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 Seriously, where are you finding these women? It's not the first time I've heard someone encounter a breeder... | |||
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"May need to chill a little, it's a major cuckold couple fantasy so they may have just been playing the role a little. I know from experience that the term can be used in the heat of passion but there was never any danger of it actually happening." I wasn't saying it in a negative way, I know everyone has their own fantasies which is cool but this was a single woman and I got the impression she was serious. To be fair she was stunning so I was tempted but I don't do bare. I'm just curious as to how many people on here have encountered it. | |||
"May need to chill a little, it's a major cuckold couple fantasy so they may have just been playing the role a little. I know from experience that the term can be used in the heat of passion but there was never any danger of it actually happening. I wasn't saying it in a negative way, I know everyone has their own fantasies which is cool but this was a single woman and I got the impression she was serious. To be fair she was stunning so I was tempted but I don't do bare. I'm just curious as to how many people on here have encountered it. " You would potentially have a child to a stranger as they were "stunning" | |||
"A few months ago I came across (no pun intended) a woman on here who wanted to breed. I wasn't sure if it's just a new cool way of saying sex, so I clarified and she did indeed want me to 'drop my kids off at her pool'. I politely declined as I only do safe, but I'm keen to hear your opinions on this" Oh yes a breeder , in my dictionary Woman who is of lower classes, that needs more children to get a bigger council house or more social security benefits Secondary meaning woman who is looking to screw a rich man through the csa by choosing a person of significant means to have a child with Tertiary meaning woman who is trying to trap a man into marriage who has a good job and of significant means by using a child as a weapon | |||
" I wasn't saying it in a negative way, I know everyone has their own fantasies which is cool but this was a single woman and I got the impression she was serious. To be fair she was stunning so I was tempted but I don't do bare. I'm just curious as to how many people on here have encountered it. You would potentially have a child to a stranger as they were "stunning"" Of course, as a man if a gorgeous woman asks to have sex with you, at least 1% of your brain says "hmmmmm, well...." Why do you think so many men sleep with strippers, psychopaths and girls named Tiffany? | |||
"A few months ago I came across (no pun intended) a woman on here who wanted to breed. I wasn't sure if it's just a new cool way of saying sex, so I clarified and she did indeed want me to 'drop my kids off at her pool'. I politely declined as I only do safe, but I'm keen to hear your opinions on this Oh yes a breeder , in my dictionary Woman who is of lower classes, that needs more children to get a bigger council house or more social security benefits Secondary meaning woman who is looking to screw a rich man through the csa by choosing a person of significant means to have a child with Tertiary meaning woman who is trying to trap a man into marriage who has a good job and of significant means by using a child as a weapon " i.e. Stay well fucking clear!  | |||
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"My gay best friend refers to straight people as 'breeders'" That's very 80's | |||
"My gay best friend refers to straight people as 'breeders' That's very 80's " Seriously?
I think that many would find that really offensive, straight or not. | |||
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"Either looking for bareback by proxy. Or looking for sperm donor through swinging . What a Selfish and sinister move. Very impress you declined that offer. Risky. I wonder if that child grow up without father figure " Thing is it's been going on for years, you hear about on here via people but you don't hear about the babies created via night club or pub night outs etc | |||
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"Either looking for bareback by proxy. Or looking for sperm donor through swinging . What a Selfish and sinister move. Very impress you declined that offer. Risky. I wonder if that child grow up without father figure Thing is it's been going on for years, you hear about on here via people but you don't hear about the babies created via night club or pub night outs etc " Exactly, but if they are swingers, everyone loses their mind as the Joker would say. | |||
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"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies?" But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? | |||
"My gay best friend refers to straight people as 'breeders' That's very 80's Seriously?
I think that many would find that really offensive, straight or not."so i take it you have never heard of the band "the breeders" then....  it is gay slang for straight people.....
