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"I have to agree, there are loads of men wishing to find the same thing. Good luck in your search xx" ..................i'm a single fem looking for the same ...be buggared if i can find anyone interested  | |||
"I have to agree, there are loads of men wishing to find the same thing. Good luck in your search xx..................i'm a single fem looking for the same ...be buggared if i can find anyone interested "there ya go, someone is willing to give you one... or some  | |||
"I have to agree, there are loads of men wishing to find the same thing. Good luck in your search xx..................i'm a single fem looking for the same ...be buggared if i can find anyone interested
there ya go, someone is willing to give you one... or some ".. and not too far apart either?  Good luck guys... problem solved.
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"I have to agree, there are loads of men wishing to find the same thing. Good luck in your search xx..................i'm a single fem looking for the same ...be buggared if i can find anyone interested "now you've done it! lol | |||
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"I have to agree, there are loads of men wishing to find the same thing. Good luck in your search xx..................i'm a single fem looking for the same ...be buggared if i can find anyone interested "Same here wishful thinking lol. | |||
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"and you felt you needed to point that out because??? Is it really THAT important to YOU??? It says India on bus tyres but they dont go there!" "Reply with quote" would have helped, but I think this still may have been a bit hatstand. | |||
"Having just checked out the OP's profile and read about his obvious disapproval of people who are economical with the truth,,,, I've been left wondering after I couldn’t help but notice he is displaying his age as 95 yr old, Oh silly me,,, what a fool I am!!!... That’ll just be one them there harmless white-lie's,,,,, Shucks,,,,, there I go again,,, I know I shouldn’t assume things... so forgive me,.... Perhaps he is actually 95.... if so .... he’s looking well preserved,,,, hmmmm "and you felt you needed to point that out because??? Is it really THAT important to YOU??? It says India on bus tyres but they dont go there! | |||
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"and you felt you needed to point that out because??? Is it really THAT important to YOU??? It says India on bus tyres but they dont go there!" It says "laid back" and "fun loving" on your profile too. Maybe it's been hacked and rewritten... | |||
"and you felt you needed to point that out because??? Is it really THAT important to YOU??? It says India on bus tyres but they dont go there! It says "laid back" and "fun loving" on your profile too. Maybe it's been hacked and rewritten..." lol, Sharpy, nice one | |||
"Having just checked out the OP's profile and read about his obvious disapproval of people who are economical with the truth,,,, I've been left wondering after I couldn’t help but notice he is displaying his age as 95 yr old, Oh silly me,,, what a fool I am!!!... That’ll just be one them there harmless white-lie's,,,,, Shucks,,,,, there I go again,,, I know I shouldn’t assume things... so forgive me,.... Perhaps he is actually 95.... if so .... he’s looking well preserved,,,, hmmmm "He's obviously aging well lol | |||
"I would never consider meeting/chatting with/being friends with someone that had on their profile an age that was very clearly untrue and then got narky when someone pointed it out especially if their profile mentions liars. I would suggest the Op look at their profile and consider would people really want to meet me with misleading information. Maybe work on your profile then consider looking for a swing partner." well well well, isn't everyone on here just so perfect and never make mistakes??? I have just had a quick scan through a random cross section of profiles and found that a few people had made the same error! I was going to change it but I really dont feel like and dont see why I should bow to pressure from the 'perfect section' on fab!!! | |||
"thanks for reading....I'm looking for a reliable female partner to visit clubs up and down the country with me. As most clubs restrict Saturday nights to 'couples only' its not much fun being a single male at the weekend. The clubs I visit are Chameleons at Darlaston and Townhouse in Liverpool. Hopefully be visiting Infusion in Blackpool soon and AdFabs in London...any lady out there want to go 'On Tour'? " Personally I think going about it this way is a bit arse about face. It may be better to just meet people and see how you get on... with a longer term aim of going clubbing with them. At the moment it kinda comes over as you wanting a door pass to get in on couples nights. | |||
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"Can I just ask - I mean its probably me being odd but I just dont understand it. When anyone puts up a new thread - why do people feel the need to go onto their profile and pick it to pieces, for absolutely no reason - why dont you just answer the questions posed? So Id better answer the question posed then I guess - i am sure there are lots of ladies who would be glad to go to these clubs with you. Hopefully by posting this it might bring some your way. I love all the clubs you mentioned - im part of a couple though " Thank you sooo much for bringing a bit of sense to all this! All I wanted was someone reliable to go to club with, I thought maybe to our mutual advantage, I'm quite new to all this but I'm quickly learning how ANAL some people on here are!!! | |||
