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over a year ago
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"If you saw someone on here had 30 meets in a month with 30 different people (No clubs) would you meet them?"
Depends on what they say. If it was a greedy girl that had been to a few parties that month that wouldn't bother me but it would be different to someone who'd been shagging every day of the month. But each to their own. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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and to mention OP ... if you have biddies - you might not be being verified throughout the 30 days although you might be meeting. Who would really know how regularly you are having sex - veris just let people know you are genuine / dencent really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no
thats kinda reckless
In what way is it reckless ? Personally no, if they were all play meets."
30 meets in 30 days?
this is the net man. you need to be more careful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see it as that person is having fun while they can and good on them. Don't know what's round the corner in this game called life.
So no it wouldn't bother us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney"
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"and to mention OP ... if you have biddies - you might not be being verified throughout the 30 days although you might be meeting. Who would really know how regularly you are having sex - veris just let people know you are genuine / dencent really"
that was supposed to say *buddies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney"
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I think if you are running through 30 people it kind of indicates you'll fuck anything that'll move. To gain a sexual interest over simple physical appearance, you are seriously going to have to 'luck out' to find 30 hot meets back to back.
I have came close to meeting that many days back to back, with a day or two off, but that was only as I had several buddies for several months. Cant speak for anyone else but protection has to be paramount with any casual meets. |
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"If you saw someone on here had 30 meets in a month with 30 different people (No clubs) would you meet them?"
It has no bearing whatsoever on whether we would meet them. This is a swingers site! We tend to shag each other at least that much in a month (well maybe not quite!) so what is the difference?
We just admire the energy you (one!?) need to please 30 different people, most impressive!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you saw someone on here had 30 meets in a month with 30 different people (No clubs) would you meet them?
It has no bearing whatsoever on whether we would meet them. This is a swingers site! We tend to shag each other at least that much in a month (well maybe not quite!) so what is the difference?
We just admire the energy you (one!?) need to please 30 different people, most impressive! "
you honestly cant differentiate between shagging 30 times as a couple and shagging 30 diff people in a month???
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney"
Because even with condoms there are risks, and the more people meet, the more that risk multiplies. It's nothing to do with judgement - it's simple maths. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there."
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney"
so your other half wouldnt ask you to exercise any caution other than a johnny if you were gonna meet 30 random guys, 30 days on the trot from a sex site on the internet? lol |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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They are your morals. You have made the choice to deem someone else as not having morals because they do not fit in with your idea of how people should behave. Some would say we all have no morals for being on this site. Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney
so your other half wouldnt ask you to exercise any caution other than a johnny if you were gonna meet 30 random guys, 30 days on the trot from a sex site on the internet? lol"
To be honest with you, I wouldn't meet 30 guys in a month. But, the guys I do meet....yes we use condoms. What else should I use that will keep me better protected?
To clarify, I'm not saying I would meet them. I just don't understand how the number of people they have fucked would effect me. I have played with people in clubs, and I don't even know how many people they have fucked. To mitigate that risk, we use condoms...so to me it wouldn't make a difference.
I am not trying to be the spokesperson for this. Just stating my opinion.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally my answer would be I wouldn't meet them. And before anyone else points out that this is a swingers site I am perfectly aware, but come on where are the morals?"
How exactly does that reflect on their morals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally my answer would be I wouldn't meet them. And before anyone else points out that this is a swingers site I am perfectly aware, but come on where are the morals?"
So you are saying whether it's right or wrong? It was just that you were waiting to say it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney"
Never had a condom split? Lucky you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney
Never had a condom split? Lucky you"
No, I haven't. And that is a risk you take with everyone you have sex with, regardless.
-Courtney |
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney
Never had a condom split? Lucky you
No, I haven't. And that is a risk you take with everyone you have sex with, regardless.
-Courtney"
For sure, but that risk kind of increases when someone has had so many partners who may or may not have worn protection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney
Never had a condom split? Lucky you
No, I haven't. And that is a risk you take with everyone you have sex with, regardless.
-Courtney
For sure, but that risk kind of increases when someone has had so many partners who may or may not have worn protection."
Yes, and it increases when you join a swingers site and have sex with people who have lots of sex with multiple partners. It increases when I have sex with people in clubs without knowing their history. Lots of what we are doing increases that risk. I'm saying I don't think that would be any more of an issue than all the others I mentioned. You can have a different opinion.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What difference does it make how many meets someone else has? I mean, an honest question, if everyone wears protection on a meet, what difference does it make how many people the other person has had sex with?
-Courtney
Does everyone wear protection though? I know I do but I can't vouch for the other 30 people that have been there.
But it wouldn't matter what the other 30 people did. If you wear protection, and the people who met 30 people wear protection - and you fuck eachother, why would it matter what the other 30 people did?
-Courtney
Never had a condom split? Lucky you
No, I haven't. And that is a risk you take with everyone you have sex with, regardless.
-Courtney
For sure, but that risk kind of increases when someone has had so many partners who may or may not have worn protection."
Can you guarantee that all the people you meet have always used protection? What people say and what they do can often be two different things. People could be meeting every day, but may not show their veris so you wouldn't be none the wiser. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we would , it would be great to meet people like ourselves
We go out 3 times a week and sometimes have up to 5 meets a night , so we we theoretically have more meets than the example used .
Albeit 90% soft swing , and always condom for full sex .
It's a swinging site for us , in the sense that it's a place to meet other like minded folk who enjoy NSA sexual fun .
Those who judge others for the amount of sexual meets they have have no place in our life .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no
thats kinda reckless
In what way is it reckless ? Personally no, if they were all play meets.
30 meets in 30 days?
this is the net man. you need to be more careful "
So if it was 30 meets in 30 days from meeting random strangers in pubs and night clubs that wouldn't be reckless ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no
thats kinda reckless
In what way is it reckless ? Personally no, if they were all play meets.
30 meets in 30 days?
this is the net man. you need to be more careful
So if it was 30 meets in 30 days from meeting random strangers in pubs and night clubs that wouldn't be reckless ?"
i didnt say that or make that comparison did i? lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you saw someone on here had 30 meets in a month with 30 different people (No clubs) would you meet them?"
No because I don't meet women and no man in heres getting that many meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no
thats kinda reckless
In what way is it reckless ? Personally no, if they were all play meets.
30 meets in 30 days?
this is the net man. you need to be more careful
So if it was 30 meets in 30 days from meeting random strangers in pubs and night clubs that wouldn't be reckless ?
i didnt say that or make that comparison did i? lol
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No but I still don't know what you mean by reckless. In what way is meeting that many people from an adult site reckless ? |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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What's to say it's not a return profile & the Vetifications are not from people they've already met & not in the date the Meet occurred. I don't always Verify someone after a Meet on the same day. |
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"Personally my answer would be I wouldn't meet them. And before anyone else points out that this is a swingers site I am perfectly aware, but come on where are the morals?"
Morals? 
Which ones?
We kind of left the ones about non-marital sex at the door when we joined the site. We still tend to keep the 'judge not, lest you be judged' one with us though.
Assuming 30 in a month is too much, what level is 'morally acceptable'?
(There is a part of me that thinks at least someone meeting that many people wouldn't be able to remember just how forgettable my sexual prowess is  )
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