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"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment?" Yep - very. | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment?" Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy " Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess  | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess "Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception? In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine. Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find. | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find."Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking. | |||
"Was going to meet a woman off PoF who long story short wanted to play- sounded great until she insists on no condoms. I said there are latex free but no dice she only wants to bareback so will slowly back away from this on as her real intentions could be somewhat different." I had the same thing happen to me things were going well when she claimed that she had an allergy to latex she said that she had a supply of non-latex condoms but when it came to the meet her 'son' had used them up so we would have to go bareback I insisted no condoms no play and then she found some on the packet it said Latex she has since vanished  | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking."Thankyou. At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario. You could always LIE to them of course... | |||
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"Was going to meet a woman off PoF who long story short wanted to play- sounded great until she insists on no condoms. I said there are latex free but no dice she only wants to bareback so will slowly back away from this on as her real intentions could be somewhat different. I had the same thing happen to me things were going well when she claimed that she had an allergy to latex she said that she had a supply of non-latex condoms but when it came to the meet her 'son' had used them up so we would have to go bareback I insisted no condoms no play and then she found some on the packet it said Latex she has since vanished "Well swerved | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking.
Thankyou.
At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario.
You could always LIE to them of course..."Have you ever asked your parents about that? Because i sure as fuck haven't! Why are you referring to my child? As i said above, i wouldn't choose to do it, but i believe in a woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. Do you? You got upset when i said asking instead of thinking, but in your post above it sound like the child is asking. | |||
"A few months ago I came across (no pun intended) a woman on here who wanted to breed. I wasn't sure if it's just a new cool way of saying sex, so I clarified and she did indeed want me to 'drop my kids off at her pool'. I politely declined as I only do safe, but I'm keen to hear your opinions on this" You mean you aren't going to give me a love child?! x  | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking.
Thankyou.
At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario.
You could always LIE to them of course...
Have you ever asked your parents about that? Because i sure as fuck haven't!"Perhaps we're more open in my family. I've never directly ASKED for details regarding my conception, it's not really something I need to know, but having known my mum for, well, all of my life, it shouldn't be surprising that the conversation about her carrying and giving birth to me has been a topic of conversation at some point during my 32 years. "Why are you referring to my child?" It's a generalisation, 'your child' referring to that of the person in the example. "As i said above, i wouldn't choose to do it, but i believe in a woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. Do you?" So long as she's being responsible about it and taking into account the needs and well being of her future child, yes. "You got upset when i said asking instead of thinking, but in your post above it sound like the child is asking." It has come to that since yes, just not in my original post you quoted. So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion? | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking.
Thankyou.
At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario.
You could always LIE to them of course...
Have you ever asked your parents about that? Because i sure as fuck haven't! Perhaps we're more open in my family. I've never directly ASKED for details regarding my conception, it's not really something I need to know, but having known my mum for, well, all of my life, it shouldn't be surprising that the conversation about her carrying and giving birth to me has been a topic of conversation at some point during my 32 years.
Why are you referring to my child?
It's a generalisation, 'your child' referring to that of the person in the example.
As i said above, i wouldn't choose to do it, but i believe in a woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. Do you?
So long as she's being responsible about it and taking into account the needs and well being of her future child, yes.
You got upset when i said asking instead of thinking, but in your post above it sound like the child is asking.
It has come to that since yes, just not in my original post you quoted. So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?"So you agree with a womans right to maker her own reproductive choices, so long as she is being responsible. So who gets to make the decision about if she is being responsible or not? | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking.
Thankyou.
At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario.
You could always LIE to them of course...
Have you ever asked your parents about that? Because i sure as fuck haven't! Perhaps we're more open in my family. I've never directly ASKED for details regarding my conception, it's not really something I need to know, but having known my mum for, well, all of my life, it shouldn't be surprising that the conversation about her carrying and giving birth to me has been a topic of conversation at some point during my 32 years.
Why are you referring to my child?
It's a generalisation, 'your child' referring to that of the person in the example.
As i said above, i wouldn't choose to do it, but i believe in a woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. Do you?
So long as she's being responsible about it and taking into account the needs and well being of her future child, yes.
You got upset when i said asking instead of thinking, but in your post above it sound like the child is asking.
It has come to that since yes, just not in my original post you quoted. So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?
So you agree with a womans right to maker her own reproductive choices, so long as she is being responsible. So who gets to make the decision about if she is being responsible or not? "Are you going to answer my question? | |||
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"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking.
Thankyou.
At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario.
You could always LIE to them of course...
