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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

In the past few days I have had a fre messages asking for this. Its not realy my cup of tea... Anyone els for or against?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the past few days I have had a fre messages asking for this. Its not realy my cup of tea... Anyone els for or against? "

It's something I've toyed with as a humiliation type scenario, but as verbal threats rather than actions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been asked this before too , but no not into trying to get pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally I think bringing a child into the world for the sake of a bit of kinky fun is irresponsible and I wonder how much the child will actually be loved

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"In the past few days I have had a fre messages asking for this. Its not realy my cup of tea... Anyone els for or against?

It's something I've toyed with as a humiliation type scenario, but as verbal threats rather than actions."

one women said she had 5 guys all to cum in her the heading of the msg was roulette hahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Personally I think bringing a child into the world for the sake of a bit of kinky fun is irresponsible and I wonder how much the child will actually be loved "
couldent put it better myself x

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Personally I think bringing a child into the world for the sake of a bit of kinky fun is irresponsible and I wonder how much the child will actually be loved "

Maybe it's a couple who desperately want a family, but can't afford the IVF?

Or maybe it's just a fantasy and the women is on some form of contraception. You can't believe everything you read on Fab you know!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" You can't believe everything you read on Fab you know!"

Really? Damn, you mean people lie on here

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By *oddyWoman  over a year ago

between havant and chichester

I thought this was the bible reading class

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can understand if your a couple and the only option is if to use is I v f then aski for males , but it would be better to try and get a man that has same colour as the male half of the couple

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can understand if your a couple and the only option is if to use is I v f then aski for males , but it would be better to try and get a man that has same colour as the male half of the couple"

You don't actually have IVF if its the guy who's infertile that's only for if the woman is

It's a lot cheaper if its the guy who's infertile

I worked in fertility clinic when I was a student its £1000 for 8 attempts if the women is fertile and they are just having donor sperm

I don't mean to be rude but if as a couple you can't afford £1000 can you really afford a child

Plus the sperm is screened and tested for defects, you shag a guy on here you have no idea what he may have

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"In the past few days I have had a fre messages asking for this. Its not realy my cup of tea... Anyone els for or against?

It's something I've toyed with as a humiliation type scenario, but as verbal threats rather than actions."

role play with safe sex would be fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I personally think its insane to play that game !!!

In an ideal world a child should be made out of love not a game !!!

And the risk they are taking with their health and the unborn babies health !!

That is just madness !!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple  over a year ago

Herts

I spend most of my time hoping to God it's just a fantasy but I know better.

I don't agree with it as I believe children have a right to know their biological parents, plus it causes all sorts of issues if they have any problems and you can't get the father's medical history, not to mention the potential of copulating with close family members for not knowing they're related.

But I guess so long as the child is loved, that's the best you could hope for.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

There is a lot of talk about this subject, and always a lot of horrified responses, but has anyone Ever heard of anyone doing this and actually getting pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I havent ...

But all the same. If there is women out there that play that game, they need their heads sorted out ...

My opinion is a child should be planned and yes accidents happen...

But purporsely playing a game with a group of men is nuts !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" You can't believe everything you read on Fab you know!

Really? Damn, you mean people lie on here "

I don't believe it

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"I havent ...

But all the same. If there is women out there that play that game, they need their heads sorted out ...

My opinion is a child should be planned and yes accidents happen...

But purporsely playing a game with a group of men is nuts !"

So as long as you Plan to get pregnant on a meet that fine?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would think this is quite rare as well as being totally irrisponsable but you have had a few messages about it in the last few days mmmm really ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is a lot of talk about this subject, and always a lot of horrified responses, but has anyone Ever heard of anyone doing this and actually getting pregnant? "

Yes, I know of an Indian couple who wanted a light-skinned baby and achieved it through a breeding party held 250 miles from their home. There were 5 guys involved and it suited all concerned.

Just like a firing squad where nobody knows who has the live rounds, nobody will ever know who the biological father is.

I really can't see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I havent ...

But all the same. If there is women out there that play that game, they need their heads sorted out ...

My opinion is a child should be planned and yes accidents happen...

But purporsely playing a game with a group of men is nuts !

So as long as you Plan to get pregnant on a meet that fine? "

Not fine at all...

Who wants to play roulette with their body...

You dont know if these men are sexually healthy !!

I think it ridiculous a women would purposely play a pregnancy game !!

