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What made you into the Sexual person you are
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My best mates older sister took me aside one day, shoved her tongue deep down my throat, laughed and said 'one day you're going to be real good at that!'...I've been obsessed ever since 
And if you're reading this and it was you, get in touch I've got something to show you! |
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Ive always been privitely curious,but very shy so was using a vibrator to pleasure myself knowing I was missing out on something. all my friends are quite prudish and i felt odd enjoying watching porn and playing. Eventually aged 27 having still my virginity I decided enough was enough and had a one night thing. It opened my eyes to what I was missing out on and started playing catch up!!! Slowly losing the shyness, each meet I get better and looking forward to going to clubs when im brave enough, just not sure i can on my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've always had a suppressed sexual desires.
Ex husband walked out, new fella found, watched "the bunny ranch on TV" next weekend we went to a "sex club". Morning after, I asked if that made me a swinger! lol. 7 years later, I'm still fucking my first swing. My Fuck buddy daddy, as I call him. Although I found out he is a granddad yesterday!  |
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"I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life?"
It was always something I'd fantasized about and then I met Paul, who had done this in a former life....see, dreams do come true  |
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I'm not really any of the things mentioned in the op but I do have a couple of kinks and sexual preferences. Met my ex when we were both 17 and we were together almost 10 years. Most of out adult life was spent fucking just each other and we just pushed each other's boundaries and developed our sexual style. With him I discovered that I love rimming a guy, I like sucking guys and putting my tongue up their arse whilst they sleep. I like guys to pretend they have some sort of injury and I'm their carer that has to bath them and wash them and do inappropriate things to them. I like fake rape scenarios, I also like guys to eat their own cum out of me, can't do that with a casual partner cos it involves unsafe sex, the things I like to do I can only do with a boyfriend. I like guys with big dicks because my ex was just shy of 9 inches and that's what I'm used to. I like cock worship, just playing with a dick, rolling it over my face and smelling it. There's a few weird and wonderful things that I like. |
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"I'm a Scorpio, my sex drive was written in the stars...
Hehe.. must be where I get it from too  so it's not my fault after all; I couldn't find a reason but now I know. "
Handy to know you can just check horoscope to know when you're getting lucky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't started it yet, but looked fun on the tv documentaries about it lol.
A documentary? About Penge? Whatever next?"
lol no not this time in penge, but it was a program about swingers that was out dogging u know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive always been curious, so a largely sexless teenage existence led me to the internet. Not necessarily porn, I got heavily into chat rooms and different adult sites and discovered the world of fantasy and kink that way. |
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"I'm a Scorpio, my sex drive was written in the stars...
Hehe.. must be where I get it from too so it's not my fault after all; I couldn't find a reason but now I know.
Handy to know you can just check horoscope to know when you're getting lucky "
That's where I've been going wrong. I've just been turning up to the club's everytime and hope my luck is in. I'll consult the stars for tomorrow and if it's not a good forecast I'll avoid going. Won't be disappointed then. |
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I was personally not very sexually experienced when I dated Marc (I had never even seen another dick, in person). So, starting from a rather innocent point, Marc encouraged me to explore whatever fantasies I had, through our relationship. When we had been married a little while, he told me about swinging and asked if I would be interested. We moved on from there.
So I think for me it was a combination of three things....a certain sexual innocence, a very encouraging and loving partner, and a liberal and open mind.
-Courtney |
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Seven years in the french legion and a security job in london where the club owner was a female dom lady who took me under her instructions mmmmmm was I a quick learner and she made a good income out of me albeit to my ignorance of that fact but I still thank my lucky stars that she did xxx |
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"I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life?"
Puberty |
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I've always been very curious.
I got married when I was 16. I had no real clue about the world of sex or even myself. I found myself on an other site at 18 and then the first time I split with my husband I started phone chat with a man who opened my eyes to many things. I loved him for it. When I finally got divorced I also said good bye to him and I've evolved myself since. With the help of one or two others.
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I was told a few years ago by my mother when I was 18mth old, if my auntie came round with tights on, I would plonk myself on the floor in front of her and run my finger in circles on her legs\tights
36 years later and no change |
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"I was told a few years ago by my mother when I was 18mth old, if my auntie came round with tights on, I would plonk myself on the floor in front of her and run my finger in circles on her legs\tights
36 years later and no change "
now that's what I call showing early promise! I was collecting and hiding (not very well as it turned out) page 3 pics at the age of 5, but you've beaten me! |
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We both had some naughty experiences when we were younger. I have to admit I sometimes look back and wonder 'how the hell did that happen?'. We are both sexually open minded and I guess it grew from there. Then we met and it just keeps getting better
-Mrs- |
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Break up of my marriage left me thinking is that it!!! A friend told me about a adult site, I thought why not! Luckily my first meet was a good one!!! A real eye opener!!! A guy actually licking my pussy! My ex never did. Realised what I'd been missing out on. But going to a swingers club with a male friend was the icing on the cake?! So much fun!!! Now go when I can and enjoy myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life?"
The tittle of the thread -"What made you into the sexual person that you are" and the OP could be interpreted differently. In my case, my early sexual experiences with an older cousin, the fact that my Dad left when I was 10yrs old and my experimentation with a sadistic girl got me hooked on promiscuous and submissive behaviour as a way of expressing my needs. Then after a 24yr and a 9yr marriage, both peppered with affairs my 2nd husband and I sat and really talked about how why I felt the need to stray and what positives and negatives there were. Our openness made us realise that on the plus side - sex with other people meant I was much more horny with him too and the idea of me fucking others turned him on aswell. On the negative side we agreed that it was a betrayal of trust, hurtful and took alot of energy,time and concentration to keep track of the lies and excuses. So we decided to try swinging - and guess what?????No strings attached sex is definitely working for both of us! |
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"A trailing off and then stopping of sex within my marriage led me to Fab. An mmf led me to becoming bi. Strange how life pans out in unexpected directions. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life?
The tittle of the thread -"What made you into the sexual person that you are" and the OP could be interpreted differently. In my case, my early sexual experiences with an older cousin, the fact that my Dad left when I was 10yrs old and my experimentation with a sadistic girl got me hooked on promiscuous and submissive behaviour as a way of expressing my needs. Then after a 24yr and a 9yr marriage, both peppered with affairs my 2nd husband and I sat and really talked about how why I felt the need to stray and what positives and negatives there were. Our openness made us realise that on the plus side - sex with other people meant I was much more horny with him too and the idea of me fucking others turned him on aswell. On the negative side we agreed that it was a betrayal of trust, hurtful and took alot of energy,time and concentration to keep track of the lies and excuses. So we decided to try swinging - and guess what?????No strings attached sex is definitely working for both of us! "
That is a very good reply |
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