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DOESN'T MATTER!!!
In my humble opinion I don't care if a woman is BBW or skinny. All I care about is does she stimulate my mind. I find all sorts of women sexually attractive add a mind that is as wicked as mine and I'm lost in them regardless of if they're a size 0 or a size 28.
Not everyone will agree and I'm not stupid enough to think that but I'm interested how many people would give someone male or female a chance to stimulate their mind if the person wasn't necessarily Meeting your physical preferences?
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I like a man to meet my physical preferences and won't give them a chance if they don't. Why should I? I'm here to fulfil sexual fantasies and mine require a man to look attractive to me (which is not the same as gym fit, huge cock etc). I don't want to get married or form a long term romantic relationship and reserve the right to pick and choose on physical attributes in the first instance. If you feel I'm shallow then I would agree with you, in the matter of no strings sex I am. |
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"DOESN'T MATTER!!!
In my humble opinion I don't care if a woman is BBW or skinny. All I care about is does she stimulate my mind. I find all sorts of women sexually attractive add a mind that is as wicked as mine and I'm lost in them regardless of if they're a size 0 or a size 28.
Not everyone will agree and I'm not stupid enough to think that but I'm interested how many people would give someone male or female a chance to stimulate their mind if the person wasn't necessarily Meeting your physical preferences?
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For sexual fantasy purposes they HAVE to be physically what I want: I have a partner, friends and family for everything else. |
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"I like a man to meet my physical preferences and won't give them a chance if they don't. Why should I? I'm here to fulfil sexual fantasies and mine require a man to look attractive to me (which is not the same as gym fit, huge cock etc). I don't want to get married or form a long term romantic relationship and reserve the right to pick and choose on physical attributes in the first instance. If you feel I'm shallow then I would agree with you, in the matter of no strings sex I am."
100% this for me too!  |
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I should add like nicecouple stated above that doesn't necessarily mean 6 pack, most definitely doesn't mean a huge cock in fact there are lots of things that attract me to a guy. but if they don't have any of them it's not gonna happen |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke. "
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14 |
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Just for the record of people don't agree with me that's not a problem. In no way do I think you'd be shallow for being more driven to physical attributes.
I just sense this post after reading a couple posts could turn nasty and that's not my intention for this post it was a genuine post not meant to instigate arsey responses.
Sorry if people think I was trying to dig at people who only go for looks that wasn't my intention |
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Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria. |
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over a year ago
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"I like a man to meet my physical preferences and won't give them a chance if they don't. Why should I? I'm here to fulfil sexual fantasies and mine require a man to look attractive to me (which is not the same as gym fit, huge cock etc). I don't want to get married or form a long term romantic relationship and reserve the right to pick and choose on physical attributes in the first instance. If you feel I'm shallow then I would agree with you, in the matter of no strings sex I am."
Finally , someone who is honest!
That's exactly why I am on here, and as for most men, I beleive when they have 18 to 99 they are prepared to shag anything
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"Just for the record of people don't agree with me that's not a problem. In no way do I think you'd be shallow for being more driven to physical attributes.
I just sense this post after reading a couple posts could turn nasty and that's not my intention for this post it was a genuine post not meant to instigate arsey responses.
Sorry if people think I was trying to dig at people who only go for looks that wasn't my intention"
These aren't arsey responses, they are people disagreeing with you.....which you say is fine  |
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over a year ago
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke. "
Got to agree with you |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria."
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Got to agree with you "
Me too. I'm not into overly slim guys, like a bit of meat on my man so it wouldn't matter how nice they were, I wouldn't want to get physical with them. It might be shallow but so be it. |
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over a year ago
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke. "
This tbh, if i wanted a friend sure but for sex no I need physical attraction.
It always seems a bit desperate people people say they don't care what someone looks like to sleep with them |
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I wouldn't sleep with the hottest guy if they had no personality . Likewise I'd not sleep with someone with a fantastic personality if they were butt ugly. There's got to be a happy medium of both attributes to peek my interest . I want body and mind stimulated  |
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over a year ago
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" But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!"
I don't see where it's been twisted off subject, people are giving their opinion on your opening post, is it boring because they're not agreeing with you  |
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"Just for the record of people don't agree with me that's not a problem. In no way do I think you'd be shallow for being more driven to physical attributes.
I just sense this post after reading a couple posts could turn nasty and that's not my intention for this post it was a genuine post not meant to instigate arsey responses.
Sorry if people think I was trying to dig at people who only go for looks that wasn't my intention"
interesting people who include physical appearance in their selection process are "shallow" but you who says looks don't matter so are by definition less picky are not shallow.
I love the attempt to be polite while snagging everyone off as shallow or only go for looks.
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!"