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe

Been asked this and it was a from a guy of a couple who it appears genuinely had permission. Not much iffy about their profile, solid veries from people you'd be very surprised to give an iffy veri. Message exchanges went well and out of the blue this topic came up, we ended the convo and declined, a bit perplexed to be honest, not something we'd entertain.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"I havent ...

But all the same. If there is women out there that play that game, they need their heads sorted out ...

My opinion is a child should be planned and yes accidents happen...

But purporsely playing a game with a group of men is nuts !

So as long as you Plan to get pregnant on a meet that fine?

Not fine at all...

Who wants to play roulette with their body...

You dont know if these men are sexually healthy !!

I think it ridiculous a women would purposely play a pregnancy game !!

"

But if you meet a guy, fall in love, get married, decide to have a baby in a regular monogamous relationship at what point do you check their sexual health?

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

I don't understand the basic premise of the argument here. Is it the sexual health side of it? Or is it the becoming a single parent bit? Or something else entirely?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I havent ...

But all the same. If there is women out there that play that game, they need their heads sorted out ...

My opinion is a child should be planned and yes accidents happen...

But purporsely playing a game with a group of men is nuts !

So as long as you Plan to get pregnant on a meet that fine?

Not fine at all...

Who wants to play roulette with their body...

You dont know if these men are sexually healthy !!

I think it ridiculous a women would purposely play a pregnancy game !!

As soon as you decide to stop using condoms its discussion you have at that point, if your IN LOVE, it should be a problem for both of you to nip to the clinic and get tested !!

But if you meet a guy, fall in love, get married, decide to have a baby in a regular monogamous relationship at what point do you check their sexual health? "

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"I havent ...

But all the same. If there is women out there that play that game, they need their heads sorted out ...

My opinion is a child should be planned and yes accidents happen...

But purporsely playing a game with a group of men is nuts !

So as long as you Plan to get pregnant on a meet that fine?

Not fine at all...

Who wants to play roulette with their body...

You dont know if these men are sexually healthy !!

I think it ridiculous a women would purposely play a pregnancy game !!

As soon as you decide to stop using condoms its discussion you have at that point, if your IN LOVE, it should be a problem for both of you to nip to the clinic and get tested !!

But if you meet a guy, fall in love, get married, decide to have a baby in a regular monogamous relationship at what point do you check their sexual health? "

OK, so as long as they are clean, recently tested, no sexual contact since their last tests etc. Then it's OK to get pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

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By *andy6677Man  over a year ago

crewe


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases "

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked! "

That's right and yes, it would be rather a shock especially if they didn't plan it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked! "

You being purposely obtuse !!!

The question is about

" playing pregnancy game, with men on fab "

Only a stupid women would play that game !!!

Anyone who is planning a pregnancy in a relationship is on a different level and a completely different debate !!

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By *andy6677Man  over a year ago

crewe

It wasnt planned and it was a result of a one night stand actually!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked!

You being purposely obtuse !!!

The question is about

" playing pregnancy game, with men on fab "

Only a stupid women would play that game !!!

Anyone who is planning a pregnancy in a relationship is on a different level and a completely different debate !!"

I am not purposely doing it and stop putting ur words onto mine. I was just turning the question there, calm down x.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked!

You being purposely obtuse !!!

The question is about

" playing pregnancy game, with men on fab "

Only a stupid women would play that game !!!

Anyone who is planning a pregnancy in a relationship is on a different level and a completely different debate !!I am not purposely doing it and stop putting ur words onto mine. I was just turning the question there, calm down x."

Oh hey sorry thats wasnt meant for you, that was meant for some idiot in this debate lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked!

You being purposely obtuse !!!

The question is about

" playing pregnancy game, with men on fab "

Only a stupid women would play that game !!!

Anyone who is planning a pregnancy in a relationship is on a different level and a completely different debate !!I am not purposely doing it and stop putting ur words onto mine. I was just turning the question there, calm down x.

Oh hey sorry thats wasnt meant for you, that was meant for some idiot in this debate lol"

It was meant for ( _lcc)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would consider it, if she was over 52 as the chances decreases

Decreases but not impossible i knew of a family friend who got pregnant at 54! She was shocked!

You being purposely obtuse !!!

The question is about

" playing pregnancy game, with men on fab "

Only a stupid women would play that game !!!

Anyone who is planning a pregnancy in a relationship is on a different level and a completely different debate !!I am not purposely doing it and stop putting ur words onto mine. I was just turning the question there, calm down x.