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"thanks for reading....I'm looking for a reliable female partner to visit clubs up and down the country with me. As most clubs restrict Saturday nights to 'couples only' its not much fun being a single male at the weekend. The clubs I visit are Chameleons at Darlaston and Townhouse in Liverpool. Hopefully be visiting Infusion in Blackpool soon and AdFabs in London...any lady out there want to go 'On Tour'? Personally I think going about it this way is a bit arse about face. It may be better to just meet people and see how you get on... with a longer term aim of going clubbing with them. At the moment it kinda comes over as you wanting a door pass to get in on couples nights. " I agree with Polo. Really makes a girl feel wanted when you are used as access to Saturday nights in Clubs | |||
"Having just checked out the OP's profile and read about his obvious disapproval of people who are economical with the truth,,,, I've been left wondering after I couldn’t help but notice he is displaying his age as 95 yr old, Oh silly me,,, what a fool I am!!!... That’ll just be one them there harmless white-lie's,,,,, Shucks,,,,, there I go again,,, I know I shouldn’t assume things... so forgive me,.... Perhaps he is actually 95.... if so .... he’s looking well preserved,,,, hmmmm and you felt you needed to point that out because??? Is it really THAT important to YOU??? It says India on bus tyres but they dont go there!"they prob came from there tho | |||
"isnt this a forum for general chat... not personal posts looking for playmates / meets etc???" No its swinging chat and where does it say no one can post to see of a female will go to a club with the OP? | |||
"isnt this a forum for general chat... not personal posts looking for playmates / meets etc??? No its swinging chat and where does it say no one can post to see of a female will go to a club with the OP?" in the looking for a meet section possibly?? whatever, still dont rate his chances of success... so we'll let him off | |||
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"isnt this a forum for general chat... not personal posts looking for playmates / meets etc??? No its swinging chat and where does it say no one can post to see of a female will go to a club with the OP? in the looking for a meet section possibly?? whatever, still dont rate his chances of success... so we'll let him off "At the end of the day is what he is asking so bad? All he's asked is there any fems who would like to go to clubs with him for couples nights so wouldnt just be benefiting him but whoever wanted to go with him. If a female had asked the same her profile wouldnt have got pulled appart. | |||
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"If a female had asked the same her profile wouldnt have got pulled appart." But it would get more views....and if it was similar to this one, I'd like to think that something would be said, statistical advantage notwithstanding. | |||
"If a female had asked the same her profile wouldnt have got pulled appart. But it would get more views....and if it was similar to this one, I'd like to think that something would be said, statistical advantage notwithstanding." A fem asked for a lift to a club in an earlier post i saw no one said anything,a guy asked the same thing a couple of days ago and he was slated for it,so i don't agree. | |||
"If a female had asked the same her profile wouldnt have got pulled appart. But it would get more views....and if it was similar to this one, I'd like to think that something would be said, statistical advantage notwithstanding. A fem asked for a lift to a club in an earlier post i saw no one said anything,a guy asked the same thing a couple of days ago and he was slated for it,so i don't agree." I remember - I was a guilty party in that respect too...  | |||
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"thanks for reading....I'm looking for a reliable female partner to visit clubs up and down the country with me. As most clubs restrict Saturday nights to 'couples only' its not much fun being a single male at the weekend. The clubs I visit are Chameleons at Darlaston and Townhouse in Liverpool. Hopefully be visiting Infusion in Blackpool soon and AdFabs in London...any lady out there want to go 'On Tour'? Personally I think going about it this way is a bit arse about face. It may be better to just meet people and see how you get on... with a longer term aim of going clubbing with them. At the moment it kinda comes over as you wanting a door pass to get in on couples nights. I agree with Polo. Really makes a girl feel wanted when you are used as access to Saturday nights in Clubs "After polos subsequent comment, I looked at what I had Actually said, rather than what I meant to say so will try again! I like to meet in clubs and Always meet before playing to vet my prospective playmates. I haven't been to a club on a Saturday night, (no particular reason) but my playmates have never treated me as a cheap pass to get in as we are already friends and discuss play scenarios etc before we go, so we are sure that we are there for the right reasons, ie. mutual pleasure, rather than to get around the couples-only rules. | |||