Oh that's a shame I thought you wanted discussion and a meeting of minds but if we're boring you. Have a nice day. |
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over a year ago
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Looks matter to me
Dont want to be rude but fat men do nothing for me at all I just don't find it attractive there for I would not have sex with a fat guy no matter how nice he was
And I would hope no guy who didn't find me attractive would not have sex with me because he though I was a nice person, i cant think of a worse feeling to be honest, im sure it has happened but thank god they have not told me if it has, I'd sooner play with a guy who was turned on by body than a man who thought ...what the hell she's a nice lass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks matter to me
Dont want to be rude but fat men do nothing for me at all I just don't find it attractive there for I would not have sex with a fat guy no matter how nice he was
And I would hope no guy who didn't find me attractive would have sex with me because he though I was a nice person, I'd sooner play with a guy who was turned on by body than a man who thought ...what the hell she's a nice lass "
Don't be silly you must choose either looks or personality you can't ask for both :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A big fat ugly woman will always get a shag at the end of the night a big fat ugly bloke as no chance"
a big fat ugly woman ... there is hope for me yet!! lol |
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"Looks matter to me
Dont want to be rude but fat men do nothing for me at all I just don't find it attractive there for I would not have sex with a fat guy no matter how nice he was
And I would hope no guy who didn't find me attractive would have sex with me because he though I was a nice person, I'd sooner play with a guy who was turned on by body than a man who thought ...what the hell she's a nice lass
Don't be silly you must choose either looks or personality you can't ask for both :p"
You quotes my typo post couldn't you have waited five mins till I reposted 
Oh yeah sorry I forgot you can't be attractive and a nice person |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!"
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise. |
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"Looks matter to me
Dont want to be rude but fat men do nothing for me at all I just don't find it attractive there for I would not have sex with a fat guy no matter how nice he was
And I would hope no guy who didn't find me attractive would have sex with me because he though I was a nice person, I'd sooner play with a guy who was turned on by body than a man who thought ...what the hell she's a nice lass
Don't be silly you must choose either looks or personality you can't ask for both :p"
I WANT BOTH.,,
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise."
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14"
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread "
Oh I see.
So, you feel that to you an ability to stimulate you cerebrally is as important as how a woman looks. None of us are saying you're wrong, we're just saying we feel differently. I sometimes think that in general men and women feel very differently about this, a man has a much better ability to see beyond the physical and find something about a person that appeals. |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol "
Don't worry Hun you're both sexy and great personality you'll be fine haha x |
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over a year ago
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol
Don't worry Hun you're both sexy and great personality you'll be fine haha x"
Thank god for that ...I was about to delete my profile and live the life of a nun !!!  |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol "
And me lol. The dress size thing is interesting, had a guy who had 14 as a limit on his profile so I told him I was an 18 and he got quite abusive saying I didn't look anywhere near that and was only saying that to get rid of him. I wasn't, I am an 18. |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread
Oh I see.
So, you feel that to you an ability to stimulate you cerebrally is as important as how a woman looks. None of us are saying you're wrong, we're just saying we feel differently. I sometimes think that in general men and women feel very differently about this, a man has a much better ability to see beyond the physical and find something about a person that appeals."
If the tables where turned and women out numbered guys on here and men where getting 50+ messages a day do you still think they would try to see beyond physical appearance to find something that appeals? |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread "
Yeah the point of the thread was a you went "hmm if I say size doesn't matter women will inundate me with offers of sex" |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol
And me lol. The dress size thing is interesting, had a guy who had 14 as a limit on his profile so I told him I was an 18 and he got quite abusive saying I didn't look anywhere near that and was only saying that to get rid of him. I wasn't, I am an 18."
Lol I've had guys message me saying ...aww you're not a size 20 .don't be so down on yourself !!! ...  ...I was lostffor words lol xxx |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread
Oh I see.
So, you feel that to you an ability to stimulate you cerebrally is as important as how a woman looks. None of us are saying you're wrong, we're just saying we feel differently. I sometimes think that in general men and women feel very differently about this, a man has a much better ability to see beyond the physical and find something about a person that appeals.
If the tables where turned and women out numbered guys on here and men where getting 50+ messages a day do you still think they would try to see beyond physical appearance to find something that appeals? "
Of course! So many men say it, it must be true  |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread
Yeah the point of the thread was a you went "hmm if I say size doesn't matter women will inundate me with offers of sex""
Not at all. I already have plenty of offers without needing to try to be underhanded to get meets. Nice to see how your mind works though. |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14"
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol
And me lol. The dress size thing is interesting, had a guy who had 14 as a limit on his profile so I told him I was an 18 and he got quite abusive saying I didn't look anywhere near that and was only saying that to get rid of him. I wasn't, I am an 18."
I get the same I think it comes down to hight too though
I'm a size 14/16 ish and when guys mail me saying they don't like BBW women or woman over a certain size on their profile I point out my size and they never believe me, but I guess being 5ft 10 I carry my weight much better than a woman who was in the lower 5ft, regardless how this I wouldn't meet a guy with this on his profile even if he did assure me he though I looked great and that it didn't apply to me cause I'm tall, you put it on your profile you stand by your words |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"DOESN'T MATTER!!!
