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There probably keep the things in mind that she's asked you to do as that will be for both their enjoyment and although he might not join in is still part of the proceedings. Have fun, go with the flow and make sure she gets maximum enjoyment. |
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"There probably keep the things in mind that she's asked you to do as that will be for both their enjoyment and although he might not join in is still part of the proceedings. Have fun, go with the flow and make sure she gets maximum enjoyment."
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"There probably keep the things in mind that she's asked you to do as that will be for both their enjoyment and although he might not join in is still part of the proceedings. Have fun, go with the flow and make sure she gets maximum enjoyment." Good advice. Chat before the meet to both of them and ensure you know it's both of them that you are meeting. He needs to enjoy it too! Many guys forget this! Good luck and hope it goes well. J
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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago
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"There probably keep the things in mind that she's asked you to do as that will be for both their enjoyment and although he might not join in is still part of the proceedings. Have fun, go with the flow and make sure she gets maximum enjoyment. Good advice. Chat before the meet to both of them and ensure you know it's both of them that you are meeting. He needs to enjoy it too! Many guys forget this! Good luck and hope it goes well. J "
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It has to be about both of them - if either of the couple are unhappy then it won't last. It is important that the cuck hubby has to be involved at the level the cuck couple want so that he gets full enjoment too - I will go for a beer with my couple and we will all chat away together. I will also have IM conversations with him where he tells me things she would like but is too shy to tell me herself! We are all friends together - it's great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She told me things to do
wanted some ideas from you folks x"
You do NOT need our ideas. If you wish to make a success of it then don't make the numpty mistake if confusing bull with dom.
The role of a bull is to help the couple (led by the fem) to act out THEIR fantasy.....not yours! Not anyone else's!
Turn up clean, fresh and with condoms...... She/they will let you know how it proceeds.
Only once you have done this a number of times...built up trust with repeated meetings you can then start to discuss and suggest other scenarios.
If you go in thinking YOU are the centre of it then expect a slap and to be shown the door! |
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