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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fisting, perhaps a taboo subject?
But I love to fist and I love the fact that fisting would appear to give the ultimate stretch and most intense of orgasams.
I love the look on a sweeties face when they realise i'm fisting them.
Whats your experience?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My vagina just sealed up at the mere thought!
I cant take more than two fingers nor would I
Its been attempted once and said gentleman who attempted it got kicked off me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend loves it...but there has to be ultimate trust and started oh so gently.
She never let her (ex) hubby do it.....she has only trusted two guys with this gift....but when she goes for it she is reduced to a bucking and shaking lump of jelly......it is oh so good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My best friend loves it...but there has to be ultimate trust and started oh so gently.
She never let her (ex) hubby do it.....she has only trusted two guys with this gift....but when she goes for it she is reduced to a bucking and shaking lump of jelly......it is oh so good!"
Yea i agree u must have trust i love it and when i do i gush for England
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never tried it on any girlfriend that I've been with yet as I have always thought it was confined to the porn film industry only. Reading the replies to your post, it appears that some women actually like it. Interesting.... very interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have experience of this with several different women.
The last one I tried with despite plenty of warming up and loads of lube I was unable to get past my knuckles. That's when I decided it wasn't going to happen and ceased trying. This despite her telling me she has been fisted before. But I do have quite large hands. |
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"Something I would like to try but not sure how ...  "
Lube and slowly work up the amount of fingers, taking your time. The Mr just reads my body and really gets me going.
Oh... And remember to tuck that thumb as far in as possible. x |
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"Fisting, perhaps a taboo subject?
But I love to fist and I love the fact that fisting would appear to give the ultimate stretch and most intense of orgasams.
I love the look on a sweeties face when they realise i'm fisting them.
Whats your experience?
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When they realise  . You don't ask first then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it my partner has rather large hands but god does it make me Cum so intensely . Trust has to be there slow and gentle to start with loads of lube |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My vagina just sealed up at the mere thought!
I cant take more than two fingers nor would I
Its been attempted once and said gentleman who attempted it got kicked off me"
Yet you like thick cocks ...surely two fingers are smaller than a thick cock ... |
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I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate it !
Guy did it very gently and i still ended up very badly damaged for a long time after. I am just to small to take it ! Doc said many women end up damaged by it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate it !
Guy did it very gently and i still ended up very badly damaged for a long time after. I am just to small to take it ! Doc said many women end up damaged by it !"
If you dont mind me asking, in what way
damaged...
I seen a pic on profile and the after effects did not look attractive |
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ive had a few ladies that do enjoy this experience
yet i always wait until they encourage to do so otherwise its always just the finger or 2 fingers as not everyone is into this
like others have said plenty of lube and a relaxed atmosphere is best and plenty of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My best friend loves it...but there has to be ultimate trust and started oh so gently.
She never let her (ex) hubby do it.....she has only trusted two guys with this gift....but when she goes for it she is reduced to a bucking and shaking lump of jelly......it is oh so good!
Yea i agree u must have trust i love it and when i do i gush for England
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Exactly this.....only the judicious use of a shower curtain under the sheet prevented total destruction of my mattress! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is "
Spot on about the name. It's nothing to do with fists at all really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is "
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I always get a vision of a vet with a hand up a cows arse or something when I think of distinguished. I don't know why but it's a bit of a turn off. Lol.
I'm quite small inside and I like my guys big and tall which usually means they have rather large hands!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up "
I think some people are just stretchier than others. Not looser or tighter, stretchier. |
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"Fisting, perhaps a taboo subject?
But I love to fist and I love the fact that fisting would appear to give the ultimate stretch and most intense of orgasams.
I love the look on a sweeties face when they realise i'm fisting them.
Whats your experience?