Oh hey sorry thats wasnt meant for you, that was meant for some idiot in this debate lol

It was meant for ( _lcc)"

Ah yes lol and yes that's fine x.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Did you have a wee read back

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

Misty I'm not an idiot, I'm just asking why people are against it. I haven't even said what my position on turn subject is!

Is it the sexual health side of it? If so pregnancy is just the same as barebacking.

Or is it because children should have too parents? Because with the Indian couple wanting a light skinned baby, both parents will raise the child. And the person who got pregnant on a one night stand, are they better or worse than someone who gets pregnant through swinging? Or the "Jeremy Kyle" types who need a DNA test to find out the father, are they better or worse than a swinger who wants to get pregnant?

All I want to do is understand the people who say they are against it, WHY are they against it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Did you have a wee read back

"

lol yes I did if you mean me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misty I'm not an idiot, I'm just asking why people are against it. I haven't even said what my position on turn subject is!

Is it the sexual health side of it? If so pregnancy is just the same as barebacking.

Or is it because children should have too parents? Because with the Indian couple wanting a light skinned baby, both parents will raise the child. And the person who got pregnant on a one night stand, are they better or worse than someone who gets pregnant through swinging? Or the "Jeremy Kyle" types who need a DNA test to find out the father, are they better or worse than a swinger who wants to get pregnant?

All I want to do is understand the people who say they are against it, WHY are they against it?"

Its about a women playing a game about getting pregnant...

More than likely not really wanting to get pregnant but taking the chance for fun...

And what happens if she falls pregnant is she just going to nip off to an obortion clinic...

Creating a life is not a game...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess you could just put the kid up for adoption? Plenty of childless couples want babies these days...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Did you have a wee read back

lol yes I did if you mean me "

Is it just me thinking _lcc are being idiots..

Do you think _lcc are being idiots ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What have i started hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Each to there own really. It's just a bit of fun i guess. As long as you dont catch an sti at the same time! Wow double whammy! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Did you have a wee read back

lol yes I did if you mean me

Is it just me thinking _lcc are being idiots..

Do you think _lcc are being idiots ?"

No don't think so, just doing an debate there I recon.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Certainly not fair to label an enquiring mind "an idiot".

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well im away to find a more light hearted chat lol

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Misty I'm not an idiot, I'm just asking why people are against it. I haven't even said what my position on turn subject is!

Is it the sexual health side of it? If so pregnancy is just the same as barebacking.

Or is it because children should have too parents? Because with the Indian couple wanting a light skinned baby, both parents will raise the child. And the person who got pregnant on a one night stand, are they better or worse than someone who gets pregnant through swinging? Or the "Jeremy Kyle" types who need a DNA test to find out the father, are they better or worse than a swinger who wants to get pregnant?

All I want to do is understand the people who say they are against it, WHY are they against it?

Its about a women playing a game about getting pregnant...

More than likely not really wanting to get pregnant but taking the chance for fun...

And what happens if she falls pregnant is she just going to nip off to an obortion clinic...

Creating a life is not a game...

"

So you are assuming that they don't really want to and assuming they will have an abortion if they do?

I'm not advocating that people do it, the complete opposite. I just can't get my head around why people are so against this particular situation, but don't say anything about Vanilla people who get pregnant as the result of a one night stand, or from serial short term monogamous relationships etc. However if you get pregnant as a swinger that's a lot worse. Why are they different?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misty I'm not an idiot, I'm just asking why people are against it. I haven't even said what my position on turn subject is!

Is it the sexual health side of it? If so pregnancy is just the same as barebacking.

Or is it because children should have too parents? Because with the Indian couple wanting a light skinned baby, both parents will raise the child. And the person who got pregnant on a one night stand, are they better or worse than someone who gets pregnant through swinging? Or the "Jeremy Kyle" types who need a DNA test to find out the father, are they better or worse than a swinger who wants to get pregnant?

All I want to do is understand the people who say they are against it, WHY are they against it?

Its about a women playing a game about getting pregnant...

More than likely not really wanting to get pregnant but taking the chance for fun...

And what happens if she falls pregnant is she just going to nip off to an obortion clinic...

Creating a life is not a game...

So you are assuming that they don't really want to and assuming they will have an abortion if they do?

I'm not advocating that people do it, the complete opposite. I just can't get my head around why people are so against this particular situation, but don't say anything about Vanilla people who get pregnant as the result of a one night stand, or from serial short term monogamous relationships etc. However if you get pregnant as a swinger that's a lot worse. Why are they different?"

Because they are making a conscious descision to play roulette...