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"Pardon me for trying to give you some fecking advice from a woman's perspective. Good luck... because if your armpits stick like your attitude... you'll need a bucket full of it." id hate my armpits to stick lol xx | |||
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"dont you just hate it when your armpits stick??? Wasn't looking for advice or opinions, thanks anyway "But you did get some good advice as well but if you aren't willing to use it then that's entirely up to you, obviously. Z | |||
"dont you just hate it when your armpits stick??? Wasn't looking for advice or opinions, thanks anyway
But you did get some good advice as well but if you aren't willing to use it then that's entirely up to you, obviously. Z"sorry, I wasn't being funny, but really...all I wanted to know was is there a woman out there in Fabland who fancies trying a few different clubs, just an adventure not a grand inquizition! | |||
"dont you just hate it when your armpits stick??? Wasn't looking for advice or opinions, thanks anyway
But you did get some good advice as well but if you aren't willing to use it then that's entirely up to you, obviously. Zsorry, I wasn't being funny, but really...all I wanted to know was is there a woman out there in Fabland who fancies trying a few different clubs, just an adventure not a grand inquizition!"You're right about not being funny. | |||
"dont you just hate it when your armpits stick??? Wasn't looking for advice or opinions, thanks anyway
But you did get some good advice as well but if you aren't willing to use it then that's entirely up to you, obviously. Zsorry, I wasn't being funny, but really...all I wanted to know was is there a woman out there in Fabland who fancies trying a few different clubs, just an adventure not a grand inquizition!"lol - I know what you mean! Just use the good bits of advice! I'd also put a thread up in the meets section, that mnight be more _ruitful. Z | |||
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"It is unlikely that I would find a cheapskate who would use me to get into a club cheaply as a couple than to pay the extra as a single gent attractive or desirable as a playmate, sorry! Good luck with your search, OP! "Read it properly and move on!!! | |||
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"Besides, I don't need anyone to accompany me to any clubs or socials and am quite capable of going my own. "well whoopy dooo for you, really not interested in your opinion, what I was looking for was someone who was as keen as I am, and therfore mutually beneficial, to visit new clubs in different parts of the country not pompous holier than thou comments from anal retentives....move on! | |||
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"Im not taking sides here and some of the advice given is excellent advice - yes a lot of women dont want to be used to get into clubs, yes they will want to meet beforehand to see if they are compatiable etc etc. But, it has to be said, that the OP posted up what he was looking for. Then someone ripped his profile apart and so on and so forth, it escalated. He didnt ask for any advice on his profile, he doesnt really care if single women are able to get into clubs on their own, he is asking for a woman to accompany him. None of us know how he intends to play it. If women out there are not interested in what he is offering then just dont read the thread. There could be a lady out there, wanting to go to swinging clubs but not having the confidence to go on her own. She may message him and they might strike up a rapport and go together and have great times, im hoping that will happen, be great for the two people involved, why are the rest of us pulling it all apart when we have no intention of taking the OP up on his offer. I expect the OP has got a bit arsey cos he's pissed off with the responses that he may feel are unjustified. If he was asking us our opinion on his profile and what women on the forum felt about it, then fair enough, but he wasnt. " Sanity returns ,,, boing ,,,, time for bed xxx | |||
"Im not taking sides here and some of the advice given is excellent advice - yes a lot of women dont want to be used to get into clubs, yes they will want to meet beforehand to see if they are compatiable etc etc. But, it has to be said, that the OP posted up what he was looking for. Then someone ripped his profile apart and so on and so forth, it escalated. He didnt ask for any advice on his profile, he doesnt really care if single women are able to get into clubs on their own, he is asking for a woman to accompany him. None of us know how he intends to play it. If women out there are not interested in what he is offering then just dont read the thread. There could be a lady out there, wanting to go to swinging clubs but not having the confidence to go on her own. She may message him and they might strike up a rapport and go together and have great times, im hoping that will happen, be great for the two people involved, why