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Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on
It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.
We understand other peoples boundaries, it just has us scratching our head.
What are your thoughts on this? |
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"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on
It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.
We understand other peoples
boundaries, it just has us scratching our
head.
What are your thoughts on this?"
Nits? |
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We agree, we wouldn't meet non kissers.
In most cases it's just that the couple in question wish to keep something intimate and personal for just themselves in private. |
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truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept? |
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"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on
It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.
We understand other peoples
boundaries, it just has us scratching our
head.
What are your thoughts on this?
Nits? "
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"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?"
I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that. |
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"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?
I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that. "
I spent most of my adult life not kissing at all... No one ever really questioned it and no one till Mr even tried really...
I do kiss now but kissing a guy that isnt my partner is okay but it certainly isnt something I Have to have. |
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"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?
I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that. "
You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.
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"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?
I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.
You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.
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Woah.. Its just a question. Nowhere did it say YOU were strange. You don't need to defend yourself. Your first reply was adequate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on
It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.
We understand other peoples boundaries, it just has us scratching our head.
What are your thoughts on this?"
I don't really enjoy the sensation of someones mouth on mine. I don't find it particularly pleasurable. |
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"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?
I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.
You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.
Woah.. Its just a question. Nowhere did it say YOU were strange. You don't need to defend yourself. Your first reply was adequate "
Oh? My actions seem a little strange to you though. I'm not defending myself I'm giving you my thoughts....you asked for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been wondering why some of you won't kiss. For us, not kissing is a deal breaker and we won't meet those who don't. A great kisser is a massive turn on
It just seems a little strange to us that whilst you will put your tongue in every crevice, you will perform oral, but won't kiss on the mouth.
We understand other peoples boundaries, it just has us scratching our head.
What are your thoughts on this?"
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"truly my thoughts are that people don't question why I don't do anal why do they feel it ok to question why I choose not to passionately kiss another man?
You say you understand other people's but that this has you scratching your head, why is this particular boundary so difficult to accept?
I guess we don't understand why people don't. It would feel quite odd to have sex without kissing. But again, if its a boundary for someone, we would respect that.
You don't need to understand it, just to accept it. I find it quite rude to question somebody's preferences and choices like this describing someone like me as a little strange because I'm not like you.
Woah.. Its just a question. Nowhere did it say YOU were strange. You don't need to defend yourself. Your first reply was adequate
Oh? My actions seem a little strange to you though. I'm not defending myself I'm giving you my thoughts....you asked for them."
Yes it is strange to us. Never said is was right or wrong though, it was just something we wondered about. Thank you for your thoughts. |
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Personally, it just does nothing for me. Nothing to do with it being "too intimate".
I kiss Bradley and get chills, fireworks, go weak at the knees, get instantly wet, the lot.
I kiss anyone else and feel all the excitement of watching paint dry. - It feels like a chore and I can't wait for it to be over.
Hence I prefer not to do it as I don't enjoy it.
If you didn't like anal, you wouldn't do it, would you?
- Amy. x |
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A great kisser is a massive turn on.I have played with a certain lady several times but we have only just started kissing.I enjoyed fucking her before but kissing has massively enhanced the sex we have.  |
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