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Friendship and connections as well as play buddy :-)

By *aandabby OP Couple over a year ago

east midlands

So is it just is or are there others out there who doesn't want a wham bam but would like to make friends and build a connection. Maybe a night out for drinks etc to build up tension and get to know each other and if everyone is happy then to meet up regularly?

Your thoughts would be appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of people like the social side of swinging, you're not alone.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

And a depth of desire from a social or 3...perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't do wham bam thank you ma'am. Usually because, I can't meet off the site quite quick lol but I do love a build up before sex. Makes the meet more intense once we get to it..

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By *ottscpl2014Couple over a year ago

nottingham/derby

Were best friends with some a couple we met on here. Regularly go round just to socialise. Ours kids get on great too and were even going on holiday with them next month.

I think it helps if you can get along socially aswel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Certainly the friendship social side of swinging is great. Much prefer this to wham bam meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So is it just is or are there others out there who doesn't want a wham bam but would like to make friends and build a connection. Maybe a night out for drinks etc to build up tension and get to know each other and if everyone is happy then to meet up regularly?

Your thoughts would be appreciated! "

This is exactly what I've done with someone off here. Was not in the plan but I'm very happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for us thanks .

We have a very good vanilla set of friends for the social side of our lives .

This is our debauched , naughty , secret life and that's how it will stay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't do wham bam thank you ma'am. Usually because, I can't meet off the site quite quick lol but I do love a build up before sex. Makes the meet more intense once we get to it..

Have you done the wham bam though ? To compare the two ?

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple over a year ago

Bristol

We're certainly enjoying making friends. We like nights out before play, and have a couple coming round for dinner and drinks tonight.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've wanted a friend for ages but no luck so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont want a quick wham bam, if I meet I like to meet in public and have a drink and a chat and get on with who I'm going to be having sex with

Saying that I have no interest in making friends or meeting regular, I prefer one off meets but that does not mean I will jump into bed with anybody

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By *razedcatMan over a year ago

London / Herts

I'd love to establish a social connection with swingers, whether it be couples or other singles. But truthfully, finding compatibility on that front is the hardest challenge of all!

But that's not to say people shouldn't make an effort, when there's differences. It's so off-putting when people are just interested in your endowment and your looks

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

Yep, it's what we've done with a few couples, we spend time socially together as well as sexually

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