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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning peeps,
So here is the thing. As I am now a single woman again I have also joined a dating site.
My profile (I think) is lovely and appropriate for that site and I have a face pic on it.
Deep breaths here, I am not actually getting much response (i have had messages but errrrm Im greedy and like choice lol.)
I think part of the problem is I am a woman of a certain age and face pic wise look like butter wouldnt melt.
Soooo the question is do I ellude to something shall we say more racy? After all it is part of me, I enjoy sex very much. I dont want to come across as a slut (well on that site anyways!.)I really dont know what to do. On here I do get lots and lots of offers, just like I suspect all the women do.
Or I guess maybe I have realised the only reason men want to meet me is to fuck me! Sighs lol   |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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are you meaning on the dating site ? men will want to meet you to fuck you on both sites to be honest, I see little difference although I am unaware of the goings on with dating sites.
some people will say anything to get what they want, both male and female.
You have been here weeks so I am guessing the same on the other site.... that is no time, it is worth taking longer to get it right.
good luck |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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many on here are looking to date and that is fine, although I would say that people will look for a different behaviour on a dating site ( I am guessing ) and although there are many people who come across as nice females, the way they behave at times will put people off wanting to commit to them.
that is my opinion and others will have the polar opposite to me, but that has come from years on these sites and being interested in the behaviours of others.
seriously, wish you good fortune. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never used a dating site, but it sounds like you would be alluding to "more" simply because you want more interest. But think first about the type of interest you want to garner. If you actually want a relationship, I would advise leaving the "more" out of it. You can, and probably do, get that interest here. Just my opinion, though.
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Many dating sites i tried i never mentioned my secual preferences as its seen as vulgar on most. Men should want to date you on your looks and personality and find out about your sex drive when the time is right and they are in for a treat with you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a no win situation. Have a vanilla dating profile, meet vanilla guys and are bored sexually. Put an honest sexual profile on there and get guys only wanting sex. 
I tried similar and that's what I found. (I acknowledge that other people types exist!) I wouldn't date a swinger or a vanilla type because I would want something in between.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All really good points, and maybe I am confussed myself pmsl.
I think I just realised I was suggesting using my sexy side to try and get more interest on the dating site. Which I guess it quite bad of me. Hmmm maybe I have stumbled on something.
There is a need for a dating site for people to meet other really nice people who also just happen to like really sexy times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think part of the problem is I am a woman of a certain age and face pic wise look like butter wouldnt melt.
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You think that's a problem
You sound like heaven, I love a mature lady with a demure look. I'm just aching to see your face |
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It all comes down to the type of men your hoping to attract on the dating site. And the quality of the dating site I imagine.
Maybe add a slightly sexier pic to the profile and a little bit of text to hint towards what you like |
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