are the rest of us pulling it all apart when we have no intention of taking the OP up on his offer. I expect the OP has got a bit arsey cos he's pissed off with the responses that he may feel are unjustified. If he was asking us our opinion on his profile and what women on the forum felt about it, then fair enough, but he wasnt. " He may not have asked for advice... though he was adised he posted this in the wrong forum if he didn't want opinions. Aside from the comments about his profile and his age as stated on it... he was also given advice on how his post could be interpreted and how his replies could be off putting. Rather than take it on board and clarify... he decided to start labelling. I pointed out how his request could be interpreted… mainly because of how it was worded and specified not being able to get into couples only nights as a single. He could have clarified what it was he meant, but chose not to until half-heartedly later in a post which looked more like a strop. People criticised his profile… he had the choice to rise above it, correct the age error and be the better person. Instead just look at the replies. I pointed out women who may be interested in a clubbing buddie will use this thread as another assessment of his character and so to be careful about how he replied to people trying to provoke him…. well he put two fingers up at that one. I explained from my perspective what I would want from someone I went to clubs with… whilst everyone is different, plenty of other women have made comments over the years about guys who used them to get into a club… he could have taken the opportunity to clarify… but again he choose the two finger reply. Combine the comments on his profile with his comments to anyone who hasn't told him something he's wanted to hear in this thread... even those trying to help him.... I feel sorry for any sad fecker stuck with him for the night. | |||
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"Im not taking sides here and some of the advice given is excellent advice - yes a lot of women dont want to be used to get into clubs, yes they will want to meet beforehand to see if they are compatiable etc etc. But, it has to be said, that the OP posted up what he was looking for. Then someone ripped his profile apart and so on and so forth, it escalated. He didnt ask for any advice on his profile, he doesnt really care if single women are able to get into clubs on their own, he is asking for a woman to accompany him. None of us know how he intends to play it. If women out there are not interested in what he is offering then just dont read the thread. There could be a lady out there, wanting to go to swinging clubs but not having the confidence to go on her own. She may message him and they might strike up a rapport and go together and have great times, im hoping that will happen, be great for the two people involved, why are the rest of us pulling it all apart when we have no intention of taking the OP up on his offer. I expect the OP has got a bit arsey cos he's pissed off with the responses that he may feel are unjustified. If he was asking us our opinion on his profile and what women on the forum felt about it, then fair enough, but he wasnt. " ...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ THE ABOVE THREAD!!! I asked a simple question earlier, sometimes you do see single women on fab looking for someone to go clubbing with, thats all I asked for! Why everyone thought it was necessary to pull my profile apart or have an opinion is beyond me. I didnt ask for advice, I didnt ask for an opinion, I just asked if anyone was interested in going and checking out a few new clubs with me...end of! What gives anyone the right to criticise me for that??? Nobody made anyone read the thread, nobody is forcing you to come out with me, I'm not asking anyone to pay for me, I wasn't even asking anyone to share the costs! I dont know how it got to this but I dont think I've done anything wrong. The original thread wasn't up for discussion, it was a simple request! Go pick on someone else now ok??? | |||
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"If peeps do not want opinions from others, then don't post in open forums! My opions, my life, my way. If you don't like it, that is just tough! There are plenty other places where one can throw out one's toys! "...sad sad sad | |||
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"Pot, kettle ... "ah come on - he may not be your cup of tea but he wasn't asking for anything too outragious - get a grip - | |||
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"Must remember to respect other people's opinions even when they are different to my own. "Class finale... From a classy lady... | |||
"Difference in approach and how they project themselves across to the others, as some people are easier to warm to than others. "...Cant understand why my question warrants an opinion from you??? I asked a question that really wasn't a topic for debate or opinion, just a simple answer. Not interested...dont reply, interested...yes pleased, when do you want to go? See how simple life can be when you're not up yourself??? | |||
I just hope that for your sake that if you are lucky enough to talk to single ladies, that they don't some back reading by hitting that little green arrow....
