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which condoms do you prefer. yours or the person you meeting?
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The reason for asking this question. Last week me and my friends met up with a couple from another site. Prior to penetration this lady brought some condoms out of her bag. I insist using mine. Because I use (extra strong brand) same as my friends. You can tell the woman wasn't happy. Upon the fact I explained to her the reason why I prefer extra strong brand. I can't afford the risk. What will you do if you find yourself in a similar situation? |
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over a year ago
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I use mine. Then I know they have been stored correctly, not tampered with and are in sate. In the heat of the moment practicalities like that are the last thing on your mind. |
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I am not a man, obviously, but from a couple's perspective, I prefer a guy to bring his own condoms. However, because I only give head to single guys with a condom on, I prefer to use my own for oral, as I know which taste better. Once it comes to sex, I would actually prefer the guy uses his own so I don't have to use my better tasting ones.
But I guess mine is a special circumstance. Most people won't use condoms for oral.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've never come across such a situation where there's a standoff but I guess I'd be happy to use whatever the woman requested as by that point I'd trust her and her choice of protection. |
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We use our own but I do explain this before we meet!
I have a latex allergy so we have to use latex free, if the guy in question prefers to supply his own I don't mind but would need to see they're latex free and it would probably kill the moment lol x |
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"I use mine. Then I know they have been stored correctly, not tampered with and are in sate. In the heat of the moment practicalities like that are the last thing on your mind."
In a similar vein - guys often like to know the condoms haven't been tampered with - and the potential call from the CSA when said condom 'malfunctions'.
Double bagging may be the solution. |
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"We use our own but I do explain this before we meet!
I have a latex allergy so we have to use latex free, if the guy in question prefers to supply his own I don't mind but would need to see they're latex free and it would probably kill the moment lol x "
Being safe should *never* kill the moment... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Any as long as they're latex free, although super extra mega safe aren't my favourites because they chafe.
I understand the desire to be safe but it kinda comes across as the guy thinking the woman isn't. I would probably have taken offence at someone insisting so hard that I am a) riddled with STDs or b) looking for another baby. |
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"I prefer to use theirs as it saves a fortune and my carbon footprint isn't affected by a trip to the shops!
I get mine free from my GP"
That's between you and your GP |
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"We use our own but I do explain this before we meet!
I have a latex allergy so we have to use latex free, if the guy in question prefers to supply his own I don't mind but would need to see they're latex free and it would probably kill the moment lol x
Being safe should *never* kill the moment..."
I didnt mean using 1 kills the moment....I meant sitting there and reading the box. So its easier if I bring along the ones that I know are good for me xx |
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"I prefer to use theirs as it saves a fortune and my carbon footprint isn't affected by a trip to the shops!
I get mine free from my GP
That's between you and your GP"
Just get some when your at the clinic. If you tell them Your a swinger you will get extras |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"The reason for asking this question. Last week me and my friends met up with a couple from another site. Prior to penetration this lady brought some condoms out of her bag. I insist using mine. Because I use (extra strong brand) same as my friends. You can tell the woman wasn't happy. Upon the fact I explained to her the reason why I prefer extra strong brand. I can't afford the risk. What will you do if you find yourself in a similar situation? "
Oh he can use his own as long as I can then wrap mine over his  |
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I certainly have favourites. They have to be the right size. Small ones take too long to put on and affect performance and comfort. So I choose to use my own.
However there are some ladies who need a certain type of condom usually latex free to not get sore.
Others as have been said prefer their own as they know they are sound and untampered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any as long as they're latex free, although super extra mega safe aren't my favourites because they chafe.
I understand the desire to be safe but it kinda comes across as the guy thinking the woman isn't. I would probably have taken offence at someone insisting so hard that I am a) riddled with STDs or b) looking for another baby."
This exactly. If a guy is that scared of fucking me, I'd rather he just didn't bother!
Usually have my own latex free condoms, not because I have a problem with latex but spermicide really hurts me. Latex free are usually spermicide free also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason for asking this question. Last week me and my friends met up with a couple from another site. Prior to penetration this lady brought some condoms out of her bag. I insist using mine. Because I use (extra strong brand) same as my friends. You can tell the woman wasn't happy. Upon the fact I explained to her the reason why I prefer extra strong brand. I can't afford the risk. What will you do if you find yourself in a similar situation? "
Mine. I always insist on the Extra Strong condoms.
If they don't want to use those, we can use a female condom. No problem. |
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"I prefer to use theirs as it saves a fortune and my carbon footprint isn't affected by a trip to the shops!
I get mine free from my GP
That's between you and your GP
Just get some when your at the clinic. If you tell them Your a swinger you will get extras"
Same here plus extra lube  |
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I think trust is the main issue. The reason I preferred extra strong brand. Every time i use condom provided by female.there is alway split condom. Each time I have to check myself to the clinic for check..better to be safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we always take our own - and in the heat of the moment both couples have used ours and other times we have used theirs - whatever was closest to hand - one exception is a couple where the lady uses latex free and we use theirs |
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I know this could open a slagging off, but I remember in college some of the guys putting small holes in their condoms internationally. I am not saying people on here would do that, but stories like that stick in people's minds. |
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"I know this could open a slagging off, but I remember in college some of the guys putting small holes in their condoms internationally. I am not saying people on here would do that, but stories like that stick in people's minds."
Yeah exactly.
And they're not going to be the ones incubating it for 9 months and then bringing it up for 18 years. |
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"We use our own but I do explain this before we meet!
I have a latex allergy so we have to use latex free, if the guy in question prefers to supply his own I don't mind but would need to see they're latex free and it would probably kill the moment lol x
Being safe should *never* kill the moment...
I didnt mean using 1 kills the moment....I meant sitting there and reading the box. So its easier if I bring along the ones that I know are good for me xx "
Ah - sorry.
Check the date stamp.
Check the type.
Check the foil wrapper.
Enjoy... |
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"I know this could open a slagging off, but I remember in college some of the guys putting small holes in their condoms internationally. I am not saying people on here would do that, but stories like that stick in people's minds."
putting holes in condoms knowly is an evil thought, that person reported to the police just in case something else develop.if don't have something sinister in mind why putting hole in your condom..
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