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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We do

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By *exy6768Couple over a year ago

manchester

We do

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By *asterandhiswhoreCouple over a year ago

southampton

Lisa loves it. I like watching

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman over a year ago

Northwest

My man loves it, and I'm not complaining

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We do this and me and my husband love it! Not cuckolding though more voyeuristic!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My kinda girls xxxxx

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By *arEsseCouple over a year ago

keighley

Esse loves it and so do I,not happened enough though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love to do it or just watch but never had the chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Us too

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

Most of my meets with couples have taken this theme...

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Would love for this to happen

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By *picyspiregirlCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

Another couple here who love it. The sex afterwards is always brilliant too so it's a win win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another couple here who love it. The sex afterwards is always brilliant too so it's a win win

Totally agree - we love it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?

In front, behind, below, on top - Yes I do! m x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?

Yup. It's great fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would love for this to happen

Waves hands , me me me l

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By *orbi24Man over a year ago

London

Since i joined fabs i did meet only couples where the husband was watching and i know all of them did enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well we aren't married, but us!

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman over a year ago

Northwest

Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB.

I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar.

I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We sort of do...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another couple here who love it. The sex afterwards is always brilliant too so it's a win win

Totally agree with this...very lucky lady!

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By *orbi24Man over a year ago

London

"Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB.

I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar.

I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing

Uhhh. That is fantastic.

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple over a year ago

Near Malvern

We love it!

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Have this fantasy of having a Cuck watch as I restrain their partner to discover how bi she is before......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like to do this. I (Mr) do especially. Probably the main reason for me wanting to get into swinging. Although, not really in the Cuckold sense, more Voyeurism.

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By *he Ring WraithMan over a year ago

Bradford

I love being the guy doing it .... Just need a regular couple to play with !

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By *entleman JimmyMan over a year ago

Hove

Things I especially like are watching the other m's face as I slide into his wife for the first time - and getting him to hold her pussy wide and guide me in...

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

Paul loves watching me get a good fucking i love to get a good fucking HAPPY DAYS Not going to argue am I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me

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By *he Ring WraithMan over a year ago

Bradford

"My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me"

Lucky other guys !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We love it!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% agree with this! The after sex and the sexual connection is just unreal! I cant keep my hands off the mrs afterwards! And she loves it! X

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By *errynjuneCouple over a year ago

Barnsley

Really does it for both of us, I love the extra cocks and amazing sex. He loves to watch and help, works great for both of us. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iv played with a few people who's husbands watched only done it in clubs though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love it,Hubby likes to watch & join in,I love all the attention from two hard cocks.....not always easy to find the right guy,but be good so far....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i do love to watch my wife getting it good & hard u cant beet it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, hubby likes to watch me being used when he can. Not done the humiliation bit yet, guys seem reluctant to do this for some reason but hubby is up for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me"

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife and I tried it for the first time a couple of weeks ago and both fucking loved it. It wasn't anything too heavy but I have never come so hard. Watching her suck this guy off and then being fucked was proper hot stuff. She wants two guys now, and possibly black so watch this space xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As we've said, I prefer watching RG with someone else, we even look for someone we can see on a regular basis as we are keen to explore the intercourse denial side of things. With the right man we are open to all possibilities including a poly three way with the new man taking more of a primary position sexualy.

It's all good fun and I think that's the key to it, as soon as it isn't fun it's time to stop! If all three of us are getting what we need out of it, it's all good. Sure our vanilla friends would think were mad but we discovered we prefer an alternative type of life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, hubby likes to watch me being used when he can. Not done the humiliation bit yet, guys seem reluctant to do this for some reason but hubby is up for it."

I'll give it a go

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By *unsurreycouple1Couple over a year ago

Surrey

Cuckolding is such a broad subject, and means different things to different folks.

The humiliation, cock cages and BBC scenarios do nothing for us but each to their own.

I much prefer him to wear a strap-on so I can have any size cock I want at the time, he also finds it liberating not to have the stress of worrying about staying hard and not cumming too soon, unless I want him to of course!

I love to watch him bring a cock to life for me and love him to take the cream when I have finished with it.

Pegging is also a big part of our play now, I like the control and role reversal it gives me and playing with TV`s is our new nirvana, for us there is nothing so horny as a cock restrained in satin and lace.

We have found our sex life evolves, quite slowly, but each time to a higher level and as our time is very precious we only tend to meet BI couples and TV`s now.