In my humble opinion I don't care if a woman is BBW or skinny. All I care about is does she stimulate my mind. I find all sorts of women sexually attractive add a mind that is as wicked as mine and I'm lost in them regardless of if they're a size 0 or a size 28.
Not everyone will agree and I'm not stupid enough to think that but I'm interested how many people would give someone male or female a chance to stimulate their mind if the person wasn't necessarily Meeting your physical preferences?
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It's all well and good saying that... But if size is part of whatever preference that person may have it does matter!
Just like age would....
Just like colour would....
And so on and so on...
It's a brilliant thing to say...l I just don't believe that a lot of the people who say it truly practice what they are preaching |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread
Yeah the point of the thread was a you went "hmm if I say size doesn't matter women will inundate me with offers of sex"
Not at all. I already have plenty of offers without needing to try to be underhanded to get meets. Nice to see how your mind works though. "
Yeah you and the 500 other guys who've posted this thread this year are all just felt that they just had to tell everyone their amazingly unique _iew point |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx"
Shit I better start jogging again :p |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx
Shit I better start jogging again :p
Obviously THX you're the master of fab and know every single persons _iewpoint and why they do what they do. We should all bow down to your superior knowledge of the world.
Jackass!!"
I am pretty awesome yeah.
But my brilliance aside, if you claim in your op you were simply interested in the number of people who felt the same way as you why did you throw a wobbler when people answered? |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx
Shit I better start jogging again :p
Obviously THX you're the master of fab and know every single persons _iewpoint and why they do what they do. We should all bow down to your superior knowledge of the world.
Jackass!!
I am pretty awesome yeah.
But my brilliance aside, if you claim in your op you were simply interested in the number of people who felt the same way as you why did you throw a wobbler when people answered?"
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This seems to be going well.
I like to see open, intelligent discussion around a subject where people feel able to express opposing _iews in the sure knowledge that they will be considered and responded to helping us all to understand one another. |
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"This seems to be going well.
I like to see open, intelligent discussion around a subject where people feel able to express opposing _iews in the sure knowledge that they will be considered and responded to helping us all to understand one another."
Its the fab forum, did you expect anything less??! |
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"This seems to be going well.
I like to see open, intelligent discussion around a subject where people feel able to express opposing _iews in the sure knowledge that they will be considered and responded to helping us all to understand one another.
Its the fab forum, did you expect anything less??! "
No but I am the living embodiment of the triumph of hope over experience.
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Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums |
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums "
I'm glad you feel that way but it seemed to me that you tried to withdraw from any useful debate as soon as it appeared that some of us didn't agree with what you had said.
I relish a robust exchange of _iews but so many people take disagreement as a personal affront which is a shame since we all stand to learn so much about each other.
This is not aimed at you personally, just an observation. |
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums
I'm glad you feel that way but it seemed to me that you tried to withdraw from any useful debate as soon as it appeared that some of us didn't agree with what you had said.
I relish a robust exchange of _iews but so many people take disagreement as a personal affront which is a shame since we all stand to learn so much about each other.
This is not aimed at you personally, just an observation."
Withdrawing is my usual go to mode on fab as people don't like to exchange _iews without getting personally offended. I think everyone's _iew point is valid to a point and that I may not agree but I don't need to take it personally against me. The problem here is too many people use this as a point scoring excercise as opposed to entering a debate. |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx
Shit I better start jogging again :p
Obviously THX you're the master of fab and know every single persons _iewpoint and why they do what they do. We should all bow down to your superior knowledge of the world.
Jackass!!
I am pretty awesome yeah.
But my brilliance aside, if you claim in your op you were simply interested in the number of people who felt the same way as you why did you throw a wobbler when people answered?
Again twisting what was said through the posts to make yourself look good. Read the posts and then go find another post to harass because all I'm doin is laughing at you"
It's hardly twisting you picked up your ball and said you were going home as soon as it didn't go the way you expected.
You didn't want a debate you wanted "on that's such a refreshing _iew point you're my dream boat*swoon*"
But in reality telling a woman "hey love I don't care what you look like it's all the same to me" generally comes across as a bit insulting.
I'm not exactly the only one who's pointed out you've not debated at all but just got in a Huff.
but let's see is size the only physical atribute that has no influence on your decision or are there others?
Height?
Colour?
Number of limbs?
General looks?
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There are some really nasty and personal posts on some forum threads, but I cannot say I felt like this about any of these, but that may be because I have not posted yet, so nothing to take personally. I am attracted to a certain physical type, with Mr obviously being in that category. That is my way of screening potential meets. However, as soon as I saw him I noticed a particular feature which threw me into disarray, and I was hooked. We met in McDonald's so it obviously was not his cock. My preferences are fairly clear, on this and my single profile, but there are always exceptions and they are based on personality - often no time to get to know someone's personality too much through online chat. |
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums
I'm glad you feel that way but it seemed to me that you tried to withdraw from any useful debate as soon as it appeared that some of us didn't agree with what you had said.
