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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just putting this out there as I am back on the scene after some time away. Had my first meet on Monday with a fantastic and a truly genuine couple that I could have talked to all night and if we had never played I would still have left with a smile on my face.
I get the impression since coming back on here and talking to people I know and also people I am chatting to for the first time that these days many single guys and also couples are not interested in the sit down "Social side" of a meet with a few drinks, being relaxed and getting to know each other they just want the meet and then go.
Don't get me wrong each to there own and the great thing about this site there is something for everyone and no one can judge anyone.
But for me I enjoy the social side of a meet if I am honest even more so the older I am getting as I first started at 19 and for me in those days swinging was not as commercial and the social side was very important but also it was and for me still one of the most important both mentally and physically stimulating.
It that thing of getting to know people, sharing stories of past meets good and bad and also everyday life. Of course there will be times you might not click or get that mental situation in my opinion how could you have the sex you are wanting. Granted there are people who just enjoy sleeping with anyone and good for them.
But when you do, the build up of the evening just gets better and more sexy when there is a spark there and knowing that, that person is wanting you as much as want her but knowing that she has control and even when the husband is also chomping on the bit to get the fun underway the build up is still getting more and more to the point where it happens and the feeling you get at the end is why we are all here to get them feelings and to share them with loved ones and others.
Like I said I am not judging or saying who is right and who is wrong. But for me I still like the old school social side of things and not the come fuck and go.
Leave your thoughts below on if your a social person or a do your stuff and go, I would be interested that is all and there might even be others that are also.
Thanks for reading and have fun x
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