What ever the word means to you have fun...xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any couples or females fancy a naughty chat about their path to enjoying this sort of thing. Mild cuck here, not really been cucked properly because she is very sub herself. Thoughts please

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By *oxyukCouple over a year ago

hitchin

Love Mrs f being slutty with another guys only problem is she doesn't take advantage of the situation enough!!

Foxes x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love being that 3rd party......the guy wuo brings that something extra to a couples marriage. ...building up that trust with them both...Exploring and pushing those boundaries with them both........and being involved in their relationship at a level that the wife and hubby stay totally in love and happy with each other......

they are the ice cream and cone, and im the rasberry topping

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we do

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By *inups99Couple over a year ago

manchester

"We do this and me and my husband love it! Not cuckolding though more voyeuristic!"

same as us - not really cuck but I love watching my wife having sex with someone else, sometimes joining in.

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By *jxxxxCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Yep we play cuck games

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love Mrs f being slutty with another guys only problem is she doesn't take advantage of the situation enough!!

Foxes x"

Yes that is probably where we are at. She must be similar to Mrs N.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love doing it and it makes him so horny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He is a lucky man then Jane that you indulge him in his fantasies. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He is a lucky man then Jane that you indulge him in his fantasies. x"
I'm indulging mine......he's along for the ride!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have a different attitude to Mrs N then Jane. Mrs N is free to behave like you do and indulge yourself but she chooses not too and let's me do the organising and stuff. Prefers to be more enigmatic about it I guess and always keeps me on tenterhooks as to whether she is enjoying the ride or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My hubby simply adores seeing me with another guy - he also likes to be truly humiliated during the process but it is VERY hard to find guys that can do that properly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My hubby simply adores seeing me with another guy - he also likes to be truly humiliated during the process but it is VERY hard to find guys that can do that properly."
It is difficult to find guys who know how to run a cuck session, they know how to look after me but not what to do about hubby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you've hit the nail on the head - they think it's just about fucking the lady - wrong - at least for us - it's the verbal humiliation that really turns us both on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes that is the problem we have. Up until now it has always been me that directs the flow as I have got quite a good imagination. Mrs N is definitely a sub and prefers to be directed. What we need is a guy that knows the game and takes us to a new level. For example the other day we had a young man round.

We went upstairs and blindfolded mrs and sat her in our office chair. The guy and I stood in front of her with our cocks in her face and I told her to suck our cocks. Now this virile young man was hard as iron, mine not quite so so I suggested that she choose which cock she wanted to fuck first. Basically it would have been better if he had made this suggestion wouldn't it. Surely a Bull must assume this sort of thing and use their imagination a bit. Hopefully he has learnt from this and next time will assume the role a bit more fully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn't this sort of thing that jane and Tooty are on about ?. The Bull needs to asset himself a bit more and do things that are a turn on like what I have just described.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't this sort of thing that jane and Tooty are on about ?. The Bull needs to asset himself a bit more and do things that are a turn on like what I have just described."
Yes. He should be in charge of the situation taking control of me and hubby. You really need a bi guy for this to be done properly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cool,

I think we've found one actually who is Bi. Hopefully the guy I have mentioned on this thread seems willing to take up the challenge, at end of day it is a learning process for all parties concerned as to what is required. He is learning too about how to treat us. Next time hoping for good things to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us its not so much the need for humiliation as the need for a guy to really take charge, we're both inexperienced and not very assertive sexually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of the things that I would really like to happen is quite simple. Either Mrs N or the Bull to ask me to leave the room and return when asked. Mrs N won't do that, It's the return when asked that would be important to me. instead I am tempted to peep in and disturb their fucking. I would like to be told to make myself scarce.

Quite simple really isn't it but up to now I have always had to ask if it was OK to leave the room. Quite a subtle difference there isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once Mrs N gets the confidence then she can join in with your bull and take control of how you are treated. I feel that once she was enjoying herself then she would want you there to watch and to tell you how good he was. I keep my hubby there the whole time in case I, or my fellow controller, require any services from him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From a guy perspective, cuckolding is the ultimate fun. I love it, including humiliating the hubby. Finding experienced cuck couples is difficult though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Once Mrs N gets the confidence then she can join in with your bull and take control of how you are treated. I feel that once she was enjoying herself then she would want you there to watch and to tell you how good he was. I keep my hubby there the whole time in case I, or my fellow controller, require any services from him.