I relish a robust exchange of _iews but so many people take disagreement as a personal affront which is a shame since we all stand to learn so much about each other.
This is not aimed at you personally, just an observation.
Withdrawing is my usual go to mode on fab as people don't like to exchange _iews without getting personally offended. I think everyone's _iew point is valid to a point and that I may not agree but I don't need to take it personally against me. The problem here is too many people use this as a point scoring excercise as opposed to entering a debate. "
To be fair you didn't enter into debate and are beginning to contradict yourself a little. You say you won't stop posting because eventually people will realise it's ok to have opposing _iews then say that your go to mode is to withdraw.
People do try to score points but the debate can continue around that surely. |
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It can continue to a point but it does get tiresome when you see it happening every day. I'm happy to debate anything anytime but when it's taken away from the point to stroke someone else's ego that's what I have issue with. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Why is it that BBW is used as a euphamism for fat or overweight, yet it's opposite in this forum is generally "skinny" which is a derogatory term? Why not use slim or healthy, or even athletic, which is a profile option? Being big does not necessarily mean you are beautiful any more than being slim makes you not beautiful.
Our preference is for people who are beautiful in our eyes. They could be any size, but are more likely to be people who take care of their appearance. |
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"It can continue to a point but it does get tiresome when you see it happening every day. I'm happy to debate anything anytime but when it's taken away from the point to stroke someone else's ego that's what I have issue with. "
I see. So of all the people who have answered you allow yourself to be distracted by one poster and your perception of them.
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"It can continue to a point but it does get tiresome when you see it happening every day. I'm happy to debate anything anytime but when it's taken away from the point to stroke someone else's ego that's what I have issue with.
I see. So of all the people who have answered you allow yourself to be distracted by one poster and your perception of them.
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No I just see certain ppl post very similar toned posts to every thread I seem to read and it is tiresome and that does distract me when they turn up on mine. |
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"It can continue to a point but it does get tiresome when you see it happening every day. I'm happy to debate anything anytime but when it's taken away from the point to stroke someone else's ego that's what I have issue with.
I see. So of all the people who have answered you allow yourself to be distracted by one poster and your perception of them.
No I just see certain ppl post very similar toned posts to every thread I seem to read and it is tiresome and that does distract me when they turn up on mine. "
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx
Shit I better start jogging again :p
Obviously THX you're the master of fab and know every single persons _iewpoint and why they do what they do. We should all bow down to your superior knowledge of the world.
Jackass!!
I am pretty awesome yeah.
But my brilliance aside, if you claim in your op you were simply interested in the number of people who felt the same way as you why did you throw a wobbler when people answered?
Again twisting what was said through the posts to make yourself look good. Read the posts and then go find another post to harass because all I'm doin is laughing at you
It's hardly twisting you picked up your ball and said you were going home as soon as it didn't go the way you expected.
You didn't want a debate you wanted "on that's such a refreshing _iew point you're my dream boat*swoon*"
But in reality telling a woman "hey love I don't care what you look like it's all the same to me" generally comes across as a bit insulting.
I'm not exactly the only one who's pointed out you've not debated at all but just got in a Huff.
but let's see is size the only physical atribute that has no influence on your decision or are there others?
Height?
Colour?
Number of limbs?
General looks?
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Loads of people say looks don't matter its what inside that count
Personally I disagree with this
In sure some will have sex regardless of size/looks but in reality not many do
I used to be a size 24, I was on here and used clubs at a size 24, went to socials etc and made lots of friend but very very few people wanted to have sex with me, some I had knows for a few years and they never made a move even though I was friend with them so they obviously liked me as a person
Since the beginning of last year I have lost nearly half my body weight and all of a sudden quite a few people who I have knows socially for a number of years have started mailing me on here and approaching me in clubs looking to play
Now I'm the same person I was 5 dress sizes ago so if personality was more important to as many people who say it why did it take me to loose all that weight before I got any attention from people who knew me? |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums "
Unfortunately the nature of a debate is precisely to score points. A debate is based upon different _iews being promoted to the point at which one prevails. Debates shouldn't get personal, but they often do because of deeply held _iews. But so what? Do you really care that some unknown person on the Internet doesn't agree with you? |
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"Why is it that BBW is used as a euphamism for fat or overweight, yet it's opposite in this forum is generally "skinny" which is a derogatory term? Why not use slim or healthy, or even athletic, which is a profile option? Being big does not necessarily mean you are beautiful any more than being slim makes you not beautiful.
Our preference is for people who are beautiful in our eyes. They could be any size, but are more likely to be people who take care of their appearance."
