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Gay blokes, just can't take the hint!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if it's like when us girls have no filters on... Do you guys receive just as much as us? LOL I think not
All new messages from everyone blocked for me " No but we get more offers than we get from women lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you don't want to set your filters the you can't really complain that you get the odd message from a fella. It's not exactly a major drama though is it. Message received icon, exciting. Oh it's from a bloke, delete and think no more on it. Solved.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win "
When you've had a guy whose profile says straight send you messages about fucking your ass bareback when your profile picture (I assume, maybe incorrectly) is of a man, and says male... Delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if it's like when us girls have no filters on... Do you guys receive just as much as us? LOL I think not
All new messages from everyone blocked for me "
I can relate to how you ladies must feel because within one day I have received more messages of very little content offering Various services from guys than I thought possible |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if you don't want to set your filters the you can't really complain that you get the odd message from a fella. It's not exactly a major drama though is it. Message received icon, exciting. Oh it's from a bloke, delete and think no more on it. Solved.
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More than the odd message lol.... Guess it's just me being naive that the odd guy might need another guy to please his girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you don't want to set your filters the you can't really complain that you get the odd message from a fella. It's not exactly a major drama though is it. Message received icon, exciting. Oh it's from a bloke, delete and think no more on it. Solved.
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More than the odd message lol.... Guess it's just me being naive that the odd guy might need another guy to please his girl! "
You can still set your filter and search for that guy yourself....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But changing the subject does it make you bi or gay if you let a guy suck your cock ? "
Go and start another thread about it rather than hijacking this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just changed my profile to bi curious and let blokes message it's like the flood gates opened and they are not the most engaging messages "
Single males tend to be a bit shit in general though, ones who make an effort are the exception to the rule. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its probably because a lot of guys put straight on their profile when they are really bi. Are any of your messages from "straight" guys ?"
One or two! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its probably because a lot of guys put straight on their profile when they are really bi. Are any of your messages from "straight" guys ?"
I would say 50% of mine are |
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win "
but wont straight blokes fb's be women? If you set up a meet with a single, straight man who claims he has a fb he is going to bring along be prepared for a disappointment....just saying. |
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win
but wont straight blokes fb's be women? If you set up a meet with a single, straight man who claims he has a fb he is going to bring along be prepared for a disappointment....just saying."
He should prepare himself for that kind of disappointment from some of the "couples" on the site too. |
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win
but wont straight blokes fb's be women? If you set up a meet with a single, straight man who claims he has a fb he is going to bring along be prepared for a disappointment....just saying.
He should prepare himself for that kind of disappointment from some of the "couples" on the site too. "
indeed he should! We had just such a disappointment this morning, luckily we spotted the signs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"set your message filters, then they wont be able to message you?! simple lol.
SashaI don't cos I chat to many on different forum subjects via pm."
That's your choice. Although if you pm them first they can reply.
So many men on here parading as 'straight' when in reality they are cock hungry...how are the gay blokes supposed to differentiate?
If their messages bother you, turn the filter on. If you don't mind the extra attention then don't
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win "
Remove GAY. Welcome to womens' world. |
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win
but wont straight blokes fb's be women? If you set up a meet with a single, straight man who claims he has a fb he is going to bring along be prepared for a disappointment....just saying.
He should prepare himself for that kind of disappointment from some of the "couples" on the site too.
indeed he should! We had just such a disappointment this morning, luckily we spotted the signs "
Not to mention the "single" fems that have a secret FB that wants to play too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"set your message filters, then they wont be able to message you?! simple lol.
SashaI don't cos I chat to many on different forum subjects via pm.
That's your choice. Although if you pm them first they can reply.
So many men on here parading as 'straight' when in reality they are cock hungry...how are the gay blokes supposed to differentiate?
If their messages bother you, turn the filter on. If you don't mind the extra attention then don't
Sasha" As I said its just via forum posts and no it don't bothers me. |
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The amount of so called straight guys ive been contacted by over the past few weeks is crazy! Most are rude and just downright replusive! Ive blocked them all because of it! The one this morning straight on profile but all pics were of him crossdressing! Wanted to know if i wanted to fuck him? So decided to block them all there not worth bothering with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no issue if you go into message filter and stop single men from messaging you
If you like a chat with the guys and don't want to block them all then just ignore the ones who want to touch and play with your winky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win "
I doubt very much that you will be swamped with offers from "straight blokes fbs." So, yes, you can win. Use your filters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gay or straight just no lie , it really odd if bloke turns up and it awkward they sit naked but not doin nothing with fem looking at male expecting god knows what |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always love it when guys complain about the kind of behaviour women commonly experience- on fab and in real life in other ways (being whistled at, leered at, touched).