Have you ever asked your parents about that? Because i sure as fuck haven't! Perhaps we're more open in my family. I've never directly ASKED for details regarding my conception, it's not really something I need to know, but having known my mum for, well, all of my life, it shouldn't be surprising that the conversation about her carrying and giving birth to me has been a topic of conversation at some point during my 32 years.
Why are you referring to my child?
It's a generalisation, 'your child' referring to that of the person in the example.
As i said above, i wouldn't choose to do it, but i believe in a woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. Do you?
So long as she's being responsible about it and taking into account the needs and well being of her future child, yes.
You got upset when i said asking instead of thinking, but in your post above it sound like the child is asking.
It has come to that since yes, just not in my original post you quoted. So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?
So you agree with a womans right to maker her own reproductive choices, so long as she is being responsible. So who gets to make the decision about if she is being responsible or not?
Are you going to answer my question?"No, im not going to make a decision on a woman's right to choose, or tell them what to say to their children. I would assume that different single mothers take different approaches to the situation. Are you going to answer my question? | |||
"How depressing would it be to think your life was simply the result of one of your parents kinky fantasies? But is is really any different than getting sperm from a bank and paying for fertility treatment? Well yeah because having a child through fertility treatment isnt a kinky fantasy Ok, my mistake. Must remember not to have fun during conception, just in case the child, like the other poster above, asks about their moment of conception. Personally I dont want to know anything about my parents sex lives, but others are different i guess
Point out the part to me please where I said there would be any asking about the moment of conception?
In my view, a child should be the product of a happy, loving union between two parents. If for whatever reason this isn't possible, then a woman deciding to go through with artificial insemination, having made the careful, medically advised decision to do so is also perfectly fine.
Getting fucked and pregnant by a stranger for a kinky thrill though? Yeah, quite a difference there I think you'll find.
Sorry you were thinking about the moment of conception, and your parents kinky fantasies, not asking.
Thankyou.
At some point, your child is going to want to know how they came into the world, and why they don't know their dad. I'm speaking of this as if chatting to an older/teenaged kid who already knows about sex, it's far better that you tell them there father was a donor and their mother became pregnant via a sperm bank, than in a horny 'breeding' scenario.
You could always LIE to them of course...
Have you ever asked your parents about that? Because i sure as fuck haven't! Perhaps we're more open in my family. I've never directly ASKED for details regarding my conception, it's not really something I need to know, but having known my mum for, well, all of my life, it shouldn't be surprising that the conversation about her carrying and giving birth to me has been a topic of conversation at some point during my 32 years.
Why are you referring to my child?
It's a generalisation, 'your child' referring to that of the person in the example.
As i said above, i wouldn't choose to do it, but i believe in a woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. Do you?
So long as she's being responsible about it and taking into account the needs and well being of her future child, yes.
You got upset when i said asking instead of thinking, but in your post above it sound like the child is asking.
It has come to that since yes, just not in my original post you quoted. So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?
So you agree with a womans right to maker her own reproductive choices, so long as she is being responsible. So who gets to make the decision about if she is being responsible or not?
Are you going to answer my question?
No, im not going to make a decision on a woman's right to choose, or tell them what to say to their children. I would assume that different single mothers take different approaches to the situation.