wow... also for your sake I hope that this thread is locked by a mod.... because having "the last word"... hole.... digging....stop....
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" See how simple life can be when you're not up yourself???" No...tell us more. Please. | |||
"Difference in approach and how they project themselves across to the others, as some people are easier to warm to than others. "so when do u and him intend going clubbing ?.... seem to b getting on really well together..... | |||
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"Is this topic really : Rude man with untruthful profile and who misunderstands forums, seeks woman who cannot read to attend clubs only on saturdays because it couples nite? Have I got that right. "Yep. That pretty much sums it up. | |||
"Is this topic really : Rude man with untruthful profile and who misunderstands forums, seeks woman who cannot read to attend clubs only on saturdays because it couples nite? Have I got that right. "No the gentleman is looking for someone to attend clubs with him. I presume he works as he would like to attend Saturdays and clubs do not allow single males in then. I fail to see how he misunderstands the forums, he has broken no rules i see. | |||
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"The "misunderstands forums" part comes from the fact this thread was posted in the Swingers' Chat section. However, according to the OP, apparently it's not acceptable for anyone to discuss anything about the topic in this thread. If the OP only wanted people to contact him if they were interested in taking him up on his offer, then he posted it in the wrong section of the site, and it should have been posted as an Event. Here are some of the responses made by the OP to the replies that were posted in this thread: "I didnt ask for an opinion, I just asked if anyone was interested in going and checking out a few new clubs with me...end of!" "The original thread wasn't up for discussion" "I asked a question that really wasn't a topic for debate or opinion, just a simple answer. Not interested...dont reply" Admittedly, he hasn't "broken any rules", as you put it, but he has clearly posted his request in the wrong area. It's quite right that people should feel free to contribute to a thread in Swingers' Chat, regardless of whether the OP wants them to or not. Just because somebody starts a thread doesn't mean that they can dictate what responses are going to be made to it - forums don't work like that, and that's what it would appear the OP has misunderstood. For what it's worth, I think the post early on in this thread, where the issue of the OP's age was raised, was unnecessarily snide. However, the OP's reaction to that post and to the advice he was given (even if he apparently didn't want that advice) came across as very confrontational. Just my 2¢'s worth." . Agree completely with you, the reference to his age was unecessary because it was obviously an oversight, unlike someone of 50 claiming to be 35. However the OP's responses were even more unecessary and place him in a poor light in finding the people he's looking for. Someone mentioned already that it appears he wants a woman as a pass to get into a club on couples night, rather than someone to go to a club and play with others as a couple-hands up all the couples who love attending clubs on a couples night only to be pestered by single men who've done as the OP has done?! | |||
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"We have had a lot of these the last few days why is it that a guy asks and gets slated and when a girl does it nice warm friendly comments." 100% agree Shaz and thats what i said in an earlier post.. I even used an example of similar threads,a guy asked for a lift to a club,he got slated for it.. A fem asked for a lift to a club and no one said a word about it. | |||
"and you felt you needed to point that out because??? Is it really THAT important to YOU??? It says India on bus tyres but they dont go there!" Well first of all, I offer you my sincere and genuine apology for what you've obviously found offence in my remarks pointing to the inconstancy of your profile age statistic and the wording you’d previously chosen to headline your profile. i.e. Words which strongly indicated your disapproval of people who tell lies...... The intention of my post was mealy to point out the potential hypocrisy in those words based purely on the strength of dialogue chosen to fervently display your disapproval of anyone prone to not telling the whole truth. So in light of that,,, coupled with my doubts that your age was correctly displayed, (or not as the case maybe) on your profile, I elected to mention it, in what now appears to have been a rather clumsy manner ,which I’d originally intended to be taken as a light -hearted remark, rather one intending to cause offence or indeed hijack the original thread topic ... However, For the record though, I don’t regret pointing it out.... But I do regret any anger or upset it may have caused by the subsequent issues you’ve found yourself drawn into defending your reactions or objection to the voluntary opinions of others who don’t fully concur with your attitude when it come to offering or receiving constructive criticism or praise in Forum threads. "Oh my, my…. I kinda guess we can all make ourselves look such klutz’s at times,,,,,,, but I can only hope most people understand this reply is a genuine attempt to make good of a situation that was never was meant it to happen"…. Sox over and out !!!! PS, I ain’t checked the grammar, spelling or punctuation as I wanted to reply ASAP | |||
