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over a year ago
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I don't like it I find it painful, regardless of the fact my fanny is designed for a baby to come out putting a fist in hurts
Never managed it fully, have always had to tell them to stop
Lots of women love it though you can only try for yourself and see |
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over a year ago
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done in the right moment, with the right person, in the right way it is amazing... However at other times two fingers have me whincing... So it isn't something that can just be done.
To be honest I like the after effects just as much... And sometimes for days after x |
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over a year ago
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I've started to enjoy it a lot more now than I did!! At first it felt exactly like it did when my baby was ready to be born!!! Ha
Now though, with lots of lube and with someone who knows exactly what their doing, it feels amazing (Only do this with one guy)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think carefully before you try it. The best advice I heard is as follows:
1) Fold your thumb over and measure the circumference of your hand at its widest.
2) Find something in the house approximately the same circumference (bottle, vegetable or whatever).
3) Look at what you have found and imagine using something that size for penetration, - if the idea is scary then don't try it!
4) If you still want to try, start small (1 or 2 fingers, slim dildo, carrot or whatever) and over time work up to larger insertions.
5) Find a comfortable position and always use lube!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It hurts a damn sight more if you are male so I am told. Just the thought gives me the shivers"
Nahhh!!! It's not something you manage overnight, granted, but over a period of weeks.
Enjoy the journey getting there and once you've arrived, youll be hooked. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Is it hard to do or dose it hurt to much ? Thanks Anna x "
Depends on the woman, the man, the hand, the pussy, the situation, the amount of lube and technique used. If all those things are ticked - it's a cracking ride to be on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it hard to do or dose it hurt to much ? Thanks Anna x
Depends on the woman, the man, the hand, the pussy, the situation, the amount of lube and technique used. If all those things are ticked - it's a cracking ride to be on. "
all this is true... |
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I have huge hands and some can take them some can't but lube and taking your time is the key, oh and did I say lube and more lube..... Aftercare is important make sure you have a bottle of water to drink and I find a chocolate bar never goes amiss either for the come down. |
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"Is it hard to do or dose it hurt to much ? Thanks Anna x "
Some good advice on here, I love it when hubby does it to me, follow the advice on here, especially the bit about relaxing and plenty of lube!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust. Time. Being relaxed. Lube. And most importantly the right partner doing it. All those things for me have made it an incredible experience. It's so intense I can get quite emotional. Being held close afterwords to relax and come back down to earth is also really important for me. |
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"Is it hard to do or dose it hurt to much ? Thanks Anna x
Depends on the woman, the man, the hand, the pussy, the situation, the amount of lube and technique used. If all those things are ticked - it's a cracking ride to be on. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better still find someone who's done it before and knows how to do it!
It doesn't hurt if it's done properly and you're relaxed, if it hurts then it's not being done right or you're not ready yet"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Done it with three different lady's,not all at once  smallish hands helps,start of gently,lots of probing,next thing you know full fist! Had some amazing reactions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some end up looking not so nice. Can't imagine my cock going near that one or a hand in my ass, ouch. Seen some ruined holes. Each to their own. Objects like pussy pumps, some really enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think as with all things it is personal to the time and place. If it going to work it will feel right i.e. Without lube you are almost there because the position, natural wetness and relaxation are all correct. Then you have possibility of adding lube and gently going for it. Other times it won't feel right and then no point on trying as no one will enjoy. In other words you have to feel your way in.
I have small hands and only occasionally does it feel right to go this far but when its right its great for both parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some guys
jeez they dnt have a clue what they are doing with fingers
in a out as fast as they can no rhythm just like they sawing something haha
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To be fair - isn't the same likely to be true of some women's skills at wanking guys or giving them oral? |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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True enough, the female body is designed in such a way that it may deliver a child so surely a fist would work?.... However a baby is delivered at the end of 9 months of hormonal changes and minor muscular skeletal relaxing... and still often ends in stitches, prolapse and incontinence!
Just think about it. |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"3 fingers in is sooooo good, 4th one makes it not so good, never done the full 5 sisters of pleasure
Which is strange because a 6 inch diameter cock fits easy enough 
6" diameter??"
Doh, my math. ......circumference though it felt that big going up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think carefully before you try it. The best advice I heard is as follows:
1) Fold your thumb over and measure the circumference of your hand at its widest.
2) Find something in the house approximately the same circumference (bottle, vegetable or whatever).
3) Look at what you have found and imagine using something that size for penetration, - if the idea is scary then don't try it!
4) If you still want to try, start small (1 or 2 fingers, slim dildo, carrot or whatever) and over time work up to larger insertions.
5) Find a comfortable position and always use lube!
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The expert talked |
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"Is it hard to do or dose it hurt to much ? Thanks Anna x
just wondering how come many guys 'know' about if it hurts?"