Good point here Jane. Yes that is a good scenario too. Perhaps that is her dynamic. She enjoys me watching, how she is being attended to by the bull.

She has told me she loves the idea of me being on the other side of the door, or in the next room, waiting patiently to be invited back in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point here Jane. Yes that is a good scenario too. Perhaps that is her dynamic. She enjoys me watching, how she is being attended to by the bull.

She has told me she loves the idea of me being on the other side of the door, or in the next room, waiting patiently to be invited back in."
This works as long as she is good and loud!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow would love to be involved in this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh yes Jane, she is very loud. And the bed is quite creaky

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other!

Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?

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By *incs-cpl1Couple over a year ago

Peterborough

We love it too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other!

Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?"

Good point you make there. Mrs N prefers the couples scene and given choice would always want to meet couple. One of reasons is I think she feels less under pressure to perform and the workload can be shared regards fucking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He likes to watch for a little while . . I prefer him to join in

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He likes to watch for a little while . . I prefer him to join in

Her "

That's nice. Perhaps as a one off give him what he really needs and explore his boundary. You may be pleasantly suprised at the result.

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By *windoncouple888Couple over a year ago

Swindon

I love to send my girl out on outdoor meets in her car. She meets the guys drives to a quiet place we know where she wanks/sucks them off, she videos it on her phone and sends me them to watch. Hottest thing ever fucking her after!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just wank or suck ? has she gone further and you've found more than you bargained for in her knicks ?

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By *windoncouple888Couple over a year ago

Swindon

Only done wank and suck, she takes the guys load too! Had her tits played with. Looking to go further in the next meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm dying to meet a couple in the aberdeen area who wants hubby to watch while I pleasure her but no luck yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only done wank and suck, she takes the guys load too! Had her tits played with. Looking to go further in the next meets "

What a deliciously naughty lady she must be and so much for you to look forward to by the looks of it. I bet there are times when you could burst with passion for her. I hope you attended to her and cleaned off her spunky boobs. Were they well coated ?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?

This is what we mostly do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other!

Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?"

Yes - a cuckolding couple is fantastic - though VERY VERY hard to find

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other!

Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?

Yes - a cuckolding couple is fantastic - though VERY VERY hard to find

Really? Why is that...do you mean finding a couple who will engage in the humiliation aspects if required is difficult, or who are happy playing with the husband as an onlooker?

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By *drianukMan over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

Very horny story, Edwalu

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hot

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By *ullmycracker1Man over a year ago

westmidlands

How many women love doing it behind their mans back?

Mine did the bitch lol

thats why im on here solo gaha

any ladies to cheer me up lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women love doing it behind their mans back?

Mine did the bitch lol

thats why im on here solo gaha

any ladies to cheer me up lol"

That's not really a cuckold more a man being cheated on. RG did fuck someone at a do once that I didn't attend, only found out the morning after so was the closest to having it done behind my back. For the record, we had a fantastic fuck when she got back as she replayed what they had done!

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By *ullmycracker1Man over a year ago

westmidlands

"How many women love doing it behind their mans back?

Mine did the bitch lol

thats why im on here solo gaha

any ladies to cheer me up lol

fair enough if you can cope with that.

I hope you pounded her ass good n proper as punishment! .

Deceit pisses me off personaly

good she came clean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women love doing it behind their mans back?

Mine did the bitch lol

thats why im on here solo gaha

any ladies to cheer me up lol

fair enough if you can cope with that.

I hope you pounded her ass good n proper as punishment! .

Deceit pisses me off personaly

good she came clean

Erm no I didn't and it wasn't deceit as I had given my blessing to pursue if she met someone, not much to cope with, it's all part of a cuckold relationship.

Think you may have misunderstood my last post.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it.

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By *ewmoonCouple over a year ago

Manchester

That's pretty much what we are doing right now. Took us a long time to find the right guy though! But now that we have it's very satisfying for all 3 of us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We do this and me and my husband love it! Not cuckolding though more voyeuristic!"

Dictionary definition... Cuckold.. A man with an unfaithful wife.

So at its basic definition it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We like to do this. I (Mr) do especially. Probably the main reason for me wanting to get into swinging. Although, not really in the Cuckold sense, more Voyeurism."

These things are not black or white. Cuckold is one thing. Voyeurism another. It's easy to do both.... or even take it further with humiliation,bondage etc etc.