Depends if they are skinny, I wouldnt say skinny was slim or healthy if they are skinny
The problem is on here skinny seems to be anybody under a size 12 used by either white knights looking to impress bigger women or big women with a size chip on their shoulder |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx
Shit I better start jogging again :p
Obviously THX you're the master of fab and know every single persons _iewpoint and why they do what they do. We should all bow down to your superior knowledge of the world.
Jackass!!
I am pretty awesome yeah.
But my brilliance aside, if you claim in your op you were simply interested in the number of people who felt the same way as you why did you throw a wobbler when people answered?
Again twisting what was said through the posts to make yourself look good. Read the posts and then go find another post to harass because all I'm doin is laughing at you
It's hardly twisting you picked up your ball and said you were going home as soon as it didn't go the way you expected.
You didn't want a debate you wanted "on that's such a refreshing _iew point you're my dream boat*swoon*"
But in reality telling a woman "hey love I don't care what you look like it's all the same to me" generally comes across as a bit insulting.
I'm not exactly the only one who's pointed out you've not debated at all but just got in a Huff.
but let's see is size the only physical atribute that has no influence on your decision or are there others?
Height?
Colour?
Number of limbs?
General looks?
Loads of people say looks don't matter its what inside that count
Personally I disagree with this
In sure some will have sex regardless of size/looks but in reality not many do
I used to be a size 24, I was on here and used clubs at a size 24, went to socials etc and made lots of friend but very very few people wanted to have sex with me, some I had knows for a few years and they never made a move even though I was friend with them so they obviously liked me as a person
Since the beginning of last year I have lost nearly half my body weight and all of a sudden quite a few people who I have knows socially for a number of years have started mailing me on here and approaching me in clubs looking to play
Now I'm the same person I was 5 dress sizes ago so if personality was more important to as many people who say it why did it take me to loose all that weight before I got any attention from people who knew me?"
Well not everybody thinks the way I do. But personally for me if your personality at size 24 stimulated my mind a size 24 woman wouldn't put me off at all same way as if you were a size 6 and the personality stimulated my mind your sexual preferences etc matched mine I wouldn't be put off. But not everyone has the same outlook as me obviously nor should they or in no way is my _iewpoint better than anyone else's. |
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums "
But you haven debated at all.
You asked the question people disagreed with your _iew that physical attraction was unimportant your response to that was not reasoned or a point of debate it was to insult them and call them shallow.
You then got further annoyed and said that's it your leaving, so I poked you as to your motivations for posting this thread (given its a very common thread topic) and you responded again not with a point or a reasoned argument but with an insult.
You are correct that debating is overlooked in this country by some , however your responses would have had you disciplined in any formal debate.
Which amusingly is based on a Points system. |
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Same with me when it comes to men! And to be honest they'd need to be very physically fit to keep up with me anyway! Xx
Shit I better start jogging again :p
Obviously THX you're the master of fab and know every single persons _iewpoint and why they do what they do. We should all bow down to your superior knowledge of the world.
Jackass!!
I am pretty awesome yeah.
But my brilliance aside, if you claim in your op you were simply interested in the number of people who felt the same way as you why did you throw a wobbler when people answered?
Again twisting what was said through the posts to make yourself look good. Read the posts and then go find another post to harass because all I'm doin is laughing at you
It's hardly twisting you picked up your ball and said you were going home as soon as it didn't go the way you expected.
You didn't want a debate you wanted "on that's such a refreshing _iew point you're my dream boat*swoon*"
But in reality telling a woman "hey love I don't care what you look like it's all the same to me" generally comes across as a bit insulting.
I'm not exactly the only one who's pointed out you've not debated at all but just got in a Huff.
but let's see is size the only physical atribute that has no influence on your decision or are there others?
Height?
Colour?
Number of limbs?
General looks?
Loads of people say looks don't matter its what inside that count
Personally I disagree with this
In sure some will have sex regardless of size/looks but in reality not many do
I used to be a size 24, I was on here and used clubs at a size 24, went to socials etc and made lots of friend but very very few people wanted to have sex with me, some I had knows for a few years and they never made a move even though I was friend with them so they obviously liked me as a person
Since the beginning of last year I have lost nearly half my body weight and all of a sudden quite a few people who I have knows socially for a number of years have started mailing me on here and approaching me in clubs looking to play
Now I'm the same person I was 5 dress sizes ago so if personality was more important to as many people who say it why did it take me to loose all that weight before I got any attention from people who knew me?"
At the risk of being lynched I admit I'd fall into that category at size 24 I wouldn't be attracted to you but your current size you are quite tastey :p |
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"i prefer a woman who maybe called a bbw, but i won't turn away a slimmer lady. "
But, in all honesty, I wouldn't meet you if I knew you preferred bbw's! When I meet a guy I want it to be amazing - and for that to happen I need to be his 'ideal woman' - not second best! Xx |
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So anyway , going back to the op .