Are you going to answer my question?"I wasn't asking you for a decision, I asked you for your opinion - so are you going to answer it or keep running away? Because I think you know what follow up question will come next, hence why you don't want to answer, hence why your whole argument has crumbled... | |||
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? " But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? | |||
"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time?" As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. | |||
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. " As long as she could care for that child mentally, physically & financially then fine. But if she expects the state to help her, then no, she has no right to have a child. | |||
"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. As long as she could care for that child mentally, physically & financially then fine. But if she expects the state to help her, then no, she has no right to have a child." In this country you need a license to be a doorman, or a bricklayer, to go fishing or watch TV, but anyone can have kids. If you dont like it, and think only some people should be allowed to and some people shouldn't, then campaign for a change in the law. | |||
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. " Wow...just, wow... With regards to the mothers right to make her own decision to have a child, it is of course hers - whether or not however this is a responsible decision is another matter altogether. How well does she know the donor? Doe's she know his sexual history? Can she be sure he's clean? Does she know of any health issues he may have in his family? Doe's he have children of his own? Will he play any role in this childs life/will he be legally required to support them? If done via a sperm bank instead, at least the mother has a much greater level of assurance and medically approved support for her and her child. | |||
"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. As long as she could care for that child mentally, physically & financially then fine. But if she expects the state to help her, then no, she has no right to have a child. In this country you need a license to be a doorman, or a bricklayer, to go fishing or watch TV, but anyone can have kids. If you dont like it, and think only some people should be allowed to and some people shouldn't, then campaign for a change in the law." Those who shouldn't have children but do just have them taken off them & put up for adoption. | |||
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. Wow...just, wow... With regards to the mothers right to make her own decision to have a child, it is of course hers - whether or not however this is a responsible decision is another matter altogether. How well does she know the donor? Doe's she know his sexual history? Can she be sure he's clean? Does she know of any health issues he may have in his family? Doe's he have children of his own? Will he play any role in this childs life/will he be legally required to support them? If done via a sperm bank instead, at least the mother has a much greater level of assurance and medically approved support for her and her child." So you didn't answer the question. Who should decide if she is making a responsible decision or not? You sound surprised by my answer, i thought there was some follow up question you had in mind and my arguement, of a woman's right to chose, was crumbling? | |||
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. As long as she could care for that child mentally, physically & financially then fine. But if she expects the state to help her, then no, she has no right to have a child. In this country you need a license to be a doorman, or a bricklayer, to go fishing or watch TV, but anyone can have kids. If you dont like it, and think only some people should be allowed to and some people shouldn't, then campaign for a change in the law. Those who shouldn't have children but do just have them taken off them & put up for adoption. " Are you saying that every parent on benefits should have their children taken off them? | |||
"My gay best friend refers to straight people as 'breeders' That's very 80's Seriously?
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. Wow...just, wow... With regards to the mothers right to make her own decision to have a child, it is of course hers - whether or not however this is a responsible decision is another matter altogether. How well does she know the donor? Doe's she know his sexual history? Can she be sure he's clean? Does she know of any health issues he may have in his family? Doe's he have children of his own? Will he play any role in this childs life/will he be legally required to support them? If done via a sperm bank instead, at least the mother has a much greater level of assurance and medically approved support for her and her child. So you didn't answer the question. Who should decide if she is making a responsible decision or not?" Pointless and irrelevant to the question - I could decide to set myself on fire if I want to, as far as I'm aware there's no law against it so long as I extinguish the flames soon enough to prevent killing myself. Doesn't change the fact it's still a stupidly irresponsible thing to do, in the same way as a woman randomly getting pregnant with a guy she doesn't know. "You sound surprised by my answer, i thought there was some follow up question you had in mind and my arguement, of a woman's right to chose, was crumbling?" I was amazed at just how myopic and naïve it was, and wondered for a moment if you were actually being serious. After realising that you were, there was no need for the follow up question, you'd destroyed the validity of your own argument without it. This exchange has actually made your comment about me not being very intelligent on my other thread all the more ironic. | |||
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"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. Wow...just, wow... With regards to the mothers right to make her own decision to have a child, it is of course hers - whether or not however this is a responsible decision is another matter altogether. How well does she know the donor? Doe's she know his sexual history? Can she be sure he's clean? Does she know of any health issues he may have in his family? Doe's he have children of his own? Will he play any role in this childs life/will he be legally required to support them? If done via a sperm bank instead, at least the mother has a much greater level of assurance and medically approved support for her and her child. So you didn't answer the question. Who should decide if she is making a responsible decision or not? Pointless and irrelevant to the question - I could decide to set myself on fire if I want to, as far as I'm aware there's no law against it so long as I extinguish the flames soon enough to prevent killing myself. Doesn't change the fact it's still a stupidly irresponsible thing to do, in the same way as a woman randomly getting pregnant with a guy she doesn't know. You sound surprised by my answer, i thought there was some follow up question you had in mind and my arguement, of a woman's right to chose, was crumbling? I was amazed at just how myopic and naïve it was, and wondered for a moment if you were actually being serious. After realising that you were, there was no need for the follow up question, you'd destroyed the validity of your own argument without it. This exchange has actually made your comment about me not being very intelligent on my other thread all the more ironic." You create whole threads about your own intelligence, but then are too scared to answer questions. Rather than showing yourself as intelligent, you have instead proved yourself as a misogynist who doesn't believe in a woman's right to chose. | |||