Ok say they really wanted the baby..

Have no partner...

Are they going to tell these men they arent using contraceptives..

Do they know these men are clean..

Some silent sti,s can cause serious problems to an unborn baby...

What happens when they find out the baby has health defects...

Is the women still going to go a head with the pregnancy...

Or will she say the baby isnt perfect im dont want it ....

Alot if unwanted pregnancys are because of being careless...

Roulette is a conscious descision !!

Thats my point

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

To me that sounds like a lot of assumptions being made. About STI / STD status, about it being transmitted, then it causing problems, then about the woman choosing an abortion etc. Etc.

I'm glad that I'm not through result of such a situation. I wouldn't take part in such a situation. But I make it my policy not to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I can understand if your a couple and the only option is if to use is I v f then aski for males , but it would be better to try and get a man that has same colour as the male half of the couple

You don't actually have IVF if its the guy who's infertile that's only for if the woman is

It's a lot cheaper if its the guy who's infertile

I worked in fertility clinic when I was a student its £1000 for 8 attempts if the women is fertile and they are just having donor sperm

I don't mean to be rude but if as a couple you can't afford £1000 can you really afford a child

Plus the sperm is screened and tested for defects, you shag a guy on here you have no idea what he may have "

I think you'll find its a lot more than that now. When I went for it with my ex husband as he'd had the snip. To have the treatment for one attempt was nearly 6 grand and that's in the Heath Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The woman taking part is probably on birth control! Its probably just a fetish!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To me that sounds like a lot of assumptions being made. About STI / STD status, about it being transmitted, then it causing problems, then about the woman choosing an abortion etc. Etc.

I'm glad that I'm not through result of such a situation. I wouldn't take part in such a situation. But I make it my policy not to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies. "

Its not about telling anyone what they can and cant do with their body...

Or even taking the moral high ground...

Its about being responsible for your own actions

But in this scenario, its just not your body envolved, you are creating a new living body/life...

I myself would be devestated playing a game, which created my child, then to find out my child was ill because of my actions at conception...

You can never be 100% sure about how healthy the child will be...

And for majority of women we plan ahead of conception, try to take care of our health to ensure the pregnancy has the best possible chance...

And if it unplanned you then have a switch that you try a nurture the unborn child....

But roulette isnt a good start !

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"To me that sounds like a lot of assumptions being made. About STI / STD status, about it being transmitted, then it causing problems, then about the woman choosing an abortion etc. Etc.

I'm glad that I'm not through result of such a situation. I wouldn't take part in such a situation. But I make it my policy not to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies.

Its not about telling anyone what they can and cant do with their body...

Or even taking the moral high ground...

Its about being responsible for your own actions

But in this scenario, its just not your body envolved, you are creating a new living body/life...

I myself would be devestated playing a game, which created my child, then to find out my child was ill because of my actions at conception...

You can never be 100% sure about how healthy the child will be...

And for majority of women we plan ahead of conception, try to take care of our health to ensure the pregnancy has the best possible chance...

And if it unplanned you then have a switch that you try a nurture the unborn child....

But roulette isnt a good start !

"

Well if someone is planning to get pregnant, by arranging a meet, then there is no reason to think they wouldn't be taking care of their health, taking vitamins etc. But a vanilla woman on a one night stand wouldn't be would they?

And your still assuming that all swingers have stds. If that's the case then I guess no swingers should have kids

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To me that sounds like a lot of assumptions being made. About STI / STD status, about it being transmitted, then it causing problems, then about the woman choosing an abortion etc. Etc.

I'm glad that I'm not through result of such a situation. I wouldn't take part in such a situation. But I make it my policy not to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies.

Its not about telling anyone what they can and cant do with their body...

Or even taking the moral high ground...

Its about being responsible for your own actions

But in this scenario, its just not your body envolved, you are creating a new living body/life...

I myself would be devestated playing a game, which created my child, then to find out my child was ill because of my actions at conception...

You can never be 100% sure about how healthy the child will be...

And for majority of women we plan ahead of conception, try to take care of our health to ensure the pregnancy has the best possible chance...

And if it unplanned you then have a switch that you try a nurture the unborn child....

But roulette isnt a good start !

Well if someone is planning to get pregnant, by arranging a meet, then there is no reason to think they wouldn't be taking care of their health, taking vitamins etc. But a vanilla woman on a one night stand wouldn't be would they?

And your still assuming that all swingers have stds. If that's the case then I guess no swingers should have

kids "

Its not about swingers having kids...

