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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so my girlfriend is in the fetish scene whilst im more into swinging . Since meeting her freinds and learning a lot more i feel comfortable in both places fetesh people have a skill and am artform i just wondered if anyone else is in the same situation and how they feel . I love both worlds  but not much pain lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not saying im into fetish im saying ive got adoration for the scene i total feel my gf is in the right world and would never invade that .. she is free to do as she pleases etc |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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Would you and any friends be interested in attending Fetish Events at Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent.
There is one on the second Sunday of every month.
And from August there will also be events on the fourth Sunday of each month.
All genders welcome !!!
As these events are at a Swingers Club you could come along on the Saturday Swinging and then attend the Sunday events
Andy/Andrea |
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"Im not saying im into fetish im saying ive got adoration for the scene i total feel my gf is in the right world and would never invade that .. she is free to do as she pleases etc "
I didn't intend to imply that you were one of the people who were just saying it....poor wording only part. Just saying that combining the two is difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like both scenes. This month playing fet. Next month playing swing is how we are trying to work it.
If it's just us left to ourselves we will always play fet though.
Rach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be difficult to combine the two, too many people will say they're in to fetish but really aren't. "
I agree with this.
Plus i think some fetish can be more intimate than the usual 'vanilla' sex so that can make it hard to decide who you want to do it with.
Also, one of my main fetish i never seen mentioned on here except when someone was taking the piss out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be difficult to combine the two, too many people will say they're in to fetish but really aren't.
I agree with this.
Plus i think some fetish can be more intimate than the usual 'vanilla' sex so that can make it hard to decide who you want to do it with.
Also, one of my main fetish i never seen mentioned on here except when someone was taking the piss out of it."
Fetish isn't all about pain, sensation play is just a valid part about bdsm, tying up someone's hands and feet, which being tickled with a feather is just as much as much a fetish as someone being whipped until they bleed, it's all sensation, it's just a different level of intensity. It's very much a matter of trust and devotion for both partners. |
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"It can be difficult to combine the two, too many people will say they're in to fetish but really aren't.
I agree with this.
Plus i think some fetish can be more intimate than the usual 'vanilla' sex so that can make it hard to decide who you want to do it with.
Also, one of my main fetish i never seen mentioned on here except when someone was taking the piss out of it.
Fetish isn't all about pain, sensation play is just a valid part about bdsm, tying up someone's hands and feet, which being tickled with a feather is just as much as much a fetish as someone being whipped until they bleed, it's all sensation, it's just a different level of intensity. It's very much a matter of trust and devotion for both partners. "
I don't think either of us suggested that we think fetish is about pain .
Its the trust required that makes it slightly more difficult to combine some forms of fetish with swinging in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play at both. I'm now fetish than swinging. But end of the day I'm all about the pleasure and having sex. I do fetish events at the beginning of the month and swinging events at the end of the month |
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Fetish interests are incredibly broad, so there may not be that big, or no, divide between them. It depends on your mutual desires, so lots of communication may find common ground. Otherwise if you're happy having some separate pursuits, which can be healthy, then continue, and things you all like may converge in future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can be difficult to combine the two, too many people will say they're in to fetish but really aren't.
I agree with this.
Plus i think some fetish can be more intimate than the usual 'vanilla' sex so that can make it hard to decide who you want to do it with.
Also, one of my main fetish i never seen mentioned on here except when someone was taking the piss out of it.
Fetish isn't all about pain, sensation play is just a valid part about bdsm, tying up someone's hands and feet, which being tickled with a feather is just as much as much a fetish as someone being whipped until they bleed, it's all sensation, it's just a different level of intensity. It's very much a matter of trust and devotion for both partners. "
Sensation is exactly what gets taken the piss out of. Men who like wearing knickers for example, which i also like but had forgotten about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can be difficult to combine the two, too many people will say they're in to fetish but really aren't.
I agree with this.
Plus i think some fetish can be more intimate than the usual 'vanilla' sex so that can make it hard to decide who you want to do it with.
Also, one of my main fetish i never seen mentioned on here except when someone was taking the piss out of it.
Fetish isn't all about pain, sensation play is just a valid part about bdsm, tying up someone's hands and feet, which being tickled with a feather is just as much as much a fetish as someone being whipped until they bleed, it's all sensation, it's just a different level of intensity. It's very much a matter of trust and devotion for both partners.
Sensation is exactly what gets taken the piss out of. Men who like wearing knickers for example, which i also like but had forgotten about."
Oh god I love sensation play, included in that temperature play mmmmm |
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