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over a year ago
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"Do women find it a turn on pulling married guys ? If so why ?
No I find it the worst....
I'm not disrespecting some other woman to please a man.
I'm a bit of a fighter for sisterhood
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My cousin used to be into pulling married or attached guys. She figured that it meant she was better than their wife or partner, but they never left their partner for her so no idea why she though that.
Funny thing was she was stunning. Very pretty, gorgeous figure, her personality was generous and kind, she would have made someone a great girlfriend. Dunno why she went for these fugly, fat, older guys who had nothing going for them. |
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"My cousin used to be into pulling married or attached guys. She figured that it meant she was better than their wife or partner, but they never left their partner for her so no idea why she though that.
Funny thing was she was stunning. Very pretty, gorgeous figure, her personality was generous and kind, she would have made someone a great girlfriend. Dunno why she went for these fugly, fat, older guys who had nothing going for them."
Low self esteem is no respected of beauty. |
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"My cousin used to be into pulling married or attached guys. She figured that it meant she was better than their wife or partner, but they never left their partner for her so no idea why she though that.
Funny thing was she was stunning. Very pretty, gorgeous figure, her personality was generous and kind, she would have made someone a great girlfriend. Dunno why she went for these fugly, fat, older guys who had nothing going for them."
She might have liked that she would never have to commit to them. Best of both worlds maybe ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some women do. But "women" in general don't all find the same thing a turn on. Do "men" think they do? "
Stop talking common sense, it kills the thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My cousin used to be into pulling married or attached guys. She figured that it meant she was better than their wife or partner, but they never left their partner for her so no idea why she though that.
Funny thing was she was stunning. Very pretty, gorgeous figure, her personality was generous and kind, she would have made someone a great girlfriend. Dunno why she went for these fugly, fat, older guys who had nothing going for them.
Low self esteem is no respected of beauty."
Yeah true.
Sometimes i do wonder if it was also 'safer' for her and she didn't want a relationship so went for guys who had no chance of giving her one. Might as well not think about it, i'll never find out anyway. |
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"some women do. But "women" in general don't all find the same thing a turn on. Do "men" think they do?
Stop talking common sense, it kills the thread "
it's such a rare thing for me that if I get a sudden burst of common sense I feel I need to share it  |
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Nope. If a married or attached man comes onto me, I just imagine how their wife would feel if they knew what an utter CUNextTuesday they were married to.
Unless said hubby was Johnny Depp  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do women find it a turn on pulling married guys ? If so why ?
I find it a turn on pull married guys...
But that's just 'cos I'm a bit nawti like that" funny ?? fecker Joe . Lol . |
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"Good god no!!
Have you ever encountered a very very fucked off wronged woman??
No?? well neither have I - and I have no plans to either!!"
This made me laugh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My cousin used to be into pulling married or attached guys. She figured that it meant she was better than their wife or partner, but they never left their partner for her so no idea why she though that.
Funny thing was she was stunning. Very pretty, gorgeous figure, her personality was generous and kind, she would have made someone a great girlfriend. Dunno why she went for these fugly, fat, older guys who had nothing going for them."
Hmmm let your cousin come say hi is like a nice gfrend |
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"Good god no!!
Have you ever encountered a very very fucked off wronged woman??
No?? well neither have I - and I have no plans to either!!"
^^^^this comment is awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It would be neither a turn on nor a turn off for me. All I can say is that if his wife didn't know it would be a no thanks from me.
That doesn't mean that women who do find it a turn on aren't around... Though perhaps this isn't the best site for it. |
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"Do women find it a turn on pulling married guys ? If so why ? "
All women in general? Haven't got a bloody clue what other women think, you'll have to ask individually as...well...believe it or not...we aren't all one, don't all think as one and don't all have one opinion on things! Shock horror! Hot married men swinging with their hot wives, bring it on! Married men that are cheating on their wives, absolutely not, coming from a broken home because darling daddy couldn't keep it in his pants amongst other things...from a young age, I always wondered what on earth the point of it was and if it was worth breaking up a family for? Is it really worth it? No. Regardless of anyone's situation, there is always a way and means of getting out of anything, respecting your partner enough to walk away with your conscience clear is far better than cheating, much less hurtful and much more decent. Having your cake and eating it from all angles is just a greedy bastard thing to do and will only cause problems (diabetes, heart conditions etc) Forgive me for having such strong opinions, I just think there's no need to cheat, play on your circumstances all you like and give us all a crock load of shite about us not knowing your situation...a cheat is a cheat, deceitful, dishonest, insincere and to whom are you being unfaithful...the very person you took an oath/vows with! You can still love someone for who they are without taking the living piss out of your promise to each other and go your separate ways...just no need for it at all! Shoot me down for saying so but I won't change my opinion...either put the effort and time that you do trying to cheat into your relationship and make what you want of it or put the effort into civilly getting out of it...it's not rocket science and neither is it difficult...been there, done that and got the tshirt for a dreadful marriage that took me two years to get a divorce out of and also seen what cheating can and has done to too many families, so no it's not naive view/opinion at all, it's a real opinion! I'll flirt away with married friends etc but go out of my way to 'pull' a married bloke, nope, I'd rather put a piece of string through my ear and try and pull it out my arsehole! What a ridiculous idea, exactly my point!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I meet / have met attached men.
I don't go out of my way to make it my mission to do so and it is the guy in question that I am attracted to not the label.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't meet guys with their partners permission I'm certainly not meeting without
Married guys are to much hassle, can't be doing with quick fucks and clock watchers, sooner meet a single guy who has time to put into a meet not one whos got to rush home before bingo ends  |
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" ... coming from a broken home because darling daddy couldn't keep it in his pants "
Me too, but I always took the view that a relationship fails when both sides give up, and is seldom quite so black and white as "he/she dared seek temporary solace elsewhere, so must burn in hell forever"
I also worry that those who do believe this, may be destined to repeat the same mistakes in their own marriages.
I'm not saying my way is right, but in three generations, and over a dozen marriages in my family, I am the first person to successfully get their eldest child to (very, very nearly) 18 within a stable family life. Now much of that may be that I was very lucky in finding Mrs ddc, but I do wonder how much was due to my refusal to take sides at the time.
Yes the vows talked about fidelity but they also talked about "for better AND for worse".
Mr ddc
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By (user no longer on site)
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" ... coming from a broken home because darling daddy couldn't keep it in his pants
Me too, but I always took the view that a relationship fails when both sides give up, and is seldom quite so black and white as "he/she dared seek temporary solace elsewhere, so must burn in hell forever"
I also worry that those who do believe this, may be destined to repeat the same mistakes in their own marriages.
I'm not saying my way is right, but in three generations, and over a dozen marriages in my family, I am the first person to successfully get their eldest child to (very, very nearly) 18 within a stable family life. Now much of that may be that I was very lucky in finding Mrs ddc, but I do wonder how much was due to my refusal to take sides at the time.
Yes the vows talked about fidelity but they also talked about "for better AND for worse".
Mr ddc
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