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whats the fantasy seeing your wife/gf with another guy?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is the real thing behind "wanting to see your partner have sex with another guy"
Not saying its wrong or right as we kind of like the thought ourselfs.
Whats it like watching your partner enjoy another guys body/cock ? Do you not feel guilty or in anyway atall effected your relationship?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it was never a fantasy. The wife one day asked if we could have a threesome with my mate as she knew he was into them. I said yeah ok. Did I get jelouse nope. It was a turn on to see her happy and get pleasure. It's not about love. It's lust and sex which is fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love seeing my guy with another woman. It's just really hot. I love watching her turned on by him and I just get to sit back and view live porn starring my favourite person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the way I get to see the love of my life being herself , and revelling in the glory of being totally immersed in the moment with someone else .
As others have said , like watching porn but the starring role is my wife .
And the fun we have together afterwards is just unbeatable .
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Just last night between the sheets I was telling my wife how I enjoy watching her with other men or women. The thought (and memory) of watching her enjoying herself with someone else appeals to the submissive in me, the cuckold sense but also a Dom streak; I am, after all, masterminding this.
We've had single guys over where it's been just her and him but also just him and him. Watching each other brings as much pleasure as being involved if you can just suspend your ego long enough.
We'll be doing it much more. |
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I just love to see her enjoying herself as she does me too. The sex with another is completely different to the sex we have with each other... especially the sex we have when our guest leaves... jealousy does not enter out minds |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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It's impossible to watch yourself have sex and I've always wanted to know how she looks when we're having sex, so watching in the third person is the next best thing and it being live is key.
My focus is on her, watching her move, respond and seeing her from this angle is pretty amazing, even better than I had imagined. As for our relationship this is for US and we're pleasing each other by doing this, however, we're always mindful of the person(s) involved and we never forget it's their experience too. If it's a good experience for them then that makes our experience all the better too. Visually it's great but when you get "real" responses from her because both parties are fully into the moment without a hint of jealousy fom me, well, you'd have to be in that special moment to really appreciate it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, it's watching your wife getting pleasure and enjoying something maybe a little different, will also say we have the best raw, dirty sex together after. |
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"As others have said, it's watching your wife getting pleasure and enjoying something maybe a little different, will also say we have the best raw, dirty sex together after."
The sex after is the most animalistic sex ever |
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seeing K's face as she lay back on bed with a really nice guy off this site fucking her hard, she was smiling, sweating, just looked happy and utterly beautiful, was really special, I have a photo of her then and it's just incredible and jealousy never came into it, we were happy to share her with B |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As others have said, it's watching your wife getting pleasure and enjoying something maybe a little different, will also say we have the best raw, dirty sex together after.
The sex after is the most animalistic sex ever "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is something we both enjoy alot. Watching her in action is amazing and its great seeing her having fun.
I also like watching her giving BJs lol
We find its thrilling for us both and love doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thread title focus on the male couple watching the female half.
We and many other couples enjoy the other way round too where the female enjoys watching the male half play with another person, it brings out the same feeling of being turned on watching. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thread title focus on the male couple watching the female half.
We and many other couples enjoy the other way round too where the female enjoys watching the male half play with another person, it brings out the same feeling of being turned on watching. "
This ^ I love watching my other half play with others. It makes me happy to see him aroused and horny and enjoying himself. I dont always have to be in the middle of it all. Its great when I am but I definitely love watching in a big way. Im sure lots of other women are the same!
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"The thread title focus on the male couple watching the female half.
We and many other couples enjoy the other way round too where the female enjoys watching the male half play with another person, it brings out the same feeling of being turned on watching. "
I love watching jay fuck another woman x x x turns me on soo much x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love seeing my guy with another woman. It's just really hot. I love watching her turned on by him and I just get to sit back and view live porn starring my favourite person. "
Isn't it good... I think Mr likes to watch me the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have had a lot of similar replies,
You enjoy watching your wife/partner get pleasures by another guy, but do you not wonder if she would prefer the feel of sex with the other guy..? I.e if she felt a better orgasm..
Some say they like to see how there partner looks during sex, as it being like porn but your partner being 1 of the performers, we have felt this, but filled this fantasy by recording our sex and watching it back on our next session as porn..
I'm not being negative, but trying to give different views. We are both loving the thought of watching each other with another guy/girl but feel it's so much easier to find a male to play with the girl as to finding a women to play with a guy in front of their partner, especially those around our age group. |
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We do agree that principally it is easier to find another guy than a girl but due to our own low self esteems we usually beat ourselves up about other girls not wanting to be with us and, as such, never ask anyone.