"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. Wow...just, wow... With regards to the mothers right to make her own decision to have a child, it is of course hers - whether or not however this is a responsible decision is another matter altogether. How well does she know the donor? Doe's she know his sexual history? Can she be sure he's clean? Does she know of any health issues he may have in his family? Doe's he have children of his own? Will he play any role in this childs life/will he be legally required to support them? If done via a sperm bank instead, at least the mother has a much greater level of assurance and medically approved support for her and her child. So you didn't answer the question. Who should decide if she is making a responsible decision or not? Pointless and irrelevant to the question - I could decide to set myself on fire if I want to, as far as I'm aware there's no law against it so long as I extinguish the flames soon enough to prevent killing myself. Doesn't change the fact it's still a stupidly irresponsible thing to do, in the same way as a woman randomly getting pregnant with a guy she doesn't know. You sound surprised by my answer, i thought there was some follow up question you had in mind and my arguement, of a woman's right to chose, was crumbling? I was amazed at just how myopic and naïve it was, and wondered for a moment if you were actually being serious. After realising that you were, there was no need for the follow up question, you'd destroyed the validity of your own argument without it. This exchange has actually made your comment about me not being very intelligent on my other thread all the more ironic. You create whole threads about your own intelligence, but then are too scared to answer questions. Rather than showing yourself as intelligent, you have instead proved yourself as a misogynist who doesn't believe in a woman's right to chose. " More rope? | |||
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"Ok. Time to get slaughtered as i did the last time i commented on such a thread. First. I have helped two couples conceive a child. The couples couldnt conceive naturally and wanted someone who looked like the dad to be (fathers are sperm donors, dads are the greatest guys in the world to a child). They were also hoping for personality traits. Myself, i have 2, 3 or 4 boys. My better half enjoyed her fun too. I treat each and everyone of them the same. I dont care who the sperm donor is, being dad is what it is about. It is my name on the birth certificates and i am the one who would give up everything for any one of them." And what greater gift could a man give? | |||
"In January I went to Copenhagen for donor insemination which to me was the sensible thing to do because the sperm has been checked and cleaned but surprisingly several members of my family thought me going out and having a one night stand was a more natural and acceptable option, everyone has their own way of looking at life but luckily we live in a time where women can choose to have children when they feel ready before its medically too late." I hope everything is going well for you. | |||
"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. As long as she could care for that child mentally, physically & financially then fine. But if she expects the state to help her, then no, she has no right to have a child. In this country you need a license to be a doorman, or a bricklayer, to go fishing or watch TV, but anyone can have kids. If you dont like it, and think only some people should be allowed to and some people shouldn't, then campaign for a change in the law. Those who shouldn't have children but do just have them taken off them & put up for adoption. Are you saying that every parent on benefits should have their children taken off them? " No, of course not. I'm saying that a woman can choose to have a child any way she likes but if the child is not being cared for properly, it will be taken off her. The post about being able to take care of her child financially is different. In that post I'm saying have a child without a father if you want but don't expect any financial help with it. Your choice, your financial cost. | |||
"Ive given you responses to all the questions, you haven't, and yet you say i am running away! So you are really interested in what i would say to a hypothetical child, if i was a hypothetical woman, in a hypothetical question? But that's not the question I'm asking, here it is again: 'So tell me, now understanding where I'm coming from regarding the 'who is my dad' conversation, supposing the child was conceived in a 'breeding' session, should the mother be honest with them about it, or make something up, in your opinion?' So, this time? As a hypothetical woman, talking to a hypothetical child, i would say "i was desperate to have a child, i had so much love in my heart that i wanted to share with you, but i couldn't find a man that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I found a man on a website that helped me to become the happiest mother in the world" Your turn. Wow...just, wow... With regards to the mothers right to make her own decision to have a child, it is of course hers - whether or not however this is a responsible decision is another matter altogether. How well does she know the donor? Doe's she know his sexual history? Can she be sure he's clean? Does she know of any health issues he may have in his family? Doe's he have children of his own? Will he play any role in this childs life/will he be legally required to support them? If done via a sperm bank instead, at least the mother has a much greater level of assurance and medically approved support for her and her child. So you didn't answer the question. Who should decide if she is making a responsible decision or not? Pointless and irrelevant to the question - I could decide to set myself on fire if I want to, as far as I'm aware there's no law against it so long as I extinguish the flames soon enough to prevent killing myself. Doesn't change the fact it's still a stupidly irresponsible thing to do, in the same way as a woman randomly getting pregnant with a guy she doesn't know. You sound surprised by my answer, i thought there was some follow up question you had in mind and my arguement, of a woman's right to chose, was crumbling? I was amazed at just how myopic and naïve it was, and wondered for a moment if you were actually being serious. After realising that you were, there was no need for the follow up question, you'd destroyed the validity of your own argument without it. This exchange has actually made your comment about me not being very intelligent on my other thread all the more ironic. You create whole threads about your own intelligence, but then are too scared to answer questions. Rather than showing yourself as intelligent, you have instead proved yourself as a misogynist who doesn't believe in a woman's right to chose. " Actually I think he's thinking more of the child than the mother. | |||
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"My gay best friend refers to straight people as 'breeders' That's very 80's Seriously?