When they realise . You don't ask first then"
That was exactly my thought - it wouldn't just slip in, randomly.  |
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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago
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Sexual contact should be for pleasure??? It seems there is a huge pressure, to ensure every lady should become a stretched( in the fanny department) gushing fountain! in order that she has been properly satisfied during sex???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexual contact should be for pleasure??? It seems there is a huge pressure, to ensure every lady should become a stretched( in the fanny department) gushing fountain! in order that she has been properly satisfied during sex??? "
I suppose some women like it
not me
I'm not that keen on a cock inside me never mind a hand
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexual contact should be for pleasure??? It seems there is a huge pressure, to ensure every lady should become a stretched( in the fanny department) gushing fountain! in order that she has been properly satisfied during sex??? "
But if a woman finds it gives pleasure, she shouldn't be made to feel it's wrong to enjoy it either. And while I can still grip a pencil afterwards I'm really not going to worry about being 'stretched'. No one should ever be pressured into something they don't enjoy, but some women do enjoy it and it doesn't make them bucket fannied auld slappers. |
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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago
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"Very very curious, can't imagine what it would feel like but willing to find out one day with the right person m x"
I'm only able to do it with a woman ( smaller hands ) , also they know how delicate it can be so are much more considerate .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw a woman for a little while and she liked to be fisted.I only got my hand in up to my knuckles,but she went wild! 
For all you fisting lovers out there,is it the same sort of experience as the woman in hot pics who had the marrow hanging out of her pussy?She looked very stretched! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last fb and I attempted it a few times. It was absolutely epic until the point it felt like my perineum was tearing.
Agree with Anna Anon about the pencil grip afterwards. I've had VWE guys tell me I'm tight and the other end of the scale and not during sex either.
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By *oner68Couple
over a year ago
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"Sexual contact should be for pleasure??? It seems there is a huge pressure, to ensure every lady should become a stretched( in the fanny department) gushing fountain! in order that she has been properly satisfied during sex??? "
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up "
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely."
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Fisting is fairly tame to be honest, the more adventurous women like "footing" similar to fisting, but you know, with your foot. Finally for the really "out there" kind of woman, you start her off with a "footing" and then with enough time, patience and lube, you can eventually get all the way inside and use her as a human sleeping bag, with just your head sticking out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being fisted! My reaction when they finally get it all in is usually. 'Omg that feels amazing' and the orgasm I have is unreal. Yet to be anally fisted. On my to do list though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely.
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle "
I think the posters point was that anatomically you are designed to stretch. You simply don't want to indulge in fishing, not that you aren't able to. If someone is not comfortable or relaxed or aroused then it could be painful.
I'm not into it either, I don't want to be stretched etc. But those women who do enjoy that filled, stretched feeling, you will probably find have good pelvic floor muscles
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it a couple of times , has to be a 100% trust, a lot of lube and a lot of patience!!!! Not something I do or want very often but can be incredibly horny x |
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Iv seen in porn and have tryed fisting my ex nealy did but just wouldnt no matter how wet horny and relaxed she was. but from what i read on here it seams more common than i thought. Ill have to wait till the right woman comes along for me to try again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely.
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle "
Lol,no I'm not
I'm just saying if your fanny can stretch enough for the head to fit through.
and ooooh episiotomy, now that's painful!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love being fisted! My reaction when they finally get it all in is usually. 'Omg that feels amazing' and the orgasm I have is unreal. Yet to be anally fisted. On my to do list though!"
I give and receive anal fisting, and for a guy its fantastic. Not something you do overnight though, usually takes weeks of training. One female fb of mine loves being fisted vaginally as par for the course when we meet up. Anally fisted her once, but she is seriously into having her limits pushed. She loved it, and evenore so when I slipped my cock in her pussy at the same time. Just don't rush it, and enjoy the journey! |
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"Sexual contact should be for pleasure??? It seems there is a huge pressure, to ensure every lady should become a stretched( in the fanny department) gushing fountain! in order that she has been properly satisfied during sex???
But if a woman finds it gives pleasure, she shouldn't be made to feel it's wrong to enjoy it either. And while I can still grip a pencil afterwards I'm really not going to worry about being 'stretched'. No one should ever be pressured into something they don't enjoy, but some women do enjoy it and it doesn't make them bucket fannied auld slappers. "
I can do myself at certain times of the month, when hormones make me super horny. Fella has got it in there, but damn it was a tight fit, couldn't take it for long.
