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Should I tell my hubby I'm on here or not
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the choice is your , but what do u think he will say . if u came on here as a secret as u don't think he will like why do u need to tell him.
if he said i don't wnat u on here would u come off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I tell im or not ?
You should if you like suprises "
If you were a guy posting the same question about telling your wife you'd have been ripped a new arse by now |
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"Should I tell im or not ?
You should if you like suprises
If you were a guy posting the same question about telling your wife you'd have been ripped a new arse by now "
You never know untill you try it.. It can be a pleasent surprise aswell.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I tell im or not ?
You should if you like suprises
If you were a guy posting the same question about telling your wife you'd have been ripped a new arse by now " true ! |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I would always go for honesty in relationships so if you can, speak to him about it. We are all human and all have sexual desires, if you can share those with your husband thats great.
For plenty of ideas about how to raise it, or things to think about, try listening to the Life on the Swing Set podcast. Maybe even get him to listen to some and then talk about it together. I would recommend episode 200 as a good starting point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be thrilled if my wife told me she was here. Even more if do told me she was having sex with someone.
She would go ballistic if it was the other way round. |
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We meet a man in York found out yesterday he was married, We go and stay in York a lot went on another site we use logged in went into friends he was on line Told him we are up in a week does he want to meet up usual.
Got messaging him talked about what the 3 of us had got up to told him what hotel we had booked into.
Then came back a message thanks that's all i wanted to no it was his wife he must have left the site on or not cleared history.
We have changed the date of our stay in that hotel
Best to be honest |
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"Should I tell im or not ? "
Would say don't tell him about what you've already done too late most likely heartache, but tell him you've been reading stuff online and you found this site and want to try it...Start a fresh that way he doesn't feel like you've gone behind his back.
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"I would be thrilled if my wife told me she was here. Even more if do told me she was having sex with someone.
She would go ballistic if it was the other way round. "
Have to say we are amazed at just how many people are using this site to cheat.
While there are a lot of people on here being honest about it and at least that gives others the choice, do you not think your spouse's should know?
Just an honest question from us. |
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"Should I tell im or not ?
Would say don't tell him about what you've already done too late most likely heartache, but tell him you've been reading stuff online and you found this site and want to try it...Start a fresh that way he doesn't feel like you've gone behind his back.
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Good idea!
We think that is a great way forward.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be thrilled if my wife told me she was here. Even more if do told me she was having sex with someone.
She would go ballistic if it was the other way round.
Have to say we are amazed at just how many people are using this site to cheat.
While there are a lot of people on here being honest about it and at least that gives others the choice, do you not think your spouse's should know?
Just an honest question from us."
My reason is purely sexual. I don't get any at home unless she is d*unk.
I very very rarely meet and have never never penetrated another women.
We hapsolutly adore each other and have no other problem.
Unless your in the position it's hard to explain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I tell im or not ?
You should if you like suprises
If you were a guy posting the same question about telling your wife you'd have been ripped a new arse by now "
The cheating question has been done to death by now. But I always opt for honesty in swinging, man or woman. In my opinion, you either feel you can be honest and tell him or you don't, and you shouldn't be here (or you shouldn't be with him). But it's your decision in the end of course.
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"I would be thrilled if my wife told me she was here. Even more if do told me she was having sex with someone.
She would go ballistic if it was the other way round.
Have to say we are amazed at just how many people are using this site to cheat.
While there are a lot of people on here being honest about it and at least that gives others the choice, do you not think your spouse's should know?
Just an honest question from us.
My reason is purely sexual. I don't get any at home unless she is d*unk.
I very very rarely meet and have never never penetrated another women.
We hapsolutly adore each other and have no other problem.
Unless your in the position it's hard to explain."
We do understand how hard it is, believe us.
However we just don't understand how someone who adores their partner so much can be dishonest about something so important as infidelity.
Still, that choice is yours.
Take care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He probably already knows that you are, due to the joint profile that you may, or may not already have
I love the whole role play idea and thought of I hope my husband dont come home and catch us at it
When really he is in the wardrobe all along tuggin |
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Depends on how you think he'd react we don't know him like you do
Personally I don't think "hi babe guess what? I've been screwing around behind your back for the last two weeks, boy as it been fun, but only now have I decided to do the right thing and be honest with you" is going to go down well, which is how most would probably feel that's what you've said to them, regardless of how diplomatically you approach the subject |
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"Should I tell im or not ? "
Judging by your status, it would probably be wise to at least give him a little 'heads up' before you accept any offers of free holidays. He might need to book the time off from work!
(Or was he not coming too?)
Mr ddc |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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At the end of the day you are cheating on him behind his back how do you think he will react ...are you prepared for the consequences and possibly the end of your marriage ..whether you tell him or he finds out himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used sites like this without C (and previous partners for that matter) knowing, I had no intention of meeting anyone just liked the chat and the thrill. She found out and felt betrayed, not because she thought I'd cheated on her, but because I couldn't tell her, it hurt her a lot. As it turns out she likes my kinky side and we're on here together now. Honesty is the best policy, you seem a very sexy woman, I reckon if you let him know just how sexy he'll end up feeling like the luckiest guy in the world. |
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