messages too. Just to clarify, when I said it ruined my night, I wasn't crying into my Ben & Jerrys all night (joke for anyone that goes off on one). It was merely a way of expressing myself that there are complete tossers on here too and it can hurt your feelings. I'm far from too soft for the Internet, my job would tell you that but it was merely a why make any comment at all kind of post. "
carry on there's nothing wrong with you wish I was closer would have given you a big hug
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"The other day we had a couple contact us who had previously turned us down. I very politely reminded them of this (and i was polite because I had made the same mistake a week before and felt like a right asshole) then they made a horrible comment about Mrs' genitals and then they blocked us. Some people say really hurtful things. "
Because they couldn't get it |
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I had one a while ago when i had lots of body/lingerie photos on public _iew,
He said
"You should have a warning on your profile as I had a peek and what I saw made me sick in my mouth"
I already had written "don't like don't look"
Don't let it knock you!!
Some blokes on here are not worth the steam off your piss |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?!
I wasn't being mean. If someone gets upset over a complete stranger talking utter bollocks then this isn't for them.
If you think it wasn't nice that's your problem. Not mine. "
Oooooo, handbags at dawn?!
Premenstrual by chance? Lmfao |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?!
I wasn't being mean. If someone gets upset over a complete stranger talking utter bollocks then this isn't for them.
If you think it wasn't nice that's your problem. Not mine.
Oooooo, handbags at dawn?!
Premenstrual by chance? Lmfao "
Grow up. |
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"I think I've mentioned the "who wants to fuck a ginger pensioner?" messages we received .
Did you meet them?! "
Of course! Who could resist such compliments  .
I wouldn't mind but I wasn't actually claiming my pension then |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has! "
Fuck them... your baps look hot as you sexy thing |
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"I think I've mentioned the "who wants to fuck a ginger pensioner?" messages we received .
Did you meet them?!
Of course! Who could resist such compliments .
I wouldn't mind but I wasn't actually claiming my pension then "
Bloody OAP's lying about their age to get a shag.  |
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over a year ago
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"The other day we had a couple contact us who had previously turned us down. I very politely reminded them of this (and i was polite because I had made the same mistake a week before and felt like a right asshole) then they made a horrible comment about Mrs' genitals and then they blocked us. Some people say really hurtful things.
Well with what I've seen, instant Bonner."
Thanks, but obviously we are not everyone's cup of tea. |
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Op we all get them from time to time. No one is everyone's cup of tea!
I got a message on Christmas Eve last year - pointing out that the 'sexy santa' outfit I was wearing in one of my pics looked 100 times better on another lady on fab!
I replied- agreeing that the lady in question looked gorgeous - and asked if I'd hurt or offended him in some way for him to insult me out of the blue!
He responded immediately - apologising for being a knob and wished me a merry Christmas!
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"I think I've mentioned the "who wants to fuck a ginger pensioner?" messages we received .
Did you meet them?!
Of course! Who could resist such compliments .
I wouldn't mind but I wasn't actually claiming my pension then
Bloody OAP's lying about their age to get a shag. "
How the hell else am I going to entrap a man under 80!? |
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Look at it this way. You must be doing something right as otherwise they wouldn't have bothered to message.
We have found since not having our photos available to fab we have had less stupid messages like that.
Just laugh at the fact that they took time to nmessage you thinking that they were the clever ones. When rreally they are just sad people who most likely think very little of themselves.
My normal reply to someone that complains or says something nasty to us is that " I / we maybe..( iinsert whhat ever playground insult they used) but we get laid far more than them..." |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has! "
Tell them to " Piss off, get a life and find a female " I guess it was a guy ? |
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"Why would someone send you a message out of the blue just saying yuk? I get I'm not going to everyone's cup of tea but just pass me by - ruined my night now that has!
If a one word message from a complete stranger ruins your night I'd advise simply not giving a shit about words typed on a keyboard by someone you never knew existed moments before opening said message.
Plenty of things could possibly ruin a night for me.
That wouldn't be one of them.
A
If you can't handle this shit don't be on the internet.
Bit uncalled for really?
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing?!
I wasn't being mean. If someone gets upset over a complete stranger talking utter bollocks then this isn't for them.
If you think it wasn't nice that's your problem. Not mine.
Oooooo, handbags at dawn?!
Premenstrual by chance? Lmfao
Grow up."
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