Over the years we have developed a completely different outlook to who we will and won't meet .
Looks , size , attractiveness , similar sexual interests and age are our criteria .
We never thought we would find bigger people horny , but have found we do if their personality is one we like . But still within reason , we wouldn't put someone we didn't find attractive through the ignominy of a play with us as it's downright disrespectful .
So there's our input on the thread , hope it may be of some value |
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"i prefer a woman who maybe called a bbw, but i won't turn away a slimmer lady.
But, in all honesty, I wouldn't meet you if I knew you preferred bbw's! When I meet a guy I want it to be amazing - and for that to happen I need to be his 'ideal woman' - not second best! Xx"
Agree
That's why in a early post I said I wouldnt play with a guy who was only playing with me because he looked past my looks and saw my inner beautie |
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To me it does matter - to sleep with someone I need to be physically attracted to them. So large men and women are not for me as they are not the type I'm attracted to. |
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" But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I don't see where it's been twisted off subject, people are giving their opinion on your opening post, is it boring because they're not agreeing with you "
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" But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I don't see where it's been twisted off subject, people are giving their opinion on your opening post, is it boring because they're not agreeing with you
I've noticed it's usually the op's that get arsey when opinions vary to theirs! "
I think that's because the way feel they've started the thread so have a sense of ownership about it and get upset when it drifts off
Unfortunately on a public forum a thread is like, in the apology thread yesterday, breaking wind in a supermarket, you have no control where it's going to go |
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"Op your post also implies to me that physical attraction is dependent on a woman's size as far as you're concerned as you state no other physical aspect, which must limit you more than it does those of us who have a much broader range of criteria.
Not at all. Size is irrelevant to me. I am driven more by how a social goes or how messages between us make me feel. Physical aspects are what get your attention but I wouldn't be happy to have sex with someone who just looks good but has no personality as in my experience someone with no personality usually ends up a let down in bed. But this is my last post as as always any post on the forums gets twisted off subject and as always becomes boring instantly. Yawn!!
I do for my own selfish satisfaction have to point out that if size is really irrelevant to you your thread title says otherwise.
My thread title doesn't say the opposite. It's a lead in to the first two words of the post!!
For my own selfish satisfaction I have to point out you obviously missed the point of the thread
Yeah the point of the thread was a you went "hmm if I say size doesn't matter women will inundate me with offers of sex"
Not at all. I already have plenty of offers without needing to try to be underhanded to get meets. Nice to see how your mind works though. "
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over a year ago
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums "
Name calling is not a healthy debate |
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"It was a healthy debate with differing opinions until you started insulting people
Not just me then!  "
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Personality counts more for me than anything else xxx Ive met larger women and slim women they are still women and still command respect and love as anyone else xxx As someone whos gone from 22st down to 10st over the past few years i know what its like to have no body confidence and think your unattractive xxx Im grateful to those who helped me through it and i help others now the same way xxx I met one curvy woman last year who had be chastised because of how she looked and didnt like her belly one bit even covering with her arms when naked xx After a few meets she was so much more confident that shes now a regular nudist beach user and i couldnt be prouder i helped her see need not be embrassed by her body type xxx |
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To me size is not important as long as I'm attracted to someone.
Generally it is someone with a nice sensual joyful persona.p who loves sex like me.
She could be slim and lithe or large and voluptuous. I often think that it is variety which makes swinging so exciting and appealing |
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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago
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"DOESN'T MATTER!!!
In my humble opinion I don't care if a woman is BBW or skinny. All I care about is does she stimulate my mind. I find all sorts of women sexually attractive add a mind that is as wicked as mine and I'm lost in them regardless of if they're a size 0 or a size 28.
Not everyone will agree and I'm not stupid enough to think that but I'm interested how many people would give someone male or female a chance to stimulate their mind if the person wasn't necessarily Meeting your physical preferences?
For sexual fantasy purposes they HAVE to be physically what I want: I have a partner, friends and family for everything else. "
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"It can continue to a point but it does get tiresome when you see it happening every day. I'm happy to debate anything anytime but when it's taken away from the point to stroke someone else's ego that's what I have issue with.
I see. So of all the people who have answered you allow yourself to be distracted by one poster and your perception of them.
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss "
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? |
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over a year ago
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"Sorry but if I'm meeting someone for sex I need to find them physically attractive. So no in this instance I wouldn't meet a guy I didn't think was attractive just in case he was a nice bloke.
Same as above for me regarding women...there needs to be a physical attraction and in my case it is very unusual that I would have this attraction for any woman who is larger than about a size 14
Hell fire! That's me fucked then ...or more to the point ,not fucked lol
And me lol. The dress size thing is interesting, had a guy who had 14 as a limit on his profile so I told him I was an 18 and he got quite abusive saying I didn't look anywhere near that and was only saying that to get rid of him. I wasn't, I am an 18.
