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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So, what are your limits and what makes your private sex different to when meeting?

What don't you do when meeting but do together?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Use condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On meets we never do bareback or anal .... together we do .

Apart from that we have no limits

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By *arry247Couple  over a year ago

Wakefield

We don’t set rules or limits as we believe sex should be spontaneous.

As adults we expect any partner to alter what they are doing if asked as we would do.

Most people know when their partner is receptive to what they are doing so there is no need to set limits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So what if you met a couple/single guy, and he was looking to have erotic sex which included kissing, would this be allowed?

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By *tarburst babydollMan  over a year ago

Dingwall


"We don’t set rules or limits as we believe sex should be spontaneous.

As adults we expect any partner to alter what they are doing if asked as we would do.

Most people know when their partner is receptive to what they are doing so there is no need to set limits.

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Totally agree to this. We are pushing boudaries all the time. If we try something and like it we will do it again. If we dont like it we wont.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Slapping biting or choking (something we consider normal but just for us) and always safe sex.

And none of that water sports malarkey.

Other than that go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us

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By *olarfoxMan  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Slapping biting or choking (something we consider normal but just for us) and always safe sex.

And none of that water sports malarkey.

Other than that go with the flow. "

Great when couples are as relaxed and uninhibited as you guys..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Our rule is no cumming inside me (inside the condom)

We keep this just for us. We tell the guy straight away and thought it would put a lot of guys off but it doesn't seem to xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Interesting, I guess theirs salsas that chance of a condom splitting, and when your both cumming and orgasming it gives that certain feel that you want between just you and your partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Always*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't fart as much.

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By *uncpl2015Couple  over a year ago

Bridgend Area


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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "

We don't really have limits apart from safe only and things we are just not into anyway. Kissing is a must as it's just not the same without it. But kissing a guy on a meet is just physical there is no romance involved. Sex and kissing with a meet is completely different than when it's just us. Sex and kissing a guy we meet involves no romance whatsoever. It's just good fun with banter as well and good sex. Do I ever feel any romance for them... absolutely not they are just good friends we enjoy social and fun with.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Our rule is no cumming inside me (inside the condom)

We keep this just for us. We tell the guy straight away and thought it would put a lot of guys off but it doesn't seem to xx "

Thats interesting, I find cumming inside a woman (inside a condom) the best bit!

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By *ethnmelvCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff


"So what if you met a couple/single guy, and he was looking to have erotic sex which included kissing, would this be allowed? "

Totally happy with this, only rules for us are no bareback (except with each other, oral ok) and same room. We started with rules when we were new to swinging, but now have a lot more confidence in how we feel and what we want

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Interesting, I guess theirs salsas that chance of a condom splitting, and when your both cumming and orgasming it gives that certain feel that you want between just you and your partner. "

Yes that moment where you.look into each others eyes as you both cum together!......we save that just for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our rule is no cumming inside me (inside the condom)

We keep this just for us. We tell the guy straight away and thought it would put a lot of guys off but it doesn't seem to xx

Thats interesting, I find cumming inside a woman (inside a condom) the best bit!"

So do we hence why its kept just for us

But we know a lot of people wouldn't want that so we tell them up front xx

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By *ussexsocialMan  over a year ago

Billingshurst

We tried the whole not kissing once , that just felt so unnatural and strange we decided there and then that wasn't something we could do again, but apart from that we go with the flow generally will try most things once , as for keeping things for ourselves , there's the connection between two people that love each other ( sounds corny I know )

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By *radleyandRavenCouple  over a year ago

Herts

Bareback is obviously kept just between us.

Amy likes being slapped and choked by me but doesn't like it with anyone else.

Now, kissing...we don't have a no kissing rule as such but Amy especially gets no real enjoyment from kissing other people. It's not always intentional but she will naturally turn away if someone other than me goes to kiss her so it's something she prefers not to happen with meets - she'd much rather be gagged or latch onto your neck/chest (and vice versa).

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By *londeandbrownCouple  over a year ago

taunton


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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "

We agree the romance side is for us ie kissing etc.

The nitty gritty fucking is all included for our friends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When playing our rule is - there are no rules. We can each go with whatever we fancy.

Our only unbreakable rule is we NEVER play apart.

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple  over a year ago

North West


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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "

THIS !!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So, what are your limits and what makes your private sex different to when meeting?

What don't you do when meeting but do together? "

We don't really have any set rules, well apart from insisting on using condoms. Depends on who we are meeting, where and how comfortable we feel to what we might do. Tend to go with the flow really...

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By *ouplefunukCouple  over a year ago

North Bristol


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We don't really have any set rules, well apart from insisting on using condoms. Depends on who we are meeting, where and how comfortable we feel to what we might do. Tend to go with the flow really..."

This

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always safe fun, apart from that we go with the flow .

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple  over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We just go with the flow and see where it leads us as long as it's not 3ps we r happy with most stuff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what if you met a couple/single guy, and he was looking to have erotic sex which included kissing, would this be allowed? "

Kissing isn't 'erotic' (in an unusual sense, it is a vital part of sex (though is erotic in its own right).

Sex without kissing, to us, is a mechanical, empty your balls into a bucket, sex act.

Our only rules are no anal and no slapping. We do anal (though rare) but not slapping (doesn't do anything for her).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing !!!! We just wouldn't do it and would argue on here bout it but were here to push boundaries so began introducing it , we like a game of strip poker/dare and and really begun there and it then is more natural when playing.

The other is anal that's mine Mrs ass belongs to me only me lol and love it .

Generally go with the flow x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

as others - no condoms for just us two - swallowing cum is for him only - and its just way more intimate and meaningful - but just as much fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So, what are your limits and what makes your private sex different to when meeting?

What don't you do when meeting but do together? "

Nope. I don't see the point of keeping certain acts 'sacred'. It's just sex.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple  over a year ago

yeovil

No bareback, anal is for hubby only and his is the only load I swallow.

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By *b coupleCouple  over a year ago

southampton


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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "

We're exactly the same. Kissing is strictly for us only and never ever go bareback on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We go

With the flow. Always trying new things

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton

No BB or 3P's and no anal - other than that if it feels good do it - we shag with others but make love together

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whether we play together with others or go on solo meets we have the same simple rule. No bareback.

A list of rules takes away half of the fun. I've been with a couple as a solo female and been present with a list of things I can and can't do and it ruined it for me. I couldn't just switch off and enjoy.

I've never really got the no kissing thing. I've joined so many couples where kissing has been off limits. They could kiss between my legs, kiss my breasts, but not my mouth.

I do see why some couples want to hold something back just for themselves though. So we try to keep things like some of our fetish play, as just for us. That way, it's not likely to inhibit any play we have with others.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't have code words or condoms when it's just us.

Sex has to flow to work right, so we don't have many rules and those we do are fairly elastic, out of preference we are usually all in one room or nothing happens, it's just more erotic that way.

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By *olarfoxMan  over a year ago

North Cambs


"We go

With the flow. Always trying new things "

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World

We don't bareback, obxiously.

Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.

It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't bareback, obxiously.

Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.

It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me."

Shag n go then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

samex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't bareback, obxiously.

Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.

It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me."

With you on that ... I would hate a guy to try cuddling me after sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't bareback, obxiously.

Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.

It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me.

With you on that ... I would hate a guy to try cuddling me after sex "

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