I think that many would find that really offensive, straight or not.
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"What a ghastly thread that is avoiding the point the bareback 'breeding' is really just a kink and is extremely limited to the select few that wish to pursue it...end of! The majority of others will be as expected...safe..wrapped..clean etc. No need to vilify the few that wish to live risky...just avoid if that is your choice. Pathetic online arguments ongoing" I object. Please read my post | |||
"What a ghastly thread that is avoiding the point the bareback 'breeding' is really just a kink and is extremely limited to the select few that wish to pursue it...end of! The majority of others will be as expected...safe..wrapped..clean etc. No need to vilify the few that wish to live risky...just avoid if that is your choice. Pathetic online arguments ongoing I object. Please read my post" I don't even know where your post is amongst the mire of self righteousness. That's the problem with threads like this. They need to be strangled at birth....no pun at all etc... | |||
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" Actually I think he's thinking more of the child than the mother. Isn't that the same arguement used by people who blow up abortion clinics?" You're now being over dramatic. | |||
"A woman carries a child for 9 months, risks her life in order to birth and nurture it, then breastfeeding and a hefty proportion of blood sweat and tears into bringing a child up. It makes me laugh when fathers claim that they have 'paternal claim' to a child. I don't believe in under any circumstances unless the mother is deemed outright abusive and unfit that a child should be taken from their mother, no matter how much you think 'blowing your load'is worth. One of the reasons i believe monogamy isn't the natural state for human interaction and inter relation." A child has the right to a father & a mother and unless either is not fit to be in the child's life either parent stopping the other seeing the child is a complete and utter cunt. And I see this every day at work & it's pathetic & nothing to do with the child but just one parent trying to get one over on the other. | |||
" Actually I think he's thinking more of the child than the mother. Isn't that the same arguement used by people who blow up abortion clinics? You're now being over dramatic." I wasnt suggesting that anyone in this thread would do that, im saying it's the same arguement. I believe in human rights rather than rights of people not yet conceived. | |||
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"There was a GUY on this site last year who approached me. I was quite up for meeting him until he told me he was just fucking women who want babies. Then he sent me a message saying that I'd missed my chance but he'd succeeded and the child was DUE in March. Just to clarify: I have all the children I can cope with already Thank you! I've no idea why he thought I wanted his child as I was 47 and I can't have any more anyway!!!! It did take me a while to twig anyway AND by that time I found out what he wanted and fucked off back to Russia. I was totally shocked at the time but now kinda get it. It's still weird though! " I've corrected my errors. Damn phone | |||
"There was a fit on this site last year who approached me. I was quite up for meeting him until he told me he was just fucking women who want babies. Then he sent me a message saying that I'd missed my chance but he'd succeeded and the child was sure in March. Just to clarify: I have all the children I can cope with already Thank you! I've no idea why he thought I wanted his child as I was 47 and I can't have any more anyway!!!! It did take me a while to twig anyway asks by that time need found what he wanted and fucked off back to Russia. I was totally shocked at the time but now kinda get it. It's still weird though! " Strange but interesting story bet you're glad you didn't get caught out xx | |||
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" she did indeed want me to 'drop my kids off at her pool'. " Best mixed metaphor ever!!! | |||
"A woman carries a child for 9 months, risks her life in order to birth and nurture it, then breastfeeding and a hefty proportion of blood sweat and tears into bringing a child up. It makes me laugh when fathers claim that they have 'paternal claim' to a child. I don't believe in under any circumstances unless the mother is deemed outright abusive and unfit that a child should be taken from their mother, no matter how much you think 'blowing your load'is worth. One of the reasons i believe monogamy isn't the natural state for human interaction and inter relation." Let's hope you never have kids if you value them so little. | |||