Lol I've had guys message me saying ...aww you're not a size 20 .don't be so down on yourself !!! ... ...I was lostffor words lol xxx"
I've had so many messages from men who in their profile profess to want "fit" or "slim" or "less than size 14" women. That's totally ok as their preference or what they like (I don't want to meet any men smaller than me, I see it as the same kind of preference) but they all get arsey when I point out I'm clearly not that, that I'm a size 16/18 (now, was bigger before) and that I won't be interested in meeting them for that reason.
Similarly, I've got private notes on a lot of profiles that I've seen them be derogatory towards women of any body type in status updates or forum posts ("bag of bones" or "fat lazy slobs" stuff.) I won't be meeting any of them either.
If someone is clearly lowering their usual standards to message me they can fuck right off. I'm not going to be grateful. |
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over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? "
Is it wrong to fuck anyone tho?lol. |
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? "
I struggle with that one. I'm in my late fifties (how did that happen?) but I don't consider it anyone's loss if they don't want to meet me because they aren't attracted to women of my age. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? Is it wrong to fuck anyone tho?lol."
I'm asking would you rather be fucked by someone who found you attractive, or someone who didn't find you attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? Is it wrong to fuck anyone tho?lol."
No
who you choose to fuck is upto you but me personally I wouldn't want to have sex with somebody who didn't find me attractive simply because I was a better option than a wank |
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over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone?
I struggle with that one. I'm in my late fifties (how did that happen?) but I don't consider it anyone's loss if they don't want to meet me because they aren't attracted to women of my age."
I always find people who say your loss to those who don't want to meet come over as being bitter
your obviously more mature than that |
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over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? Is it wrong to fuck anyone tho?lol.
I'm asking would you rather be fucked by someone who found you attractive, or someone who didn't find you attractive? "
It wouldn't bother me so much if they did or not cos its NSA you know x. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? Is it wrong to fuck anyone tho?lol.
No
who you choose to fuck is upto you but me personally I wouldn't want to have sex with somebody who didn't find me attractive simply because I was a better option than a wank "
That should be your status: "NaughtyNymphos, better than a wank" |
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone?
I struggle with that one. I'm in my late fifties (how did that happen?) but I don't consider it anyone's loss if they don't want to meet me because they aren't attracted to women of my age.
I always find people who say your loss to those who don't want to meet come over as being bitter
your obviously more mature than that "
I'm just mature and as I say I have no idea how the hell I got here one minute i was 25 and beating them off with a stick the next minute I'm here on my zimmer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NSA doesn't mean though that you will just sleep with anyone.
I need to fancy the person regardless of NSA or anything more.
I have standards and I refuse to drop them for NSA fun. |
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I'm attracted to a wide variety of shapes and sizes, I still need to find them attractive or what's the point?
Whether it's a pretty face, a hot bod, big curves or an attractive attitude and personality from chatting or forum posts. Also things I like or haven't tried yet in their interests attract me |
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over a year ago
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"I do prefer slim lady's and curvy fit girls.
I'm not keen on rolls of fat...
Sorry "
You can like who you like and not be sorry about it. If you preferred lasagne to beef stew you wouldn't feel the need to apologise. Like the ladies above, I have my own criteria here for which I'm not apologising. There's really no need to be sorry, or indeed expand upon the fact you prefer slim ladies. |
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over a year ago
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"Size is important to me, as is age, facial attractiveness, as is their personality. Etc.
As for the people who say "I'm a size XX, if they don't like me, their loss", would you rather someone approached you because they thought you were sexy, or because they would fuck anyone? Is it wrong to fuck anyone tho?lol.
No
who you choose to fuck is upto you but me personally I wouldn't want to have sex with somebody who didn't find me attractive simply because I was a better option than a wank "
Thanks yes depends as well if your on the numbers game or quality x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a man to meet my physical preferences and won't give them a chance if they don't. Why should I? I'm here to fulfil sexual fantasies and mine require a man to look attractive to me (which is not the same as gym fit, huge cock etc). I don't want to get married or form a long term romantic relationship and reserve the right to pick and choose on physical attributes in the first instance. If you feel I'm shallow then I would agree with you, in the matter of no strings sex I am."
Very to the point but fully agree |
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
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I never understand the "their loss" attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess. |
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"I like a man to meet my physical preferences and won't give them a chance if they don't. Why should I? I'm here to fulfil sexual fantasies and mine require a man to look attractive to me (which is not the same as gym fit, huge cock etc). I don't want to get married or form a long term romantic relationship and reserve the right to pick and choose on physical attributes in the first instance. If you feel I'm shallow then I would agree with you, in the matter of no strings sex I am.
Very to the point but fully agree "
I am very to the point, it doesn't suit some people though |
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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't care how nice someone is, if we don't find them sexually attractive its not happening "
exactly and i admit im so fricking shallow, my men have to be good looking and buff beautiful otherwise the lust doesn't flow |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss" attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess."