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"OMG I feel really bad now because I am the one who suggested he put request for a club partner on here. I have had the pleasure of this mans company on several occassions and he is always good company. We are friends not FB and we are always completely honest with people about that, and it has never been a problem. The trouble is I live a bit away from him and with my family commitments I am not always available to accompany him so I suggested he ask for another lady who may be like me and just want a gentleman to go with. Please dont judge him to harshly." You have got nothing to feel bad about x Just some people are too quick to judge on here xx | |||
" Personally I think going about it this way is a bit arse about face. It may be better to just meet people and see how you get on... with a longer term aim of going clubbing with them. At the moment it kinda comes over as you wanting a door pass to get in on couples nights. " I am not saying you are trying to use women as a door pass, I am explaining your request could be interpreted as such (which it later was)… trying to actually help you. I had not said anything about your profile. Did you do anything to try and clarify this wasn’t what you were looking for at that stage …. No you just started calling anyone who had posted about your profile ‘anal’ My next reply which explained what I look for in a clubbing buddie ended with: " Thus... I would think a little longer before making some of your replies in this thread. Whether you feel the comments are provoking or not... you are using this thread as another window for people to see who you are and what you are like as a person. I doubt you will attract much interest if people perceive your replies as those of a snappy snap grump-bag. It doesn’t matter how the provokers come across…. they are not asking women to spend a considerable amount of time travelling the country to have sex with them in swinging clubs. " Again advice on how to stop the way the thread was going, trying to help you stop digging the hole you were shovelling away in. Your response to this… to tell me I was a ‘moralising’ member of the ‘swinging elite’ . So seriously, if anyone is apologising on my behalf for me typing that, they can go fuck themselves with a pointy stick. Anything I typed after that point… in my opinion you were fair game as you had done as much to provoke people as they had to you. I am sorry…. sorry for trying to help you in the first place | |||
"I would never consider meeting/chatting with/being friends with someone that had on their profile an age that was very clearly untrue and then got narky when someone pointed it out especially if their profile mentions liars. I would suggest the Op look at their profile and consider would people really want to meet me with misleading information. Maybe work on your profile then consider looking for a swing partner." im the same hate liars and people not telling stuff which is vital | |||
"This was my first reply : Personally I think going about it this way is a bit arse about face. It may be better to just meet people and see how you get on... with a longer term aim of going clubbing with them. At the moment it kinda comes over as you wanting a door pass to get in on couples nights. I am not saying you are trying to use women as a door pass, I am explaining your request could be interpreted as such (which it later was)… trying to actually help you. I had not said anything about your profile. Did you do anything to try and clarify this wasn’t what you were looking for at that stage …. No you just started calling anyone who had posted about your profile ‘anal’ My next reply which explained what I look for in a clubbing buddie ended with: Thus... I would think a little longer before making some of your replies in this thread. Whether you feel the comments are provoking or not... you are using this thread as another window for people to see who you are and what you are like as a person. I doubt you will attract much interest if people perceive your replies as those of a snappy snap grump-bag. It doesn’t matter how the provokers come across…. they are not asking women to spend a considerable amount of time travelling the country to have sex with them in swinging clubs. Again advice on how to stop the way the thread was going, trying to help you stop digging the hole you were shovelling away in. Your response to this… to tell me I was a ‘moralising’ member of the ‘swinging elite’ . So seriously, if anyone is apologising on my behalf for me typing that, they can go fuck themselves with a pointy stick. Anything I typed after that point… in my opinion you were fair game as you had done as much to provoke people as they had to you. I am sorry…. sorry for trying to help you in the first place "u might like a pointy stick :P | |||