Im a mother...

Being a swinger does not mean you cant be a parent ...

Ok say the women choose five men...

All of whom have been to clinic and clean...

Have no genetic issues that can be passed to unborn child

All are conscenting to be a sperm donor

and are aware a child will be produced...

What about this child that is then born...

Is it going to be financially supported by the mother...

Do these men know she is in a stable house hold, to support that child..

Financially and emoionally...

If she is in difficulty maybe she will try and pin point them for money...

What if the child wants to know who fathered them in later years ......

So many emotional issues that surround this way of getting pregnant

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"To me that sounds like a lot of assumptions being made. About STI / STD status, about it being transmitted, then it causing problems, then about the woman choosing an abortion etc. Etc.

I'm glad that I'm not through result of such a situation. I wouldn't take part in such a situation. But I make it my policy not to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies.

Its not about telling anyone what they can and cant do with their body...

Or even taking the moral high ground...

Its about being responsible for your own actions

But in this scenario, its just not your body envolved, you are creating a new living body/life...

I myself would be devestated playing a game, which created my child, then to find out my child was ill because of my actions at conception...

You can never be 100% sure about how healthy the child will be...

And for majority of women we plan ahead of conception, try to take care of our health to ensure the pregnancy has the best possible chance...

And if it unplanned you then have a switch that you try a nurture the unborn child....

But roulette isnt a good start !

Well if someone is planning to get pregnant, by arranging a meet, then there is no reason to think they wouldn't be taking care of their health, taking vitamins etc. But a vanilla woman on a one night stand wouldn't be would they?

And your still assuming that all swingers have stds. If that's the case then I guess no swingers should have

kids

Its not about swingers having kids...

Im a mother...

Being a swinger does not mean you cant be a parent ...

Ok say the women choose five men...

All of whom have been to clinic and clean...

Have no genetic issues that can be passed to unborn child

All are conscenting to be a sperm donor

and are aware a child will be produced...

What about this child that is then born...

Is it going to be financially supported by the mother...

Do these men know she is in a stable house hold, to support that child..

Financially and emoionally...

If she is in difficulty maybe she will try and pin point them for money...

What if the child wants to know who fathered them in later years ......

So many emotional issues that surround this way of getting pregnant "

I agree with you, but all those arguements are exactly the same for the vanilla woman having sex with so many people she has to have a DNA test to find a father

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

I have quite a few vanilla friends which have recently had children, none of them underwent any genetic screening before getting pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can understand if your a couple and the only option is if to use is I v f then aski for males , but it would be better to try and get a man that has same colour as the male half of the couple

You don't actually have IVF if its the guy who's infertile that's only for if the woman is

It's a lot cheaper if its the guy who's infertile

I worked in fertility clinic when I was a student its £1000 for 8 attempts if the women is fertile and they are just having donor sperm

I don't mean to be rude but if as a couple you can't afford £1000 can you really afford a child

Plus the sperm is screened and tested for defects, you shag a guy on here you have no idea what he may have

I think you'll find its a lot more than that now. When I went for it with my ex husband as he'd had the snip. To have the treatment for one attempt was nearly 6 grand and that's in the Heath Cardiff "

Must be different prices depending where you live its nowhere near 6 grand round here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have quite a few vanilla friends which have recently had children, none of them underwent any genetic screening before getting pregnant. "

Bet they where in relationships with those men tho !?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We both think it is disgusting and people who indulge in breading have some serious issues.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"I have quite a few vanilla friends which have recently had children, none of them underwent any genetic screening before getting pregnant.

Bet they where in relationships with those men tho !?"

I'm saying it's not normal to genetically screen people before making babies

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By *oobsandballsMan  over a year ago

st andrews

What the everliving fuck?! This is a thing?

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By *razedcatMan  over a year ago

London / Herts

what kind of messages is the OP getting?