Yeah I think this why correct |
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss" it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct"
it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ?????? |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss" it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????"
What does that mean ? |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss" it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????"
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? |
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? "
I get enough praise don't worry about that |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? I get enough praise don't worry about that "
We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? I get enough praise don't worry about that
We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
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don't tell me that! I really believed that I was the most amazing women on here and only look 30  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? I get enough praise don't worry about that
We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
don't tell me that! I really believed that I was the most amazing women on here and only look 30 "
you'll be telling me I'm not the most gorgeous woman on fab next
well I'm not accepting that some guy told me so it must be true |
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? I get enough praise don't worry about that
We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
don't tell me that! I really believed that I was the most amazing women on here and only look 30
you'll be telling me I'm not the most gorgeous woman on fab next
well I'm not accepting that some guy told me so it must be true "
y u so interested in me do u fancy me 2 |
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over a year ago
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Finally , someone who is honest!
That's exactly why I am on here, and as for most men, I beleive when they have 18 to 99 they are prepared to shag anything
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Why on earth would attraction be dependent on age?
Personally I have a lower age limit as I like partners to be experienced and confident to know what they want and be happy with their choices BUT I am most definitely not going to a arbitrarily rule out any older women. |
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? I get enough praise don't worry about that
We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
don't tell me that! I really believed that I was the most amazing women on here and only look 30
you'll be telling me I'm not the most gorgeous woman on fab next
well I'm not accepting that some guy told me so it must be true "
I can categorically state that honour belongs to moi. I am a stunna I know for sure because a "genuine guy" told me |
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We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
And you young lady stop going round bursting every buggers bubble "
Oops! Sorry! You're all stunning!!
That better?? |
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Finally , someone who is honest!
That's exactly why I am on here, and as for most men, I beleive when they have 18 to 99 they are prepared to shag anything
Why on earth would attraction be dependent on age?
Personally I have a lower age limit as I like partners to be experienced and confident to know what they want and be happy with their choices BUT I am most definitely not going to a arbitrarily rule out any older women."
I'll be honest there aren't many 98 year old men that do it for me. |
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I'll be honest there aren't many 98 year old men that do it for me."
Well I'll admit that 98 is probably pushing it a bit far
However if your drawing ab arbitrary maximum age then the default option is probably as good a guess as anything |
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I'll be honest there aren't many 98 year old men that do it for me.
Well I'll admit that 98 is probably pushing it a bit far
However if your drawing ab arbitrary maximum age then the default option is probably as good a guess as anything"
Yep you're right
I rather fancy that chap on the direct line ad |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Intelligent conversation is impossible on the forums because too many people use the forums to try to score points. I posted a forum thread. Once it appeared some people thought I was being negative in my op I posted again apologising if that was how it was perceived and still people wanted to be negative or put a negative slant onto the post. This is the way 95% of the posts go around here but I won't stop posting because eventually people will realise that it's ok to have differing _iews and it is possible to discuss these _iews without the need to score points
Debating is something that is severely overlooked in this country and other countries develop debating as a life skill during school years. Obviously that isn't a priority in the UK.
Healthy debate is a thrilling and interesting experience but it's rare to see a real actual debate in the forums "
i happen to agree, you post was a post, the way people choose to respond tells a lot about them..but that's my opinion..just mine, not that its worth anything, but thats ok it doesnt haveto be...people are a bit cynical here no matter what you post they will always say you are out for messages of some such thing..i choose to ignore all that...when i respond...so in answer to your question...people have to be attractive to me..not being a cynic is one of them, not treating people as though they are an accessory to their 'fabulous fantasy world' is another, looks yes, but i wouldnt say its the obvious i look for..its more the non toxic energy they emit.. ..maybe its an attitude to themselves and to life, and to other people.. |
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Boy these forums are the best.. I believe the forums show the true nature of men of the world.
All men on fab = will say anything to get laid
All women on fab = have 100% of the power
I wonder if the women in the top 10 photos are looking for men with great personalities and don't care about their physical appearance ? |
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"I'm a size 16 if a guy doesn't like me because of that then it's his loss
why is it his loss? if a guy is not attracted to you and chooses not to meet you what has he lost exactly?
I never understand the "their loss"it'attitude either. I suppose it makes the rejected feel better about themselves I guess.
Yeah I think this why correct it's just an off the wall comment but I am fit so it didn't really happen ??????
Are you familiar with the phrase 'self praise is no praise'? I get enough praise don't worry about that
We all do Hun! Here's the correlation:
Having a vagina equals lots of flattery!!
don't tell me that! I really believed that I was the most amazing women on here and only look 30
you'll be telling me I'm not the most gorgeous woman on fab next
well I'm not accepting that some guy told me so it must be true y u so interested in me do u fancy me 2 "
Yep I was just about to mail you to ask if you will help me descover my bi side |
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