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By *ewmoonCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Would totally agree, lot's of guys say they are dominant and would really enjoy the verbal humiliation/cuckold scenario but the vast majority have no idea!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cuckolding is such a broad subject, and means different things to different folks."

Very true. But in the English language words have meanings. Yes there are several dictionaries but the English classic is the Oxford English Dictionary.

Here is the link to the definition

http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/cuckold

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it."

It is a huge misconception that humiliation goes hand in hand with having a hotwife.

Good friends of mine (online) have struggled to get this understood.

He, in no way, wishes to be talked down to or belittled..... His turn on is to see her turned on, to see her lose herself, give into her lust.....to view from a distance and be able to drink in the whole picture.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x "

If you are married and they have sex it does. See my OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women love doing it behind their mans back?

Mine did the bitch lol

thats why im on here solo gaha

any ladies to cheer me up lol

Yes it is. Read the definition in my other post. Just needs marriage and unfaithful wife.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing in the definitions say degrading. Unfaithful wife is the key.

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dictionary definitions are static but terms are dynamic and certain practices develop certain connotations.

The average perception of a cuckold is an unwilling participant or humiliated husband.

As with all sexual practices, it is impossible to pigeon hole kinks.

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

Watched mine in our Garden yesterday before joining in

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By *hopper75Couple over a year ago

London & Portugal

I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love watching hubby with another female but quickly join in xxc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. "

Never work, a cuck by nature is submissive.

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By *ewmoonCouple over a year ago

Manchester

It could work. I used to be the more dominant one in our early relationship but that has changed over the years, now I am sexually submissive.

However this is means that we have been frustrated in recent years with supposed 'dom guys/bulls' we have met. Their fumblings and complete lack of imagination has been the source of that frustration.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enjoy ie hubs loves just to watch me and the dirtier I am the more horny he gets .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. "

I have been both cuck to a previous GF and am now Bull to couples. I understand the thrill from both sides of the scenario and find I have a better connection with the hubby and understanding of his desires from the meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Esse loves it and so do I,not happened enough though

That could be rectified

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By *b3467Couple over a year ago

Dorset

We love it too

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By *hopper75Couple over a year ago

London & Portugal

"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband.

I am a cuckold male but can be very Dom. I have had my way with a few wives and of course know what buttons to push for the couple.

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By *andm288Couple over a year ago

oxford

Not really into the whole cuckold thing but have to agree watching J body language as she is taken by another is truly amazing and yes I will join in or just watch

But the sex afterwards is Awsome

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

Nothing in the definitions say degrading. Unfaithful wife is the key."

if she is having sex with someone in front of him, male or female its not being unfaithful..

sharing yes and many other terms but not unfaithful in any way shape or form when all 3 (or more) are there and its consensual play..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x

If you are married and they have sex it does. See my OP"

wrong again..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why can't I ever find a boyfriend who gets off on watching other men fuck me?

My life sucks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't I ever find a boyfriend who gets off on watching other men fuck me?

My life sucks

That's because you've never met me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm north west and south west aren't particularly close though

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By *ingersoloWoman over a year ago

Oldham

:D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls. "

What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a great turn on either with the hubby as a voyeur or a cuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dictionary definitions are static but terms are dynamic and certain practices develop certain connotations.

The average perception of a cuckold is an unwilling participant or humiliated husband.

As with all sexual practices, it is impossible to pigeon hole kinks."

I disagree. The language in this case is so simple. It is like an atom. But you can combine other attributes or kinks together. You can humiliate you husband without Cuckolding. Ditto chastity etc.

Like chemistry it is possible to combine lots of individual ideas into a more complex idea.

However the basic premise remains the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband.

Never work, a cuck by nature is submissive. "

In the wider BDSM world they say a similar thing. That to be good dominant requires the experience of a submissive.

I can't say I agree but if is anorher popular statement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband.

Never work, a cuck by nature is submissive.

In the wider BDSM world they say a similar thing. That to be good dominant requires the experience of a submissive.

I can't say I agree but if is anorher popular statement. "

I would guess it's popular because to understand what it's like to be in someone's position, you have to walk a mile in their shoes, however, it's not foolproof and is dependant on the individual

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing in the definitions say degrading. Unfaithful wife is the key.

if she is having sex with someone in front of him, male or female its not being unfaithful..

sharing yes and many other terms but not unfaithful in any way shape or form when all 3 (or more) are there and its consensual play.."

Very valid and this is the only big issue I have ever had with the definition. What is unfaithful. Is it just dishonest cheating. Is is not unfaithful in a consensual lifestyle.