"ffs, isnt this a forum for chatting about swinging etc etc... not a lonely hearts page! good luck matey, your gonna need it !!" i thought thats what the chat rooms were for  | |||
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"But that's just my opinion." good for you as i prefer the same, as im sure many other women do | |||
"OMG I feel really bad now because I am the one who suggested he put request for a club partner on here. I have had the pleasure of this mans company on several occassions and he is always good company. We are friends not FB and we are always completely honest with people about that, and it has never been a problem. The trouble is I live a bit away from him and with my family commitments I am not always available to accompany him so I suggested he ask for another lady who may be like me and just want a gentleman to go with. Please dont judge him to harshly." The problem is that he hasnt come across as the nice man you paint him. For me, as he's not far from me, i would want to know how old he is, saying 95 whether a dont care attitude or following everyone else, is not really the point. And im quite happy to share costs of the travel and a club too as i cant afford to go on my own but i would want to meet him first and i cannot decide how old he is by the picture, plus his comments on here have put me off | |||
"Must remember to respect other people's opinions even when they are different to my own. "Oh please please dont | |||
"Is this topic really : Rude man with untruthful profile and who misunderstands forums, seeks woman who cannot read to attend clubs only on saturdays because it couples nite? Have I got that right.
Yep. That pretty much sums it up. "And as a couple, im given to understand that one is not allowed to wander around on ones own, therefore he could not go off and chat a couple up for sex as equally as i cannot when i go with my friend, bet he doesnt know that as they might see him as a single guy and they are not allowed in after 7.30pm (i think) on saturday nights at Chams  | |||
"Is this topic really : Rude man with untruthful profile and who misunderstands forums, seeks woman who cannot read to attend clubs only on saturdays because it couples nite? Have I got that right.
No the gentleman is looking for someone to attend clubs with him. I presume he works as he would like to attend Saturdays and clubs do not allow single males in then.
I fail to see how he misunderstands the forums, he has broken no rules i see.
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"I would just like to say that after reading your request that I was not offended by it, if you don't ask you don't get. lol. I would also like to add that your friend and your verifications have made you sound like a really nice guy. That being said, your reaction to the posts you got showed you in a totally different light. If I were single I would be very put off by your reactions. They make you sound as if its only your opinion that matters and if we don't agree with you then we will be slated. This is my first ever post, hope i didn't get it wrong. lol ." Welcome to the forums - hope you enjoy your stay, but please remember to not feed the animals | |||
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Centuriun high five!"thank you muchly. Hx | |||
"The "misunderstands forums" part comes from the fact this thread was posted in the Swingers' Chat section. However, according to the OP, apparently it's not acceptable for anyone to discuss anything about the topic in this thread. If the OP only wanted people to contact him if they were interested in taking him up on his offer, then he posted it in the wrong section of the site, and it should have been posted as an Event. Here are some of the responses made by the OP to the replies that were posted in this thread: "I didnt ask for an opinion, I just asked if anyone was interested in going and checking out a few new clubs with me...end of!" "The original thread wasn't up for discussion" "I asked a question that really wasn't a topic for debate or opinion, just a simple answer. Not interested...dont reply" Admittedly, he hasn't "broken any rules", as you put it, but he has clearly posted his request in the wrong area. It's quite right that people should feel free to contribute to a thread in Swingers' Chat, regardless of whether the OP wants them to or not. Just because somebody starts a thread doesn't mean that they can dictate what responses are going to be made to it - forums don't work like that, and that's what it would appear the OP has misunderstood. For what it's worth, I think the post early on in this thread, where the issue of the OP's age was raised, was unnecessarily snide. However, the OP's reaction to that post and to the advice he was given (even if he apparently didn't want that advice) came across as very confrontational. Just my 2¢'s worth." astute analysis tx | |||
