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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance? "
the latter.... they are entitled to a private life as much as you are..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance?
the latter.... they are entitled to a private life as much as you are....."
I can't even imagine how embarrassed I would be. 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance?
the latter.... they are entitled to a private life as much as you are....."
I agree private and work shouldnt mix |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance?
the latter.... they are entitled to a private life as much as you are....."
I agree but if people put pics up surely that's because they want people to know what they look like and must realise someone they know could recognise them
if they wanted it private surely they wouldn't post public pics? |
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance?
the latter.... they are entitled to a private life as much as you are....."
Totally agree....we don't want our swinging lifestyle to be brought out into our every day lives unless we choose to do so....would hate to feel like I was being exposed  |
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance? "
Don't say anything. Discretion is a highly valued but easily lost quality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance? "
Send an email to her saying you recognise her & asking if she fancies an mmf with her hubby & you.
Don't forget to copy everyone in your office in on it  |
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance? "
Just admire x |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I will have to go against the crowd on this one. I think if you know and have seen her pics, but she doesn't know about you, or know that you know, then its unfair.
I would suggest that you message through the site stating recognise her from work and you thought that as you have seen her pics, its only fair that she has the option to look at yours. Say that you will never mention this face to face to save embarrassment.
The next bit depends on what you want to do, if you want to play say so, if you don't, say that you will block their profile in 48hrs after the message, and that you are happy for them to do the same so you don't have to worry about each other sneaking any further peeks.
That way everything is equal, they have as much "dirt" on you as you have on them etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will have to go against the crowd on this one. I think if you know and have seen her pics, but she doesn't know about you, or know that you know, then its unfair.
I would suggest that you message through the site stating recognise her from work and you thought that as you have seen her pics, its only fair that she has the option to look at yours. Say that you will never mention this face to face to save embarrassment.
The next bit depends on what you want to do, if you want to play say so, if you don't, say that you will block their profile in 48hrs after the message, and that you are happy for them to do the same so you don't have to worry about each other sneaking any further peeks.
That way everything is equal, they have as much "dirt" on you as you have on them etc."
But it was her choice to put her pics up on here for anyone to see. She doesn't have any right to see anyone else's pics if they don't want to put them on public viewing. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"I will have to go against the crowd on this one. I think if you know and have seen her pics, but she doesn't know about you, or know that you know, then its unfair.
I would suggest that you message through the site stating recognise her from work and you thought that as you have seen her pics, its only fair that she has the option to look at yours. Say that you will never mention this face to face to save embarrassment.
The next bit depends on what you want to do, if you want to play say so, if you don't, say that you will block their profile in 48hrs after the message, and that you are happy for them to do the same so you don't have to worry about each other sneaking any further peeks.
That way everything is equal, they have as much "dirt" on you as you have on them etc.
But it was her choice to put her pics up on here for anyone to see. She doesn't have any right to see anyone else's pics if they don't want to put them on public viewing."
I just meant give her a chance to see his profile as everyone else does. The OP already has pics available for viewing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone, I'm just wondering if I should let on to a girl at work that I recognize her and her hubby from their profile and pics here on fab, or do people think it's best to keep quiet and admire them from a distance? "
Depends wether you want a sexual harassment disciplinary at work or redundant
Might be fun now but things go tits up very quickly in work places where sex is involved |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I'm in complete agreement with _lcc and to be fair I think it's only respectful to give the person who you have seen, the opportunity to view you especially if you have took the plunge and told them that you recognize them!! Not fair if it's only one way!! I am surprised by the amount of people who have said stay away!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I'm in complete agreement with _lcc and to be fair I think it's only respectful to give the person who you have seen, the opportunity to view you especially if you have took the plunge and told them that you recognize them!! Not fair if it's only one way!! I am surprised by the amount of people who have said stay away!! "
In that case, you'd better make sure that you approach anyone you may recognise from here in the street, just to be fair and give them a chance to punch you in the face, I've never seen more twisted logic to justify something so inappropriate...very glad I don't work with you... |
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