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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I don't use copy and paste. I do try to make my messages pertinent to the profile of the person I'm contacting. Sometimes that's easy but other times there is very little to go on. I also never send cock pics, unless specifically requested. |
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"I don't use copy and paste. I do try to make my messages pertinent to the profile of the person I'm contacting. Sometimes that's easy but other times there is very little to go on. I also never send cock pics, unless specifically requested. "
So what makes you msg the ones who have very little to go on? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"I don't use copy and paste. I do try to make my messages pertinent to the profile of the person I'm contacting. Sometimes that's easy but other times there is very little to go on. I also never send cock pics, unless specifically requested.
So what makes you msg the ones who have very little to go on?"
Usually if they are reasonably local, and in the right age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
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It all becomes clear......  |
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
It all becomes clear...... "
Clear that some people are looking for posts to be snide on..doesnt it indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
It all becomes clear......
Clear that some people are looking for posts to be snide on..doesnt it indeed "
You are whining about the way guys use the site yet can't see the irony. Classy. |
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
It all becomes clear......
Clear that some people are looking for posts to be snide on..doesnt it indeed
You are whining about the way guys use the site yet can't see the irony. Classy."
Yet you then proceed to "whine", just as classy |
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"Why not set your age filters to 98-99 or block men if you aren't meeting but don't want to hide your profile?"
For instance, i got a msg from someone last week ive met previous who now has a new profile. I am happy to speak to this person, so blocking men would not allow this would it. So why should i have to block all contact, just because guys send copy and paste messages?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not set your age filters to 98-99 or block men if you aren't meeting but don't want to hide your profile?
For instance, i got a msg from someone last week ive met previous who now has a new profile. I am happy to speak to this person, so blocking men would not allow this would it. So why should i have to block all contact, just because guys send copy and paste messages?
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I didn't say you had to do anything, was just a suggestion as you seemed a bit miffed about getting unwanted messages. Happy fabbing. |
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
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no, but you are complaining about the quality of messages. Quality finds quality.
If you don't want to take others' advice on how to reduce messages then continue as you are then and put up with the odd chancer messaging you. You can only change what you are doing. Not what others do. ...not with any amount of moaning. |
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
no, but you are complaining about the quality of messages. Quality finds quality.
If you don't want to take others' advice on how to reduce messages then continue as you are then and put up with the odd chancer messaging you. You can only change what you are doing. Not what others do. ...not with any amount of moaning. "
I get very few messages and am happy with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op, why not just hide your profile or block guys from messaging you if you aren't interested in meeting?
Coz i choose not to, and i am not moaning about guys messaging am i?
no, but you are complaining about the quality of messages. Quality finds quality.
If you don't want to take others' advice on how to reduce messages then continue as you are then and put up with the odd chancer messaging you. You can only change what you are doing. Not what others do. ...not with any amount of moaning.
I get very few messages and am happy with that "
Excellent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attached with a bunch of cock pics
Yeah really?
Or, love your profile do you fancy a meet
Seriously guys copy and pastes make yous look like fools, if you cant at least alter it to suit a profile  "
Why do you care? You're not meeting people anyway so just delete and ignore... |
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"Attached with a bunch of cock pics
Yeah really?
Or, love your profile do you fancy a meet
Seriously guys copy and pastes make yous look like fools, if you cant at least alter it to suit a profile
Why do you care? You're not meeting people anyway so just delete and ignore..."
Incredible advice |
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I don't agree with copy and paste messages but I'm sure you can imagine how annoying it is if a guy took his time and wrote an appropriate message intelligently and with substance but the recipient just deleted it without so much as a 'thanks but no thanks'
A c+p message takes 3 seconds and he has nothing to lose. |
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"I don't agree with copy and paste messages but I'm sure you can imagine how annoying it is if a guy took his time and wrote an appropriate message intelligently and with substance but the recipient just deleted it without so much as a 'thanks but no thanks'
A c+p message takes 3 seconds and he has nothing to lose. "
Should maybe think of something that fits all profiles then and not say nice pics to a pictureless profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't agree with copy and paste messages but I'm sure you can imagine how annoying it is if a guy took his time and wrote an appropriate message intelligently and with substance but the recipient just deleted it without so much as a 'thanks but no thanks'
A c+p message takes 3 seconds and he has nothing to lose.
Should maybe think of something that fits all profiles then and not say nice pics to a pictureless profile "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't agree with copy and paste messages but I'm sure you can imagine how annoying it is if a guy took his time and wrote an appropriate message intelligently and with substance but the recipient just deleted it without so much as a 'thanks but no thanks'
A c+p message takes 3 seconds and he has nothing to lose. "
I see what you're saying and agree. I have never cut and paste a message. My considered emails often get deleted of ignored, so what? They might not be interested, they might not be interesting!
The responses I have had, well, they make up for all the ignored ones many times over.
If you consider that your email has been ignored and you feel hurt by that, would you want to chat/meet them anyway? |
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