"I would just like to say that after reading your request that I was not offended by it, if you don't ask you don't get. lol. I would also like to add that your friend and your verifications have made you sound like a really nice guy. That being said, your reaction to the posts you got showed you in a totally different light. If I were single I would be very put off by your reactions. They make you sound as if its only your opinion that matters and if we don't agree with you then we will be slated. This is my first ever post, hope i didn't get it wrong. lol . Welcome to the forums - hope you enjoy your stay, but please remember to not feed the animals "meowwww purrrrrrrrrrrrrr | |||
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"Ok, here goes as a one/several time CB( club buddy) who was invited by a lady to go as her companion because she didn't enjoy Friday evenings and wanted to attend Saturdays I can perhaps offer a balanced opinion. Yes there are ladies who are looking for what he has asked for... and yes he could have asked in the meets section of the forums rather than this area. As so many have for the most part eliquantly said he has opened him self up for investigation of his possibly dubious reasons for wanting to attend on a Saturday could have been saved from some possible miss interpritation and subsequent feelings of being shall I say picked up on So a simple " perhaps if you put your request in the meet room" would have sufficed or have you added this to your profile? Incidently at no point did we pass ourselves of as a 'loving couple' and at no time were we rejected by the other couples we met and played with... oh yes and we met lots of others in the same situation.....and who the fcuk keeps voting for Anne Widecome? " i totally agree with everything you say. For me, I would love to have a real partner to go into the clubs with and to be honest I probably wouldnt be doing this if I could find a man for a relationship. But I havent and its been nice to have someone to go with, I go with another man too. one thing strikes me, why is it ok for a SINGLE WOMAN to go on a sat and not a SINGLE MAN? Also, I know that a lot of real couples separate and go in the opposite directions when in the clubs. Please be nice to me with your comments x | |||
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" one thing strikes me, why is it ok for a SINGLE WOMAN to go on a sat and not a SINGLE MAN? Also, I know that a lot of real couples separate and go in the opposite directions when in the clubs. Please be nice to me with your comments x" Men and women generally behave in a different manner at clubs. This is not having a go at single guys, just a fact of how it is. Many single men will wander around and because of the numbers, it often apprear that they do this in a sort of pack... even though they are actually just walking around like anyone else. But again because of the numbers there is often a bit of a "got to get in there first" tussle when it looks like some open room action is about to start. Couples choose to go on a couples only night for many reasons, but one reason is often to avoid being swamped by the single guys. As there are far less single women, they don't appear to wander in packs tussling to get in on the action... thus no need to try and avoid them if the tussle thing is not your cup of tea. | |||
" one thing strikes me, why is it ok for a SINGLE WOMAN to go on a sat and not a SINGLE MAN? Also, I know that a lot of real couples separate and go in the opposite directions when in the clubs. Please be nice to me with your comments x Men and women generally behave in a different manner at clubs. This is not having a go at single guys, just a fact of how it is. Many single men will wander around and because of the numbers, it often apprear that they do this in a sort of pack... even though they are actually just walking around like anyone else. But again because of the numbers there is often a bit of a "got to get in there first" tussle when it looks like some open room action is about to start. Couples choose to go on a couples only night for many reasons, but one reason is often to avoid being swamped by the single guys. As there are far less single women, they don't appear to wander in packs tussling to get in on the action... thus no need to try and avoid them if the tussle thing is not your cup of tea. " . well said | |||
