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A question of stamina
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its happened a few times for me, where you're getting into the rough and tumble of things with a new guy and you think 'well happy birthday to me!' as he's hung like a champion- only for them to finish up before you can start enjoying yourself...
So, any of you guys and girls run into this much? And is it worth requiring guy's to have those couple extra inches if they can't make use of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah and it's always disappointing. Like they haven't got a mouth or hands they could use if they can't get hard again.
You need to find yourself a repeater.
Much love to the guys who hold off cumming so we can enjoy fucking you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't stand the guys who think it's a marathon .
They hold back , and hold back and then it gets boring and almost like its a challenge . Nothing worse ....
Far prefer guys who just go for it , throw caution to the wind and enjoy themselves without worrying about how quickly they cum . 2 minutes ? That's a compliment !
But then it's all about the giving with us , far prefer the giving to receiving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Way too many two second wonders out there and then they wonder why you won't meet up again, even when i tell them why. I got tired of saying is that it?
Do you tell them OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm with a female that is hot and I'm enjoying it, then I make it last so that I can savour it. If I'm with a female and it's not as good as I thought it would be, i.e. she just lies there like a stiff board making no noise, or if she isn't that hot looks, figure wise, then I'll cum as quick as I can so that I can get outta there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't stand the guys who think it's a marathon .
They hold back , and hold back and then it gets boring and almost like its a challenge . Nothing worse ....
Far prefer guys who just go for it , throw caution to the wind and enjoy themselves without worrying about how quickly they cum . 2 minutes ? That's a compliment !
But then it's all about the giving with us , far prefer the giving to receiving " lol thanks yes, 2 min its all that's needed, its about doing it hard and fast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on each adventure, If I'm super horny and it's a new situation I can come very quickly, if I know what's going to happen it's longer. I can certainly come to order if really required in as short as 30 seconds, but I'm back up and running in 5 mins if required!!! |
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"I trained myself to cum quickly because my ex lacked size and stamina. If they're still going after 5 mins its a bonus.
Downside is, long stayers do get boring for me. "
So some ladies prefer the quick others like it to last... I like to think I can do either... So ladies you have to be clear what you like! |
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over a year ago
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For me I can control how long and when i pop, but this has only come to me in the last 5 years or so I do like I good long session, but it's horses for courses quickies are required somtimes.
I had the most gorgeous girlfriend who came hard and very fast but it wore her out it got very frustrating (( |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody has their own way off fucking and enjoying that though. OP wants longer sex, so do some of us. I only want 30 mins of it, so not like i'm asking for much...i don't like being submissive at all and feeling like a cum dump isn't fun for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting how some men have said if it was crap they'd shoot their load quickly and then leave. Why not just stop it and say it isn't working? " I find it fun tho that its all down to the man tho, the woman don't need stamina so its never her fault?
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"Interesting how some men have said if it was crap they'd shoot their load quickly and then leave. Why not just stop it and say it isn't working? I find it fun tho that its all down to the man tho, the woman don't need stamina so its never her fault?"
You really need to get out from behind your bush Mr ST. I'm not saying there aren't any lazy bitches out there, but maybe your two mins special isn't giving her enough time get started, never mind move |
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"Interesting how some men have said if it was crap they'd shoot their load quickly and then leave. Why not just stop it and say it isn't working? I find it fun tho that its all down to the man tho, the woman don't need stamina so its never her fault?
You really need to get out from behind your bush Mr ST. I'm not saying there aren't any lazy bitches out there, but maybe your two mins special isn't giving her enough time get started, never mind move " lol that's right to much time behind the bush, yeah she might need more time to start like a motor lol, but yeah some start quicker and some don't depends who they are |
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"I trained myself to cum quickly because my ex lacked size and stamina. If they're still going after 5 mins its a bonus.
Downside is, long stayers do get boring for me. "
what; no round two or round three???
surely we all have sex, cum, have a break or a kitcat then get it up again and start over |
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"Its happened a few times for me, where you're getting into the rough and tumble of things with a new guy and you think 'well happy birthday to me!' as he's hung like a champion- only for them to finish up before you can start enjoying yourself...
So, any of you guys and girls run into this much? And is it worth requiring guy's to have those couple extra inches if they can't make use of it?"
On average 5/10 mins here before I cum. But can hold onto it when I need to. It's a difficult juggling act just have to get to know what the other person wants ( women in my case ). |
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"I trained myself to cum quickly because my ex lacked size and stamina. If they're still going after 5 mins its a bonus.
Downside is, long stayers do get boring for me.
what; no round two or round three???
surely we all have sex, cum, have a break or a kitcat then get it up again and start over"
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"Way too many two second wonders out there and then they wonder why you won't meet up again, even when i tell them why. I got tired of saying is that it?
Do you tell them OP? "
Communication is the key - 'takes two to tango' plus expectations! Nothing better than a hot steamy session over an afternoon, a cheeky break, couple of vino's before getting back to the fun!
Must be very disappointing for a woman to have a two second wonder but hopefully they can go again and last for a few hours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everybody is different, shouldn't play always be mutually beneficial for all involved?
If you fail to take this into account you'll only ever get one off meets, repeat meets are always far more fun in my experience.
Op, you had a bad meet who clearly behaved selfishly. But not everybody is like that. If he asks you to meet again tell him honestly why you'd not bother.
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"Its happened a few times for me, where you're getting into the rough and tumble of things with a new guy and you think 'well happy birthday to me!' as he's hung like a champion- only for them to finish up before you can start enjoying yourself...
So, any of you guys and girls run into this much? And is it worth requiring guy's to have those couple extra inches if they can't make use of it?"
Don;t have to be hung for that to be a problem.
Or male, for that matter.
I prefer long sessions. Cum and gos are SOOO dissatisfying. |
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