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so after a lot of profile negativity....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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it has been given a revamp..peoples thoughts ?.do we still sound aggresive...is our profile or pictures off putting..?. interested to hear peoples _iews after the last one we did.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand people who aren't having any success asking for advice and changing up their profile. But you seem to be doing more than fine. Why not just express who you are and keep having the fun you want to have with people who like what you like? Then you wouldn't have to change your profile to suit other people's opinions 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did the negative comments come from people who you want to meet?
Don't change if your profile reflects you and is appropriate for who you want to meet and attract. |
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By *andp01Couple
over a year ago
here n there |
"it has been given a revamp..peoples thoughts ?.do we still sound aggresive...is our profile or pictures off putting..?. interested to hear peoples _iews after the last one we did.."
As someone else said it does reflect hard core swingers but from our _iew the one thing that would put us off Is there are too many people in the pics, hard to work out who's who's !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it has been given a revamp..peoples thoughts ?.do we still sound aggresive...is our profile or pictures off putting..?. interested to hear peoples _iews after the last one we did..
As someone else said it does reflect hard core swingers but from our _iew the one thing that would put us off Is there are too many people in the pics, hard to work out who's who's ! "
haha ..we have face piks in our friends only..but i think my tattoos give away who i am.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did the negative comments come from people who you want to meet?
Don't change if your profile reflects you and is appropriate for who you want to meet and attract. "
was just a bit of a experiment to try and judge the responses ..and to pass the time..we like to hear peoples _iews . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can understand people who aren't having any success asking for advice and changing up their profile. But you seem to be doing more than fine. Why not just express who you are and keep having the fun you want to have with people who like what you like? Then you wouldn't have to change your profile to suit other people's opinions
-Courtney"
its weird as we dont really have a set type ..we play soft ..hard ..extreme ..its more the people we meet .that bring it out of us..lol.if a couple want tonplay soft thtas fine if they want to play hard we are ok with that also..guess we are just greedy haha x |
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Looks like a very clear and concise profile to us. Ample information presented in text and visual format to allow members to quickly establish whether there is likely to be a shared interest or not.
A few of the photos are very busy which is a doubled sided coin...very good for showing movement and portraying your play preference but a little difficult to focus on you as individuals.
The text is meaningful and sufficiently brief as to capture attention without boring the reader. I promised Mrs Cantilevered I wouldn't keep mentioning punctuation and grammar so I won't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can understand people who aren't having any success asking for advice and changing up their profile. But you seem to be doing more than fine. Why not just express who you are and keep having the fun you want to have with people who like what you like? Then you wouldn't have to change your profile to suit other people's opinions
-Courtneyits weird as we dont really have a set type ..we play soft ..hard ..extreme ..its more the people we meet .that bring it out of us..lol.if a couple want tonplay soft thtas fine if they want to play hard we are ok with that also..guess we are just greedy haha x "
Changing things for the forumites and unknown strangers is crazy .
But if you agree that the changes are for the overall good for yourselves then fair enough .
We are like you , we play in every way from soft to hardcore - totally a go with the flow couple .
The only thing we draw the line at is socials  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a bit long winded for me but your not short on meets so why worry !
I used to have a long text profile so I shortened it to a short sarcastic one and it made no difference! Infact i got more meets .. Nobody reads the long ones word for word |
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