The OED says unfaithful means

"Engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one’s regular partner incontravention of a previous promise orunderstanding:"

But can an agreement of consent override marriage vows. In practice yes. We do this all the time in this lifestyle... however if a swinging couple divorced unfaithfulness could be quoted as there is a societal expectation of fathfullness.

But thanks for thinking about it fully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like using the term 'cuckolding' to mean watching my wife have sex with another guy ...but yeah, watching my wife have sex with another guy is hot.

To me, the term cuckolding is the full gammut ...humiliating the husband, the husband cleaning the woman out etc .....eeeugh.

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By *riangle12Couple over a year ago

Leeds

we do and we love it!

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By *igDigitsMan over a year ago

North West

"Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB.

I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar.

I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing

"
. I'm flirtygirls other half and tonight I'm been cuckolded I've watched here get ready put on something sexy do her make up and has now gone to a party on her own while I'm in a cage talk about horny butterfly's in the tummy why the f--k is it such a turn on x

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By *igDigitsMan over a year ago

North West

"I don't like using the term 'cuckolding' to mean watching my wife have sex with another guy ...but yeah, watching my wife have sex with another guy is hot.

To me, the term cuckolding is the full gammut ...humiliating the husband, the husband cleaning the woman out etc .....eeeugh."

I like wot you've put we're the same we don't do the whole cuckold part it's enough knowing that she's out there playing and going to come back and tell and tease me with wot goes on x

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By *icetimescoupleCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'.

Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife loves nothing better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'.

Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it. "

There are quite a lot of knows about I agree.There are the sheep (in clubs follows women / couples around luke lost sheep - the prettier the girl the bigger the train she pulls. These guys will simply lie to get a fuck - that's how they see all sex as, a fuck. No such word - erotic - in their vocabulary. Then there are the sharks, more predetermined but calculating in their approach, indestinguishable from a genuine guy who wants the same thing as you do - mutually satisfying mind blowing sex with just the right talent in role play, understanding everybody's needs not just their need to empty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB.

I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar.

I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing

. I'm flirtygirls other half and tonight I'm been cuckolded I've watched here get ready put on something sexy do her make up and has now gone to a party on her own while I'm in a cage talk about horny butterfly's in the tummy why the f--k is it such a turn on x

Mr General is in his cage and this is what we are doing tonight - can't wait.

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By *knylonchickCouple over a year ago

hitchin

We love this lifestyle too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'.

Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it. "

Snap, loads of guys talk the talk but when it comes to it just want to empty their balls. It's not what we want as to make it work properly everyone has to be involved including the cuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love it as does my husband. As do the guys. Soooooo sexy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'.

Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it.

Snap, loads of guys talk the talk but when it comes to it just want to empty their balls. It's not what we want as to make it work properly everyone has to be involved including the cuck. "

Then explain the situation. Tell us what you 're really lookin for. Don't miss a thing.. you know? Careful what you wish for..

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By *punkloverCouple over a year ago

hatfield

My hubby loves watching me being fucked etc but always joins in, long may it continue !!!!

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By *J45Man over a year ago

Norwich

":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls.

What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk???"

If there is we could be interested. We will be moving to North Norfolk in October.

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman over a year ago

Northwest

"Why can't I ever find a boyfriend who gets off on watching other men fuck me?

My life sucks

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By *tom69Couple over a year ago

milton keynes

Wife has gone out for a meal with her friend at a hotel whilst I am locked up at home my imagination running wild ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait for breakin news;))))

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would like to do this anyone in cornwall??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love it.Especially with a group of hung black guys x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got a very promising cuck meet sorted for Sunday night with 2 vwe chaps - for us it involves my hubby basically being ignored - unless we choose to verbally humiliate him - and, of course, he will be made to clean up! He loves it - and so do I ! x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice play ground

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We play and sometimes with a single male but the fem dina is collared and and im not humiliated and its consensual so its not cookold and its not hotwife as im there and i control who and where. ps i hate labels too lol but yeah dina is a very lucky collared slave girl who plays with single males and cpls with me and without me so label that lol....

PS we in chat rooms most time come say hi..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls.

What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk???

If there is we could be interested. We will be moving to North Norfolk in October."

