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Cheap and Slutty VS Elegant and Classy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't really have a choice! I am what I am!
Modelled in my late teens and early twenties and had the 'natural' look instilled in me so strongly that I look like a circus clown if I try to go for a heavier look!
I also only wear 'tarty' clothes in appropriate places - or a swingers club - as I think I'd look stupid at my age wearing skimpy clothes in a theatre, bar or restaurant!
I'd rather look like a looker than a hooker!!   |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I think you can be both. Simultaneously if you get the dress and lingerie combination right. My personal interpretation of slutty or classy will differ to everyone else's I'm sure. As will theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which do you prefer?
Me personally prefer classy than slutty.
Way sexier
I'm not sure I like any of those things."
Was thinking that myself...I wouldn't say I was classy with a Bolton accent and a bit of a tomboy attitude, but don't think I'm slutty either? What's the midpoint, just to be awkward?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which do you prefer?
Me personally prefer classy than slutty.
Way sexier
I'm not sure I like any of those things.
Was thinking that myself...I wouldn't say I was classy with a Bolton accent and a bit of a tomboy attitude, but don't think I'm slutty either? What's the midpoint, just to be awkward?! "
Being awkward.. That gets my vote every time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which do you prefer?
Me personally prefer classy than slutty.
Way sexier
I'm not sure I like any of those things.
Was thinking that myself...I wouldn't say I was classy with a Bolton accent and a bit of a tomboy attitude, but don't think I'm slutty either? What's the midpoint, just to be awkward?! "
I think you have to pick one. Because if you're outwardly slutty it means society have permission to look down on you, but if you're inwardly slutty then you can be put on a pedestal.
Basically slutty vs classy debates are just another way of policing women's behaviour and making sure that they conform to certain stereotypes (I.e. Outwardly "respectable" while willing to please your man in the bedroom).
But I'm certainly not elegant, classy, or slutty. Not are any of my partners. Well my sub is a bit of a slut, but I can forgive him for that. |
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