"What a ghastly thread that is avoiding the point the bareback 'breeding' is really just a kink and is extremely limited to the select few that wish to pursue it...end of! The majority of others will be as expected...safe..wrapped..clean etc. No need to vilify the few that wish to live risky...just avoid if that is your choice. Pathetic online arguments ongoing"  | |||
" I wasn't saying it in a negative way, I know everyone has their own fantasies which is cool but this was a single woman and I got the impression she was serious. To be fair she was stunning so I was tempted but I don't do bare. I'm just curious as to how many people on here have encountered it. You would potentially have a child to a stranger as they were "stunning" Of course, as a man if a gorgeous woman asks to have sex with you, at least 1% of your brain says "hmmmmm, well...." Why do you think so many men sleep with strippers, psychopaths and girls named Tiffany? "There are still women called Tiffany ?? | |||
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"A woman carries a child for 9 months, risks her life in order to birth and nurture it, then breastfeeding and a hefty proportion of blood sweat and tears into bringing a child up. It makes me laugh when fathers claim that they have 'paternal claim' to a child. I don't believe in under any circumstances unless the mother is deemed outright abusive and unfit that a child should be taken from their mother, no matter how much you think 'blowing your load'is worth. One of the reasons i believe monogamy isn't the natural state for human interaction and inter relation." You had children? | |||
"A woman carries a child for 9 months, risks her life in order to birth and nurture it, then breastfeeding and a hefty proportion of blood sweat and tears into bringing a child up. It makes me laugh when fathers claim that they have 'paternal claim' to a child. I don't believe in under any circumstances unless the mother is deemed outright abusive and unfit that a child should be taken from their mother, no matter how much you think 'blowing your load'is worth. One of the reasons i believe monogamy isn't the natural state for human interaction and inter relation. Let's hope you never have kids if you value them so little." Agreed. Whilst I fully respect and understand what a massive thing the process of conceiving, carrying and giving birth to a child is to a woman, to suggest that a mans contribution to the existence of that child is any smaller simply because he only had to supply the semen that started the process is utterly myopic. Do you think the fathers feelings of emotion, love and devotion toward their child, are going to be any less than the mothers, simply because they weren't the one who physically created them? Is the fact that child is both YOU and the woman you loved enough to pair your DNA with not important to you? | |||
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"In January I went to Copenhagen for donor insemination which to me was the sensible thing to do because the sperm has been checked and cleaned but surprisingly several members of my family thought me going out and having a one night stand was a more natural and acceptable option, everyone has their own way of looking at life but luckily we live in a time where women can choose to have children when they feel ready before its medically too late." Indeed as a former donor myself i did it as a way to help women like yourself that want a baby without the dangers of a one night stand. Sure its good to fantasize about inseminating a woman as nature intended but i would only do it that way with a loving life partner and not a stranger not for all the tea in china. | |||
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" A child has the right to a father & a mother and unless either is not fit to be in the child's life either parent stopping the other seeing the child is a complete and utter cunt. And I see this every day at work & it's pathetic & nothing to do with the child but just one parent trying to get one over on the other. " I would have to say that a child has the right to a dad and a mum rather than a father and a mother. There is a difference. | |||
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"May need to chill a little, it's a major cuckold couple fantasy so they may have just been playing the role a little. I know from experience that the term can be used in the heat of passion but there was never any danger of it actually happening. I wasn't saying it in a negative way, I know everyone has their own fantasies which is cool but this was a single woman and I got the impression she was serious. To be fair she was stunning so I was tempted but I don't do bare. I'm just curious as to how many people on here have encountered it. " 
if she was stunning perhapse I could offer her ny services. Enjoy the meet. Then tell her after that ive had the snip.
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