Fun, super horny, incredibly intimate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for us, thanks. But if you're a man who wants to fist I think it only fair that you get fisted first."
Ive never seen the link to these comments.. As they are not offering to fist your arse...
For the record I have had it done and can at times take it. We dont use lube because most lube makes me sore. but if I am turned on enough with work and building up it can be done.
Best bit is the sensation and how amazingly tight you are after.. yes i said tight.. Fisting makes me work my pelvic floor muscles hard... and obviously you swell a little after.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love giving. Intense, erotic and just.....
Nom Nom fucking Nom indeedy!,  "
Just to clarify...
Vaginal Fisting only.
I do not do Anal Fisting, nor is it of interest to me!
Fook having a fist up ya bum?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yes many times. It's intense and I love it. Makes me cum endlessly.
Think there are pics on my profile lol
Keep doing the pelvic floor exercises and it's fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely.
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle
I think the posters point was that anatomically you are designed to stretch. You simply don't want to indulge in fishing, not that you aren't able to. If someone is not comfortable or relaxed or aroused then it could be painful.
I'm not into it either, I don't want to be stretched etc. But those women who do enjoy that filled, stretched feeling, you will probably find have good pelvic floor muscles
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yeah maybe I am able to but like child birth fisting bloody hurts
ok so the vagina is designed to stretch but only to a certain point before it hurt and my hurting point is smaller than a whole hand
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely.
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle
I think the posters point was that anatomically you are designed to stretch. You simply don't want to indulge in fishing, not that you aren't able to. If someone is not comfortable or relaxed or aroused then it could be painful.
I'm not into it either, I don't want to be stretched etc. But those women who do enjoy that filled, stretched feeling, you will probably find have good pelvic floor muscles
yeah maybe I am able to but like child birth fisting bloody hurts
ok so the vagina is designed to stretch but only to a certain point before it hurt and my hurting point is smaller than a whole hand
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Try t'other 'ole then! I manage it and a cock in there as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely.
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle
I think the posters point was that anatomically you are designed to stretch. You simply don't want to indulge in fishing, not that you aren't able to. If someone is not comfortable or relaxed or aroused then it could be painful.
I'm not into it either, I don't want to be stretched etc. But those women who do enjoy that filled, stretched feeling, you will probably find have good pelvic floor muscles
yeah maybe I am able to but like child birth fisting bloody hurts
ok so the vagina is designed to stretch but only to a certain point before it hurt and my hurting point is smaller than a whole hand
Try t'other 'ole then! I manage it and a cock in there as well. "
fook off
and don't say it will fit cause shit comes out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've introduced a few women to it, none had done it before but all absolutely loved it because it was done gently and by someone who knew how to do it
The name makes it sound violent and painful, which in real life is the complete opposite to what it is
It is painful
my fanny ain't designed for something as wide as a set if knuckles to go up
It's designed for a baby to come out so it can take a hand!!
Whether you want that to happen/ relaxed / turned on enough is a different matter entirely.
Are you seriously comparing child birth to fisting?
ok give me the gas and air and an epidural and I'll consider it but I ain't having an episiotomy if I start to struggle
I think the posters point was that anatomically you are designed to stretch. You simply don't want to indulge in fishing, not that you aren't able to. If someone is not comfortable or relaxed or aroused then it could be painful.
I'm not into it either, I don't want to be stretched etc. But those women who do enjoy that filled, stretched feeling, you will probably find have good pelvic floor muscles
yeah maybe I am able to but like child birth fisting bloody hurts
ok so the vagina is designed to stretch but only to a certain point before it hurt and my hurting point is smaller than a whole hand
Try t'other 'ole then! I manage it and a cock in there as well.
fook off
and don't say it will fit cause shit comes out "
Honestly! There's no pleasing some people! |
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