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couples what are your limits when meeting?
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
We don’t set rules or limits as we believe sex should be spontaneous.
As adults we expect any partner to alter what they are doing if asked as we would do.
Most people know when their partner is receptive to what they are doing so there is no need to set limits.
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"We don’t set rules or limits as we believe sex should be spontaneous.
As adults we expect any partner to alter what they are doing if asked as we would do.
Most people know when their partner is receptive to what they are doing so there is no need to set limits.
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Totally agree to this. We are pushing boudaries all the time. If we try something and like it we will do it again. If we dont like it we wont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slapping biting or choking (something we consider normal but just for us) and always safe sex.
And none of that water sports malarkey.
Other than that go with the flow. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Slapping biting or choking (something we consider normal but just for us) and always safe sex.
And none of that water sports malarkey.
Other than that go with the flow. "
Great when couples are as relaxed and uninhibited as you guys.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our rule is no cumming inside me (inside the condom)
We keep this just for us. We tell the guy straight away and thought it would put a lot of guys off but it doesn't seem to xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting, I guess theirs salsas that chance of a condom splitting, and when your both cumming and orgasming it gives that certain feel that you want between just you and your partner. |
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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "
We don't really have limits apart from safe only and things we are just not into anyway. Kissing is a must as it's just not the same without it. But kissing a guy on a meet is just physical there is no romance involved. Sex and kissing with a meet is completely different than when it's just us. Sex and kissing a guy we meet involves no romance whatsoever. It's just good fun with banter as well and good sex. Do I ever feel any romance for them... absolutely not they are just good friends we enjoy social and fun with. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Our rule is no cumming inside me (inside the condom)
We keep this just for us. We tell the guy straight away and thought it would put a lot of guys off but it doesn't seem to xx "
Thats interesting, I find cumming inside a woman (inside a condom) the best bit! |
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"So what if you met a couple/single guy, and he was looking to have erotic sex which included kissing, would this be allowed? "
Totally happy with this, only rules for us are no bareback (except with each other, oral ok) and same room. We started with rules when we were new to swinging, but now have a lot more confidence in how we feel and what we want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting, I guess theirs salsas that chance of a condom splitting, and when your both cumming and orgasming it gives that certain feel that you want between just you and your partner. "
Yes that moment where you.look into each others eyes as you both cum together!......we save that just for us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our rule is no cumming inside me (inside the condom)
We keep this just for us. We tell the guy straight away and thought it would put a lot of guys off but it doesn't seem to xx
Thats interesting, I find cumming inside a woman (inside a condom) the best bit!"
So do we hence why its kept just for us
But we know a lot of people wouldn't want that so we tell them up front xx |
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We tried the whole not kissing once , that just felt so unnatural and strange we decided there and then that wasn't something we could do again, but apart from that we go with the flow generally will try most things once , as for keeping things for ourselves , there's the connection between two people that love each other ( sounds corny I know ) |
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Bareback is obviously kept just between us.
Amy likes being slapped and choked by me but doesn't like it with anyone else.
Now, kissing...we don't have a no kissing rule as such but Amy especially gets no real enjoyment from kissing other people. It's not always intentional but she will naturally turn away if someone other than me goes to kiss her so it's something she prefers not to happen with meets - she'd much rather be gagged or latch onto your neck/chest (and vice versa). |
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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "
We agree the romance side is for us ie kissing etc.
The nitty gritty fucking is all included for our friends |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"So, what are your limits and what makes your private sex different to when meeting?
What don't you do when meeting but do together? "
We don't really have any set rules, well apart from insisting on using condoms. Depends on who we are meeting, where and how comfortable we feel to what we might do. Tend to go with the flow really... |
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We don't really have any set rules, well apart from insisting on using condoms. Depends on who we are meeting, where and how comfortable we feel to what we might do. Tend to go with the flow really..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what if you met a couple/single guy, and he was looking to have erotic sex which included kissing, would this be allowed? "
Kissing isn't 'erotic' (in an unusual sense, it is a vital part of sex (though is erotic in its own right).
Sex without kissing, to us, is a mechanical, empty your balls into a bucket, sex act.
Our only rules are no anal and no slapping. We do anal (though rare) but not slapping (doesn't do anything for her). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing !!!! We just wouldn't do it and would argue on here bout it but were here to push boundaries so began introducing it , we like a game of strip poker/dare and and really begun there and it then is more natural when playing.
The other is anal that's mine Mrs ass belongs to me only me lol and love it .
Generally go with the flow x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, what are your limits and what makes your private sex different to when meeting?
What don't you do when meeting but do together? "
Nope. I don't see the point of keeping certain acts 'sacred'. It's just sex. |
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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago
southampton |
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We are into the idea of meeting, we're just not keen on the idea of kissing and having that "romance" Side of it with others, that's just for us "
We're exactly the same. Kissing is strictly for us only and never ever go bareback on a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whether we play together with others or go on solo meets we have the same simple rule. No bareback.
A list of rules takes away half of the fun. I've been with a couple as a solo female and been present with a list of things I can and can't do and it ruined it for me. I couldn't just switch off and enjoy.
I've never really got the no kissing thing. I've joined so many couples where kissing has been off limits. They could kiss between my legs, kiss my breasts, but not my mouth.
I do see why some couples want to hold something back just for themselves though. So we try to keep things like some of our fetish play, as just for us. That way, it's not likely to inhibit any play we have with others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't have code words or condoms when it's just us.
Sex has to flow to work right, so we don't have many rules and those we do are fairly elastic, out of preference we are usually all in one room or nothing happens, it's just more erotic that way. |
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We don't bareback, obxiously.
Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.
It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't bareback, obxiously.
Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.
It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me."
Shag n go then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't bareback, obxiously.
Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.
It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me."
With you on that ... I would hate a guy to try cuddling me after sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't bareback, obxiously.
Used to have a no kissing rule but dropped that years ago as it just felt stilted and awkward.
It isn't a rule as such, but I don't do the post coital cuddle, just doesn't seem part of swing sex for me.
With you on that ... I would hate a guy to try cuddling me after sex "
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