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"I can understand if your a couple and the only option is if to use is I v f then aski for males , but it would be better to try and get a man that has same colour as the male half of the couple

You don't actually have IVF if its the guy who's infertile that's only for if the woman is

It's a lot cheaper if its the guy who's infertile

I worked in fertility clinic when I was a student its £1000 for 8 attempts if the women is fertile and they are just having donor sperm

I don't mean to be rude but if as a couple you can't afford £1000 can you really afford a child

Plus the sperm is screened and tested for defects, you shag a guy on here you have no idea what he may have

I think you'll find its a lot more than that now. When I went for it with my ex husband as he'd had the snip. To have the treatment for one attempt was nearly 6 grand and that's in the Heath Cardiff

Must be different prices depending where you live its nowhere near 6 grand round here "

Prices round here:

Inclusive intra-uterine inseminationFees includeUltrasound scansBlood testsInsemination procedureCounselling session x 1Pregnancy scan at the Rosie Hospital, CambridgeFees excludeHFEA feePre-treatment assessmentThe cost of drugsDonor sperm (costs approx between £500-£1000)Package price 

£600

Average drug costs

£400 - 500

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is a lot of talk about this subject, and always a lot of horrified responses, but has anyone Ever heard of anyone doing this and actually getting pregnant?

Yes, I know of an Indian couple who wanted a light-skinned baby and achieved it through a breeding party held 250 miles from their home. There were 5 guys involved and it suited all concerned.

Just like a firing squad where nobody knows who has the live rounds, nobody will ever know who the biological father is.

I really can't see the problem."

Are you fucking nuts? So the child has no say in this? Children are not a fucking commodity. You don't get pregnant for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

the th8ng about the asian couple wanting alight skinned child sounds nonsense...as far as im aware, sperm will actaully react against other sperm...if you have 2 or more types of sperm in you at once its virtually impossible for any of them to survive...sounds like an urban myth to me...and as to the rest of it, as a fetish its just plain stupid, and as a choice its unspeakably selfish!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misty I'm not an idiot, I'm just asking why people are against it. I haven't even said what my position on turn subject is!

Is it the sexual health side of it? If so pregnancy is just the same as barebacking.

Or is it because children should have too parents? Because with the Indian couple wanting a light skinned baby, both parents will raise the child. And the person who got pregnant on a one night stand, are they better or worse than someone who gets pregnant through swinging? Or the "Jeremy Kyle" types who need a DNA test to find out the father, are they better or worse than a swinger who wants to get pregnant?

All I want to do is understand the people who say they are against it, WHY are they against it?"

Because children are not a fucking commodity. Just think about what that means.

Would you want to find out that you were the product of some game?

Children are not a game or fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What happened to safe sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" what kind of messages is the OP getting?"

I don't think they are to blame.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Remember that cum on a belly button can cause pregnancy, according to previous threads.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have 3 children who are my world and i know for sure i never want any more. As such I take every precaution I can to ensure I don't get pregnant or catch anything nasty.

However I've friends who are single and desperate for a child. They would offer the child a brilliant life and fully support it. If in their situation I could see the appeal of a site like this to get what they want as opposed to paying for a sperm donor or asking a friend. I'm not condoning it but you never know people's situations of reasons for doing anything. Hence the reason its so important to protect yourself on here at all costs

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By *anDare70Man  over a year ago

kirkby


" You can't believe everything you read on Fab you know!

Really? Damn, you mean people lie on here "

They do. I even let go of my 14" cock I was holding out of the way while I oiled my six pack to confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got a meet pregnant when I was on here last time round. I now have a 6 month old daughter that I love UNCONDITIONALLY. And yes I used a condom. No contraception is totally fail safe. So everyone is playing Russian roulette when they meet surely ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" You can't believe everything you read on Fab you know!

Really? Damn, you mean people lie on here

They do. I even let go of my 14" cock I was holding out of the way while I oiled my six pack to confirm. "

Best comment ever!!!!

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By *uited staffs guyMan  over a year ago

staffordshire


"I got a meet pregnant when I was on here last time round. I now have a 6 month old daughter that I love UNCONDITIONALLY. And yes I used a condom. No contraception is totally fail safe. So everyone is playing Russian roulette when they meet surely ?"

By modern standards condoms are useless contraception, clearly better than none but nowhere near the other options

They're the best for std protection but that's it

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By *ensual temptressWoman  over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ensual temptressWoman  over a year ago

Southampton


"I got a meet pregnant when I was on here last time round. I now have a 6 month old daughter that I love UNCONDITIONALLY. And yes I used a condom. No contraception is totally fail safe. So everyone is playing Russian roulette when they meet surely ?"

You take the risk of getting hurt every time you cross the road .But do you then decide to run out blind folded during the busiest period ?? No ...you do all you can to ensure you are crossing as safely as they can .

Yes people could get pregnant from a meet but that's a whole different ball game deliberately taking high risks!

Having a child is a huge responsibility and those toying with getting pregnant just for their own sexual kink are in my opinion selfish and irresponsible.

What is that child going to be told?? What happens if medical history is needed in years to come ??

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