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women that time waste

By *gian OP Man over a year ago

my hotel Glasgow

I've been on fab since january this year I.ve met some lovely genuine people on here whether for a few drinks or a bit more I have a rule if I say im going to meet I do. My last meet was a good hour round trip from my house and it was a no show after the meet I messaged her she said she couldn't remember my user name or photo. So couldn't contact me even tho we were messaging earlier on that day. Has anyone else had a similar experience of being stud up by a female who just time wastes.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No. You're doing ok though so put it down to experience and a 2 hours drive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are lots of these situations on fab, with women, couples, and men. You just have to suck it up and call it a lesson learned. We've never driven so far for a no show, but we've had situations where I've spent longer than 2 hours getting ready for a meet that ends up cancelling. Just move on, and don't travel so far next time unless you've met the person before. Good luck.

-Courtney

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By *gian OP Man over a year ago

my hotel Glasgow

I was more annoyed that she didn't have the decency to say ether sorry I can't make it or im not interested

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By *rsIdiotWoman over a year ago

Bedworth

Report to admin as a no show.

Then maybe not travel so far next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think we have all experienced something like this in the past. It's not pleasant and not something anyone wants to repeat and the best you can do is learn and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been on fab since january this year I.ve met some lovely genuine people on here whether for a few drinks or a bit more I have a rule if I say im going to meet I do. My last meet was a good hour round trip from my house and it was a no show after the meet I messaged her she said she couldn't remember my user name or photo. So couldn't contact me even tho we were messaging earlier on that day. Has anyone else had a similar experience of being stud up by a female who just time wastes.

Nope! But I've had my precious child-free time wasted by plenty of men!!

Until I honed my bullshit-detector to perfection - in the early days my one free evening a week was often spent at home because a guy who'd been chatting me up for months decided he didn't have the balls to meet after-all!!

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By *gian OP Man over a year ago

my hotel Glasgow

"I think we have all experienced something like this in the past. It's not pleasant and not something anyone wants to repeat and the best you can do is learn and move on

So true it's such a shame especially when time is at a premium

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think we have all experienced something like this in the past. It's not pleasant and not something anyone wants to repeat and the best you can do is learn and move on

So true it's such a shame especially when time is at a premium

You're right, it's very disappointing but it happens to the best of us I'm afraid

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Are you sure 'she' was a female? Did you speak to her on the phone?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Report to admin as a no show.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have had time wasters and have to say that it's all kinds of people. If we are going quite a way for a private meet we always have a back up plan. Normally it will be where is the nearest club x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have had time wasters and have to say that it's all kinds of people. If we are going quite a way for a private meet we always have a back up plan. Normally it will be where is the nearest club x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope! But I've had my precious child-free time wasted by plenty of men!!

It's bloody annoying

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By *gian OP Man over a year ago

my hotel Glasgow

"Are you sure 'she' was a female? Did you speak to her on the phone?

I didn't chat on the phone but I.ve seen her profile on other websites

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By *gian OP Man over a year ago

my hotel Glasgow

"We have had time wasters and have to say that it's all kinds of people. If we are going quite a way for a private meet we always have a back up plan. Normally it will be where is the nearest club x"

Lol that's a good back up plan x

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By *gian OP Man over a year ago

my hotel Glasgow

Nope! But I've had my precious child-free time wasted by plenty of men!!

It's bloody annoying

Ive heard from a few female friend a lot of guys do time waste I would never if I couldn't meet up I.d let the person know as soon as possible

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Are you sure 'she' was a female? Did you speak to her on the phone?

I didn't chat on the phone but I.ve seen her profile on other websites"

If we were meeting females and had arranged a meet with one we wouldn't travel anywhere until we had spoke on the phone.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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PS don't forget to report

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