All you need is a venue for people to meet at whether that be a restaurant, nightclub or a swingers club, a date and then see if people are available. We'd never been to a social or hosted one until the other week and purely started life as an idea on the forum

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By *ocoTemptationMan over a year ago

london

"My hubby simply adores seeing me with another guy - he also likes to be truly humiliated during the process but it is VERY hard to find guys that can do that properly. It is difficult to find guys who know how to run a cuck session, they know how to look after me but not what to do about hubby.

Oh I don't know ab. Some of us know exactly what to do with both the wife and the cuckold

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By *aycee70Couple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?

Love it, so naughty

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships.

When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife.

Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships.

When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife.

Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much.

We love the lifestyle cuckolding and poly relationships have been part of our lives for 10+ years. I don't think jealousy comes into it, I couldn't see it working if the husband/partner was a jealousperson. As for the psychological damage I think my hubby would be more damaged if we didn't do this. Like the other women who am I to complain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships.

When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife.

Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much.

It's possible that some relationships the safeguards for physical, psychological and emotional abuse don't exist but for the majority of couples this is a consensual thing that cuck has asked for. For most the lifestyle isn't full time and is a bit of role play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls.

What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk???"

Thats something we would attend too

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships.

When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife.

Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much.

That's good to know. I get that generally it's been asked for but just like rough sex you can see why safe words or safe guards maybe needed.

It's only the odd post conversation I've had that raises concern. But when they talk of her disappearing for unplanned weekends and other things you could see a situation were humiliation changes ones opinion of themselves.

But as you say for most it's a part time roleplay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone around Worcester area looking for help with this scenario....feel free to message.

Plenty experience!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships.

When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife.

Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much.

That's good to know. I get that generally it's been asked for but just like rough sex you can see why safe words or safe guards maybe needed.

But as you say for most it's a part time roleplay. "

We consider ourselves pretty tame with humiliation compared to things we've read and heard but have a safe word in case ever goes too far. Never had to use it though which shows I made the right decision to trust Ginger. We often have a chat after every meet to talk about what was good and what could have been done better. Communication is THE most important part of cuckolding.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any couples interested in trying or already like this lifestyle in my area please get in touch

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

I think that applies to all successful human relationships.

Yet commonly neglected.

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x "

yes it does, cuckolding is a very wide spectrum including or not including many things depending what the people involved want, there are no set rules that it must include this or that, each situation will be unique to its own.

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

you dont need to be degraded to be cucked, if you are watching your wife then you are been cucked, whether you choose to use the word is upto you, if you are watching others then you are been voyeuristic.

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

I agree, degradation, cleaning act at the end is not required in cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other!

Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?"

I (f) enjoy couples (greedy) and he enjoys me getting pleasure but joins in when invited. For us it's the watching and knowing he's there to watch..but prefer cpls as less stress then single guys as usually they fail to perform

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

Love to watch the lady but she occasionally likes to watch too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hot hot hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like the sound of this.. would like to have ago!

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By *c69funCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

Yes yes yes , we really enjoy this and have been into it nearly 6 yrs, we enjoy several scenarios , me playing while Cuck isn't present , both me and the guy send text messages , pics and phone calls to cuck teasing him in what he is missing, cuck being there and preparing both the guy and myself and then either watching and awaiting the end result or if he's been really good I may get on all fours and let him lick my clit as the guy fucks me from behind .

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By *r69xMan over a year ago

St Helens

"Yes yes yes , we really enjoy this and have been into it nearly 6 yrs, we enjoy several scenarios , me playing while Cuck isn't present , both me and the guy send text messages , pics and phone calls to cuck teasing him in what he is missing, cuck being there and preparing both the guy and myself and then either watching and awaiting the end result or if he's been really good I may get on all fours and let him lick my clit as the guy fucks me from behind . "

My favourite is to have the cuck handcuffed outside the room so he can hear everything but can't touch his little dick!! Then bring him in for clean up duties!

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By *arkcouple40Couple over a year ago

Newcastle

Not a better sight watching Rachael getting fucked while I watch!!!!..x

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By *igboy10essexMan over a year ago

Upminster

"My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me

Ditto!"

Would he like to watch you ride me x

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By *igboy10essexMan over a year ago

Upminster

"My hubby loves watching me being fucked etc but always joins in, long may it continue !!!!"

Love an audition for future events xx

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By *c69funCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

My favourite is to have the cuck handcuffed outside the room so he can hear everything but can't touch his little dick!! Then bring him in for clean up duties!"

That's where a chastity cage comes into play!!!

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