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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is so hard about starting a conversation with how are you and hope you are ok and had a good day instead of
I'm interested in joining in
Would you like some fun
Let's meet now
As soon as we see conversations along them lines it's instant delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you can only write 'I'm fine, how are you?' so many times without losing the will to live. "
so what would the perfect example of a first message be
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you can only write 'I'm fine, how are you?' so many times without losing the will to live. "
Yes or maibe the other could continue with a question lol.
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"so what would the perfect example of a first message be "
Something along the lines of...
Hi, I've read your profile and I saw that you're into __________. I'd love to explore this as wellwell. Hope you are well and I hope to hear from you soon. Gorgeous picture by the way.
Name xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so what would the perfect example of a first message be
Something along the lines of...
Hi, I've read your profile and I saw that you're into __________. I'd love to explore this as wellwell. Hope you are well and I hope to hear from you soon. Gorgeous picture by the way.
Name xx"
This is a perfect example! I don't mean just say hey how are you spruce it up a little with some flare not just send
"Hey I'd love to have some fun with you if your interested" because I know everyone gets them they are boring and puts us right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something light hearted, with humour.
I always like to send a wink, if they wink back.
A great opener....
Title: Well Hello
You sexy winker, nice to know we're not the only winkers here.
intoduce yourself, say directly and briefly what you're actually looking for and how you wanna play. and a thanks but no thanks is always appreciated if we're not for you.
So much beating around the bush, cuts the wheat from the chaf instantly?!
I should get paid for this shit i tell ya!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guess for guys, who let's face it have a hard time on here it's easier to just send a quick message to say hi. After all they'll probably not get a reply anyway
I will reply to a hey but not a wink! If the convo doesn't start to flow soon after that then I would consider my position!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What will work for one will not work for another."
Isn't this world meant to be an escape from reality?!
Maybe people should just chill out a bit, be themselves and cut the pretence?!
Here honesty really is the best policy.
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"so what would the perfect example of a first message be
Something along the lines of...
Hi, I've read your profile and I saw that you're into __________. I'd love to explore this as wellwell. Hope you are well and I hope to hear from you soon. Gorgeous picture by the way.
Name xx
This is a perfect example! I don't mean just say hey how are you spruce it up a little with some flare not just send
"Hey I'd love to have some fun with you if your interested" because I know everyone gets them they are boring and puts us right off "
I aim to please
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What will work for one will not work for another.
The example just above by the lady is very decent and would work on everyone I would imagine "
Why thank you
This should be fun people?!
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I think that on first messages cock pics are a complete nono, as are pussy pics. If you are attaching a pic it doesn't have to be face but something cheeky. I understand that people like to hold them back. |
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Each message is tailored to the person/people receiving it. After that, it's simply whether they're interested or not. Simples!