It's those behaviours and entitlement that inspired the #allwomen movement (with the complimentary #notallmen), you will be hard pushed to find a woman how hasn't had to negotiate unwanted sexual approaches from men that are all the things described on this thread; both on here and in real life. |
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"They are testing the water to see if you are straight or "straight" there's a very distinct difference in this site "
In my experience it's usually after 6 pints of larger that the change happens.
Jenny xxx |
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This is exactly why i have suggested a box to tick so those who have bi curious/bi sexual on there profile cannot contact me.
I get it all the time. The opening line of my profile states Single... Straight... Guys only. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"I wonder if it's like when us girls have no filters on... Do you guys receive just as much as us? LOL I think not
All new messages from everyone blocked for me "
This. It's not that gay guys are doing this, it's that all types do it. If OP changed to a couple profile at some point, the principle would remain, but with a different number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gay or straight just no lie , it really odd if bloke turns up and it awkward they sit naked but not doin nothing with fem looking at male expecting god knows what "
Couldn't have said it better myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not had any message filters for two years and only ever had 1 message from a guy. I pointed out that I am straight, he accepted it and moved on. Maybe I'm an uggo or maybe it's not as big a problem as many make it out to be. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I've not had any message filters for two years and only ever had 1 message from a guy. I pointed out that I am straight, he accepted it and moved on. Maybe I'm an uggo or maybe it's not as big a problem as many make it out to be."
I took my filters off for a few days a little while ago.. total messages from guys tv/ts or male couples... 0. I'm feeling so unloved now.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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75% of the messages I get are from straight guys when I mail them back to say there straight and I'm bi they mail back to say there bi but don't like putting it on there profile as a lot of couples won't meet them |
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"75% of the messages I get are from straight guys when I mail them back to say there straight and I'm bi they mail back to say there bi but don't like putting it on there profile as a lot of couples won't meet them "
Lies all round then eh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some bi guys will prefer woman but will see don't meet bi guys on a profile and think thats why I don't get a meet. They think putting straight will increase their chances but don't realise that those genuinely bi or gay probably won't meet them now....why?
Well if it wasn't for the bad message, profile and/or pics it's because you've proven yourself a liar with little respect towards others.
People like Lilmiss75 have every right to state their preferences and surely they have every right to expect that those preferences were respected? |
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"Some bi guys will prefer woman but will see don't meet bi guys on a profile and think thats why I don't get a meet. They think putting straight will increase their chances but don't realise that those genuinely bi or gay probably won't meet them now....why?
Well if it wasn't for the bad message, profile and/or pics it's because you've proven yourself a liar with little respect towards others.
People like Lilmiss75 have every right to state their preferences and surely they have every right to expect that those preferences were respected?"
Most definitely. I respect other peoples wishes. I read profiles and i dont expect people to meet me because we are here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They are testing the water to see if you are straight or "straight" there's a very distinct difference in this site
In my experience it's usually after 6 pints of larger that the change happens.
Jenny xxx"
Must be doing something wrong Jenny never had a drinker yet lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never contact straight guys or guys who say there not looking for single guys, though they contact me, I am not complaining, there are some horny guys about.
I enjoy myself, they go away having had a good time, some have even come back.
Why does it matter you just delete, block, go with the flow or as previous said "decline nicely and take the compliment" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've not had any message filters for two years and only ever had 1 message from a guy. I pointed out that I am straight, he accepted it and moved on. Maybe I'm an uggo or maybe it's not as big a problem as many make it out to be."
I'm suprised with those pants |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just changed my profile to bi curious and let blokes message it's like the flood gates opened and they are not the most engaging messages "
Its no better when that is what you are looking for as the fuckers cant read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just changed my profile to bi curious and let blokes message it's like the flood gates opened and they are not the most engaging messages "
If I had a quid for every 'hi m8' message from pictureless profiles...
Delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not exactly swamped with offers from couples, but what is it with gay blokes on here?!! Some of the things they send me (despite making it very clear I'm straight) are hilarious!!
Haven't got filters on because don't wanna eliminate the possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes' fb's, can't win "
Yeah, all gay blokes can't control themselves.
(Also, possibility of sorting meets with straight blokes fb's? Really? What do they say 'can I lend you my girlfriend for the night mate with no homo?') |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just changed my profile to bi curious and let blokes message it's like the flood gates opened and they are not the most engaging messages "
I should imagine it's almost like being a woman on here.
But not quite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just changed my profile to bi curious and let blokes message it's like the flood gates opened and they are not the most engaging messages "
Just confirms what miners we are. Even the bi guys don't message us... lol
(Profile is off right now so won't be able to anyway... |
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