We have enjoyed full swapping with other couples where we get to watch though. We certainly enjoy that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello guys, well for me it's such a massive turn on to see partners fucking other men, 2 of my ex's loved doing this but sadly we were let down by a fair few.Those who did though were fantastic, I have no problems performing at all but I just love seeing a woman get fucked nice and deep then 'punishing' her for being such a dirty bitch by fucking her hard after. I am single at the mo but looking for an open minded girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To us swinging is partly finding other women to satisfy her bi side without leading them on into thinking there may be more than sex on offer.
But mostly it is foreplay to the sex we have with each other after.
Though we hope any that play with us get as much out of it as we do, it is really the week or so after a meet that gives the reward, and that is all about us as a couple.
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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago
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our first experience was with an old male friend of ours..
such a turn on when her hand slipped across his belly to explore ...
the look in her eyes... as we kissed her nipples, our fingers together exploring her womanhood.. river of babylon flowing...
and when she accepted him within, i was hard again ..and again ........
we shared our love that night, no guilt ..no recrimination ..
just another dimension of loving discovered....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From the 3rd parties point of view, in my case single male, I look on it as enhancing the couples sex life. Whether its the male watching his partner being pleasured or whether its the woman exploring her fantasy of having two (or more?), cocks to play with. Dp, spit roast or even dvp. I always imagine the couple relive those moments for their shared pleasure after I have left, or even days, months later.
Very often the look of love given between the two partners, the encouragement and the complete trust between themselves is usually very evident.
If it wasn't I would stop playing, but have never come across any jealousy when playing as part of a mfm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at it that im a toy for the couple...something that they can use to enhance their sexual relationship. So basically see myself as just a living breathing dildo. ..lol but I'm ok with that. |
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I love looking at the enjoyment on Jays face as i get a serious pounding, in single guys, we normally go for Bbc, the colour contrast turns us both on. It works for us and the sex we have after is mind blowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife is my favourite sexual fantasy. I love watching her and sharing her. She loves two or more cocks to play with and who am I to deny her that pleasure?
After all, I know how that feels too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, can I ask you a question.
Your profile is not very enlightening but your interest list indicates that you would like to be in a situation where what you ask will be happening.
So What is YOUR real thing behind "wanting to see your partner have sex with another guy"? |
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"As others have said, it's watching your wife getting pleasure and enjoying something maybe a little different, will also say we have the best raw, dirty sex together after.
The sex after is the most animalistic sex ever "
VERY VERY TRUE !!  |
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"It's impossible to watch yourself have sex and I've always wanted to know how she looks when we're having sex, so watching in the third person is the next best thing and it being live is key.
My focus is on her, watching her move, respond and seeing her from this angle is pretty amazing, even better than I had imagined. As for our relationship this is for US and we're pleasing each other by doing this, however, we're always mindful of the person(s) involved and we never forget it's their experience too. If it's a good experience for them then that makes our experience all the better too. Visually it's great but when you get "real" responses from her because both parties are fully into the moment without a hint of jealousy fom me, well, you'd have to be in that special moment to really appreciate it. "
It's the same for me, I used to watch porn, now I have my private pornstar that I fuck all the time |
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Like anything what you get out of it is what you put into it.
As others have said above, watching does not mean you can't get it up or that you are not enough for your partner. It does not mean you are a cuckold or that you crave humiliation.
It can do, but it does not have to mean this.
The meaning comes from the couples themselves and there has been a full range of answers given on here.
But for the OP you will only know when you give it a go.
One thing I am pretty much sure of is that it will not ruin your relationship, it will not cause you to cheat and it will not lead to you leaving your partner.
Why?
Because although those things may happen, they won't happen due to swinging. If it does happen then it is something you have brought with you into swinging. If a guy or girl is going to move on from their partner just because of sex, then really the relationship must only be about sex.
Personally I love all of the above, I'm quite a changeable guy.
I love the watching as it's like a mini porn movie.
I like watching as it's a bit naughty and not what you are supposed to do.
I like the cuckold scenario on occasions, but I have to be in the mood.
I love joining in and kissing her as she cums from someone else's attention.
I love seeing the lust in her eyes or the distraction from me as she looses herself in her orgasm.
You know what someone else could give her better sex than me (not happened yet, but it's a possibility), but that's not love and got almost nothing to do with why we love each other. It's a fun activity like going to the cinema or having fun in the vanilla sense with friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was part of a couple we had men join as partner liked to watch. As a single fem now I've met a fair few couples sometimes it's just to play with fem and sometimes both....its their relationship and their rules that I play by. I know I'm there as a plaything and to enhance what comes after and so long as I leave satisfied with whatever play has occurred this totally suits me |
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"When I was part of a couple we had men join as partner liked to watch. As a single fem now I've met a fair few couples sometimes it's just to play with fem and sometimes both....its their relationship and their rules that I play by. I know I'm there as a plaything and to enhance what comes after and so long as I leave satisfied with whatever play has occurred this totally suits me "
And what a lovely play thing you are too. But I'm sure most couples respect those who join them for their fun.
After all more fun be-gets more fun |
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