This sub knows very well, and it does a little but very much pain/pleasure sensations ... Especially when her second hand goes in  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Think carefully before you try it. The best advice I heard is as follows:
1) Fold your thumb over and measure the circumference of your hand at its widest.
2) Find something in the house approximately the same circumference (bottle, vegetable or whatever).
3) Look at what you have found and imagine using something that size for penetration, - if the idea is scary then don't try it!
4) If you still want to try, start small (1 or 2 fingers, slim dildo, carrot or whatever) and over time work up to larger insertions.
5) Find a comfortable position and always use lube!
The expert talked "
Just a heads up .. the bones in your fist, are nothing like any fruit, veg, dildo or any other toy. Using tapered insertions to somehow get your pussy used to girth, will be pleasurable sure, but when a bloke comes at you with a grin an a fist and no idea, you are going to clench. Read the other tips OP and you'll be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watck kinkyjo on pornhub, she makes it look easy
Dirty Garden Girl is good for people curious about the inner workings....  "
Both of them need to work out what parts stay inside and what parts are better suited outside of the body! |
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Experienced it only very recently - was amazing. I always had the attitude there in no way on earth ur going to do that to me. However ...... It's about trust, being exceptionally turned on and relax completely and let them own u
Was truly amazing ; ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get so many queries in this topic and there is some excellent advice here and some not so. I am no expert but I am well experienced. Its got to be something you really want to try. Even if just curious.
The thing about fisting is that its a journey and. Ot such an event. Not at least until you become experienced but even then you will have a routine that gets you opened up.
A nice warm bath, a few candles, really relaxed atmostphere and get yourself totally relaxed. A drink or two if tou like but not to much as you want to know your limits and avoid injury. It could put you off for life and then you would really be missing out!
I fould a video whilst its quite small it is rather helpful. It doesnt make much reference to kube but we all no you use a ton of the stuff for this activity!
Go slowly, push a little futher each time but know your limits. Most of all enjoy the journey. I have not experienced a more senual intimate time as when fisting. I could fo as far and suggest I am a bit of a fan of it....
http://a8-77.1-386.cdn13.com/videos/26000/26220/26220_lq.mp4?cdn_hash=c65ac4caf8a777495233e594a0f2058f&cdn_creation_time=1439544179&cdn_ttl=3600&cdn_bw=32896&cdn_bw_fs=303k
Have fun!! X |
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I have not had the experience of having it done to me, but I have done it, in a club, to a male acquaintance - was an interesting feeling - little preparation needed, maybe as my hands are small .... my partner has received an anal massage, not from me - as I am not that skilled, was apparently an great experience ... or so he says |
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Absolutely true what you say..I have been experienced fisting top to guys and a girl. Takes patience..lol I love it when a sub messages saying fist me now. I ask their experience and they dont even self play so it won't happen overnight! Patience is a virtue with fisting.
Also I highly recommend J Lube. It comes i powder form and can be mixed to create an incredibly great lube for fisting..can be a biy messy and gloopy but worth it for the extra lubrication it provides.
With regards to pain..it depends on the level of previous training and experience the fistee has had.. a first fisting experience can be briefly painful. Thats why feedback is so necessary and being conscious of contractions around your fist. Dont be shy to take your time and take breaks.
Incredibly sensual and it is lovely reassuring someone and welcoming them back from subspace after a fisting session. |
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over a year ago
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I've previously been with women who generally found more than 2/3 fingers uncomfortable, but back in 2011 I had a cpl meet from fab and when we were playing, she was on all 4's sucking him whilst I had her pussy to play with, anyway they kept asking me to increase my fingers entering her until I was at 4 fingers, then he passed me some lube to smear my fist in and said to slide it in, which I slowly did, was such a different experience with her writhing all over my fist and then she came very hard I thought she was going to faint, then I slid my fist out and she gushed, it took her a little while to recover from cunning that heavily. |
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"done in the right moment, with the right person, in the right way it is amazing... However at other times two fingers have me whincing... So it isn't something that can just be done.
To be honest I like the after effects just as much... And sometimes for days after x "
After effects? Can you explain please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it hard to do or dose it hurt to much ? Thanks Anna x "
Hard to do, but after some stretching and lots of lube it feels amazing;y horny to be fisted hard and fast. |
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over a year ago
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It depends. ..
I love it - sometimes
But only with my hubby - or sexy lady.
If my hubby does it or can only be after he's cum inside me ands I'm fully lubed.
He does have large hands though.
It's a fabulous feeling if done right - and gently! |
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I absolutely love being fisted.Had it again yesterday from a meet off here. Its awesome feeling especially when they massage it in. I guess I am lucky enough to play with people that know how to do it properly. x |
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